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rabazamba:
Yes

Humanistme:
Daeylr I now get your point. I just re-read the original article the Op made it seem like it is the woman 's fault for getting abused just because she is dependent on her husband sorry I misunderstood you.

Afam4eva:
We're brought up to have divergent views on life. While some think education is paramount, others think that without marriage, they're not fulfilled. We should not always try to force our school on thought on other people. Not every woman will be financially independent. So, let's leave those who think marriage is supreme to follow their heart.

ToZaraWithaZ:
Lol. The kind of excuses these guys give to justify the persecution of homosexuals are dubious at best, and extraordinarily stupid at worst.

NONE of them has been able to give a reasonable, rational, justifiable reason why homosexuality should be criminalized. It's nauseating.

Good morning. How was your night?

ToZaraWithaZ:
Nature didn't come to you complaining. So, how does it affect you? Are you nature?

IamaNigerianGuy:
If it's not trash what is it ?

In 10,000 years of recorded human history homosexuality has been a fringe practice for a reason. Suddenly, in less than 30 years we are now being forced to accept it as legitimate. The people who support homosexuality and think they are avant garde and progressive do not even realize that they are being manipulated by powerful interests which wield money and influence. They are pawns.
There are forces at play beyond your knowledge and imagination.

Take a look at America: What is there to like about that society ? Men grow breasts women want pe-ni*se's ? Suddenly for the first time in human history people claim not to be able to identify with their sex. Perfectly normal people without genetic problems subject themselves to sex-change operations.
America is not a model for morality. The only thing they can offer the world is technology
Ask yourself the truthful question? When men have anal intercourse is that a good thing ? If Africa succumbs to the evil of homosexuality, our lineage will enter a long dark age from which we may never emerge considering the fact that we are intellectually feeble as a people.

Look for a worthy cause to support. There are many. Dont try to sell this sick ideology

rabazamba:
I answered already na. What's ehn? You are a naija gal na. And I'm also asking why you unfollowed me? You know what I'm talking about joo.. Daey!

rabazamba:
Lol.. you know the answer already.
Why did you unfollow me?

rabazamba:
I answered already joo.

Haba!

rabazamba:
Ehnn

rabazamba:
Why did you unfollow me?

SomeoneNice:
...hdmania.com or mp4mania.com

rabazamba:
Ok

rabazamba:
You remember

IamaNigerianGuy:
Exactly. Upon the corruption, cultism, killing, looting, poor infrstructure and other evils in Nigeria we now wish to add lesbianism and homosexuality; yet some people are spewing trash about 'consenting adults'.

CyberGypsy:
u just earned a place for yourself in my entertainment spot .. I will like to know more about you [b,] Tell me about yoursef [/b]

ToZaraWithaZ:
How's your day been?

supersystemsnig:
I see anyone that doesn't want marriage as a perfectly normal healthy individual that could even be saner than so many people around. We're on the same page ma. I believe so ma

supersystemsnig:
Don't get me scared, we exchanges some nice stuff in the past few weeks, almost had an attack.....Excellent idea, but i don't think the issue is about societal views alone, let alone fair to say societal conditioning. We will have longings, it is from the deep recesses of the soul that this stems from. A woman will and can find satisfaction in life, career but as humans after we've gotten all our achievements, we set new milestones and chase after them, this is the case with marriage. Not that women can't do without men, or can't find happinness, but after education, career success, then it is perfectly logical to chase a relationship.Brov, it's pure logic, not anything else trust me...Simply logic, and it doesn't make women less than humans, its by the same extension, men hunt for spouses when the time hits,like when the baby kicks and says it's time i wanna see the world like when the water is broken and the baby's cry is heard, like when the baby crowns and says welcome to the world, when one phase is lifted, it's for the next to open, so it's a necessary phase and not simply societal conditioning.

ToZaraWithaZ:
OP, I get your point. But you need not attack the women without also attacking the society that CONDITIONED them to live by such orientations. Certain narrow stereotypical roles have been imposed on them by male social conditioning that if they do not conform to them, they're easily labelled useless, irresponsible, senseless, visionless and bad. They consider them sad and abnormal.

Our world is based on what B.F. Skinner called "operant conditioning". Certain behaviours are applauded, hence reinforced. Other behaviours are condemned, hence are inhibited. Those are the mechanisms that dictate people's behaviour. They seek to be applauded and not to be condemned. But who decides what should be applauded and what should be condemned? The controllers, of course - the sexist patriarchs who do the controlling.

Many people even seemed to have missed your point due to that very phenomenon. They think you're saying marriage is bad, when in reality you're telling women to stop DEFINING THEMSELVES BY MEN. To stop making marriage the very thing their entire existence revolve around. They have to stop making themselves mere accessories - 'cause that tendency harms them in many ways, as a result of TRYING TO MOULD THEMSELVES INTO WHAT MEN REQUIRE OF THEM.

As much as women need to be associated with strength, with independence, with thinking for themselves, and not caring what others think - to replace the "Princess" culture with the culture of the Dominatrix, and embrace non-conformity and dissent when it's good for them, we should also realise the need to flog some goats that are bent on denying them that right.

Just take a look as this thread www.nairaland.com/3871579/sudden-increase-single-ladies-above/13#57746292 and see how an agressive chauvinist was so bent on proving to me that UNMARRIED WOMEN CANNEVER BE HAPPY - WOMEN WILL ALWAYS NEED MEN TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. That's the social conditioning I'm talking about.

As a woman, you don't think marriage is important? Don't worry, they already have names and stories for you.

Humanistme:
Deylar I now get your point. I just re-read the original article the Op made it seem like it is the woman 's fault for getting abused just because she is dependent on her husband sorry I misunderstood you.

rabazamba:
Ok..next time they mention you on the thread, I will definitely ask.

You sef..you like sex stories o

Humanistme:
I get your point. But in the real world there are narcissists and bad people that take advantage of people not privileged as them or who depend on them. So being independent is a positive trait. it is easier for an independent woman to leave an abusive relationship that it for the one that is dependent.

pu7pl3:
i even prefer jinder mahal to him... his own is just to come bounce around and give suplexes and f5 and just walk out as champion

rabazamba:
What is wrong in asking you here? At least I asked..

Ermm..is it true about pregnant women?

Humanistme:
LOL I get your point.

don't blame her tho I think is an idealist not a realist.

majekdom2:
when you argue, argue with understanding, research and analysis. On average in Africa, how many women are responsible for their men. And how many men are responsible for their women? The number of the latter far exceeds the former. This is the reason for this post. This is AFRICA. No be yankee. When we are debating African issues, we can make inferences from the west but our assertions and judgments should be what's obtainable in Africa.

pu7pl3:
brock is the worst since sef he is never around and ge only defends it once in a while and is protected like the president .. i definately prefer roman

majekdom2:
obviously y are you kid that have little experience with humans. I just told you on average how a human will do when they are totally responsible for you. It is for both genders, male or female. Read through my post and understand.