₦airaland Forum

ITbomb:
No be me o abeg, I dey with my lovely wife and kid and my wonderful 12.5kg fully loaded

I know say no be you. I just dey hail you.

misterme:
And I am very very angry. Gas I used to buy 2800, then 3k, 4k, and 5k. Suddenly it jumped to 7500 and now (today) 9250 in Port Harcourt. I am very very angry. Let no one here disturb me with nonsense news about Buhari and his nonsense South Africa Trade fair and nonsense. No cross me today o. I fit beat person

The gas finished yesterday. I told my wife that yesterday that I will buy the gas today because I needed to get to work and somehow raise money to augment what I have to be able to buy the gas. I told her to use the kerosene stove that yesterday and this morning. Guess her reply? She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.
For the sake of my 3 children I still had to buy the gas today.

I had not eaten in my house for a month now. The reason is that she said that they money I gave her for upkeep in October was not enough (I give her 62.5% of my monthly salary every month for our home upkeep). As a result she refused to give me food from around the middle of the month when she said the money had finished. She cooked for herself and the children (possibly from her own salary). When I gave her upkeep money for this month I told her not bother keeping food for me so that the money will go far enough. That's where we are till now. I have no intention of ever eating her food until she acknowledges that she was wrong and apologizes.

Now I know this WON'T happen. She will rather die than admit she's wrong or apologize. This is why I know that the mistake of a marriage is heading for the rocks and I am ready for it. Nonsense and ingredients. I have endured this nonsense for 15 years. I am done. Anything whe won happen tomorrow, make e happen today.

ItBomb, how are you?

Ezendimmuo:
My girlfriend likes food a lot...
Sometimes what she wants might be above my budget
I just graduated...no job yet ..
She can call guys on the phone in my presence and beg them for money...
There is this "married" man she sees and has actually spent the night with him and she swears that nothing happened between them...
I can't provide for her needs....
I can't also stop her from getting them...
I love this girl so much
She loves me too..
Anytime I think about this...
It makes me sad
I wanna end everything...
But I can't...
What do I do

You love her? LMAO.

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

Ah! Wahala dey ooooo!

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

duyox2004:
I hate it. I’m 41, never married, no kids.

I’ve been close…twice. But ended both relationships when they were caught cheating.

I’ve dated several men since then, most older than me, and they seemed to be in no hurry to even be in a committed relationship. Which is crazy to me that these men are mid-40s and still trying to hangout with the guys and party. I met a whole guy group of friends in Houston 2 years ago…all single, all 36–45 years old. They were throwing house parties during the quarantine…parties!! ��

When I was in grade school, I was told to get a degree, don’t get pregnant, just enjoy being single, make friends, keep dating, and the right man will find you.

Now that I have two degrees, traveled the world, developed hobbies, and avoided pregnancy…my doctors are telling me to just be a single mom because I’m running out of eggs as I type this message. �

I beat teenage pregnancy to be considering single motherhood at 41. �

Damn you, parents, counselors, pastors, and everyone who gave me that advice. I can’t get that time (or my eggs) back. I hate being single at this age!! ��

Calm down, guys.
Calma. Calma.
We're winning the league with Ole.

LMAO.

patrickmuf:
Ole no send trophy...Baba is all about DNA and the process of gene transfer...

Barrister026:
It's DNA sir am sure, he's asking if I know my blood group (which I don't)
But I believe he knows it, they might have done it before.

What if it turns out, am not his biogical child.
And me been the first child, I suspecting he's opping for the dna test.

So many reasons he might decide to do it, he's black, am slightly fair.
Honestly am scared.

The DNA palaver no concern me.
My issue here is how an aspiring lawyer still uses "am" instead of "I'm".

Efe42:
I'm 26 she's 25

agbolahan1991:
Her husband has been away for almost a month, I feel pity though have been having a crush on her right from before she got married, now she has a shop beside our office and I can't get my heart off her each day I see her....

Am a married man too but my wife gives me hell, with her anger, bad mouth and ojukokoro
Am not happy as a married man and I really need someone I can talk to, open up to and someone that can relieve the pain in my heart..

This life sef.
ItBomb.

Gadafii:
karma is cathing up with them real fast, govt dont pay them their salaries

Which karma?
You don't get that government failure to pay them their salaries, allowances and emoluments, is part of what is contributing to their frustration and why they quite readily transfer it on to their students?

jaelz:
So I met this girl sometime back in March in Abuja she was very beautiful and was working in a spa back then, I approached her and collected her number after which she never picked my calls or replied my chats after I tried contacting her afterwards.

Fast-forward to last two weeks she contacted me out of the blues that she was sick, didn't have transport fare to work, she was broke and didn't have any money for food as she hasn't eaten in a days.

I got dressed and meet her in the location she gave me and bought her some little foodstuff and provisions then gave her 3k to hold for transportation to work until they pay her at work.

Guys could you believe that this girl blocked and deleted my number the next day? I tried calling and she it was telling me busy till I used another phone to call it and it went through, I asked her why she did that after I revealed my identity and she couldn't say a word she was just mute on the phone for about 30 seconds till I cut off the call.

I am still so shocked as to why some women behave they way they behave atimes.

johnsonmartina6:
She said she wanted some space because we had some quarrel,, i gave her the space and added another extra week,, now she cries of heartbreak on her WhatsApp status ,, i don't understand,,, what should I do

LMAO.

OGS is still the manager?
LMAO.

slimghost:
I don’t even know again. I don tire man

GloryIsaac:
Doubt this.. but be like say Martial go wear 29

Those two dropped points stings like we were defeated.
God!
Is this how we'll be this season? Dropping vital points?

This country na cruise.

ibnlawal:
Wow! Subscene? I hear you bro
Anyways, it's the best site for subtitles. They have almost everything
You can try out Tvsubtitles.net

Okay. Can you check out subtitles for Tyler Perry's shows like "The Oval", "Sistas"? These two in particular. And how to embed the subtitles in each episode.

DieRich5:
which site u downloaded it from

The shows are on 02tvseries, fzseries, toxicwap, etc.

horlah005:
Most Tyler Perry show hadly has subtitle on MX player.

Try subcene dot cum

I kinda noticed that about his shows. SMH.

The subtitles on subscene are kinda horrible somewhat. It's a huge stress getting sensible subtitles from there.

DieRich5:
"MX player app"

Can't seem to find subtitles for Tyler Perry's show's like "The Oval", "Sistas", etc.

Any help will be appreciated.

Simran94:
Mahn!!! I don't like how POWER ended
First they kill Angela Valdez, then Tasha and her son killed Ghost and that Tariq went scot-free?

It is what it is. But you gat agree that Ghost had that coming. He had numerous enemies unafraid to put a bullet in him...
Anyways, have you seen Power Book 2: Ghost?

Officialgarri:
Serap has a large dusty shelf full of court documents that stays irrelevant till this day.

They sue every goddamn day, but no one honors their invitation. The court doesn't even take them serious.

I'm even thinking SERAP is a one man organization that wakes up everyday to look for what to sue the president for.

Achilles100:
That guy is one smooth talker.

Very smooth talker!
And my goodness, is he handsome?!!!

Moviesplug:
Currently watching all this series

I swr all are lit

If u never watch any of these series I swr u never watch film be dat

Link below
https://www.moviestrendzhub.com.ng/2021/05/new-series-updated-today-19th-may-2021.html

https://www.moviestrendzhub.com.ng/2021/05/new-series-updated-today-19th-may-2021.html

Started watching "the handmaid's tale". Got bored in the early episodes. Couldn't continue.
Watched just the first episode of "the resident". I kept the show on archive being that I like medical drama. Will continue some time later.
Just downloaded first two episodes of "this is us". I haven't watched them. But from the clip I've seen, it looks like a good show..will watch afterward.

Currently watching New Amsterdam, Manifest, FBI, FBI:most wanted, Grey's anatomy, the blacklist, godfather of Harlem, the flash.

Now watching "godfather of Harlem".

Dayum!
The guy playing Malcolm X is like really bringing that legendary Black activist to life.

Nostradamus1:
The big bang theory is a gem.
How did i miss it

I've not even started the show despite having known about it for years and seen clips of it.

Blackish. Grownish.

How good are these shows?

chic2pimp:
Why am I just seeing this? .....Footy will surely come Home next season. You can take my word for it

With Pioli in charge?

Ah!