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mine was, mumcy dey sell kulikuli, when she was going out, she said, "if you like finish the kulikuli before i come back" oboy! see mouching of kulikuli even dash friends self, say mumcy say make i finish am before she come back, when she came, see floging. flog rubbish comot for my body, since then, i get sense

you can visit: mshood.ng

like how much loan are you talking about! there is a coming up micro finance bank MShood, gives small loan without interest, but you must bank and make transactions for like 3 months to qualify. Am sure, and if you are a sincere person, you will definely get it

yeah! mine was like that. still today. we are good to go. We are family of five with peace of mind

hmmmmm!

zubimete:
Living in niaja ls " LIVING IN BONDAGE. What is the future of the girl child?

As in i swear. many parent have failed to indulge discipline in their male child. May God save us ooo!

IF everybody give birth to a male child, then who are they going to marry. The name of the family they want it to uphold, who will uphold it.

Is it not better for those who are scared of their daughters will be banged to train their sons not to be let loose, and see a woman not as sex mate rather as apart of them that will make the world complete and make their generation a standout.

As for the name change, that is if a girl likes it. Its a cultural thing and its doesn't make any sense. Leaving your father's name just becos you are married

may her soul rest in peace!

So, make we fry beans

please stop misleading people, post pictures of his arrival, why crowds of 2015. Please, its uncalled for!

Honesty!

me, i do, if he is in need, i give him back. hubby is a recklessness spender and he is fully aware that i do take his money. I used the one i can, and i save the one i can.

what is the age bracket then. if i can guess 20yrs, our 20yr old now can answer the question. but that if social media has not tking thier mind sha...

wooow! looks beautiful.....

as in hmmmm!

mbahdi:
She's already married rigth from her 15.just dat she never formalize it.cos uncountable Dickson will have passed through dat hoe

I used to wonder how some so called men used to think like they don't have anything relate with woman. Yet they have Mum, aunts, sisters or even daughters, still they will open their fishy brain and call others a hoe. hmmmm! what a level of stupidity!

TheSociopath:
This is what feminists don't understand. Even nature has defined our roles, men are stronger physically and have dominant behaviour while women are weaker and by nature more caring and organized. As a matter of fact, women enter menopause, which means they're expected to procreate early.

It's good that men and women have equal opportunities these days, but women will always be homemakers, child caregivers, cooks, etc no matter the feminists campaign. Women's lives will always revolve around their children, even if they go on to have stellar careers or make names for themselves

yesss ooo our roles are different but we are all unique as far as this earth is consign.

I wish make i see you give you dirty slap! Nonsense!

This has shown that Nigeria is a failed country. Even the police knew that the road is not save, and they cant do anything about it.....My heart bleed.

Assuming the adulators wanted to kill, they would have done that easily. 3days to the point of resting. No searching from Nigeria police, nothing..... God please, you are the only one that can protect us from evil. I pray for your protection.

May we never fall victims........

Great one!

.....so, if you have challenge in life, the best thing is to quit?

You face it!

ednut1:
nonsense, it kills you overtime

bokunrawo:
Unemployment is a terrible plague affecting most Nigerian citizens , nevertheless the employed citizens are in face with several issues, basic among them is the problem of a terrible boss or colleague . Let me share my story...

I got employed in x company in the month of June, which has it headquaters in Lagos state , this company is quite a lovely and good. I was posted to the company's branch in one of the cities in Nigeria.

The issue i am having is my female colleauge who is married , she has been with the company for four years which gives her an edge in experience , i was actually employed to be her partner because our positions are the same (Business Developer) , although she is the team lead of my branch.

This woman is egoistic,proud,domineering and a bully which is against the company policy, this woman behaves in an unquestionable way because her brother is one of the top 3 head of the company .

This attitude of her's has really been a source of depression to me. This thread is soley created to encourage and advice people with similar situations , this advice can be given by people who have gone through this situation before.

This thread is a daily update on what people go through at work and ways which this hazards can be sabotaged.


I Declare this thread open

Just forget abot her, (i.e don't get emotion abot her behavior) assume she just part of the furniture in the company. Do your work, follow the company's policies to the fullest with that she cant hold you down with anything.

People like her are everywhere, some will even set a trap for you, just prepare your mind. So, its a challenge, face it, its will make stronger!

don't leave the company, its part of challenges, u face it. follow the rules to the fullest, forget abot her and do your job. In the process of staying, start looking for alternative.
these kind of people are everywhere, some will even set a trap for you. Just prepare your mind.

Its a challenge, face it, its makes you stronger!

ednut1:
nonsense it will keep you tied down to your doom. my friend did this till she was sacked. 5 months later she got a better job in an international firm with bosses that will invite you to drink coffee with them. i told her then to resign she no hear cos of fear of unknown. its better to leave than to be sacked.

Like say u be me. That's the way to gooo!



[quote author=pocohantas post=80967242]You just described my boss.

I dey give am back as e dey hot.

Now he doesn't bring his nonsense to my side. Whenever he is going out of line, I give him another dosage of his medicine.
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[quote author=pocohantas post=80967242]You just described my boss.

I dey give am back as e dey hot.

Now he doesn't bring his nonsense to my side. Whenever he is going out of line, I give him another dosage of his medicine.
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wooow! u guys are amazing..... I thought my Husband got it all, seeing comment....Thumps up for u guys! Let make it work.....TOGETHER...

AFONAMARO:
Planning, understanding and sacrifice.

I and my better half are engaged in a 7am - 5pm job. Kids (twins) are 2 years and 3 months at the moment, and are in Prenursery.

I leave the house 6am daily so as to beat traffic and drop them in school before settling down for my day's job. I pick them up by 5pm daily.

Practically, since my position at my place of work can permit me to close at exactly 5pm or so, I pick them, bath them when we get home, dress them, feed them play/baby seat them till they are ready for bed and turk them in to sleep.

Here is the division of labour. Wifey cooks during weekends, prepare their breakfast/launch daily, while I take them to school to and fro daily, feeds them dinner, bath them, baby seat them and make them sleep daily. I do the dishes daily after work to enable wifey rest a while after work since I return before her.

Note: We all wake by 4am daily and everybody knows their duties. Hence my ascertain about PLANNING, UNDERSTANDING & SACRIFICE

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imnotconfused:
I don't know if this counts as I don't live in Naija but I don't have househelps.

What makes the difference is shared burden/ shared work.If it lies on one person, there will be burn out.

DH and I work full time ,Monday to Friday and some weekends.

5:30 or max 6am alarm goes off.

DH does his brushing and co while I shower

I finish showering and do minimal dressing up and he enters to bathe.

I wake the kids and hand tooth brush over to them.

After that quick bath for one,DH comes over and bathes the second one.

We split the kids,I ensure one is dressed up,DH does the other then takes them downstairs to have breakfast while I finish my make up and co.

I go down and take over when I'm done then DH dresses up properly.

After breakfast,final dress up and shouting and we pile out.Dh drops us off- me at train station,kids in school and nursery.

I rush from work for school run ( they stay in after school club till 5:00),get home prep dinner for the kids,do some homework then shower for the night.I do this Monday to Wednesdays,DH school run Thursday and Friday.

19:00 Read to them,DH usually is back at this time.He comes up to do the goodnight and once they're tucked in we prep.our dinner,i heat the food while he does any dishes.

We chat about the day,eat and go to bed and then repeat same cycle.

We usually have a food plan for the week or at least an idea of what we will eat and put in fridge to defrost while at work.


Weekends if not working:

If no food,we cook.DH cooks some meals,I cook some eg he may cook stew while I cook porridge.We just subconsciously split who cooks what.

DH does laundry,I do ironing and planning outfits for the week for the kids.

I scrub bathrooms,he vaccums the rooms.

Sunday is eat out day.I can't be bothered to have extra stress.

It's not easy at all..very stressful but bearable with a partner who is hands on

Married 8 years plus

gabazin080:
This one no sabi dance sef.
Nobody dances better than a pastor during offering time .

; haaaaaaaaaa!

Interesting! hw tym flies...... hmmmmm!

Interesting! hw tym flies....hmmmmmm!