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NifemiOlu: Wondering why some peeps are having issues with Windows 8, for me, it's super great...super cool. As for this Windows 9, all I can see is a combination of Windows 7+8.1. Is Microsoft trying to dull us?

mrgreen4real: Stop castigating pple because no one is perfect except God, Allah or who ever you may think. If the two believed most holy pple on earth were perfect then prophet muhammad would have seen the high fever coming to kill him and wouldn't have died (early) at the age of 62 likewise Jesus christ would have seen his crucifixion to avoid early death at 33 because then pple lived up to 150 yrs. We are living in a world of mysteries

Atmmachine: My father is a Medical Doctor in New York but if you see how he dress, He dresses like those cave men in 1846
I don't wanna disrespect him but he's useless
I don't wanna remember my agonized days in Nigeria, i eat once in 2 days but i still made it to America without anyone's help.

My Mum is too religious,she can pray for 10 hours & she is too soft

Paradise163: My dad? no way


better to remain single abeg

Kasynpaulsyn1997: bro,this early morning?
I'm just disappointed.....

samypopson: FUNNY.....I still find it difficult to believe dat sum1 wif 232 n jamb is calling a person wif 201 ODE!!...

Alexsmith20: last time i checked diers somtin called housemaid.

Godmystrength: I am not talking about cooking, sleeping or watching TV. I am talking generally.

Slaving around is when there are so many things that needs to be done at the same time and one person is busy doing one things and moving to the next and to the next while the other person is busy doing nothing. Pardon my use of the word 'slaving' if that is not acceptable.
Example is a weekend when there is need for cleaning the house, washing and ironing all the clothes used over the week, cooking soup for the coming week, market runs, making of hair, barbing of hair etc and the man (because he sees everything as the woman's responsibility) decides to go barb his hair and from there go visit his friends while the woman finish cleaning the house alongside washing of clothes, goes to the market, comes back to do the cooking (all these along interruptions of attending to the baby/kid(s)) and then take a little rest then man comes back from friends' place, eat and ask if his sunday clothes has been ironed etc.......(when they don't have a maid) (please don't tell me it doesn't happen like that)

It won't have been a bad idea if the work load is shared in whatever manner in no particular order. i.e
woman is cleaning the house while man is sorting the dirty clothes
woman is washing the clothes while man is spreading them to dry
woman goes to the market while man goes to barb his hair
woman cooks everything to be cooked while man is minding the baby/kid(s)
woman goes to make her hair while man can arrange for clothes to be ironed
By the time they are finished, none of them will be tired and spent out. They are both on the same level and when they retire for the day, they have good time with each other.......

Even if they have a maid, he/she shouldn't be overburdened. All hands must be on deck.

What am i even saying?? Everyone to his/her family set-up.... Do what makes you feel good with yourself.

bukatyne: You are high on fufu

It is compulsory for a wife to support her hubby financially but somehow it is not compulsory for a husband to support his wife domestically

You are really high

Navvy: have u made it in life? ur mates are in house of assembly dey pass strict order u dey nairaland dey bleep is dat life??

butanep: whats the lecturer about and what did i say wrong to mind my english...

butanep: No problem bro... uniben has never go below 200... don't let that guy deceive you, if really the story is true, that guy is not in school.. find out.. not everybody in campus are in school.
all the same you did your best... but thats not your true best... you can do better... check you excesses..
Goodluck....

thelastgenius: Why not attend CU and grab your own copy of the 4.9's

Ooh I get...Yu dnt fancy high grades....Right??

SamConquer: Yap Bro!!!I salute meen,IYASHOLA things.

SamConquer: Like seriously this Shiit ain't funny anymore.Should I call it inferiority complex or what on the part of this public student.why do some Moderator bring topics that are stupid in its entirety to the frontpage.Look at how the topic generalize all private universities.you are hear ranting about exposure and all shitt.what is your business if church owned school decides to put some level of restraint to freedom due to how the society is.now let's talk about My school which is not a church-owned-school,guy if you if you are looking come to Igbenidion university and you would be tired of "exposure".I am a proud student of Igbenidion university come rain come shine.You think is to be in overcrowded class,few chairs,no Fans,Lectures come once in a week thereby becoming half baked it you own definiton of "Exposure"the plain truth most FEDERAL UNI STUDENT are halfbaked but they hide under the umbrella of this all created of Impression of been brilliant.came across some federal uni student there spoken and even written english makes me vomit.KEEP DECEIVING YOURSELVES.don't try to mould yourself and think cause you are in a federal uni which is not among 2000 in the worl after decade of exsistence will do the magic. NB:Money that private uni student pay is not your Fathers Money.

Kasynpaulsyn1997: ok.....all the best man!

Kasynpaulsyn1997: nice......please i don't have such time. Ok
thanks

Dopefiend: First off, you have to differentiate a private school and a Christian private school.



The students signed the undertaken themselves, the school didn't coerce them. Tho you can't hear of such things in lead city or igbenedion




Lol. Why you hating on success? Poor man. Just say you don't have money.




On the contrary, private sch give more exposure than the public schools. What exposures are there in the public sch? Cultist exposure? Aristo exposure? You are sick. You get to meet better people in private schs than public schs



So to you, having fun is now only through dating, clubbing and partying? Which private sch uses uniform? Calculate the % of meeting rich folks in the public sch to the private sch, and slap urself



Hard work? Lol, with all the partying and clubbing? Blocking comes to the rescue for most of these folks. Go to bishop's sch and say you want to 'think' of bribing a lecturer lol. Na that day them go judge ur matter



Lol so because you graduated at 30, u feel Ure mature? Lol grow up. Maturity is of the mind. A 22 year old that just graduated from a private uni can be more mature than a 28 or 29 year old public graduate. Don't generalise because they turn you guys to grand daddies before they let you go.

Stop hating bruv. It ain't good for the mind, body and soul.

Kasynpaulsyn1997: liar! Which of the NLS?......graduate from one of the 'home of dumbness'
reamaining in a secondary school is better than going to the 'home of dumbness'

Navvy: poor men children be coming to NL to claim otherwise

Kasynpaulsyn1997: my first jamb score was 163(2013) i don't rush things so i had to sit down at home and studied harder rather than going to one of the home of dumbness around,scattered all over the country........this year i got 201 and i'm already admitted to study law in ESUT!
So,son you see?!

WoodcrestMayor: Wat was your jamb score sir?

Pasca07: really?but someone posted a comment here that private universities graduates are joblesss? Or am i missing something here?

Pasca07: really?but someone posted a comment here that private universities graduates are joblesss? Or am i missing something here?

Kasynpaulsyn1997: sorry bro,you 're one of them too?!
Just look at the embrassment you are in.....study to pass your wassce and utme and have a better life in a public uni you will not now you wanna put the blame on me?!

sarutobie: is there anyway we can guage the Intelligence Quotient of the Mods on this forum before assigning them the tasks as moderators? how can such moronic post make it to the frontpage?

butanep: Op you are very correct. Private university is like advanced secondary school. Most of them always wish, they attend a public university because of the monotonous life they live there. Schools where lecturers beg students to learn and where they monitor you if you are still reading or have slept.
Private university life is so boring i must confess because some secondary schools are even more social and fun-filled than them. for me it is for those that were not opportune to gain admission in public...

p2t2r: this is poverty speaking.

dryakson: Many Nigerian students these days often move quickly to queue for private universities when
making a choice of institution.

I agree that private universities have advantages like the absence of strike, easy access to
lecturers… Well, that’s about all.

Public universities, federal and state, have a lot of advantages, from cheaper school fees, to the
freedom to be an adult. Public universities expose you to the real world, introduces you to the
hustle of life unlike private universities that consist of a lot of brats who are literally spoon-fed.

They are so pampered, making difficult to face the real world when they become graduates.
So here’s my case for choosing a public university.

1. Public universities allow for freedom and independence:

Students in public universities enjoy the freedom to make decisions for themselves and learn to
be almost independent. Private universities keep students within the four walls of their campuses
and under certain rules more suited for teenagers than young adults. The laws in public
universities are not imposed on the students; they are just the basic principles a normal student
is meant to follow. It’s funny when I see pictures of private university students being punished or
hear of certain rules like compulsory attendance of chapel, feeding time tables, dress codes,
e.t.c​.​ It is absurd; these are adults​!​

2. Cost of education:

It is a lot cheaper to attend public university than a private one and this is not limited to school
fees. Cost of living on public universities is also cheaper. Students cook their own meals and hav​
e access to shops on campus and in town where prices of goods and services are competitive.
On the other hand, the cost of living on a private university secluded campus for one semester is
enough to build a house.

3. Public university g​ives “exposure” to students:

It’s more than obvious that public university students are ”​sharper​”​ than private university
students. Private university students who are often referred to as “JJC” or “Learners” by public
university students, live what I term “the microwave life” which is the easy life.
In federal universities you get to meet all sorts: from cultists to Aristo chicks, people with
different personalities. It makes one exposed to what life really is. One is exposed to the hustle
and learns how to struggle for things. There are still brats in federal universities but most of
them get to grow up when exposed to the hustle.

4. Life on and off campus is FUN:

There are so many parties to attend, clubs and events. One gets to meet real people, one also
learns to be real. There is a lot of gist and gossip, lot of things to laugh at. Rather than chapel,
it’s clubbing. Dating is even fun in federal schools. Couples express love without fear as adults.
One gets to see students that are rich and poor mingling as equals; students who express
themselves through their dressing and not relegated to some uniform.

5. Hard work is compulsory

Students in public universities have work​ed​ through exceptional odds to succeed; challenges that
help one not take life for granted. Imagine a department of over a thousand students with a very
small lecture hall or a lecturer who spends only twenty minutes in a class where he is meant to
spend two hours, or one who only gives handouts. Faced with issues like these, students work
extra hard to come out with well-deserved results.

6. Public universities produce more mature graduates:

With all the challenges: strikes, nonchalant lecturers, freedom to express yourself as adult etc,
public universities are more equipped for life after graduation. They know that things would not
just be handed to them and are used to making decisions for themselves.

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Mondisweets: how old are u on a serious note though?

I simply stated the fact that you dont have to wait to help someone simply because she is too tired or she is unable to do something. Its your house and if u contributed to the mess it only requires common sense that to u help even she is not too tired or unable to do something. The same way a woman doesnt have to wait for bills to choke her husband before she decides to pitch in and make things easier for the both of them