₦airaland Forum

AntiBrutus:
They don't want her to leave, they want the woman to stay there and die. That way they can come blame her in death again.
Have you ever seen them ask for the other side of the story, when the victim is a man? No! They'll only rush out to tell us how women are worse than devils.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I would start using this word to refer to some of them"nairaland babies"thanks.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Tell that to the religious folks.I have an egalitarian relationship and we are partners.Everyone has what they can define as marriageable and take note I won't give you respect because of gender or the head or tail of something but I would respect you because you earn it.To complete what I started I never supported such stop being chauvinistic and misogynistic because I don't buy that you actually need to learn to bridle your tongue and earn the respect of a woman and not think because you are a man and have a joystick you ultimately deserve respect to the 21st century woman you should earn it before you spew trash about the head and tail of the family.Daeylar where are you.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Stop generalizing if it was a man I am sure you would not need the other half.

Exciton:
Lazy irresponsible Nigerian "adults" are mass producing damaged kids.

Many don't have the financial resources; hence, sending them out to become maids for the sake of having a better life -- so, why have them in the first place? why bring people into the world to suffer? Most, even if financially capable, haven't the intelligence and/or time for emotional care and bonding paving way for abuse.

Stop having kids because of social pressure or because it makes you feel good, they aren't toys. Get a pet instead.

Gerrard59:
But I thought Nigerian/NL males want successful aka independent ladies? Why this one na? No be una talk say na asset not liability, una want?

Why the shift in the goal post in the middle of the game? Or are you a consumer of Hypo made by Crisy?

frenzyduchess:
The bolded question begs to be answered, the worse part is they only reason this way when it comes to Nigerian ladies, if na whitie , you do any how she go throway your bag for outside.

habsydiamond:
Truth is bitter...if a girl does not have a guy at the age of 30 and she's ok in everything.... something is wrong somewhere...maybe her behaviour or spiritual things

XhosaNostra:
Sometimes it's like guys don't know what they want. Some complain about parasitic, golddiggers & yet they still have an issue when a woman has her priorities straight.

What is it exactly that you want?

TheSuperNerd:
Awwwwwwwwn.... Please don't make me blush ma'am. Looolll

Appreciate the kind feedbacks. Thank you

TheSuperNerd:
Awwwwwwn.. Didn't see this on time. Thanks Lady.

TheSuperNerd:
Looolll.... I have heard this one too when my sister turned down a couple of guys. She told me and I was like... Woah! Hahahahahahahahaha... Silly men who cannot handle rejection.

Lady, keep to your Principles and the right guy will surely show up. Don't bend for these coded Bleep-boys everywhere hiding behind the character of "nice, cool and smart". I hope you know we guys are fine actors indeed. A good man is not every where... But if you hold closely to your principle I assure you that you will meet the right one. Never feel bad about saying no to guys who wanna cajole you into having your number.

hoodedjaystrim:
nobody ask you

Odiriance4all:
Lol, LMAO. Eat me na if you can

Odiriance4all:
Amazing meals

danwilliams4u:
The answers here paint a rosy picture. But all that is a big fat lie.

Nigerian women are treated like TRASH.

Nigerian women have to live in a society where they are treated as second class citizens.

No matter what you have achieved, people are going to question when you are going to get married because that's apparently all you're good for.

As a woman, if you have to report a case to the police, they will ask you to call your husband/brother/father or boyfriend because apparently you as an adult woman, you can't be trusted to report something that happened to you. How are you going to report domestic abuse to the same police asking you to come with your husband? Even if you did, you would be told “it's a family matter”.

Let me ask those painting a picture of a life they know nothing about some questions. Do you even know what the average Nigerian woman faces?

What about people blaming you for the crash of your marriage? Not your husband, you.

What about being blamed for your husband hitting you? And when you open up to talk about it, you are blamed some more.

What about servicemen asking for your husband, boyfriend, father or brother when things need to be repaired in your house?

What about people blaming you for sexual assaults? Not your attacker, you. Telling you things like “why did you wear that?”, “It's your fault for tempting him” and many more.

What about male compatriots telling you to shut up because you're a woman & shouldn't be talking where men are?

What about getting married off before you're ready? Getting pulled out of school to become a wife? Getting VVF while giving birth?

What about your husband treating you like a second class human being because you had the audacity to give birth via C-section?

What about being sexually assaulted and harassed with your attacker telling you that you ought to be pleased because you're beautiful?

What about being treated like you don't matter because you're female and would end up bearing another man's surname? Being educated last because your brother(s) are more useful to the family than you are?

What about everyone believing that every material thing you have acquired is as a result of you laying on your back & opening your legs for it?

What about being slut shamed, single shamed because you're a woman who wouldn't conform to the nonsense patriarchial nature of your society?

What about men calling you a “man hater” because you dare to demand better treatment for yourself and other women?

What about men raping women, female children as young as 2/3 years old?

What about you Nigerian men labelling any woman or girl who refuses your advances, a prostitute aka ashewo?

What about believing all a woman is good for is cooking your food & bearing your children?

Before you come here [right][/right]and preach what you don't know, ask your sisters, mothers and aunts. They will tell you because your privilege blinds you to most of it.

pu7pl3:
Goodluck waiting for paige not to get injured...or alexa to have a decent match or charlotte(when last did charlotte wrestle sef)...may your beards be long

pu7pl3:
Nothing is special about the dude men...i prefer cena sef but cenas moves have become stereotyped soo to hell with em both


Bayley almost beat asuka....her match was even better than sashas own and sasha was really good...asuka has had two solid matches which gives her more credibility for WM...but bayley was fired up tho...i think its her that may turn heel not sasha...just guessing sha

Niflheim:
I must disagree with the atheists this time around!!! For even though I have never witnessed the miracle of goats eating in a restaurant with fork and knife, like humans...............................................................................I HAVE WITNESSED THE MIRACLE OF HUMANS EATING GRASS LIKE RETARDED RUMINANTS, LIKE SENSELESS SHEEP AND LIKE CONFUSED COWS!!!

pu7pl3:
Mtchew i went through the horror of hearing micheal cole shout the bigdog for two matches last night

I summomed you cos of bayley

biacan:
Speak on sis speak on I mean he poured her food on her who does that serves him right

Prechbills:
another asshole spotted.. why didn't she remove her car from the the place? her car was blocking the guy's car

pu7pl3:
i summon you

pocohantas:
If this is exactly how it happened, the man is very impatient and has deep anger issues . In public for that matter?

She too is one drama queen. She gave him 3 hot slaps, still went back to add another and tear his clothes. The first slap I can manage, the second and third? That's no more "self defence".
She didn't stop there, she went back a second time to fight him.
For what exactly? Because she got away with the first?

People should know when to sheath their sword.
Things could escalate real quickly.