Fineman2: My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.
However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.
Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.
I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.
I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.
She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.
Please what should I do?
What a spineless human being? So because of love, your willing to watch your only child suffer? What will your late wife think of your actions? Any woman that can't treat my child well, can Bleep off
............The flight which departed NAIA Abuja at 11Am.......Only God know how many times they postponed this flight time before they finally took off by 11.
The flight took off by 11am , it means it probably landed somewhere before taking off again to ebonyi
Analyst7: so this means you’re admitting you’re a hungry human being, a leech
Your definition of rich guys is even subjective, and who told you they’re not complaining, you can’t even know they are because u don’t care to know, once u chop money
You have no issues giving your guys money but when it comes to ladies, they are leeches? But you want to still get under their pants?
IyaebeTheGreat: Big men don't complain. But you see these kurukere boys ehn, their wahala is too much . This is not me supporting what she did but there's too much complains over irrelevant things
Exactly.. you hardly see rich guys complaining, it's the broke ones always shaming
litigator: This question was asked, Nicodemeously, by one of my followers who is also a nairalander. I promised her that I will write about it for others to learn. Especially, our Christian sisters and mothers.
But before we begin, what do you think?
Isn't marriage supposed to be till death do us part? When he was healthy she had no problem eating his money, now he needs his wife the most, she wants a divorce
saintbillion: Nigerian life coach, Laila St. Daniel-Mathew, has reacted to the reports that Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, outsmarted his ex-wife, Hiba Abouk, in her move to claim half of his wealth through a divorce The 24-year-old PSG star has become the focus of social media in the past 24 hours after it was revealed that he deposited 80 percent of his salary to his mother, Fatima's account.
Hiba had allegedly dragged him to court earlier this year, seeking an end to their five-year marriage, citing infidelity and other extra-marital reasons.
Taking to her Facebook account, the women's right activist said she finds it disgusting that Hakimi is ‘’being controlled by his mother.''
“I see so many nasty comments, mostly by men, towards Hakimi’s wife asking the courts to grant her half his wealth. For crying out loud SHE IS HIS WIFE AND THEY HAVE TWO SONS?” she wrote.
"She can ask for anything because she is part of him - it is left to the courts to decide. I find it MORE DISGUSTING that his MOTHER CONTROLS him! A grown man? All these men talking - is that what they do? A man tied to his mother’s wrapper? Probably she is the cause of whatever issues has led to this divorce!
For me, I'd say his wife. My reasons; 1. His wife takes care of his children. 2. He grows old with his wife. 3. His mum might die before him. 4. His wife is always there by him.
Depends on the type of wife sha. Some women are lazy ass gold diggers
praisecity: After I have hustle and suffer to make it, u mean I should now leave the woman that as birth and known me for over thirty years for a lady who just came in less than 3years. My mum will be the first to enjoy the fruit if my labour b4 anybody. Like u told my wife if she likes it or not my first house goes to my mum and nothing will Change it.
Leave all these idiots to be saying rubbish. The law favours women, how can I work hard for my money only to give half to a lazy bastard who doesn't do anything at all
labake1: Guys praising Hakimi Achraf are Losers, I tried to understand why he deserves all the praises but couldn't find ONE.
Hakimi Achraf CHEATED on his wife while his wife was on vacation with their children.
If Hakimi's wife is to be your sister, will you praise him?
Also, I felt pity for the wife for marrying a MAMA'S BOY. She deserves more than half of his wealth.
She should be compensated for the emotional damage and marital fraud. He should be jail
All these hypocrites should shut d hell up abeg. You can blame hakimi but won't ask why she married a 19 year old when she was 31 years, and it's most likely she had been having affair with him before he turned 18, which means not only is she a gold digger but also a disgusting pedophile. She didn't see all her fellow actors to marry, it was a 19 year old
Why isn't anybody talking about the fact that Hakimi's wife was a fucking pedophile? How can you marry someone at 19? It's most likely they where dating while he was underaged. She's nothing but a gold digger and it serves her right
Benitoh: I've been calling on ladies that cared to listen that they should do whatever is within their power to keep their virginity till they finally gets a man that are proud to call them my wife, not use and dump. As a girl God has made it easier for them to get married at any age even at 15, but as a man you've got to Hussle your ass out before you think of marriage.
Unfortunately our girls are mostly wayward and sluttish these days. And as a sharp guy you've got to use as many as possible and finally settle down for a virgin and good one, since they don't want to learn and stop thinking that they're equal to men.
And who are the people disvirgining girls if not guys? If u want to advice, advice guys to keep their dick in one place and stop deceiving girls just to get under their pants
Why men have every right to cheat on their women – Nigerian man gets tongues wagging.
Who is this idiot again? Other people they think of how to secure the bag, this one is concerned about why men are allowed to sleep around, forgetting that Hiv and other deadly STIs are rampant
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This are the same bastard lawmakers who will never patronise Nigerian hospitals but would carry our tax money abroad to treat themselves for even common malaria. Fucking hypocrites
So wiretapping someone's call is now legal or what? Cos if it was in developed countries, they can't even come out to say this rubbish. It's a criminal offence to record someone call without permission
rottennaija: How long has Zelensky been trying to bring US and NATO into this war?
Ukraine is not a NATO state, hence NATO cannot actively deploy troops to Ukraine, besides US and other western allies have been sending military equipments to Ukraine and are considering sending fighter jets.
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