₦airaland Forum

silentEXPLOSION:
Present day vs. 100 years ago

Explorers:
I think the exploit you used should be explore or what do you think?

http://glamgrid.com/freedom-ship-the-largest-ship-ever-built-and-the-first-floating-city/

IamaNigerianGuy:
You did not.
I apologize and I've deleted the offending post.

greyboy5000:
lol
I don't want to argue again jare
But the counter thread just for fun

NwaAmaikpe:


Na wa,


A car is more important, nobody ordinarily will give you one if you can't afford it.


But even if you don't have a land or can't afford one; there'd always be land to bury you in

MsRoe:
do not make assumptions, you don't know me. 28?

Smh.



And for those trying to cause distractions saying marriage isn't just about money.........of course, it's not! There are many things to consider before tying the knot. Religious compatibility, genotype, etc. etc. And love?

But people who have let love decide their fate, ignoring intricacies like incompatible genotype, for instance, have lived to regret. Let's not, for the sake of convenience now, pretend that love is the only factor, and conquers all challenges in marriage. We are not children. Hopefully.

This post is about one specific factor: financial compatibility. Finances affect marriage whether you accept it or not. (You'll find out soon enough). Stop rubbishing it's validity on account that money isn't everything. That's not the claim here. It's so dense to assume that after reading the topic.

Parading a willful lack of intelligence and understanding in a bid to try to counter the points in the original post is a very juvenile thing to do. And if the lack of intelligence and understanding is authentic, then there's really something to worry about. Either way, there's no substance in these arguments; everything has been said in the OP and clarified in the earlier pages. It can be heeded or ignored at individual discretions.

Ontarget:
The girl eventually deleted her account. You actually warned her indeed

greyboy5000:
nooo my sis
Just for fun i am sure

IamaNigerianGuy:
Abeg leave the girl. Hers is the mentality of a person who has probably endured great poverty early in life and does not wish to go back.
We need to ask if material wealth was the reason her mother agreed to her Fathers marriage proposal
This is a really fu..kd up generation
@Lubyana and @RaggedyAnn, @Daeylar @Nahzyla marry for compatibility and love. Not money. The path you are treading is not discernible from that of a gold digger.

majekdom2:
whilst it is good to have standards and expectations. Only a few ladies from average/low status would refuse a marriage proposal from adenuga or dangote's family. If you ask me, isn't that too high for the lady? See, we can always want to find a way to suit our sentiments, we all know what Op is talking about. My point remains Finance is a status and it can change positively or negatively. Personality/ character/ attitude/ reasoning is a being. It is unchangeable most times.

nahzyla:
Thank God for the unbiased ones.
Honestly many nairaland me have issues. they start threads talking about how women should behave in order to get married early. how they should not depend on a guy for any thing but be ambitious and provide alongside their husbands. This thread is basically turning the tables saying women also deserve ambitious guys that can provide equally like their wives and they are here foaming at the mouth and insulting women like crazed lunatics.

nahzyla:
Mediocrity for women.
In their minds men can have standards but women should settle for garbage.

greyboy5000:
I never oppose that part of her post
Like I wrote previously, every has the right to a choice but don't try to insult others to justify it
Rather make your point

greyboy5000:
yes I got your point
But her initial post was quiet clear
She said it is characteristic of a broke guy to be uneducated , unintelligent and to lacks drive which I tried to correct
Note: I am not against her choice of rich guys though

greyboy5000:
This was her response to me
Read her initial post

Lubyna:
Whre did I say I go into relationships just because of money? The category of women I am referring to, which I believe I belong to, don't go into relationships just because of money. Certainly they have other standards, but money is one of those standards. Shikena.

Lubyna:
When did I say I go into relationships because of money? The category of women I am referring to, which I believe I belong to, don't go into relationships just because of money. Certainly they have other standards, but money is one of those standards. Shikena.

I never said money equates intelligence. I said being financially successful is indicative of intelligence. And yes it is. Money isn't easy to get. Only someone who is intelligent can get it. And by intelligence, I don't mean memorizing data and writing an exam. I mean being able to utilize acquired knowledge and inherent skills in solving real problems. Dino Malaye is an intelligent man. Obviously.

I didn't say a lady should leave a man she loves if he becomes broke. I said a lady can date a broke but hardworking and ambitious guy who has potential, but can choose to leave him if he isn't making progress. Abi can't you read?