₦airaland Forum

pu7pl3:
Geez too predictable men....no drama...mtcheew

Sorry BRAUN it was all for nothing

The royal rumble(men) itself was awesome
What they did to heath slater made me cry tears of joy...i liked how all of them gathered cena...and how corbin cleaned house in frustration...damn that was beauty...

Tbh i no feel the womens rumble sef just few highlights and nostalgic returns


Nobody wants to talk about 619 returning or dolph ziggler returning...men it was awesome


All in all rusev rumble was nice sha...

Proudgorgeousga:
the guy is probably a Sikh not a Muslim

Godsonkemz:
Don't mind the noisemaker. She's following the footprint of Terry G

saintmark88:
As in her songs her wack, even wen she winning awards all over, I could see then that this girl no sabi sing.

makydebbie:
Babe I no shock rara.
They can't give her first ten, you know how vegetables are.

Me I couldn't watch all tho, using data to watch. Just some mins clips.

I'm happy for Asuka, but it was too predictable and is the push not too much? Because she'll surely win wrestle mania.

Nkamura won for male.

pu7pl3:
Lol which one is chris uncle again now

At the time chris uncle was the best man for the job men...and beautiful kevin could hang with him on the mic...which is a huge achievement and see how young micheal cole is

makydebbie:
vegetable was number 28/29.

FreshBoiy:

I actually got your point the first time. I knew you were only agreeing with the person you quoted but the way you put it is what I don't agree with. There is a lengthy legal process which can drain the one who is innocent mentally, psychologically and financially to say the least.

Your statement kinda makes it look like determining if someone was falsely accused and sentencing the accuser to jail is a verdict that can be easily reached.

And I agree with every other point you've made.

However, this is the problem with many Nigerians. Rather than constructively arguing their point, they would rather insult you to make a counter opinion

FreshBoiy:

I want to believe what triggered him to respond to you that way (Which i'm in no way justifying his insults) was because you ended your post with "It should be as simple as that". There is a life to be lived after the court case. Court cases could also take months depriving the young man of a job and a means of livelihood during this period. It's actually complicated when you look at it holistically.

However, this is the problem with many Nigerians. Rather than constructively arguing their point, they would rather insult you to make a counter opinion.

I don't necessarily think enacting a law where it becomes a crime to discriminate against someone who has been cleared of a false rape allegation would be effective. There are laws in advanced countries against racism, antisemitism, discrimination,etc. But in reality what these laws have succeeded in doing is reduce how people openly discriminate and not actually stopped discrimination.

For example if you applied for a Job in an organisation where the hiring manager is "racist", he would't decline your application if you're qualified as that might appear as some form of "discrimination". What he would rather do in the guise of being "non-racist" would be to get back to you after the interview thanking you for your time but stating that unfortunately you didn't meet the requirements for the role.

What I think would be more effective would be for the court to award a large some of money as compensation paid by the plaintiff to the defendant. While the plaintiff also gets jail time. That would serve as a deterrent to anyone before accusing someone falsely of rape or kidnap. But then again there is the element of how much trust can one actually place on our judicial system. Sigh!

However, the sad reality remains it would be extremely difficult to get rid of the stigma that would be attached to the one who has been falsely accused in Nigeria.

FreshBoiy:

You have both made valid points. However I would like to agree and disagree with a few things.

This is where I totally agree with and this is my personal opinion. The fact that someone lies about being raped or kidnapped doesn't reduce the credibility of genuine rape/kidnap cases.

Criminal cases are not subject to "public opinions or polls" which makes this argument about "credibility" void. Everyone has a choice to believe whatever they want to. However, it is up to the legal system to decide based on facts and evidence presented before a Judge if a particular case is genuine or not.

If for example everyone chooses not to believe a genuine rape case, does this therefore mean the police wouldn't investigate? Does it change the dynamics in any way? Absolutely not.

On the flip side this is where I totally agree with [b [/b]. For one who is wrongly accused of Rape or Kidnap, there is a stigma automatically attached to the person. Even if his name gets cleared and is published on every newspaper and blog, it wouldn't of necessity take away that stigma especially in a country like Nigeria. People would still refer to him as one who was accused of "rape/kidnap".

He might still struggle to get a job, because some people would still "choose" to believe he is guilty, while others wouldn't want to take the risk of employing someone who has been previously accused of such because of the image it would give the organisation.

Olumaeme:
But women call men scum because of an experience with a bad guy...

imhotep:
Did he blame GEJ for causing climate change

IForgotMyLoginD:
Damn. Your brain cells are complete! Korrect person. Well said.

doyinisaac:
And that is why rapists and people who falsely accuse someone of rape should both face the same jail sentence....

Ugosample:
I don't need the likes or attention.

I'm adressing the foolish thinking of these black monkeys I call country men

Adekunle tweet is correct and spot on, whether you guys like it or not

pu7pl3:
Fair enough...il take your acknowledgements...


check out one of the best promos of all time....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rd2zhPN5-Es

Makydebbie wrestlemania is 8th april

And moreover rape enabling is disgusting and we are all well against that, blaming the victim also is a disgusting act that we all condemn but this mustn't be mistaken with asking the right questions in a bid to scrutinize a case.

100% agreed
Equal punishment. I agree again
We agree again

johnydon22:
Oh they are believed in most cases, we get to see some of these cases of conviction and even jungle justice on rapist almost daily on Nairaland front page.

Who are they?

No you are not. Simply walk outside, grab any random man and shout he raped you and watch him get mobbed or even lynched to death. People are more likely to believe your story and sympathize with you.

That is just a little demonstration to test the validity of this claim.

Wrong again. Is it not this same Nigeria that we see rapists and alleged rapists almost getting lynched to death, let us not treat this like a one faced knife. It is not.

Sexual violence is a heinous thing and we must always condemn perpetrators or enablers. Women who label innocent men rapists just because they want to win a disagreement are violent, vile human beings too & we must condemn them too.

Wrong conception of an argument stemming from hasty conclusion. The post in no way condemns or blames all women, an implication of an action is not condemnation.
from the post
This will be very unfortunate as it will be unfair to actual rape victims.
The post highlighted possible implications of using rape accusations as a weapon to get back at someone
Non sequitor stemming from your own misrepresentation or misunderstanding of the argument
Oh No we don't. There is no right that i have that you don't in the constitution
Again another gross misrepresentation and understanding: highlighting implications of a line of action is not a threat.
If humanity continues making nuclear weapons a time will come when we will destroy civilization. This is not a threat.
Learn the difference between a threat and highlight of possible consequence
You have no idea what it means to threaten someone

pu7pl3:
Forget the mockery...see how he excecutes em perfectly...my fave is the stonecold stunner on reigns..too sweet

Kevin "beautifull" owens...you named him

pu7pl3:
Yea the ones that do something like a talk show on the kick off show

Did you watch the moves in the video?

And that belle there means beautiful...i agree

DeSepiero:
I can also assure you that theists participate in one (if not all) of aforementioned; correct me if I'm wrong

Proudgorgeousga:
before this your epistle nobody believes rape victims in this country it's either she's lying, her dress is short or she asked for it. so before this fapson girl's case rape has always been difficult to prove.

Emmytes:
Take a minute and read what you just typed then ask yourself if you are not mad .

makydebbie:
has warned me severally, Poco I think it's best you open my head and put it inside.

How can you say what's on my mind effortlessly?

That's the thing, it's when it suits them we'll see their real colors.

If this op used (m) and created a thread on "Why I feel every woman should collect money after having sex" comments will be different.

Don't be surprised some guys have sent pms already.

makydebbie:
r, I weak oh!

Let's imagine the op is female, what rights do these ones have to condemn and shame? See how all of a sudden, everyone is righteous. Even those that patronize prostitutes. Let the person live his life na. At least, his opinion wasn't forced on anyone if only everyone could mind their business..

Goodmoney dear.

makydebbie:
Nairalanders are very predictable.

pu7pl3:
Wait are you seriously asking for spoilers

Ok ure joking

pu7pl3:
Ok let me give you something....samoa joe will be on nxt take over kickoff show not as a badass destroyer but a badass kick off show panel member

And kevin owens is one hell of a performer

pu7pl3:
Which info is that....enzo?

All my infos are legit