₦airaland Forum

sapphiere:
Man cries out say na who beat ham?

Shoe get size. That's one thing men should know.

A lady at Hilton can never be the same as a lady at Golden gardens.
There's something called CLASS.

Find your CLASS.

Don't promise what you can't give.

kowalsky:
Prenup won't save you when your spouse is determined to wreck you. Best thing is don't get married at all.

If you must have kids adopt a baby or get a surrogate mother/father.

harmony75:
Amen o same goes to the man you help to the top never turns against you.. Amen!

BRATISLAVA:
Black men are the bottom of the food chain world wide. Black women rate better. Black men can only speak to sagging white women with children older than themselves, as you can see on the news everyday.

Even black women find black men despicable. Where can one start from? Your logic? Or your disgusting mindsets?

Buahahahaahahahahahaha

I almost choked with laughter, black women rate better indeed.

hustla:
Wait o

What if person don marry for naija

hustla:
Under which duress

Wey you go sign with your own lawyer beside you and video evidence

You must think I'm here to joke

hustla:
Hmm.. Women are necessary evil is the problem that is

Me thinks that Prenup will put everybody in line as there is no side benefiting ahead of the other

hustla:
I think many don't know... Or they allow the women to guilt trip them into not taking one

I am sorry but I can't marry abroad without going the prenup way, no be me person wey I bring from naija go ruin


Either prenup or I go the baby mama route

Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

gregyboy:
Opposite wakeup from pirnhub

specie103:
Why Real Madrid? Why not in Manchester United or Juventus.... Nevertheless, the stats still proves that Messi is far better than Ronaldo throughout the 9 years period of him at Real Madrid.

Nomorelove:
I said all that to myself bro... I hate myself

emmyrate1:
the last time I check Ronaldo miss a penalty that was supposed to win juve the game.
Another record broken by Messi which will take a centuries to break. Messi have about 3 centuries record on ground which might not even been broken till eternity. I guess ur Ronaldo don't even have record that can stand for 20yrs without seeing anyone that can break the record.

Nomorelove:
I'm a bastard and my mum is a Wh0re. Did Ronaldo not miss a penalty last week? Upon that he didn't even try to score again. I'll keep wailing and living in poverty all my life.

JaneYave:
[s]If you know what women go through to bring forth a baby, you won't joke about it.[/s]

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
How is he sure it was not a prank?

LadyTianna:
Lol see how you're contradicting yourself. The northern princesses are males abi. The gender is not important. Its called karma. You ignored people you could have helped, therefore people will ignore you in situations where they can be of help. Amen

Nuyokoi:
this is a selfish and entitled mentality
marriage is meant to be a partnership
[s]hopefully she will change after marriage.
cheers.[/s]

RomanGreen:
I pity the simp that will marry you, you ladies see marriage as poverty alleviation program, it's high time men start paying you ladies back in your own coin....now before you broke-shame me, I'm very comfortable and my girlfriend is so very supportive..... Unlike leeches like you who want to reap where they did not sow.....una never see anything, useless gold digging hoes, y'all think your pussies are free ticket to a man's wealth

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

obowunmi:
They are DEVILISH people.

Evil, wicked souls.

justscorchone:
The question should have been what exactly do nigerian men do to each other,they will never assist you or their family but will spend millions just to get laid .

PopSmoke:
this beech and clout sha

won't be surprised if you are a man with saggy ballz

no millionaire would chase clout the way you do beech,. why not get a job ?