Childofthelord:
Hi everyone,

I have been on Nairaland for a while now but just recently started making a few posts. Ranging from my personal life experiences to replying to someone's post. I got really heart-warming replies and messages from my first post which made me feel like a belonged to the Nairaland community. Many people sent emails and wanted to be friends. Of course, this required sharing my WhatsApp contact, IG handle and other personal details.

Now what?

I have had many experiences where i shared contacts with folks on Twitter and other social apps and the conversation just dies, because we had nothing to talk about. Good morning, How are you, have you eaten, how was your day, yada yada yada---empty conversations. Sometimes it moves in the wrong direction, people always have different motives and interests that may never align with yours.

While I do appreciate the kind gesture and wiliness to communicate and be friends, I believe that for friendship to thrive, there has to be a strong linking factor, either a common interest, field of study or goal. That's why for a start, i do recommend we chat from Google Hangouts and then we can move the friendship on a closer level, but a lot of people are either not on Hangout or just want WhatsApp or nothing.

PS: To everyone who has sent me request emails, thank you!, I see them but sometimes i am unsure how/what to reply. That's why I always follow back, perhaps your next message will make more meaning.

This forum is full of great-minded, intelligent and wonderful people and I have chatted with a few.
For the Nairalanders who have made friends on this forum, what would you advise? What experiences have you had?
Is it worth sharing your contacts?

Let me know your thoughts/experiences

Childofthelord:

Karleb:


You no get sense!

kingxsamz:
If you like dont do all these. As long as you still listen to Davido, Wizkid, Olamide. etc And you still sing their lyrics.
"Baby gimme love o", "whine your waist o", " baby this your backside" "I want to hmm on your face" etc.. na hellfire things for you. las las %99.9 of Christians will end up in the same hellfire they've been preaching about for years.

ITbomb:

She already understand.
We are meeting somewhere in the Niger Delta next week

farem:


https://dailytrust.com/benin-republic-ready-to-be-nigerias-37th-state-minister

DeadPresidents:
"Ole-Inners" vs "Ole-Outers" is the new "Real Fans" vs "Fake Fans" (Shout to mi amigo Jose).

Mehn, which group do I join? Maybe OnlyFans

Mann11:
I hacked her WhatsApp some months ago.
Although I've seen many chats of hers that left much to be desired, this present one is the height of it! She was chatting with her ex and they both inquired how their present relationships are going. She told him I'm not handsome. I'm really heartbroken at the moment.

He: How is your current relationship?
She: He is nice and caring just like you but not handsome.

He: Lol, how do you mean he's not handsome?
She: He's not, I can't lie to you

He: Why did you go for someone that is not handsome, o wrong naw
She: I don't even know how I fall for him jhare

He: How did you meet him?
She: He was formerly staying in our area.
She: In fact, I always find it difficult to kiss him. He's very neat o, but I don't know why I can't kiss him
It's been long I kissed and that was the last time I visited you
He: Oya come lemme kiss you.
The next thing was she sent my picture to him, maybe for the guy to see how ugly I'm.
He: But he is okay naw. Abi he's not serious with you ni? He's looking serious already sef
She: Laughing ( she sends a laughing sticker)
I felt like crying honestly

What should I do? I feel like dumping the fool

hoopLA:
Good morning.

I do hope the euphoria over us being top has worn out.

As talented as this squad is on paper,we are miles away from actually being a championship contending side,let alone a winning one.

It's very clear that there's a huge imbalance in the squad. I've said that here before.
We're being bailed out on numerous occasions by instances of sheer individual brilliance. We concede too many stupid goals and keep falling behind to nondescript teams.
And the home record.
Please when did any titke contender lose 4 home games by mid-season.


Honestly,as much as we might love him and hate to admit it,it should be clear the manager is way out of his depth.
He can only take us so far. As much as we ought to support him,that is the stark reality.

How do we lose to freaking Sheffiekd United at home?

Ah,it's football and anything can happen,right?

My people say the body in the casket is a piece of wood till it is your relation inside it.

I think we need to stop getting over ourselves expecting far more than the situation allows.

And nobody should by the raumdeuter title talk.
City are massive favorites for the title in my book,until something drastic happens.

xynerise:
They should keep their vaccine...

TalabiAudu:
Sitting relaxed and waiting for the news

tng:
What exactly is wrong with this team? Personnel? Tactics? Mentality or it’s just a bad patch?

Esetobore:
The so-called Atheist who claimed they don't believe in God is the first to shout” oh my God! When something terrifying happens to them. They are just a bunch of hypocrites and ignorant human beings on planet Earth. We all believe in science and technology but science has not been able to create a living soul. The formation of another being when sperm and a women's egg meet, the ability for humans to fall asleep and wake up, the air we breathe, for without air there will be no living soul. All this is not by scientific method or power. If anyone says there is no God, or they don't believe that God exists, is just plain stupid.

Spy360:
As an Arsenal fan I'm disgusted by your comment. In all my years as football and Arsenal fan I've never seen a coach tactically better than Mikel Arteta and I think he's the best coach we ever have had. Back him and trust the process. We can still do this! We are Arsenal! COYG!

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...only cowards commit suicide
No matter what you passing through..don't think of suicide..some of us are going through hell....but we are not giving up because there is always light and fire at the end of weed tie
Sorry I meant to say there is always light at the end of the tunnel

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright ....




Abeg nor too loud am o
Before bros Righteousness89 go say as i don dey get fans and followers so he mean say na the beginning of end time

ITbomb:
Lord Lugard, may you suffer for 600 years

Wokeupandslayed:


yo!!!

I had no idea, please teach me. how nairalamd never had dms no joke.

I emailed you tho. get back xx

purplecoco:
lol I kinda saw yours one time, but I felt you’d have forgotten about me. But it so good to see you tho haha. Lemme check my Dm real quick

Wokeupandslayed:


I'm guessing it's email. I will reply on there

purplecoco:
bruh you found me what’s good? Omg

Wokeupandslayed:
I was feeling myself i was typing ��� and who knows when mayapop would even come online.

anyway, nl has DMs now what!!!!! I now follow you tho. resend it. I don't have whatsapp anymore. but I will try and download it again. but just DM me.

Wokeupandslayed:
danhumprey I oversharedddd on my previous message. literally TMI, please modify your comment (quote) and delete it.

okay now I see on the top, you sent an email, how does it work again. I can't remember. coz my mail box is empty loool.

Wokeupandslayed:
danhumprey I oversharedddd on my previous message. literally TMI, please modify your comment (quote) and delete it.

okay now I see on the top, you sent an email, how does it work again. I can't remember. coz my mail box is empty loool.

Wokeupandslayed:
loads of hugsssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!! hell yeahhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!! omggggg i can't believe this. lool. missed ya. whats been going dont tell me you are married with kids like airforce1. no, but seriously, whats good though?

purplecoco:
Lmao right