DoggoneDogg:
On what mandate was this unintelligent Oluwole economist elected??
Recall that his lifeless mannequin bullion van leader also suggested printing more naira notes to solve inflation.

Na the famed brains & sophistication wey Afonja people dey always use make mouth be dis?? Na wa

Must you, tribalized everything, abeg this fool opinion is not about tribe but he's fools opinion.

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Iamagoodgirll:
So I came across this post in a group

NL guys have you experienced this?, also share your view.

I NEED ADVAISE FROM A MALE READERS:

And no, my story is not made up. It’s for real, actually very real. I am a top executive of a very successful conglomerate my father founded. I resumed the job early this year when I returned from the U.K after completing my MBA.
As a result of my job, I usually find myself frequenting places I ordinarily wouldn’t want to- Ikoyi club, society weddings, conferences, etc. I’m a geek for the most part, and something of a recluse. I would rather stay in my house at the end of day and watch TV. When I became Deputy CEO of the company, I realized that I had to start hanging out at these places to build a social circle, mostly for business reasons. I am not a very sociable person, but with the help of my more outgoing cousins, I have been able to build a pretty decent network of Lagos ‘big boys’ between January when I returned and now.

During a conference in Lagos this year, I was approached by a young lady banker. She was working in the Marketing department at one of these banks, She’s pretty young- about 7 years my junior. I’m 28; this lady is about 21. You know how young these graduates are these days.

Anyway, she walked up to me and started persuading me to consider opening up a bank account with her bank and told me all the benefits of the account, etc. She looked so innocent and desperate, and practically begged me for an opportunity to see me again so that she could convince me. I ended up giving her my complimentary card. I usually don’t just give out my card like that, but I did.
Three days later, when I was hanging out with my new-found friends and my cousins at a bar at one of the Hotels on the Island during the early evening, this girl called me and reminded me who she was. She said she really needed me to open an account, and that she was eager to convince me on why I needed to open an account. My friends noticed I was talking to a girl on the phone. You know how guys are; they teased me and asked me to just play around with her and invite her for drinks.
I asked her to come over to the Hotel, and surprisingly, she said she would be there in 20 minutes. The branch she worked in is on the Island, so she apparently took a Bike and came to meet us. This was about 6pm. The girl came, and my friends all saw her. They smiled and talked among themselves in hush tones, and I talked briefly with her for like 5 minutes and told her I would make a decision on banking with her or not. She was desperate from what I could see, and she was eager to get my account.

When she left, my friends all laughed mischievously and told me in plain terms that I had to sleep with the girl. They went on talking about how all these bank marketers sleep with different men before getting deposits, and insisted that I must not be any different. Now, I’m not a virgin; I’ve had my own fair share of sex in the past, but I’ve never been one to take advantage of a girl. I knew she was desperate as she had a target to meet up to, or something of the sort. But when you’re a guy hanging out with guys, it’s pretty difficult to be the odd one out. All my friends made me promise that I’d sleep with the girl. I promised; I didn’t want to look like some geek. And I’m really trying to feel among these guys.

To cut a long story short, two days later, when I was in my office, this girl called me and tried persuading me to bank with her. As she was talking to me on phone, I asked her jokingly: “What are you willing to do in order for me to open an account with you?”

She hesitated and then she told me: “Anything you want sir.”

Gbam! That was my cue. I asked her to meet me at one hotel for drinks later that evening. I asked my PA to book a room for me at the Hotel. She came to meet me. We had drinks, we chatted. She told me that her bosses had ordered her to deliver N10million to the bank that month, and that so far, she hadn’t gotten anything. Her job was on the line, and she had only just started working there 3 weeks before. I asked her to follow me to the room. She did. I slept with her.

Surprisingly, it turns out she was doing it for the first time. She was actually a Virgin. The bed sheet was stained with her blood and all that stuff, and I was just amazed. I thought being a marketer and all, that she would have been sampled many times. But no, she was a virgin. When we finished, she was shy of looking at me in the eye. We didn’t talk much. I gave her money for a Taxi, and gave her the name of the Finance director of the subsidiary I am in charge of. I asked her to meet him the following day to open up a corporate account. I instructed the guy to open up an account worth a few hundreds of millions- probably enough to meet her target for the next 2 years if there is such a thing in commercial banking circles. I don’t know how these banks work.

Anyway, she called me and thanked me profusely for saving her job. My friends now know I have slept with her, and I have solidified my place among them as a ‘bad’ guy.

The issue is this: I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s been like six weeks now. I haven’t called her since then, even though she keeps sending me text messages asking after my wellbeing and thanking me for banking with her. She deals directly with my Finance guy so we don’t talk money ever. But I think about her every day. I think I actually have feelings for her, and the idea that I was her first makes me feel like she should belong to me. I’ve never been a Lady’s first. I’m actually going crazy with thoughts about this girl.

Am I crazy? Should I call her up and ask her out? How would that feel? How would she react? Also, considering that my friends all see her as the bank ‘LovePeddler’ would it be a good idea to still ask her out? How will my friends see me? I’m not looking for sex from her; I’m looking for something real, something intimate. I want something that’d last- probably forever.

I’ve never felt this way about any other lady in a really really long time. What should I do?

Brotherly,

For the love of God if what we just read is the truth and not one fiction, or super story, you've just find yourself a gold in a mud, "as my late mum would always says one may never know where one will find your true love" you are successful young man and by accident or destiny met a fine decent virgin girl working at a bank in the year 2021! chai i envy you bro......how many of such babes are still a virgin in the year 2021, my advise give her a chance and watch closely if she passes the next test, i advise her asked to resign her banking job and get a job to where she will work in executive role and not a bank marketer to avoid temptation that could cause to sleep with other big daddies all in the name of looking for her target of 10m that could be increase from 10m to 100m, my dear brother make hay while the sun shines all the best.

I suspect your Corei7 processor what kind of quack engineers do we have as computer engineers this days, they changed your Corei7 motherboard for Corei5 and rather add the replaced motherboard with Corei5, processor they put it with Corei7 and expect it to work normally,..... hmmn!! my advice to you look for another competent engineer request for the exact board processor of the Corei5 you have and your laptop will be fine, before you make payment have an agreement with the engineer if you can you test the laptop for a few hours if he agrees before you make payment the better for you, else you could be scammed for another bad processor since it's appears you are a novice as per laptops issues.

Based allegations without proof what a lame excuses!!!

Whats tongue waging about this police officer wearing this short ,metcheew!!!

Hello,

With respect to diverse opinion, I will advice you diverse a mean quickly to pay back the vow your father made with the church, while he was alive, the vow is not with the church per say but with God Almighty this might look like child's play or comedy to some people but I definitely believe it's true, have heard stories just like yours from late dad about his late, Uncle many years ago, to butress my point God Almighty take vows seriously it's biblical if you search the scriptures I guess in the book of proverb this vow might be the only one thing resisting your dad in entering into his eternal home rest, in heaven take this issue seriously before it turns to an issue with worse consequences for you, the beating it's mild reminder the next one might be fatal my peice of advice God bless.

Kilokanmi:
He ordered the shooting of youths at Lekki toll gate.

Denied involvement only to be exposed by the military general Taiwo who refused to take the fall.

Now, with the next election around the corner; he realised he needs the youths.

Instructed his aides to cook up some fancy umbrella initiative in a bid to have influencers/youths within his reach.

There is nothing a photo op won't do in the media. Takes a few selfies for the gram to make us forget he is the wolf.

What a shame...

These generation's youths are its downfall. You drag your feet where there should be an alliance but would rather play puppet for a naira note.

Are we not insane, giving away gold only to be replaced with wood?

It's worthy to note that none of the true ENDSARS activists are involved in this charade. Jim Iyke and the likes have willfully decided to undo what several people died for.

Greed will ruin this nation if care is not taken.

May your days be long, may you live long to see your great grand children, you have spoken the plain truth, there's God oo in Patience Good luck Jonathan voice!!

Wow good news, all the best in boy! we watch for you in the next few years, I wish i could advised the family once after the boy get to adult age, they should advised him to leave asernal if they really care about his future, example is Alex Iwobi, to afford wasted years of labour and effort as a player with a team that's present calibre of Executives and board members only primary concerns is to make money by selling their players to other clubs order than giving it's players a fulfilled life achievement at the club.

CandyOps:


If you no like the show just say so. Nobody will flog u which one be say na Runs Girl show again? Besides, 10 million naira reach for me to sell my wife seff e come be 90 million.

"C'mon, stop playing with me man!" in Micheals voice

Excuse me are you or your wife not much more worth than 90, 000000, 000.00 million naira, agreed watching the show it's a matter choice what about self worth, values, good home training, morals should everything be about money, who told you can hit that 90m without lifting a finger without God cannot do, does not exist, for one randy guy to finger my wife and smoosh her on national tv programme all in the name of winning millions should never happen one might leave to reget it later, even the children that the marriage produce will regret it later on.

Karma is truly a bitch, I recalled that there was a video that went viral, showing Dr Freez and Tonto Dikeh abusing his ex husband Churchill calling the guy a one minute man, as a man I felt that was a heavy blow below the belt if at all you want to abuse your ex husband you shouldn't, say things that as such shameful about the father of your child in an open public discussion on live video, for Tonto and Dr Freez it was laughter galore while the interview lasted, today Tonto has been embarrassed today to so much, that every social media blog have something shameful to say about just ended relationship in life let's be mindful about our actions and what we do cos table turns.

Jesus is Lord!! Apostle must see and hear of this, these your bobby Jami Lara je!! Kilo de!!

presidency:
Nigerian Government Condemns Coup D'etat in Guinea

Nigerian FG should leave whatever happens in Guinea alone we have enough issue that demands their attention, here in Nigeria, no job, high level of insecurities, inflation, hunger, crisis, poor economicnpolicies, police brutality harassment, intimidation, how long do we as nation go on like this.

richmond500:
Good evening NLders.
So I got this job a week ago, when I first went to the company, everyone was advising me to be careful because the workers aren't nice to each others, even the manager and the security was advising me lolz.

I wasn't interested in those advice because i can easily make friends and apologieing when i have done wrong is something i could do to soften someones heart, so i know i am good and got things under control, also there is something I wished to gain from the company, the pay isn't even friendly, though I dont have problem with it, my target was set already and I know what I am going for but the antagonistic relationship between the staffs is on a whole different level, somehow I have been able to make friends with almost all the staffs and has tried my best to bring the workers closer by advicing them and told them how much I like a friendly atmosphere, I found out they are not actually bad but they are very careful due to past experiences.

The manager on the other hand is a sadist and very rude, he gets angry when two staffs are having fun, laughing or being friendly, he feels when staffs are friendly, they will end up gossiping him so he rather not see them happy. He called me recently and asked me to tell him things about the staffs, I noticed he wanted me to gossip about them and know their every moves, but that isn't what I will want to do, therefore whatever he asked him, I just tell him "I have no idea". Knowing that he couldn't use me as double agent, his hatred for me just grow to a level I couldn't even accommodate, he shouts at me for no reason, I get really upset, and noticed he is actually the person that has set this hatred between the staffs, I wanted to give him a piece of my own uncultured mouth because there are things I couldn't take but he is actually around my fathers age and I dont wish to drop my father at home and insult another persons father, i have been here for just six days and i am already tired, I am waiting for month end, after my salary, I'll just resign.

If u were in my shoes, what will u do

I will do exactly what you proposed to do resign at the end of the month, but please before resigning endeavour to look elsewhere for another job, and until you get a better job elsewhere dont make the move..... why am i saying this? the struggle out there is real no one will hold your back if you are broke, no one will lend you common 2K to buy data, use your head ooo, be wise wisdom is profitable to direct life in naija is hard!! A bird in hand is better a thousand in the bush.

greymiles:
Igbos are way far ahead of yorubas from time

Igbo are away far ahead of Yorubas from time because of what?? different acient hairstyles??

You can do better than this �� habah!!

Stale News!! how come is Falana reacting to this now, too late.

Notryme80:


Your comparison (Mohammed Ali) is completely incoherent with the Messi scenario because we have the champions league where teams and players compete at a higher level aside their domestic leagues and as far as any non partisan thinker is concerned, Leo and Barcelona have had the opportunity to compete with top teams from various leagues at that level and we all know what the results used to be then. Don't forget that between 2008 and 2012, Pep Guardiola's Barcelona produced what can be called the best football in history winning a total of 14 trophies so when you argue about a subject matter, try to be rational by considering the main factors that are valid for such arguments rather than being sentimental.
The fact is that it wouldn't be a mistake to regard Messi as a god in football because that kid (Messi) is just amazingly good with football and I'm sure it's still football they play in those leagues you think he won't be able to compete in except they're playing maybe wood or stone in those leagues. In summary, if not for age factor, any right thinking person knows that Messi will always be Messi whether in La Liga, EPL, Bundesliga, Ligue 1 or Serie A.
Peace...

Am not in any way been sentimental, no doubt Messi was specially gifted unique, talented no doubt the best ever, but we all know that change is the only constant in life, and are such to be the best you have to evolved, thanks you mention Pep Gaurdiola would Pep lay claim to say he was arguably the best coach today If he was still celebrating past glory despite he's undeniable great feats and achievement in La Liga and Barcelona the answer is no? he left Barca moved to Bundesliga, and then moved to Premier Leagues the same with Jose Mourinoh, the same with Brazilian Ronaldo that moves from PSV Endioven to Inter Milan from Inter Milan to Real Mardrid, so me using Mohammed Ali in comparison with Messi is just to drive home my point that this great people were "God's" there were different, exceptional never seen in histroy kinds of people, once a life time greats to avoid uncessary arguement, I expect Messi to also evolved to another league, Messi don't need me or anyone else to proof hes' good but he does need to let the world know that he's best that was, and the best that will ever be, but not in one league abeg,it will debated by small minds if you agree with me, it can be petty and annoying when you have to explain to some peeps that Messi was a football God compared to CR7 who had to train so hard to resharpen and perfect his skills but some peeps will still tell you CR7 was better than Messi and guess what their base of fact is? there base of act is if Messi was that good he would have done it else where despite the fact they can see he was a far...far above CR7 in skills and talent, so in real world its now talent versus skill, and if you can't proof yourself over and over in every league that matters, some people will argue your worth, skill will challenged talent to say he's better this is my point.

jimmychang:



This is dumb ,stop comparing boxing to football .That is why there is champions League .Is there champions League in Boxing baba rest .

Yen yen yen meet different opponent...Make una dey reason abeg.He has six balon de or and you are still saying he has to leave his comfort zone to still prove himself.Una dey mad

It's obvious your reasoning and thinking aside football is shallow and logical thinking of reasoning is zero, am not in anyway comparing boxing to football, football and booking are sport but not the same, logical reasoning of thinking is to compare greatness to greatness, the point is you don't sit in your comfort zone and call yourself GOAT with all due respect to Messi, it also dump ass to say he earned six champion league, with many how many club?? He won't be.the first to earn six champion league and he won't be the last.

e author=Chloraseptic post=104462574]Most people would see this as a fear of succeeding outside his own accustomed territory which is Barcelona.

But I see this as loyally humbly humane gesture..

Long live the GOAT.

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You've said the obvious though am big fan of Lionel Messi you can't stay in your comfort zone and call yourself GOAT, to be greatest you got to proof your self at all levels, as it's mark my word Messi will regret ever staying back this far at Barcelona, CRonaldo has proof himself at all the major leagues to let the world know he's not a fluke and he's better off for it, while Messi had stayed back at Barcelona!!! it's a shame if you asked me, even great Mohammed Ali didn't lay claim to one opponent to be proof how great he was he fought many opponent some opponent he defeated with mind games even before the fight began.

I swear if i we're to be given key to the gate of heaven for a just 24HRS I will ensure no single Nigerian politicians make it to enter heaven they have no iota of shame and will do anything just to make them and families relevant. with this crop of politicians we seeing am sorry for this generation no hope for Nigerians absolutely no hope!!

ote author=MrOposter post=103147265]It's a bit lengthy pls bear with me

I met a lady through 2go in 2014. I asked her out online and she accepted, weeks later, we met one weekend and had sex on the first day! The sex wasn't great, I stopped half way and went to shower. The following day I snooped and discovered that she already have a boyfriend and the guy is in the same school with her. I dissolved everything between us and left for my lodge (I was schooling too but in another school but same state)

She didn't call to apologise and I also locked up. Fast forward 6 month later, she messaged me on Facebook that she was 7 months pregnant. I did my calculations and Instantly knew something was wrong somewhere. I denied being the father, she went on my friend list and dug up my my uncle's profile and chatted him about the pregnancy. My uncle messaged me

Calm me down and request I go see the baby with my parent. We went to her parent house, saw the baby immediately started investigating about dna test. I was humbled by the price of the dna test (200k as at then) because there is no way I was going to raise that kind of money while in school.

Long story short, my parent and I have been taking care of the baby ever since then, I finished school around 2017, travelled out of the country almost immediately after graduation and assumed responsibility on my own.

I came back late 2019, I requested we do a dna test upon my arrival. I went straight up to a known diagnostic center and made enquiries of the price and what to bring before the dna test will be done..

I was told to bring any official means of identification for myself, the birth certificate of the baby and the mother will also have a means of identification too and she will also be present to sign the consent form.

I told her about the requirements and ask her if she had any means of identification herself. She said No! I went back to the diagnostic centre and told them if there is any substitute, they said she can present her NIN slip. I told her immediately to get the NIN slip, days later she told me there were too much people on the queue and that she can't continue to waste her time endlessly. We went back and forth about the NIN slip till the whole of 2020 ended.

The beginning of this year I told her that I'll stop giving her money for the baby's upkeep if she can't provide the NIN slip. With as low as 2500 she can get hers from the local shops.

She called and called for me to send her money for the first 3 months of this year. I didn't budge. I kept to my words. No dna test, no money. School fees time came, she called, I was forced to go back to the diagnostic center this April and pleaded if there is a way we could do the dna test without requesting any form of identification from the mother of the child. They called the head office in lag and told me that we can do the test without the mum's mode of identification. I was elated and called her to bring the baby with her on the 5th of April (Easter Monday) to the my shop, then from there we will go to the diagnostic center. She said OK.

I waited for her to bring the child over, she didn't. She called me 3 days after saying that she went for a church program. I was furious. I told her to show bring the baby the following day (Thursday) she said she will come. Again she refuse to show up. She called 5 days later to tell me that she's sorry. I ended the call and told her that she isn't serious.

She rang me days ago to tell me that the baby is not feeling too well and that she want to see me, she urge me to pls send her something to take the baby to the hospital for treatment.

I'm in a dilemma, I don't know how to go about this. It's obvious that she is deliberately not allowing me to go for the dna test and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad either.

How do I lure her to go for the test? I don't want my daughter to have a bad perception about me that I wasn't there through her childhood (if eventually she turn out to be mine).

Help! [/quote]

Brotherly,

You've done well despite making a mistake you tried your best, to take responsibility, going forward some ladies are like leapers they can't milk a cow but can pour away the cow milk, please note this she's playing games, read between the lines and see the handwriting on the wall, you have nothing to be afraid of, it's obvious you are not the one who inpregnated her she's just looking for who to tie down with pregnancy bro be wise, she is using delay tactics, to collect money, and excuses from coming to take the test cos she knew the truth, from this moment don't send her a dime, remain resolute however let your uncle or families be involved give them the update of what's is happening, you not a charity organization how can someone who's a student says she doesn't have any ID in 2021, despite FG compulsory mandate for every Nigerian to register for BVN and NIN, she's a cheat and liar, bro wise up ooo, she's knows what she's doing please no DNA no money, be firm and no backing down, and let her know that if anything happens to her child she will have herself to blame, if fact get a lawyer and police affidavit to register this issue as she could later sue you to court for neglecting her and the baby take a smart wise move ahead of her she has advisers, probably her family or even friends don't trust this girl's she already hatched her next plan on how to deal with you let her know you much more smater and wiser than her.

In Baba Fela's voice Mathematician add am together Bubu arrangement what answer you go get e ooo.....Bubu arrangement!!

Sunday Igboho our Ancestor will help you and see you through your ordeals in the nahda of your enemies Amin Ase!!

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Igboho and his lawyers are not smart.. If he is repatriated to Nigeria, Buhari can't do anything to him than to put him in prison while his court case go on, within 6 months he would be granted bail and life goes on.

Should he decides to remain in Benin, FG would only pressurize Benin republic to enact their law about the fake documents Igboho used to obtain Benin Republic passport.. No way he won't spend 5 years in Benin prison.

Common sense shouldn't only be common in this case, it should always be available..

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https://igberetvnews.com/1396262/obaseki-revokes-ize-iyamus-right-occupancy-property-photo/

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Nancee4love:
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.

My Dear Sister,

Let me advice you since you want a honest candid advice, am happy you've started you will end well by God grace, it's obvious you a re decent babe, however please don't push things for now it's obvious the guy in question is also a good guy ideal for you to marry but I will advice you asked question, find a place you both can sit down and asked what are his plan since he's willing to settle down, does he do other side hussels to add up the 80K he makes a month, cos being the man there are lot of responsibility falls to he will shoulder if eventually you guys get married, please and please don't marry him out of pity we don't want to hear another super story, as said earlier if he does not have a means to do side hussels business to add up aside his monthly income asked him if it's possible you lend him 500K, just to see his enterprenual skills and ability to do side business aside his monthly income watch him and see if he can turn around the 500k to a profit of atleast 800K or one million. I know you can borrow him 1m but let try 500K first some guy can be funny.

Don't rush in having sex with him, but at same time don't starved him, tease him here and there and let it be conceptual" if you understand what I mean". Don't be too holy and don't be to canal body no be firewood.

You said you have peace of mind when you are with him that's a very good sign if you asked me don't be moved by money or material things, diamond is taken from a dirt underground. Location or area does not matter what matters is love, respect, understanding between you and this guy.

Don't disclosed your salary or financial status for now cos, money can be a tool of problems in relationship sometimes so let's keep money aside let's continue with the sacrifices and commitment when the time comes you will disclose, lastly asked question when exactly does he intend to settle down in 1 year or in 2years does the one or two years fit into your own plans to marry as well? On a final note asked him to define your relationship are you guys still friends or in a relationship if his answer is relationship trust me he will propsed to you in no time, make sure it's well defined right there going forward but if he's just friendship tell him you want to quit the friendship he will be worried why you want to quit the friendship let him realize you want the friendship taken to another level, in that way he will get the sign you want the relationship taken to another level without you looking like a desperado but please don't beg him to love you or see you as girlfriend if he's a serious guy he will fall for you and he will do the right thing on a final note pray for God's direction best of luck to you both.

uote author=YorubaKinging post=103535601]The end is near

Sunday igboho, though has good motives, took the wrong approach

You can't fight the Government

That said... The freedom of the great Yoruba nation is nigh

Which wrong approach did he took?? Are you aware of latest development in the North ISWAP and Boko Haram has formed and alligiance and now charging farmers and fishmen certain amount before they can do business to the extend that the ISWAP and Bokoram now has there oen Governor dishing out orders to as if there in a democratic dispensation, if we fold our hands in the Southwest that what would likely happens to us if drastic measure is not take.


Verily I say unto you. ... YORUBA nation will be achieved without any bloodshed

After then War.. war.. war..

But who will call upon the name of the Lord will be saved for salvation will come from Zion

Yoruba, the tribe of Judah [/quote]