Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 7:07pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: You are forgetting the little matter of the deposit, mileage restrictions and option to buy fee.......
Yes they are always looking to shift stock, but at whose expense? That deposit sef will buy a car and the insurance. This place wey nobody send you even if you're driving ferrari... The problem is a lack of creativity on how to spend money Spent 4k on an old lexus with 68k miles and the insurance and am angry I didnt buy the cheaper one for 1, 6k at least till my insurance drops and I have a house.... 14k will get you 5% deposit on mortgage.... Besides when financing, a new car, you spend about 6k extra than actually paying cash |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 7:05pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
marylandcakes: I think it’s better to buy a used car because no matter the make of the car, once you have driven it out of that forecourt almost half of the value has been knocked off. Even if it’s six months old to me you still make a saving. Insurance. Is also very high on new cars. The financial commitment is a lot for someone just coming in to settle down in the uk. Better to take on a mortgage than a car finance in my opinion but maybe it’s the accountant in me that’s speaking. I would rather have money in my pocket than look fine and be broke... That said a car is not an investment. This people just market it as such and can be an inefficient way of maximising your earnings value |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 7:03pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Ralphlauren: To start with, you should have gone back to nigeria and have your husband file for you to return back to the UK as his dependant.
You’ve said your partner is on a work/business visa. I assume this is the entrepreneur visa so why is he working at a nursing home? Has he considered switching career paths? What’s his educational background ?
It’s going to take up to 2-4 years if not longer to obtain your discretionary leave to remain. If you had returned to naija, with all the right paperwork, within two weeks, you would have obtained your dependent visa which gives you unrestricted rights to work and also study and you would have returned back to the UK with your kids as legal migrants.
It would have cost your family a lot financially but when you consider lawyer fees, the back and forth with home office, the 2-4years (or more) of unemployment on your part (lost income), then you will see that returning to naija would have been a better option.
This route you’ve taken is just added stress on your husband. Being the only income earner for a family of five is tough and considering the fact is not eligible for any benefits at the moment.
Be wary of friends encouraging and advising you to overstay. I would also be wary of friends advising you to work at mental homes (when it’s clear you have no passion for such roles). Such friends are usually the group of people that believe the only roles immigrants can get in the UK is care job which is an absolute fallacy. You needs friends around you that will advise you to do things the legal route. Friends that can inspire you to aim for a role in a fancy office at Canary Wharf.
Now that your visa has expired, if you return to nigeria and your husband files for you with his current status, you will be refused. You will have to wait till he gets his citizenship (another 2yrs+) before he can file for you under the spousal visa route.
Until you regularise your stay, it’s going to be very difficult earning an income. Focus on your kids, decide on what career path you want and go on udemy and see if there are short courses you can take. Well. What if she gets denied and she's stuck there? Do you know how expensive visa is for 4 people? Even British Windrush still fighting for visa.... She has to get married first etc... Loads expenses... What she's doing is probably convenient. Anyway, nobody deliberately gets into such circumstances. There are always reasons. And i think this is more reprimand than trying to understand why.... And that's why lawyers will help her and reach a legal solution |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 6:59pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: I dey miss o.... Abeg anybody know any woman wey get triplets for body? If you search instagram, there's a Nigerian nurse called Deola with triplets, she's a former colleague. Her laulau was too much. So I u followed her. Was happy i didn't date her. Maybe na me for Teri sii |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 6:57pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
NosoChic: Please I hope we realise that information on this forum is easily accessible to whoever- we do not encourage anyone to overstay their visas.
We represent law abiding Nigerians and will not be caught encouraging anyone who willingly and knowingly chooses to break the law. The thing is people have different reasons for their decisions and if they get into problems, except you are willing to directly help. Sorry to say, but its not really a matter to express your disatisfaction People are just sharing their experiences |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 5:38pm On Jun 08, 2018 |
Na Die insurance. They'll even install evil spirit in the car to be monitoring somebody.... Na wa! At least, no need to buy tracker now |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 8:26am On Jun 08, 2018 |
Inkredible: I dey hail Una o. My Temporal DL just arrived.
How much does the Theory test cost and where can I register and sit for it?
Incase you flunck the first time, do you still pay for the second attempt?
Cc: Fatima04, Mamatukwas. dvsa website |
Celebrities › Re: Banky W Reacts To Chimamanda Adichie's Comment On Men Holding The Door For Women by DaveChapelle: 11:57pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
Can women pay Groom price then??
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Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 11:53pm On Jun 07, 2018 |
heard of a british family that the relatives fought and threw punches, brides family vs groom's family at the wedding and ruined it.
By the way....What is your Marmite experience? Hate it or love it! |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 11:19am On Jun 07, 2018 |
Lexusgs430: Walahi Theresa and Javid, would not even offer a cup of tea..........
Afterwards, they would ask you to provide your residence status....... who could be more racist to a black man if not a Pakistani....God dey |
Christianity Etc › Re: Elderly Man Caught Watching Sexually Explicit Video During Church Service by DaveChapelle: 7:46am On Jun 07, 2018 |
why are you calling him elderly. Do you know his age?
In the eyes of God, he is still a 'shild' |
Travel › Re: Getting Into The UK Property Market. How To? Teach Us How To? Get In Here by DaveChapelle(op): 7:38am On Jun 07, 2018 |
ItzBIM: U don vex sire ? No vex U sounded frustrated ni You heard the typing abi? |
Travel › Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by DaveChapelle: 1:56am On Jun 07, 2018 |
Or find a baby falling from a balcony and do like that guy in France, you can also borrow a baby and act it, just that social services might dis-parent the baby |
Travel › Re: Getting Into The UK Property Market. How To? Teach Us How To? Get In Here by DaveChapelle(op): 1:55am On Jun 07, 2018 |
ItzBIM: Why not consider Moving back to Nigeria to start up a business and have your own house instead of paying one landlord. Shey na the thing wey i ask you be this?! Please, if you don't have the tips, just siddon dey watch....Didn't ask you about how to build house in Nigeria...How do you know i don't have a house in Nigeria?!...see yasef |
Travel › Getting Into The UK Property Market. How To? Teach Us How To? Get In Here by DaveChapelle(op): 11:06am On Jun 06, 2018 |
Hello Guys
So, i've been in the UK now for some months and its been a dream come through, like its like, i can die now, i have achieved it in life... Ok, but this place is so expensive and even though by Nigerian standards, one feels like a millionaire, Man's not hot here!
Can you share your experience and we take it from there...Tier 2 visas? Student visas, The ILR crew ( or DLR )
Man needs to be independent innit Can't keep paying the landlord's mortgage |