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sinceraconcept:
You tout,garage boy. You impregnated a LovePeddler and became bitter after your predicament. Your LovePeddler of a fiancee will definitely give birth to a LovePeddler who will later become pregant while in secondary school. Religion that the slave masters you copy (whites)keep aside is the reason why they sleep with animals,practise homosexuality,sleep with each other in public,gangbanging,etc. No matter what,religion can never be ruled out because it shapens the lives of even those that claim to be the wisest for good. Your female children will definitely get pregnant out of wedlock just like their parents
You probably see religion as pulling you backwards but without religion in your life,what have you been able to invent? Tell me your groundbreaking achievement that got everybody talking since you've forgotten about religion since it pulls you backward. Just admit that you made a big mistake by having a child out of wedlock and it would have been better if you had the child after marriage with your wife,stop glorifying it to people,keep it to yourself,we have had enough of premarital sex,love children,and other vices related to premarital sex in this world. Many children born out of wedlock have turned to armed robbers,prostitutes,political thugs,assassins,etc and you are here glamorising that nonsense

Oh my GOD! Who is this? I can't believe somebody can be as bitter like u, I can't envisage what is on ur brain. Now listen, I'm a certified diplomat and my fiance is a lawyer, so calling me a garage boy shows ur level of disorientation. Now let me school u on the history of religion: The Christians came with Bible, the colonial pretenders followed them with guns, u accept Christians peacefully or u face the wrath of those that followed them with guns. The missionaries came came like the good people and while the colonialists came as the aggressive people, they were team. The missionaries didn't see anything wrong in slavery for scores of years. We accepted their religion, adopted their language, and we suffered years of slavery and colonialism. You are mentally derailed to the extent that you don't practice what u claim to preach, a good Christian don't judge, even our Lord Jesus taught us that way, secondly ur stupidity blocked ur brain to the extent that u don't know the current sodom and Gomorrah are this same people that brought religion to us. U made Olamide's matter and mine be ur headache while u claiming to be self righteous as if the climax of sin is giving birth outside wedlock. U are an hypocrite and a dumb one at that, Jesus was so gracious that he used tactics to exonerate that prostitute woman by telling hypocrites like u to cast the first stone at her if they've never sinned b4. We know ur type, una plenty well well. If u are a good xtian as u claim, those words up there won't come out of ur godforsaken mouth. Is this how to change a sinner's life? By insulting them? Is this what ur Bible teaches u? Me as a person I didn't just stumble on somebody, I was engaged to her for good 5yrs and we decided to have a baby together, we still pursuing great ambitions your generation will never attain, I've paid her bride price which eradicates any traditional flaws. I'm a Christian and i know it's not biblical but what happened with me and olamide that's making u to tag us sinners isn't different from what u just did, by judging. Sin is sin, no black or white sin. We are only relying on the saving grace of GOD.

truthonmission:
Is that a favour to easterners?
Una mumu dey make me shiver.

Nothing can ever be a favour to u guys. I understand u perfectly, the only favor u guys want is for Nigeria to allow u secede. I never said it's a favor but it's something u guys shouldn't wail about. I don't like Buhari too, infact I despise him more than u but I'm a positive person, anything he does that is good I rather don't talk than foolishly show my criticism to something positive. Anything that is good has no other name than goodness.

sinceraconcept:
So,you have to glorify having children out of wedlock,premarital sex,baby mama,etc just because thats what happened in your miserable life? What is bad is bad. If you and Olamide smoke weed,then keep it to yourself and it doesnt mean thats the ideal way.
God forbod having a children outside wedlock

You have just shown how stupid and uncivilized u are! Are u saying that in terms of religion or tradition? U had to attack my personality for the matter wey no concern ur forefathers.. Ur generation lives are miserable. U can never be a man that I am in one million years, you're a religious and traditional bigot that will end up ur miserable life living the life u were brainwashed to live. Jesus Christ that we all shout about was born outside wedlock, Abraham begat Ismael outside wedlock, and I'm damn sure ur papa and mama born u outside wedlock.... I wonder how you'll just bring urself into my comment and start raining insults on ur family, oloriburuku, oponi ayirada, afofun gbemu, alaiye baje oshi..

Hbd Adigun Alapomeji... The man responsible for Yoruba youths' ability to know some Yoruba proverbs.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

You forgot to add the Golden rule for ladies of nowadays:
Make sure you marry a man who has a car, at least 3 bedroom apartment and a whole lot of money..
This is what they're really looking for, all dis one u are saying "dey pass right hear enter and follow left hear comot"

Change of name doesn't really matter, my fiance changed her surname to my surname on Twitter and Facebook since last year, we also have a 3 year old handsome boy together but we aren't married yet, though we've done introduction, but I'm definitely not walking down that aisle with another woman, she's the one this life and in another life. If this is true though, I'm happy for them..

Bethel4Life:
Lol buhari is looking for who to blame when he rounds up by 2023 for d nations economic stagnation.

Oh Gosh! Must u always be negative? He chose a South easterner now, and u still have a problem with it.. Nawa ooo

Halopy:
Anybody that takes this thief serious does that at his own peril. The recent days have been full of issues about the South west security and Yoruba's have been agoged to hear him say something, and at the least throw his weight behind the idea, but he kept mute. Same way I never heard or read where he condemned in clear terms the various attack on Yoruba soil by marauding herdsmen, all because of his ambition. Does that mean he didn't care about what befalls the Yoruba nation? Time will tell.

Hmmm! You're right, but Jagaban I know is a silent killer, there's no way Sanwo Olu, Dapo Abiodun and Oyetola would support Amotekun if Jagaban doesn't know about it. Him keeping mute doesn't mean he's not doing anything about it, has OBJ too spoken? You can't predict the intelligence and cunningness of the Yoruba people. This is a unified agenda and believe me there's a contingency plan with this Amotekun thing. Just keep ur fingers crossed

Malami is an old hypocrite! He's so incompetent and very dull.. Killing of people is not a problem to him but trying to prevent the killings is his and his brothers headache. Why are they even scared of Amotekun?

Miyetti Allah abi wetin be una name? Everything said up there is errant nonsense and gibberish, u don't have any right whatsoever to tell us who becomes Nigeria president in 2023.. You guys haven't said anything concerning the legality of Hisbah and others in the North, it shows house dumb and disoriented u guys are.. Amotekun doesn't concern u guys, its meant to secure the Southwest and Southwest alone, or is there anything u guys ought to gain or lose from the inexistence of Amotekun?

The problem the Northerners and their dull leaders have with Amotekun is the fact that they know SE, SS and middle belt may also decide to create something like this and it'll be a very big problem to the Miyetti Allah and their cohorts. Let's sound it loud and clear, nobody owns Nigeria, if Hisbah can be operating, then Amotekun too must stay! It's high time we secure our lives ourselves!

U don't joke with the Southwest! Once we say no, we firmly mean it!... Amotekun de!.. Fulani Herdsmen may come enmasse to attack this village... Don't underestimate my people, we smart gan

U asking her who impregnated her! We all know blood money is the reason why we see pregnant women with budged bellies. Some men are mean when it comes to money, soooo mean! But the funny thing about this is how these mad women eventually survive child birth without complications. They don't go for ante natal, they don't register in any hospital, they don't eat good food, they don't have good care. And yet they deliver safe and sound. Isn't GOD wonderful?

Shameless idiots!

Thank GOD Galatians 5:21 says drunkenness not drinking! Drunkenness is what I believe GOD negates because a drunkard can do and undo. But getting a lil bit tipsy and funky isn't a sin and no body can ever tell me otherwise. But my friends pls drink responsibly.

Chai! Why didn't I meet dis gal earlier in my life, beautiful, damn good, dark, tall, just my type! Lionel Messi of Barcelona female team... What a way to celebrate the African female footballer of the year award

There's nothing as sweet as a man's rod. It gives u pleasure, it satisfies u, it increasses ur sense of reason.. She cannot come and go and kill herself na! On a more serious note she made the right move. We've heard of stories of revd sisters like her who secretly have sex with workers in the convent, with even revd fathers.. For her to come out of it and admit that this thing sweet and she won't hesitate to let it pass her by is a very big and honorable decision...

hope4nigeria:
bro, I've been a graduate for over 10years, no job, I drove taxi for 7years before I open my own business, don't be surprise those guys begging in physical and on internet enter clubs every night, spend the begging proceed on girls in the club because they know people like you will be kind to them and give them money over and over again. The worse among them are the ones buying data to beg on internet, they also do yahoo too. I'm speaking from experience, I give money to beggars but the internet beggars are advanced yahoo. They connect to very large number of prospective sympertizers like you.

I don't and can't ever sympathetize with any internet begger, I'll rather tag them scammer or insult them directly rather advicing them to commit suicide, u can never tell, it could be anybody and the best thing I think u should do is let the person know u don't fall for his pranks rather than giving him suicide advice. We have almost 200million people in Nigeria and we don't know who is who. As for me I can't ever give money to such person, I'll rather pass, I'm going through my own palava too, and I can't give one idiot money via the Internet but I won't ever advice such thing like suicide to someone, it's very fragile and risky, the human mind is very funny and dangerous.. Thanks

BuhariAdvocate:
Keep quiet which data are you talking about exactly.
Those in government have no data. So why is compulsory for ordinary admission seekers.

Well! I believe if collection of National ID card is made compulsory for jambites, our data collection will improve to an extent. 70% of Nigerians don't have it, even me.. One thing I'll urge us in the South is not to take this national ID for granted even an uneducated northerner have it, I believe this will be used against us in a very shortwhile! And besides, as a Nigerian I believe one of our Civic duty is our national identity, we fight for rights and when it comes to acquiring those things that'll aid the fight we don't vie for it.

hope4nigeria:
treck to lagoon and jump in it, your problems will be over before hunger kill you dia. Bastard.

Your reply is very dumb and heartless, u should have just call him Scammer and move on! How can u even think of advising someone to commit suicide? U don't know what he might be going through!..

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i pray you shall not be included in a tragic statistic this year

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Ndibunna:
Wonderful.

Our prayers are always with America military for more strength and to strength.

America first....God bless them.

God bless America
God bless central/east africa
God bless Ndigbo

I don't get u, do u mean if Igbos should secede from Nigeria, u guys will be either in East or Central Africa? What happened to West Africa? It's not a surprise though! Cameroon is not in West Africa but they have border with the Eastern part of what we call Nigeria... But I wanna learn more about this Biko�

Well said! Though a little bit if exaggerations but everything said are spot on. We need to think as a nation, the job begins with we citizens.

There'll be something else attached to this.She can't be Soo bold without a concrete backing

US and Israel are obviously not alone, I believe some countries will ally with them but my fear is the ideology of communism and capitalism which is the cradle of the whole thing. If this lead to a full blown war I wonder who China and Russia is going to ally with... Let's keep our fingers crossed.

Rest on a true man of GOD

World war 3 is imminent

Mi should have those that'll be advising him before he talks. Don't he have sensible friends and brothers? So if 2baba and D'banj call wizzy lil bro what will happen? Akon is way older than Wizkid both in music and age perspectives. If he Mi thinks wizzy isnt young any longer, it shows that inferiority complex is affecting, i think MI is in a state of depression. Oh GOD where is our MI?

According to the news i read here on Nairaland it was believed that France exempted us fro the Eco of a thing. It will only be dumb to allow an Eurrpean country to dictate the kinda currency we use in West Africa for us, that's modern colonization.. Let those that are inferior and vulnerable to France use the currency, I wonder what Ecowas is thinking, this is a big slap to the face of West Africa. Something they've been deliberating for years, to now allow France to hijack it shows how insensible Ecowas is.

makydebbie:
I had two goals for 2019.

First, to become an entrepreneur and be successful at the new venture.

Lastly, to publish my first book hardcopy and online.

I achieved both and more, I'm grateful to God.

About the publishing of book part, I'll join u in 2020, I have alot of manuscripts to be published. I hope I can learn how u went about it.

Hmmm! My goal was diverse.. But let me say i left one for another.. Won't say i didnt achieve anything, at least I'll give myself 10%. I wanna do far better in 2020.

TenthMan:
Humans are blessed with the gift of thought and reason.

It separates us from other species.

If we go by human instinct, the female will always choose the male that has the highest/better propensity to produce offspring with healthy genetics and a male that will support her with resources and security. It is therefore basic instinct for a woman to choose men who are financially capable in today's world. Also, the female is considered vulnerable when she is pregnant and nurturing her young. After this, she has always been productive resource wise.

People calling for women to select/choose/stick to men who have little or nothing are asking the women to override their basic instinct. A lot of women are having none of it. Men who accuse women of ''not knowing tomorrow'' do not know how nature works. A woman will rather stay with a man who she sees his fortunes/resources than one which is imaginary. ''I go fit get am'' no be property. It is the woman's right to ensure that her offspring are properly nurtured. It is the woman that gets pregnant. It is the woman that bears the child. It is the woman that nourishes the child. Hence do not expect the woman to take such major risks by selecting a ''weaker man''. In the past, the males had to prove themselves competing with other males. Nowadays it is financial strength and material comfort that is the yardstick. Not brute strength and the ability to hunt a mammoth.

The woman is also aware of the risk in the man's desire/propensity to procreate as many times and with as many females as possible. She needs security for her own offspring. The woman too, if the man is found weak,unable to provide at any point in time, may lead to allowing another man have his way. People are shy to state these facts or simply do not like them because they do not conform to what they believe, which is fine.

What the women have to know is that happiness is not usually based on lavish comfort. Men also have to note that because she stayed with you when you had nothing does not make her a good person/mate either. Nothing is guaranteed.


My responses are objective (knowledge/fact based) and you must know I answer without any form of bias (cultural, religious, tribal, ethnic, class, gender, age, race, nationality, blood, acquaintance, etc.)

I like your constructive analysis, but this morning I read something about a guy who took a girl to Osun state for blood money, that's the level girls are pushing guys too. Yahoo boys, fraudsters, money ritualists are the ones capable of getting a gal into a relationship. While guys filled with prospects who struggle day in day out and getting stipends as ends meet can't be dated. At this pace the life of our youths are in jeopardy because success is now attributed to having flashy cars, living lavish lifestyles and wearing the latest designers that came from dirty source.