Romance › Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Daeylar(f): 6:10pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
RaggedyAnn: Actually, feminists aren't trying to persuade the world that women are powerless. Because we are not. They're saying that women are repressed by societal norms. They are trying to get the world to recognize and accept (and not be afraid of or intimidated by) the strengths and capabilities of a woman in all its forms. For centuries, a woman would only show her influence by influencing a man (who is the ultimate shot-caller). Feminists say women can be shot-callers as well. It's not about who does what, but about what's being done.
If a woman's only access to power and influence is through a man, then men have made themselves indispensable to women. And when they are indispensable, then they have all the bargaining power; they can disrespect women and treat them shabbily and get away with it. When men are indispensable to women, they can set standards that women have to conform to if they want to be taken off the shelf. Feminist try to give women independent legitimate identity, sense of worth, and societal relevance. To rule independently, and not indirectly.
It is still largely a male-centric world (Especially in third world regions), where a woman needs to swallow herself and perch on a man's shoulder to matter. But things are changing. Today is better than yesterday.
Who rules? No generalizations can be made, and it really should be a matter of substance and not gender. Exactly They love to say the nonsense that men rule but so called smart women who can please their husbands have the real power and indirectly rule since they can control their men. Then they bring in their submissive bs to round it up. Why do women have to please their husbands to rule? Why do women have to please men to rule? Even if the woman is better qualified she still has to please or go through the man to be heard, and they say it as if we should be happy and extremely grateful we have that. As if it's an achievement. Mtchewwwwwwww But the man is the head, uncontested, even if he can't do jack, he is still the head and the woman has to go through him to be heard. These people ehn Let me repeat what I said, NO ONE RULES, THEY ARE EQUAL. |
Romance › Re: Who Rules Who- Man Or Woman? by Daeylar(f): 5:51pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
no one rules, They are equal.
THEY ARE EQUAL |
Celebrities › Re: The Worst Dressed Lady At D'banj Club Tour That's Got Everyone Shocked (Photo) by Daeylar(f): 3:20pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
kinibigdeal: And if someone rape her over there they will call it sexual assault, who's the real molester here? And the rape apologists and victim blamers have arrived, Even if she is stark naked, she doesn't deserve to be raped, get that into your head. Absolute rubbish Cc ZandhaZaraZ |
Celebrities › Re: The Worst Dressed Lady At D'banj Club Tour That's Got Everyone Shocked (Photo) by Daeylar(f): 3:18pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Correct. The emboldened is the precise reason why I find it unattractive. 'Cause even if she's my kind of person, I still won't find it attractive. That's rather too much It's too much, too too much, damn, she needs to chill, this is too much. Consider them robots that have been programmed to always say that word, out of pain and frustration, by unbreakable ladies that intimidate them, and the Jezebelic ones that have taken them on a rather rough ride.  Very annoying clowns, Something that doesn't concern feminism at all they will come and start shouting feminism. |
Celebrities › Re: The Worst Dressed Lady At D'banj Club Tour That's Got Everyone Shocked (Photo) by Daeylar(f): 3:02pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: I'm "overgasted" and "flabberwhelmed" . I don't want to believe it's real. 
How crazy would one have to be? It's not even attractive, so, what's the point?  LMAO, this is something you were for your husband or a very good fiancé/boo. but to wear this and go out,  God have mercy  This one pass me abeg,  One has to be really crazy, lol, I think this is the highest just because she exposed her vagina, lol, this topless and backless style has been there for a while. Unless the next person will wear this with either net or transparent material and without the coat  It's not attractive abi?  Unless she is not your type, lol. Or you're just appalled she wore it out. Some mad people have started calling feminism, I wonder what's the business of feminism here. |
Celebrities › Re: The Worst Dressed Lady At D'banj Club Tour That's Got Everyone Shocked (Photo) by Daeylar(f): 2:40pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Lol, I have no words lol  I can't deal. I just can't, What is this? Lol  Izzou please come and comment Zandhazaraz any words? |
Food › Re: Two Pythons in one day. Breakfast and Lunch Loading. by Daeylar(f): 1:48pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Would You Dress Your Kids Like This? See Reactions (Photo) by Daeylar(f): 1:39pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Restless people. Let them keep "reacting" to everything, even when the "chemical reactions" of their own lives are not yet BALANCED. Take off the scarf, take off the glasses because I feel it's heavy and kids don't need anything heavy to weigh them down, I'm still looking at that bag though wondering if it's heavy And take the damn phone out of their hands, it's bad enough that adults are attached to their phones it's not good to make them grow up like that Then I will be OK with the outfit, What do you think? |
Family › Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 1:19pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: His post here is no different from the usual hogwash - the I'm-intelligent-and-everyone-else-is-stupid fücking insane kind of batshit.
Take note of the parts I emboldened. I know most especially that part you bolded in purple, but I think this is less than what he wrote in literature section, (i may be wrong) but what he wrote there was really terrible. However that notwithstanding, like I said earlier, he feeds off this attention he gets, ignore him and he will disappear. If he posts in another section again and no one comments he will cry  lol |
Family › Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 1:10pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: I've done the same. I've modified this quote  Lol, |
Family › Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 12:54pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Hahahaha.  I've modified my post Funny enough. I think he was much nicer here though, what do you think about his post here? I think all the L's he's been taking has been really helpful |
Family › Re: The Quality Of Advice On This Section Is Extremely Poor. by Daeylar(f): 12:34pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Chaii he has come to family section  Cc ZandhaZaraZ Npcomplete Every section on nairaland must know him by fire by force, after all every publicity is good publicity, We must know him, whether for good or bad  LMAO  He cannot come to nairaland and be unknown Lol  I think what will pain him most Is if he is ignored  if he opens the next thread and no one even bothers to comment  LMAO, That will be more painful than all theses disses and explanations for his behaviour he keeps recieveing. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Atheists On Nairaland Plagiarize The Work Of Foreigners On Online Forums. by Daeylar(f): 12:20pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
NPComplete: No matter how bad you are, you still have to feel sorry for THT80 though. From his posts you can tell he has been lurking in the shadows all this while reading Nairaland as a guest or with an alternative account. Gently penning down his thoughts and refining them. Putting the right words and grammar at the right places and beautifying it with a cosmetic of word salad.
He had carefully selected what he considers the strongest intellectual sections on Nairaland; the religious section and the literature section. He is going to force his intelligence on them and Nairaland will know of the rising of a genius. And for good measure he decided to add the romance section too. Surely those bimbos there will swoon at the sight of his English and trip over themselves as they flock to him. Easy pickings. Finally he was going to have his big moment. He was going to prove to himself he was truly intelligent even though the events in his life seem to show otherwise. People he considers inferior are doing better in life yet he himself, for all his intelligence, has nothing to show and was beginning to look like a joke. The intelligence must count for something. He must feel in control again. Nairaland will be a good place to start.
Sadly it was not to be so. Now everything has backfired spectacularly. Turns out them bimbos aren't as gullible as he thought. What was supposed to be very easy turned out to be very hard. Now he is being shred by little girls in the romance section, mauled by the inferior writers in the literature section and sodomised by atheists in the religious section. This is not how it was all supposed to go.
This was supposed to be a triumph. Now he his even worse off than before he opened this account. Even less self-esteem, no triumph, no groupies, no nothing. All he has now is only shame, more enemies........and the giant bag of dicks he is being forced to suck on. Na wa oh, this is too much, ah ah. I wanted to tell you to have mercy them I realised he didn't have mercy on those in literature section, Chaii, lol, seems like an accurate breakdown of his thought process, It's truly sad, he didn't need to do all that, but if he can show how terrible he is and how much he needs validation from anonymous strangers online I really wonder how the people who have the pleasure of knowing him in real life are coping. I just wish he will realise that he doesn't need all these, Although all this points to a mental disorder. Let him get the help he needs I just don't want to hear that anyone committed suicide. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Elizabeth Nyawira Kicked Out Of Kenyan Assembly Over "Indecent Dressing" (pics) by Daeylar(f): 11:56am On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Shocking Aftermath Of Mogadishu Bomb Blast That Killed Over 230(Graphic Photos) by Daeylar(f): 11:52am On Oct 18, 2017 |
KAYD007: The Al-shabab terrorist group have not officially claim responsibility for the bombing which is being alluded to them by the government officials. I didn't know that thanks,. but going by the devastation of the bombing as if the Mother of All Bombs(MOAB) has been used, i don't see them claiming responsibility
there's some farts you will proudly gass out in public but only when the awesomeness of the foulness of the Peruvian perfume hits your nostril, ah, then you realize that you don shit for church. Lol, this one pass me abeg, |
Family › Re: This Is How Your Hubby Likes It! Lady Demonstrates Raunchy Sex Positions To Wife by Daeylar(f): 11:49am On Oct 18, 2017 |
izzou: Just wanted you to see what's left of this world
Whata gwan?  Lol, my Jamaican dadiieee, lol I'm good, how you doin? |
Family › Re: “I Can’t Wait For My Parents To Die, So I Can Inherit All” - Guy On Twitter by Daeylar(f): 11:45am On Oct 18, 2017 |
It will shock him if when finds out that his parents had willed all their wealth to someone else
If his parents had mind this child will just die in an "accident"
Anyways. Can't people be arrested for this? |
Celebrities › Re: Fuse ODG Calls Out Nivea Over "Visibly Fairer Skin" Billboard Advert by Daeylar(f): 11:40am On Oct 18, 2017*. Modified: 1:06pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
All these racists adverts, are they trying to say that's it's a bleaching cream? If it is then there is nothing wrong with the advert. If it's not then they tried it. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Shocking Aftermath Of Mogadishu Bomb Blast That Killed Over 230(Graphic Photos) by Daeylar(f): 11:30am On Oct 18, 2017*. Modified: 12:31pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Lol. When I'm the one in the wrong, I needn't bicker arrogantly and unnecessarily to massage my ego. Apologizing and taking correction is the rational and morally right thing to do. I tried painting him a fool in public, but he showed me clearly that I was wrong, that I was the fool, so I had to admit it and refrain from returning insults. How mature  I guess it's because isis has been taking center stage and so many other attacks from different groups, it becomes hard to keep up, I'm good, how is you? |
Crime › Re: SARS Officers Who Sexually Harassed Lady, Tag Her A “yahoo Girl”, Arrested by Daeylar(f): 11:27am On Oct 18, 2017 |
Mrkumareze: And that is why they had to put hand in her pant to remove the prostitution and yahoo right? Lol |
Family › Re: This Is How Your Hubby Likes It! Lady Demonstrates Raunchy Sex Positions To Wife by Daeylar(f): 11:19am On Oct 18, 2017*. Modified: 11:35am On Oct 18, 2017 |
izzou: Deylar
Cum and cumment abeg
 It's all these useless men and women. Girlfriend is harassing wife, showing her styles, he is still beating his wife on top. . the girlfriend is just lucky the wife is a gentle woman that man needs beating, I hope the wife gets her restraining order granted. Brother izzou, What did you want me to see  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Shocking Aftermath Of Mogadishu Bomb Blast That Killed Over 230(Graphic Photos) by Daeylar(f): 11:15am On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: @ perdollar
Wait, Al-shabab.... Al-shabab. A terrorist organization with a JIHADIST agenda. I totally missed that. I'm the one in need of flogging. You're right, bro - I must admit it. I apologize for calling you stüpid.
Kindly edit your post. I'm taking down mine right away. Thanks. See aggression wey they use answer you, lol, You've seen someone like you  This bomb blast is something else .too bad |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Shocking Aftermath Of Mogadishu Bomb Blast That Killed Over 230(Graphic Photos) by Daeylar(f): 11:06am On Oct 18, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Why Is Marriage Seen As A Compulsory Thing In Nigeria? by Daeylar(f): 11:03am On Oct 18, 2017*. Modified: 1:02pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: You say what? 
Cc. Daeylar It's because marriage is seen as the norm here and most people in Nigeria can't imagine that someone will live a different life from them and be happy, they won't mind their business, be respectful and tolerant of people other people's beliefs and way of life that in no way affects anyone. That's why you see asinine threads like women of 28 and older should be married or how older unmarried women will be used as intimacy gadgets by men |
Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Daeylar(f): 5:53pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: That's pleasant news. Lol, how was yours? I know I brightened up your day some secs ago  |
Politics › Re: Shock As Buhari's Staunchest Internet Supporter Starts Criticizing Him by Daeylar(f): 5:47pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
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Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Daeylar(f): 5:45pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: I'm fine, thanks.
How was your day? Good. Thanks, lol, |
Politics › Re: Shock As Buhari's Staunchest Internet Supporter Starts Criticizing Him by Daeylar(f): 5:43pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Edit your post, please. Before you give your tribe another name through the leprous fingers of nairaland tribalist retarrds. "Igbo" is offensive enough, biko. You meant to write "Igbos".  LMAO, You're a sweetheart  Imagine that kin thing where you wan fall person hand but last last na your own hand wey you fall  Lol Thanks |
Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Daeylar(f): 5:37pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Lol. Nigerians are nairalanders nah. 
Indeed. Rape is not taken seriously in this part of the world. It's pathetic and sad at the same time.
By the way, how're you doing? Lol. I'm good, how are you? |
Politics › Re: Shock As Buhari's Staunchest Internet Supporter Starts Criticizing Him by Daeylar(f): 4:04pm On Oct 17, 2017*. Modified: 5:41pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
You won't see some monikers on this thread, If it is anything concerning igbos they will jump out  |
Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Daeylar(f): 3:55pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
ivolt: No, females don't get away with a lot of things, it is the coward male who refuse to report that gave them such license.
If no woman ever reported a male rapist, the rapist will get away with it. Same thing applies to a man who refuses to report a female rapist but is quick to bring it up to gain sympathy or delegitimize campaign against sexual violence.
Society can never progress when victims hide under their bed while throwing occasional stones outside. Preach, They won't report it, they won't condemn it but the moment a female wants to report a rape case they start with their tales of "but men are raped by females also." 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Onyeka Nwelue: "A Lady Asked For Sex Before She Could Give Me Loan" by Daeylar(f): 3:50pm On Oct 17, 2017 |
ZandhaZaraZ: Go and take down that disgusting comment of yours, then you can ask about my day. Lol, , that was fucçking weird, she laughed it off and then asked after your day? that's messed up, Nigerians or maybe nairalanders don't take rape seriously and it's truly aggravating. |