N3TRAL: No government on Earth will permit a mob to threaten its arm that desires independence the most.
What's celebrated is nothing more than blackmail and inordinate desperation.
Let the courts do their thing!
They should be allowed to do their thing like they’ve always done?
Just like they did with the case of the just past senate president, Lawal. It was magical! We wouldn’t want that kind of magic, hence our decision to call to them to order.
MrBiGGEST: It's pretty obvious Peter Obi won't win at the tribunal.. You would do yourself a huge favour by understanding that. 👍🏽
People like you you that wouldn’t want our institutions to function as it should be don’t deserve be here as an enemy of a functional and a sane country. With all the proven results and evidences at the disposal of the Judicial system, you expect them to still thwart the right judgment in Favour of the obvious culprit. It doesn’t matter who’s at the receiving end, justice must prevail!!!
Oghighirhighi: Tinubu can only linger, like a king not ordained by the oracle, he must surely give way either by death, removal or ultimately the dissolution of Nigerian state.
Newman001: I met her through facebook few months ago, we chatted and the rest is history. I wanted something serious with her and i told her severally because I wasn't too comfortable with the numerous calls she receives from guys.
One day a friend of mine told me that someone he knows collected her number and my so call girlfriend slept over at the guys place after just two days of knowing the guy. I confronted her, she denied initially but later owned up and apologized. I forgave her because I know no one is perfect.
Few days ago i put on auto record on her phone and this night she is at my place sleeping so i open the records and there is this particular conversation where she travel to a near by state to see another guy. Im just confused right now. I have invested so much emotions on this gal and don't know what to do.
Despite that she is working and the little time she has, she spent it at my place she still got time to be meeting and sleeping with random men for money. I'm thinking of confronting and breaking up with her right now or just codedly place her on the level she deserves and let this slide.
If you come close to club DNA on a Friday-Monday morning in Lagos, you go know say our generation is bereft of marriageable ladies. All of them dey do oloshooo. Little little fine fine girls oooo. Hmmm
Godsknight: I have got admission to study one year MSC logistics and supply chain management at university of hull . I also applied for two years master program in Bournemouth university. I don't know the one to go for . The major factor I am considering is chance of getting student job. Which of the two has more job opportunities?
I would advice you to go for Bournemouth Uni as I have a friend presently studying there and working at the same time. Two jobs self. Good luck and pray for me too.
[quote author=Lamanii22 post=112300371]During pregnancy was weighing 90…. I haven’t even checked my weight after then… but I am a chubby person, I am even chubbier sef… I don’t like to eat much cause I am worried about my weight although my husband is not complaining…
Hi ma'am, You do not need your husband to complain before you know too much weight ain't healthy.
Get your skipping rope asap. Enjoy some music while you Bleep with the rope. Make sure you have your headset on. 100 skips morning and night. Let's start from there.
matrix199: Don't forget Jesus was a Nazareth(had dreads) and was not judged using his hair type. But then, our society has stereotyped dreadlocks as a sign or show of irresponsibility. We think low cut or bald portrays responsibility which is not necessarily true. 99% of criminals and terrorists paraded were not wearing dreadlocks but low cut. So, as a school owner, i'll give every applicant a fair treatment and later make them understand how the society sees things and how the way they see things may affect our business. A sensible dreadlock applicant would reason out my explanation.
As much as our society frowns at it just like a tattoos, I will pick the kinda of brain my elder brother has any day if he has dreads and even tattoos join. Aswear!
IderadeAratumi: I am a Female Nigerian in my early thirties and have been working @ the UN for several years.
This thread has been created to answer specific questions you may have about working in the UN.
I have been working from home since the beginning of the pandemic and my days are always extremely busy ; juggling official duties with domestic responsibilities as a wife and mother . Notwithstanding, I will try my best to select serious questions and provide comprehensive feedback that will help you kick start your journey in this regard.
As the thread progresses, I shall be posting vacancies from several UN/international organisations in Nigeria, and also provide support with helping you to brand your CV for international organisations like the UN, but not limited to the UN.
Please note that this thread is for serious minded peeps only and comments irrelevant to the purpose of this (life changing) thread will be overlooked.
Kind Regards, Iderade Aratumi
Good day, ma'am.
Many thanks for this life-changing info. I possess History and International Relations and would love to work with the esteemed UN. Any relevant info will be appreciated. Many thanks. destinyadejo18@gmail.com
[quote author=Forthispost post=101859647]Hello Nairalanders. I need your honest feedback on this issue.
There is this ex of mine I dated for approximately 4 years. During the course of our relationship, I Was totally in my best power not to be the toxic one and never cheated on her but she eventually left with no viable reason. There were times she messed up and I forgave her even while we dated. Close to the time of her graduation from a reputable state university in Nigeria, she started messing up and eventually broke up the relationship. I was pained though but I had to forgive her and move on.
After the break up (which is about 3 years away now) we still talk (greetings on phone) once in a blue moon.
Now the issue at hand is, a male boss of mine requested that I recommend a female staff that matches a particular vacant role in our organisation . Note: This is an internal recruitment and who ever I recommend stand a 95% chance of getting employed ( the other 5% if for village people). The role is an entry role with pay centered around 80k-100k monthly. She currently earns 22k where she works now at at our last conversation. Though she use to be a cool person before her village people entered the relationship. Over three years of not being close as before gives me no clue of the type of person she might have become now. Maybe a scorned woman or a more sensible person. I'm doing far better than when she left me and it's super glaring to her.
The reason why I need advice is this: I work at the same organisation in question and I have no plan to leave soon. I'm trying to avoid a case where she will be the one to facilitate any issue for me at the said work place. Just avoiding anything that will result in regrets.
Update: I forgot to add, she's one of the person I know who suits the role. I don't have sister who matches the role.
I created this new account for just this thread hence the moniker "for this post"
Kindly advice biko. Bashing is allowed.[/quote
Oga she go eventually put you for wahala o. My people say "firewood wer dem don use before no dey tay to catch fire o." If she gets picked eventually, it's 80% possible that you guys could pick up your relationship and e no go jell for your job. However, my sister just finished NYSC o. Hafa? Lol
Don't you have a sister or someone else? You gotta actually move on from a relationship that crashed
Oga she go eventually put you for wahala o. My people say "firewood wer dem don use before no dey tay to catch fire o." If she gets picked eventually, it's 80% possible that you guys could pick up your relationship and e no go jell for your job. However, my sister just finished NYSC o. Hafa? Lol
adaperry25: It depends tho..mine is a peculiar story..im a quiet person and an introvert..when I joined a firm..my former boss saw in me the qualities I possesed and rated me high above the other staff who had stayed longer.im always focused and deliver good outputs.is don't have time for company gossips and politics.it brought toxicity and so much envy in the working environment.. they'll bring up different allegations against me but my boss could see through it that they were false even without asking me. Long story short..my boss resigned and the next person took over..it was like hell was let loose on me as all the grievances they've had in their hearts..they poured it on me and talked the CEO into transferring me.. because I'm not a vocal person, I was transferred but I believe time would tell and the truth unearthed.
I see me in the character you portrayed here. You are stronger, bro. It's gon be fine.
All her life savings gone to the almighty Fulani herders. Una weldone oo. Many days for the thief one day for the owner. Una go meet una waterloo prettty sooner than later.
Back in the days, we used to wait for newspaper to tell us who arrived camp. As Daddy no dey buy pass one paper, vendor became my friend. Omo we don tey small and this internet age has changed our lives forever. Maybe its effect will be more than the last industrial rev sef. I sell external battery and powerbank for laptops, phones etc. Ten hours plus guaranteed and twenty four hours of usage very possible! Recommend to your friends. I used to get up set when my darling super eagles lose a match but since i joined Arsenal as a fan, loss no dey shake me again. Shout out to all Arsenal fan, we are the only real husband and boyfriends in town. We are committed and ever ready to the heart to break again and again
Thanks for making my morning, man. Hahahahahhahaah!
H[quote author=dake40 post=99843811]Introversion sucks when you have no purpose.
"A problem defined is half solved "
What have you done to help yourself?
I'm an introvert too and a core one at that, i could stay indoors for months without seeing the daylight. [Since i have what i needed for survival]
My social life got worse and it was really affecting my esteem, i had no choice than to switch some traits
I work on the internet though [fiverr] and this contributed to my loneliness but i got it figured out since i started doing these
1. Registered at a nearby gym. Trust me, you will learn how to socialize [it helps], i make gym friends and trust me, i regretted not doing that earlier.
But be careful who you deal with, i only make gym friends, it takes several proofs and convictions before i could make "normal normal " friends. I'm that bad and i do not regret it
2. Freelancing friends
I have lots of them, depending on the nature of what you do, there are similar minded people you can interact with, trust me, you will feel comfortable conversing with someone with similar interests
You could find them online within your locals
This helps so so well
3. Game. I love Play station,only God know the number of people i have had playing games with them. Find what you love doing, man, you will find people who will like you and want to interact with you.
Recently, i have been thinking of including other sport (basketball on Saturday)
Im enjoying my introversion and i love it that way.
Bottling Emotions
I used to do that alot trust me, some people are good at seeing your weak points will use that against you
When you keep mute toward expressing your feelings, some people think you are foolish
see man, regardless of your temperament, there are always things to fix. Nobody is perfect, not even the extroverts.
I usually make my feelings known to anyone around me and will always let them know i love my space no matter what, and i should be treated with respect. Cos i will treat you the same.
I snub people easily, yes when i study you and realize you wont respect my space. I no like wahala. That doesnt mean i wont exchange greetings when necessary.
Start today, start letting people know what makes you feel bad, dont let them step on your toes.
Introversion is cool when you have principles.
I'm not perfect, I keep learning and improving
Thanks for sharing your wealth of experience with our community. Working out at the gym has helped me improve in so many areas too.
[quote author=rawfact post=97522094]"Examination of Conscience" Wow! Never heard that phrase before! Buhari, over to you.
Its a popular sentence in Catholicism. Most especially when ya 'bout to observe your holy penance. You gotta examine your conscience to know where you've derailed and be sobber in atonement and then make amends, perhaps.
Twenty8: Whenever I see a girl that catches my attention, and I want to talk to her, I suddenly freeze, I don't know what to say to her, I simply have no idea. I need help from people with experience please, any idea or tricks will do.
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lkillbrokehoes: That Tunde ednut is a foolish and arrogant he-goat, a failed musician and a failed blogger, stupid boy!
I was following him on Instagram before but when I saw his post insulting someone's parents I just blocked the fool, he deserves whatever he got
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Without arguing with you, Tunde is a human like you and with flaws. He's made a couple of mistakes that has apparently caused his downfàll. But come to think of it.... Do you know how many career he has helped build directly or indirectly? Do you know how many young talents he helped bring to limelight with his evilpage? He's arguably one of the most powerful social media influencers from this part of the world.
Nanaborga: Madam , you nor need tell us , most of us are already with the mentality of zero erection when broke , that is why we hardly respect vaginal puppies when we have this money , we go out for the best and dish fake love from you hoes . If IK cuteness and style nor fit keep you , then I pity any man when think say na six packs and fine face this vaginal puppies dey look out for in their soulmate and not money