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Thanks everyone for getting this topic to the front page including the mods. This is my first time of getting a topic to the front page. I am happy for this as it might help someone out there remain chaste.

I don't intend to attack the female gender but encourage all girls and guys out there who are keeping their virginity. God loves you for your decision.

Those who have lost theirs, God loves you too and wants you to change. U shld not feel worthless and should not ridicule those who are keeping theirs.

legionISproteus:
You don't need to compare women with cars.

Real men know body count matters and laugh at threads like the one you're countering.

The only time your body count does not matter is when a man is elderly and needs a woman for companionship. As a young, virile man with a good head on your shoulders, this would not be your option

Thanks brother. I get your point

Differentiate:
Datedoby I was reading this and I decided to stop @the bolded . if you're playing with a mad man people will check if you're normal yourself. Don't quote him again..

Ohhh thanks my bro. Noted

femi4:
You used a wrong metaphor...it doesn't work that way with humans.

Whether fvcked once or 50times before marriage, none can marry as a virgin again. You only lost it once n for all

You don't even know what makes the breast fall so easily. Let me school you, the best of boobs are with the runs girls

About HIV, you can even get it in marriage or through other means other than sex. It has nothing to do with body count

That is why no one should sleep around even once even b4 marriage.
Thank God you said even if you do the act once you can't be a virgin again opposing your earlier assertion that the body can replenish itself.
Once virginity is lost the body cannot replenish it again. Once the hymen is opened nobody can seal it back again and don't tell me hymen can be destroyed through riding a bicycle.

The best of boobs are with runs girls? That must be the revelation of the year.
About the HIV part I agree with your point but sex is a means of contracting it too. I only used the HIV part to state that the past can't be ignored as u need to find out the past health status of the person.

My uncle died because he ignored the past of his wife whom he loves sooo much not knowing she was sleeping around with many men and had contracted the disease b4 marrying my uncle.
She later opened up when she and my uncle were seriously ill. Both are late now but that incident taught me a lesson. No matter how firm or attractive a lady or a guy is, I will NEVER IGNORE THE PAST because it can kill me

femi4:
Human beings ain't cars...Our body replenish whatever you think it has lost even till our 40s

Like I said earlier I didn't say humans are cars I only used a car as a metaphor.
Really? tell me more. How can the body of a girl who sleeps around replenish itself.

Let's take an example. Imagine a woman whose breasts were firm in her teenage years and she allows her breasts to be fondled by many guys? Can d breast return to normal when she gets to 40? Or is it just my thinking that the breast can't stand again like b4?

You know these things that the body can't b d same again that is why some use push up bras? Why didn't they allow d body raise d breast up by itself?

Or if her womb is damaged due to an abortion she committed in her past can her womb replenish itself when she gets to 40?

Imagine a man marrying a woman whose womb was damaged due to promiscuity during her past or a woman marrying a man who has HIV from his past. This is why the past should NEVER be ignored.

A man or woman in his or her 40s can you compare same body energy as when he or she was 20? There is a law of diminishing returns and nobody can change it.

Savedday:
"These girls are trying to twist the law of diminishing returns which is impossible."
This is Golden..... Op God bless u!

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Thanks bro God bless you too. Mosdii is a great guy but I don't see anyone as useless o. All have sinned against God na make we feel sorry and accept responsibility for what we have done and make God show us mercy

Pussywar:
Enlighten me, what are the consequences of having a high body count?

You don't need to be enlightened on this cos I see this not as a question from someone who needs to learn. You know the consequences so I won't talk about it. I am not a baby you know

Sonnobax15:

Op,abeg knee down make I pray for you jare.....

It shall be well with you--AMEN.

It shall be well with your generation--AMEN..

You shall not lack whatever you desire--"AMEN..

Since you've decided to say nothing but the truth,may the good things that comes along with truths never depart from your life--"AMEN..

And to every single nairalander reading this comment of mine,may we also receive everything I've wished upon the op in our lives too--AMEN..

Amen and same to you too including everyone who knows and believes the truth. The world is passing away and all it's lust but he that does the will of God remains forever 1 John 2 vs 17-19

Pussywar:
Human beings are not cars.

Not everyone believes in the concept of virginity

Morality is subjective

You cannot be insulting, reducing and objectifying people for having sex while speaking on morality. It’s goes beyond sex and dressing.


Not everyone is religious

You can choose not to be with someone who has had multiple partners, but it’s only basic human decency not to shame them from your own moral perspective. Why is this even an argument?

I didn't say humans are cars. I only used metaphor. I didn't insult anyone as this is my opinion and lastly whether you are religious or not, you can't run away from the consequences of your actions. The last time I checked ignorance is still not an excuse in the court of law and God is the judge of all the earth

Young girls and boys don't be decieved. This is to counteract a post on the front page of this forum https://www.nairaland.com/6818137/body-count-means-nothing-body

Why does your past matter? You cannot value a car that have been used roughly by several drivers in the past and pay high for that car as you would pay for a brand new car.

These girls are trying to twist the law of diminishing returns which is impossible.

Also, can you overlook a serial rapist and entrust him with your daughter because you don't believe in someone's past?

Don't let people who sleep around anyhow make you feel it is cool. Instead of them to feel remorseful, they validate their actions.

Some even say marrying a virgin with bad character is worst than marrying a loose girl with good character just to ridicule virgins. Now tell me where is the good character in sleeping around.

As a young virgin either boy or girl, keep yourselves chaste cos u can easily be like them but people who sleep around can never reverse their virginity in these world again so they want to pressure you to loose yours that's why they come up with every statement to justify their loose morals.

Let them continue. God will judge every word said and actions at his right time if it is good or bad. Stay blessed guys

The future is female people, with the way our Nigerian girls are going is this the road to the future? If yes pls drop me at the nearest bus stop I'm not going to this type of future with you

Na so Nija Govt chop our parent economically and we the youth wey dey helpless dem still wan chop us like snacks.

oyinlekan1:
God bless you

Thanks and you too

orohbiro:
Nigerian men are useless

On behalf of all Nigerian men I say thank you. God bless you and give you your heart desires in life.

I shake my head for this kind of women who see friendship as all about money and what they can gain from you. Life can happen to anyone. Job in d Bible with all his riches went broke. Ma if u go broke and your family and friends leave you, I hope you will be happy cos they would have applied your teaching

Mangekyo:
100% on point.
Although I would say Hazards situation was a bit different. He didn't leave bcus of money. He said he had been a supporter of Madrid since he was a kid, and he dreamt of playing for them one day.
Real Madrid came knocking in 2019 (wasn't it?). Well he must've thought if he didn't accept the offer, he wouldn't get the chance to play for his dream team again. If that happened, somehow he couldve easily be angry with himself for letting the dream of his life slide away.

Now that he has played for his dream team, and he's decided to call it a day, we should welcome him back as a legend.. The young man really gave his all for us. He left for a reasonable reason so we should not blame him

Noted bro. I wasn't aware initially he had always yearned to play for Madrid right from his childhood. Anyways, am sure Chelsea will welcome him with open arms

I have learnt a lesson from Hazard. The grass is not always greener on the other side. Why we aspire to be better in life, we should think twice. B4 u leave your current employment or anything that gives you a sense of security, weigh the options very well.
As long as you are valuable to your current employer and they are not chasing you away, it is best you look at other factors and not just money.
Also, don't abuse where you are leaving and try to leave on a good note so that when you do not succeed elsewhere, you can be welcomed back

Na this kind thing Government dey see dats why them believe say Nigerians get money. Wen dem increase rice to 50k per bag now una go dey shout

Beebah2000:
So, e dey support women way dey born another man pikin for their husband house, abi?
This one no no how the thing go do u for body when u find out say na another man pikin u dey take care of.

Asides that one sef, imagine say Salami give a woman belle and she born the pikin as girl for another man without the man knowledge. The man sef give salami wife belle and she born boy without his knowledge. The two children grow up and love themselves. Na b4 marriage everything go burst wen both parents see themselves. Make we dey reason 4 dis country b4 we take our hand spoil many things o cos things don spoil already

So Mr Salami u will wait for another man to drag the child with you b4 u do DNA test. Na ur type woman go nack another guy raw for back if the guy insist on protection, she go tell the guy say don't worry my husband will take care of the baby. After all the years you take train them the woman go tell you with joke say u dey call urself man? U think say na you get all these children?
Anyway salami means sausage in Italy. So fish brain and sausage brain go together

Adeboyefa:
If the baby was switched at birth, its DNA will not match the mother's too, declaring her innocent of paternity fraud.

Wonderful point

A lady shared an article on the front page of this forum where she condemned men insisting on carrying out DNA tests on their kids. One reason she gave was that babies can be switched after childbirth.
Is this reason genuine? Personally, I will say NO. In fact, this is also a good reason why a man must carry out DNA tests on all his kids as soon as they are born so that if a baby was switched, it could be discovered early.

Guys reading this piece should listen carefully, women cannot love a man who they disrespect. Any woman who brings in another man's child into your house WITHOUT your knowledge, is indirectly calling you a fool. In fact a ist class fool. She got pregnant for another man who she respects and loves but because the man refused to take responsibility, she brought the pregnancy into your house WITHOUT your knowledge and she expects you to take care of the child using the "babies can be switched antics". How do you think that woman will respect you?

Cheating is bad I agree for both men and women but everyone must be responsible for their actions.
Let us turn the table around. Imagine if your wife is the bread winner of the family and you get another woman pregnant outside and bring the kids to your wife to take care of with her own money. Will she do it? Most women I know will chase that man out of their house. So why will you do same?

I always tell people to learn from Lions. Why do they kill Cubs of other males, before they mate with same females? We are not animals so we can't kill other people's children but the lesson is that you should not father another man's child. If you do, it means some animals are wiser than you.

Let me quickly point out something (You can argue if you want) . Men are buyers and women are sellers. Men and women live reckless lives but women get damaged more. Men often times, don't hide their past so I think If women want gender equality they should also brag about numbers of men they have slept with in the past but why are they hiding it? Most women who have lived a reckless life and damaged themselves always say forget the past. A female relationship expert also said stop telling men about your past. To me, this is fraud as that thing you are hiding will be exposed one day and trust me the odour won't be pleasant.

Personally, I think both men and women should know about each other's past so both parties know what they are getting into. A lady should find out about a guy's past too and not allow the guy's good looks or money cloud her sense of reasoning.

It's just like buying an apple from a store and after checking the apple, you discover maggot infested holes on it and the owner of the store says forget about the way the apple is and buy it like that after all, most apples these days are infested. As a man or woman ask yourself will you buy that apple?

In conclusion, as a man control your sexual urge if not, be prepared to carry the responsibilities that come with it. Remember, that innocent child you brought into this world does not deserve to be abandoned with another man but you and finally as a woman, nobody tells you how to live your life. It's your life and you are still single so you can spread your legs like the clouds in the sky but when you are facing the consequences of your actions, don't start playing smart by pushing the results of your waywardness to another man because those days are finally coming to an end.
DNA test has come to stay and by God's grace,
I will carry it out, on all my kids. Remain blessed everyone.

I remember those days growing up with many local TV stations with good contents like MBI, Galaxy tv,superscreen and co. Especially that Minaj song "Minaj television baba..... " Days when men were still boys

Since na season of mercy we dey abeg presidency Make rice go back to 12k and dollar back to 150. Please show us mercy

Imagine o. Chaiiiiiii calling ur car her car. What if u had bought a house in her name. She would have kicked u out and brought another man into that house. Dats why I don't pity some women when some guys beat them to their game and for simps, una never see anything. Continue spending your life savings on a woman. You go get sense Las Las.

Terrier99:
Years ago, there was this girl I was dating towards marriage. Foolishly bought a Rav4 and gave it to her. My saving grace was that I bought and registered it in my name.
In 2016 at the peak of the recession, my financial partners pulled out and I had to deliver a project on my own. My finances took a turn and she started giving me attitude. There was a day we were in the vehicle when she said I should stop making noise in her car, I wanted to die.
When next the car was due for servicing, I collected the keys from her and didn't give her the vehicle back. She started with picking offence, then insulting me, then crying, then begging, I didn't flinch. I eventually sold it. Even her shameless mother called to beg.
Since then, I don't put too much mind on women. Once things go bad, they forget all the things you've done for them.

Are people not financing terrorism or siphoning money through banks? You need to understand what is going on here. It's like Nigerian government saying that we don't have the capacity to build refineries. Some guys in Niger Delta started refining crude and they were arrested. Why? The government said they were operating illegal refineries. I saw that statement and I was happy. You know why? They used the word illegal refineries. So why not legalize it for those guys by giving them licences since they don't have money to legalize it. After all said and done I saw that Nigerian government is out to fraustrate the youths of these country cos dey see us as a threat to their shady practices. When u are looking for loan for a small business nobody will give u but wen u gather some little amount to start small the government will fraustrate u with policies that will make you run back to poverty. Last time I checked, they said they cannot name sponsors of terrorism in Nigeria but Emefiele can close accounts of protesters who want a good society for their unborn children.

Proflere:
Boss, closing down the BDCs is a smart move with evil intention. Emefiele is aware that banks make their highest profit by selling to these BDCs and he didn't put anything in place to check the greediness of these bankers. BDCs are still in business and they get Fx from banks at a higher rate, that is why the parallel rates are very high too. Emefiele should checkmate these bankers and see how things will workout. Buhari is not reversing the policy because his brothers are not yet really affected, rather they are still in business with higher profits. By the time they are totally shutdown you will see how the northerners will start boiling.

When you turned Naira to a gift currency u didn't get the point? Naira for dollar policy where u will be giving Naira for free to those who receives USD. Most things u get for free is NEVER valued. Do they give u free USD in d USA for receiving Naira? U keep closing people source of livelyhood without creating regulated alternatives. Closed Border, closed BDC and closed Aboki Fx yet NGN is going to 1k/USD. Keep closing a lot of businesses in a country where unemployment and under employment is over 70 percent. After pushing the masses to their elastic limit there is a breaking point.

This comment deserves comment of the year for me. I wish I knew you in person. I know a girl who rejected a guy calling him big head and poor. That guy is now successful and she is still single as the person she gave her body to because he is rich, rejected her. Women abuse a broke guy who respects them and has not even seen their pants and worship a very rich dude who has seen their pants several times and even mock them behind. That's why I don't pity most of these women saying they are looking for husbands cos most have chased their husbands away by their attitude.

chatinent:
There is a difference between needing a man and needing a man's surname.


Last time I checked, there are more men stalking ladies than there are women stalking men.


There are many much-unaccepted friend requests on your Facebook; more snubbed chats, and more.

Then why do some women still say they need men?

Your requirement in men, most times, only exists in heaven. How can you need a tall, handsome, pointed nose, British accent, take care of your needs, buy you anything you want, must have two houses and at least three cars, rich, honest and faithful guy..who will take you for who you are! Who are you! Go and mould that person naw. Kuku say you need your personal Lord and Saviour!

The only guy you claimed to love was Greg who was only concerned about using you until your carburetor knocked. And it is difficult most times to recognise these sorts.

Let me surprise you: the only requirement most men are looking for in a woman is a good character. Some men say they want virgins. Believe me, many men only want a good character. Other things are secondary.

You have refused to lift the fog to see beneath your makeup, breast, and hips. Continue singing you get yansh, you get breast, you sabi cook, you get this, you bi wife material.

Motivation yea? That uncle who sang that rubbish is married! Bubble poked!


Phillip that you are rejecting because of his kpomo lips have those qualities, then you let him off the hook.

Ndubuisi you told off loved you from his heart but you wrote him off due to his gigantic head! Ọ bụ isi ya ka ị ga -eri?

You rejected Thomas because of his protruding belly. You called his belly an amusement park!

You also used and dumped Samuel because he hadn't the kind of money you wanted!

You rejected Isaiah because of his bulging eye. You said he was Segun Eyerinze Version II.

Andrew was your first love yet you dumped him for the trophies of short-lived iPhones and Aba Brazilian wigs. Andrew cried and begged you not to leave but you wagged your hips on him and said he was no longer your type.

Joe is still showing the hints he is into you but you placed him in an eternal friendzone.

And there is Michael, a tall, handsome, and caring guy coming...you and your friends have already labeled him a player.

Going home, you are now considering drifting your life from revolving around money, to looking for a god-fearing man. Hey look, a food-flask-headed 2face is stopping you and telling you how he wants to marry you.

You are glad. He has a car..and it's a plus. Oh, he is even a doctor in Massachusetts. Oh, God thank you o. In fact, what God cannot do doesn't exist...even when you lied to him that Greg was your “first” and only guy who “raped” you.


Yapu, yapu, yapu, yapu...

Two months later..

Two seconds, e don end.

You realised he is married after he has nigeria-ed your body figure. Oh, all men are dogs.

You are on your DM now trying to respond to old chats if those oldies can bring back those words. Oh, most of them are married now. Others have learnt to be wiser. What a reverse psycology!


You feel you have failed as a woman. To whom do you run to? Oh, the society is expecting much now! Everyone is asking you personal questions about your children and husband. You mutter, can't they mind their business!

In mid-thought, you feel you have failed.

I'll tell you for free: you have not failed.

You have not just answered the big question.

I ask you, what do you really want!

And they will never respect the innocent husband cos they will see him as someone who is paying for what the so called quality man got for free. When the innocent husband finds out, she will say "all these while did you think this child is urs? " Indirectly calling the innocent husband a fool.

chariisGRACE:
Okafor's Law.

If they had successfully carried out their mission without being caught, and maybe she conceived tomorrow, the innocent husband would be fathering a bastard.

Most cases of paternity fraud are aftermath of Okafor's Law.


Baba God, continue to save us (men) from karishika. We are now amongst endangered specie.

Fireboy saw this wen he sang Peru pero don dey para. Am in San Francisco Jami. He was talking to 2face. Lol 2 baba don run.

Will u keep quiet!!!. Instead of you to hide in shame u are still opening dat ur kettle mouth. So tell us who deserves the child? if not the real father. Even lions kill Cubs of other males. We are not animals but it teaches us dat no man should train another man's child. Only a mugu will do that knowingly. I tire for this aunty. Her lack of shame dey shame me.