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These Iraqis have had 9 shots,but they keep shooting wide.

So far,the scoreline between Sweden and Mexico is 0:0,while that of Nigeria and Irap is 4:0. Then,how was Sweden able to score us when we played them?

Oboy! See missed chance for goal na.

Iraq seem to be on the offensive.

Methink these Iraqis are doomed already. I wonder if the play soccer at all in their country.

It's official! Somebody has gone mad!

Hian! I'm having headache already from reading too much arguements and counter-arguements!


And yet,we still haven't arrive at a clear and comprehensive definition of who a nice guy really is.

Caracta: So why is ihedinobi against "opposites attract"? More like two Phlegmatics getting married.

To Ihedinobi, Sanguines attract Sanguines. Wonderful!

That's own view. I guess there is something he is trying to pass,but which doesn't seem comprehensible.

[quote author=chris_villa]replied check it[/quote]Replied

[quote author=chris_villa]Hey have we met before

owww sorry i remembered pretty much,you are the guy2 right?


I am the guy1 *shakes him*[/quote]Id.iat! Let her be the one to decide who guy 1 and guy 2 is.

[quote author=chris_villa]I see you've been having fun with your new boo...I am here now so you might consider asking him to call you in the morning or maybe when he built a house for his momma [/quote]What are you talking abt?

ITbomb: I may not be able to attend the Wedding but I will surely be available for the Child Dedication

ITbomb oooo............you won't kill me with laughter.


Don't worry. Me and my sweetheart Nomski,won't forget you. Who know,with your sense of humor,we might find you fit to be the MC at the dedication.

[quote author=chris_villa]hey danhumprey...PM ME asap

gosifechris63@gmail.com
its urgent[/quote]I just sent u a PM. If u haven't seen it,then you might have to follow me and I'll follow back. That way,it's gonna make the PMs easy.

ITbomb: ^^^^
That's I am talking about

What are u talking abt?

Crazy

Matthew briggs: @bolded
- it's like saying there is nothing like the colour gray
- Love is not maniputalitive at the same time not been silly to the point of been manipulated
- Been nice does not translate to been a push over but may at the same listening to her needs putting them above your's in most cases. Which is wrong.

Errmhh.... Most women don't know what they really want, only very few do, in most cases It's up to the guy to convince them he's the real deal which happens to be something jerks are good at. (My personal observation).

You're not entirely wrong about that. Most women don't know what they really want.

Caracta: Ok, lemme fix that. I do not want someone like me!

Exactly!

Fact is: if you wanna date/marry(most especially marriage) someone,let that person be the complete opposite of you. Though in some case,the person may not be perfectly the opposite of you,but let he/she be different from you,so you both can complement each other.

Ihedinobi: Manipulative wasn't the word she needed, bro. A manipulative person is a fuccked-up human being badly in need of the Grace of God to fix them. There is no marriage that they will not damage.

She meant "coy". Women are naturally designed to always come up with little games to reassure herself of her husband's love and involvement with her. "Thy desire shall be to thy husband and he shall rule over thee". They need to know that they still hold his interest emotionally and intellectually, so they play games that draw the man's attention. There is nothing wrong with that. Ain't no female on God's earth ain't like that.

Don't get it twisted!

Interesting. I'm learning alot. You must be an expert. Tell me more.

Caracta: For you maybe. I won't disagree with you over your views. As for me, i don't want someone exactly like me. Nah...nah...nah...it won't work. We would fight everyday and probably break some bones.

That's why compartible partners have to be different,so that the can complement each other. Two partners with the same character are gonna be boring and would bore the life outta each others.

Nomski0: Nice guys all the way. Me and jerks are incompatible. Why run after what will give you heartbreak

Exactly what baffles me. So many gals have been championing for bad guys. But that doesn't make us,the good guys to give up our personality,and turn to be bad guys just to land a chic.

Ain't anything gonna change me from being me.

#TeamNiceGuys
#TeamBeYourself!

Graham123: To each his/her own. If any lady wants the bad then may God help her. But from Ihedinobi's point of view, why do ladies exhaust their life and expend all the good things they have to offer to the bad guys only to want to settle down with nice guys for marriage. No man wants a used lady, especially not the nice ones who have stood by an exemplary principle all their lives.

@bolded,you just said it all. It's exactly what I have been trying to unravel. Imagine them dumping the nice guys who shower them with love and affection,for the bad guys who just want an adventure with them only to later dump them. And those 'used gals' would be going about looking for nice guys to settle down with. Who do they think they are fooling?

debosky: Sir you've made a big jump - that gals can be manipulative (either consciously or subconsciously) is not the same as preferring guys who would hurt them.

The truth is, some women manipulate as a (playful) competition to see if the guy will see through it and play along or try out his own manipulation in return. It's all part of the dance.

Interesting. Tell me more. You must be an expert in dating stuff and women behaviour.

Ihedinobi: Now this here is a double [size=20pt]BAM!!![/size]

Dude, that's right. Don't let nobody make you into a player. Players are emotionally dysfunctional human beings who don't understand the.concept of relationship or interdependence. No girl is worth destroying yourself like that.

And you hit it on timing. It may be best to get other stuff in place before rolling out your "game". Don't pursue a woman when you ain't ready to look after her. That does all kinds of crazy things to your self-confidence. It turns you into a desperate wimp. Earn some visible value, satisfy the basic issues of survival and purpose in your life. Then go out and get her!

In the meantime, keep friends among the female species. It helps defuse the emotional tension that not having a girl can bring. But if you ain't that type of guy, I'm sure you'll figure some way to keep yourself emotionally sane and eligible for her should you find her.

You just said it all. I even endeavour to keep female friends,so I can learn from them and know how their mind function.

Ihedinobi: You say you're not that nice like being that nice is a bad thing. That's what spoils a good guy's mojo. If you ain't that nice, get that nice. It's a good thing to be and chicks want nice guys. That's why they get with bad boys - to convert them. And bad boys use niceness to get the girl.

However, whatever you say, bro. I'm sure you're right. I just respect guys who don't chiose to become total douches just because they called it wrong on a girl once or twice. Thus I respect you for choosing not to become a player.

You are right,bro. It just that some gals mindset have been skewed toward dating the bad guys in the hope of turning the to their default setting(i.e,nice guys) and at the end,they fail woefully. As a start,what,who made those guys to be 'bad boys'? They obviously were not born that way.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]No one's asking you to change dearie, there are women out there who you're suited for.
It all depends to a large extent our emotional disposition. We all need that other half that can balance out.
Personally, because i have the tendency of being manipulative and a pushover, I need a man who isn't in the habit of granting my every desire.

So really, different strokes for different people [/quote]True talk!!! But I wonder why some gals tend to be manipulative and would rather prefer a guy who would hurt them than one who would treat them for the weaker vessels the Holy book said they are. I'm just baffled. Why is it so?

Nomski0: That movie made me actually realize that nice girls dont always tame the bad guys. And sometimes nice guys are the best.

Which one do you prefer? Nice guys or bad guys a.k.a jerks a.k.a players?

Harbosede02: datz d p...m nt insulting any1,am jst posting wahever i feel towards d topic,and if itz taken as an insult datz nt my problem...and did u jst say "be nice"!!,on NL??

Well,I understand. Some people could be annoying on NL,but it doesn't mean you should be rude also. Two wrongs doesn't make a right. Try being nice atimes.


By the way,follow back,would ya?

[quote author=y-fo]Dude, I'm not trying to rain on your parade or anything but Ihedinobi tried the sweet lines and it didn't work out for him...I think you might wanna consider changing your strategy (perhaps the getting of a dog suggestion wouldn't hurt )

And as for the relationship between ladies, bad guys and nice guys...I suggest you watch 'preachers kid', that is a classic representation of what everyone's been saying on this thread.

*miss sizzle should have watched it I believe.[/quote]Fine! If that's the case,then I know the direction this is leading to.

debosky: Hehehe. . . .let no one lie to you, you WILL have to play 'the game' to an extent even if you want to marry. What differs is what extent you play the game to (dependent on your circumstances) and the maturity of both parties.

Dan hump rey I hope no pun was intended.

Ain't saying I won't play the game. I would. Probably,just not now. I'm probably just playing around,making me look like a Mr.Nice Guy. But trust me,when the chips are down,that's when you see the real me.

If I have to be a jerk,a player, just to date(not marry) a gal,then I rather remain single. I just don't think I'm ready to date. I have my priorities. I was probably just playing around.

Interesting. By the way, it's "Danhumprey",not "Danhumphrey".


Sometimes,you find it difficult to understand that we are different and that we have separate lives. You find it difficult to understand that our online attitude and behaviour is different from our offline(real life) behaviour.


I'm really not that nice in real life. The incident that spark off that my thread was because I was impatient. I didn't took time to get to know her well before toasting her,and when she rejected me,I thought she was being heartless,not knowing I was at fault.

Harbosede02: hehehe,wah did u jst say??i sud take a "cue" 4rm orda gurls on dis forum??wat d hell 4?i am me,i wud always be me,and neva u sud u even tell wat to do on Nl,am i using ur fone or ur bis 2 post!!fyn!am a bitter person,d question here is aw does it affect u??.....2 d mumu above u can do beta dan dis na??stp ranting lyk a castrated dog abt aw ur sis was molested by 5 guys!!nicoompoop!!!

Be a lady and stop insulting people. Be nice!