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PhonesWhat Phone/phones Are You Currently Using In 2025 by Davidave(op): 2:50pm On Apr 12, 2025
I am still rocking my iPhone 13 pro max don't see any reason to upgrade until it breaks.
What phones are you all currently using and do you plan to upgrade this year ?
FamilyRe: My Wife Insisting That Her Pastor Must officiate our child naming ceremony. by Davidave(m): 11:07pm On Jul 18, 2024
This is not even my problem,my problem is I was vommiting this morning and I decided to go to pharmacy to buy pregnancy test kit.. then on my way going, I remembered I'm a man 🙄🙄
FamilyRe: My Daughter's Fingerprint Opens My Phone by Davidave(m): 3:57pm On Jun 27, 2024
She is a witch ooo 😏
FamilyRe: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Davidave(m): 4:07pm On Nov 06, 2023
This is not even my problem,my problem is I was vommiting this morning and I decided to go to pharmacy to buy pregnancy test kit.. then on my way going, I remembered I'm a man 🙄🙄
FamilyRe: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Davidave(m): 10:56am On Sep 07, 2023
It sounds like your wife had a latent or undiagnosed mental illness, and something in pregnancy, birth or motherhood caused it to manifest in a really dramatic way. This happens a lot.

There's no easy path out here. Therapy can help if you're committed. It can get better.
FamilyRe: Is Your Partner Entitled To Have Access To Your Phone? by Davidave(m): 3:59pm On Aug 14, 2023
Privacy is a normal and healthy part of relationships. If you don't trust your partner enough to afford them reasonable privacy, the battle is already lost.

I have nothing at all to hide from my fiancée, but I'd def think it was weird if she requested to go through my phone.
FamilyRe: Am I Doing The Right Thing Or I Will Regret It by Davidave(m): 6:26pm On Jul 04, 2023
Na responsibility go kill you. RIP in advance
FamilyRe: Why Do Married Couples Rush To Have Kids After Weddings In Nigeria by Davidave(m): 2:09pm On Jun 25, 2023
A poor man can become rich tomorrow. What I don't subscribe to is the very poor having more than 2 children.
FamilyRe: Why Are There Too Many Poor People Who Cannot Take Care Of Their Families? by Davidave(m): 6:13am On Jun 16, 2023
They had poor parents and poor grandparents and poor great-grandparents. They’re unable to break the cycle.
FashionRe: What's Your Opinion About Women With Multiple Piercings? Especially On... by Davidave(m): 2:26pm On Jun 14, 2023
It depends greatly on location and amount. Ears, nipples, tongues, belly button, and happy place piercings are fine. Anything on the face (nose, lip, eyebrow) is a turn off.

As for amount: More than one in any given area is too much.
PhonesRe: What Phone Are You Currently Using by Davidave(m):
Iphone 13 pro max
RomanceRe: Help!! My Fiance Always Makes Me Do Things In Bed That I Don't Enjoy. by Davidave(m): 8:35am On Jun 02, 2023
If your fiance can't respect your boundaries and is trying to force or manipulate you into doing something you dont want to do it's time to end the relationship. You may think you love him but someone that loves and respects you wouldn't treat you this way
FamilyRe: Help Needed!!! by Davidave(m): 8:32am On Jun 02, 2023
Time to break up. Dont waste her time if you are not on the same page as her.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me by Davidave(m): 1:34am On May 21, 2023
Love is amazing and heartbreaking.... And so many types of love. Of course, it hurts because that's how you know it meant something. And most of us could use a little bit more meaning in our lives.

Now...
What are the lessons?
What opportunities do you have now?
What possibilities are around the corner?

Grieve and gratitude and grow.
In my experience, this tends to sum up the life cycle.

With every heartbreak comes the opportunity for more resilience and for more prospective. You got this!
FamilyRe: Why I Don’t Want Marriage, Children – Female Lawyer, Ifunanya by Davidave(m): 1:19pm On May 20, 2023
The drugs she is on — is doing the talking now. When her real self reappears, the story will change.
RomanceRe: "I’ve Never Slept With Any Man For Money" – Curvy Actress Ashmusy (Photos) by Davidave(m): 9:37am On May 12, 2023
Keep up your good work
FamilyRe: Man Hospitalised After Beating From Wife by Davidave(m): 9:28am On May 12, 2023
Useless man.
FamilyRe: I Mistakenly Impregnated My Troublesome Baby Mama by Davidave(m): 9:27am On May 12, 2023
The pull-out method? What are you, a retard?
FamilyRe: Nigerian Couple Seeking Divorce Storm Court In Matching Outfit(pic) by Davidave(m): 3:02pm On May 10, 2023
This one na divorce Asoebe oh
FamilyRe: Is It Ideal To Ask One's Kid To Fight Back by Davidave(m): 2:58pm On May 10, 2023
My life changed for the better the day my dad told me, "You won't get in trouble at home for defending yourself. Hit 'em back if you have to. Just don't be the one to start it." I was about 9 years old.
FamilyRe: Hello Married People, How Do You respectfully Say No To Your Husband Politely, by Davidave(m): 11:59am On Apr 05, 2023
He doesn't take no for an answer and I don't understand why.

He doesn't respect you or care about what you want.
FamilyRe: What's The Best Punishment To Give Your Wife? by Davidave(m): 11:51am On Apr 05, 2023
Put my mouth on her vagina, and then blow in it till she explodes.
FamilyRe: What Is That Piece Of Advice That You Must Give Your Child? by Davidave(m): 7:25pm On Mar 19, 2023
Never attribute to malice that which can be explained by ignorance.

Never compare your success to someone else's achievements - that's like comparing your behind the scenes footage to someone else's highlight reel, you have no idea how hard they worked for that one moment. The only person you should honestly compare yourself to is the person you were yesterday.

Be as kind as you can be in all situations, but never mistake kindness for weakness. The mark of a truly good person is how well he treats those with less power.

Question the things your told not to with the most scrutiny. Credulity is not a virtue.

Do what you love but in all things you do, be as informed as you can, for your mind is the sharpest tool you have. There is too much wonder in the world to know only half of the mechanics of that which brings you joy.

Remember that those who have the most, have the most to give.

Measure twice, cut once.

With great power comes great responsibility.
FamilyRe: Divide ₦100,000 Between Your Parents. by Davidave(m): 11:10am On Mar 18, 2023
Dad 70k mum 30k. The 70k doesn't mean I love my dad more. the whole of the 70k is going to my family because my father don’t joke with his wife and children.
A responsible father is expected to be given more anytime because they end up spending it on the family.
FamilyRe: I Hide Bruises My Wife Gave Me. Man Opens Up About The Years Of Abuse... by Davidave(m): 11:54pm On Mar 13, 2023
She must be Goliath first daughter
FamilyRe: Agony Of A First Child by Davidave(m): 11:51pm On Mar 13, 2023
Older siblings should have zero obligations to look after younger siblings. Siblings are not your children, you didn’t make them, they are not your problem.
FamilyRe: Today Is My Traditional wedding by Davidave(m): 10:51pm On Feb 28, 2023
Congrats
FamilyRe: I Walked In On My Parents Having Sex, Now I Feel So Embarrassed. by Davidave(m): 8:44pm On Feb 21, 2023
I'm pretty sure that the last time my parents had sex was the night I was conceived.
FamilyRe: I Feel So Bad That My Wife Didn't Tell Me She Is Pregnant by Davidave(m): 7:00pm On Feb 21, 2023
You are way too nice to her(for her to boldly hide the pregnancy), she will never have respect for you

You care way too much about what she thinks and she takes advantage of that; too late to fix any of that.

Men like you are responsible for the emergence of "feminism"

You are supposed to be the head of your house-hold

You are the leader in your house, supposed to guide your wife!

Then there is also the possibility that she hates having sex with you (very plausible)

Take a deep breath and start living for yourself, I would not say to leave your wife or your family.

But give yourself time to think about your opinions

Right now from your description, You are not enjoying your marriage ,You are bogged down.

It's very common, You are not alone.
RomanceRe: Will You Marry A Lady That Dress Like This Both Public And Outside by Davidave(m): 2:52am On Feb 17, 2023
Never

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