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MaxInDHouse:
Laws given to the Israelites as the constitution of that nation back then it's not for Christians!

Murder, adultery or even covetousness is not for christians ba? Keeping one's mouth shut is wise in most occasions

NwaliE01:
Please na. It's too early to start the year like this.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Werey wan cash out. Why e no make the money directly? Why e dey teach people. How many of e family members e don teach?

Nairalander248:
Things always appear as lies until it happens to you. Can you explain the phenomenon?

If I tell you snail get 14,000 to 20,000 teeth you will still wan see am for eyes abi?

Shut up your diarrhoetic mouth there

vayewy:
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FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

Una wey advice OP dey waste una time. Person see all this rubbish from one woman wey no get shishi to her name and e still dey ask for advice if e go marry am! Wallahi una go advice am tire but e go still marry am. Wait for just 3 years after today, na regret story una go see for NL

DikSin:
Do you know "Fire Red?"
Ehhen, na the colour of the flag gangan be that! Ogbonge fire-red flag🔥

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The way u said the "Ehhen"

Dougad:
I laughed so hard reading this so tey chest don dey pain me.

But on a serious note,

I remember when I was 14, I overheard a woman advising a girl in her twenties to lay curses on the guy who just jilted her. Like she was very adamant on the girl swearing and how God would honor it cos she's in the right.

Four months later, this woman giving the advice who was barely 40 got sick and died on the hospital bed leaving two kids behind with no father. I no know wetin dey give people delusions say na dem get access to God pass or na there get authority to dey pronojnce foul words

U see life ba🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Aemmyjah:
Congratulations

Oh well then 👊👊

Aemmyjah:
One who does not regard his parent is not slow to disregard someone's parent
Exactly what you've done
Nothing will make me say anything against yours
I honor mine and honor others
Go and study the Bible amd learn hiw to honor your father

Me wey be bastard?🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

fineboynl:
I have been wondering why does my stew don't turn out well no matter how I tried the reason is that I use too much tomato paste due to due to tomoto cost during buhari administration.

This Xmas I just decide to use full tomotos and eliminates impurities like tomato paste. And the stew turns out great 👍. So it was clear the tomato paste products have been the curprit all those while.

The problem now is that how would one cook a pot full of stew with pure tomatoes on a normal day? now that a painter of tomatoes is above 5k.

If u are in the North, you can do this every time because it's cheap down here

Aemmyjah:
A fool is one who pokes nose at what does not concern him or speaks when nothing is directed to him
Quoting the book of wisdom to justify his foolishness

Looks like u were looking in the mirror when u typed this comment

Chieftroller:


The only cheap thing you will see in Nigeria today is rizzler, wey you use tie Igbo

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lusola15:
Gracefilled

Word

Dope

Aemmyjah:
Someone was asking a simple question to another person to draw him to a leading conclusion
Another person from nowhere mentions something like his father's village

The whole of Nairaland knows who is the fool if the fool does not know himself

Proverbs 20:3
It is honorable for a man to refrain from a dispute, But every fool will become embroiled in it

Aemmyjah:
Someone was asking a simple question to another person to draw him to a leading conclusion
Another person from nowhere mentions something like his father's village

The whole of Nairaland knows who is the fool if the fool does not know himself

Be like ur papa sense dey pain am for e head abi😏😏😏😏

Aemmyjah:
It's not hard to recognize a fool
They are quick to show foolishness even when you are not conversing with them or doing anything with them
They just come at you for no reason
That's why I said they think they are wise

Hm. The scriptures agree with u on this. It says at Proverbs 12;15-16:
The way of the fool is right in his own eyes, But the wise one accepts advice. A fool immediately shows his annoyance, But the shrewd man overlooks an insult.
Flaggerbasting right?

Dafresh:
Oga bible is confusing
Different pastors with different teaching on the same chapter

Unfortunately, it is not. If it were so, Jesus would not have always quoted the scriptures. 2 Timothy 3:16 is very clear as to the clarity of the scriptures. The reason u see different a d contradictory interpretations of the scriptures is explained in 1 Timothy 4:1-3, 1 Peter 2:1-2 is as a result of false prophets which the scriptures say that they have sneaked into the congregation and they twist the holy teachings. The only way to recognize them is by having a teachable heart. This because a teachable heart is never afraid to ask bold questions in an inquisitive (and not confrontational) way. That is why Jesus said "ask and u will receive; knock and it will be opened to u". Even Proverbs 2:3 encourages us to call out for wisdom and understanding.

Aemmyjah:
I won't answer a foolish question from one who lacks wisdom so he won't feel he's wise when there's no iota of wisdom

When a man chooses a pathway, he shouldn't complain that it is unpleasant just because another man follows him down that pathway. In other words, ment counters ment.

Dafresh:
My tradition forbid sleeping with someone wife.
All of us are of this world like it in not

I guess your tradition is convinced of the immorality involved in doing so. The Bible agrees with u on this same degree of abhorrent conduct. Don't u think the Bible also has other standards of behavior that shows wisdom in what it says? I think so.

Aemmyjah:
Who started Christianity
Who is the head of the Christian congregation?
Where was he from?

Methinks he was from your popsi 's village. What sayest thou on this thought?

[quote author=Expanse2020 post=127629125][/quote]Good question but u consider that Jesus isn't God, as clearly stated in the scriptures, u would see you asked a ln amazing question that highly placed religious leaders shy away from because of the shame of having misled their followers.

Dafresh:
You live in the world eat food in the world wear clothes made in the world do everything in the world and you have the guts to call people worldly beings. Yes even the foundation of the world is of Idol so all of us have participated on the worldly thing of this world, some of the things Christains use are invented by people who don't believe in Jesus or God, since they don't believe on what you believe why not stop using their products.I guess we can't do without those products.

Since we all have to accept everything done on this world, is it ok for ur wife to sleep with all your male friends, since adultery is barely frowned at these days? Is it ok for your kids to stay up all night watching movies anytime they decide? Humans are various degrees of life are all guided by codes or an acceptable standard of behavior.

Vinnie2000:
Jehovah Witness, GKS or Seven day Adventist Followers who are Civil servants
do NOT Refuse Christmas package from the Govt or their company during December every Year.

Who Dem dey deceive? 😏😕

I think it is for work that they have done. Or are u suggesting that they are ghost workers who still get paid for work they didn't do?

Fasindo:




Please read this

On the argument that Christmas is a Pagan feast

Another Christmas, and the recycled argument continues on how 25th December is a pagan feast, and how Christ was not born on the 25th.

Some things don’t go well with me, arguments like this that don’t make any logical sense.

Let us agree that Jesus was not born on the 25th, can you kindly suggest to us a new date? And since you know he was not born on the 25th, it therefore means you know or have an idea of the date he was born. Tell us then.

I heard this same argument for Sunday. They said Sunday is a day of worship of the pagan Sun-god and that the meaning of Sunday came from the Sun-god.

I remembered sharing a detailed teaching and telling those propagating that message the reason for Sunday, being that it was the first day of the week, and Christ rose that day and started appearing to his disciples every first day of the week as they gathered behind closed doors in prayers.

I think I should not have wasted my time in doing that, what I should have done would have been to simply remind them that the days of the week as we have them today were all adopted. They are all pagan.

Monday is named after the god of the moon. Thursday is for the Norse god known in Modern English as Thor. Friday is named after the Anglo-Saxon goddess Fríge. Saturday is named after the Roman god Saturn.

There is this impression from some of you that once anything has a pagan origin it is evil and it is impossible for it to be 'Christianized.'

Well, unfortunately, many things came from the pagans, including the papyrus that was used to write the bible in those days. The tradition of offering visitors kolanut in Igbo culture is largely pagan. Even Baptism as we know it today as the pouring of water or immersion in rivers did not start with Christians. Eating pork is pagan. New yam festival is pagan. Ojuju Calabar is pagan.

What some of you fail to see is that the Christian faith must be planted in a culture for it to take root. Even St Paul while preaching to the Areopagus in Act 17:16-34 had to use what the Athens have as an altar to the "unknown god", to plant the message of the living and known God into them.

Once the Christian faith is planted in any culture, it uproots the bad in it and retains the good. This is why once you mention "Sunday" we think about the day of worship in church and not sun-god. This is why 25th December may not be the day Christ was born in your calculation, but it has taken a Christian dimension pushing aside whatever it was known with before. This is why the cross, which was pagan, and seen as a symbol of shame, has now taken a total different meaning the moment Christ was crucified on it.

The pagan cross moved from shame to fame, from gory to glory (let me be looking for rhyme words like a motivational speaker since na watin una wan hear. Nobody should stress me biko.)

#PurestPurity

From Fr. Kelvin Ugwu

If Jesus was a Jew, don't see your error in stating that he was killed on a cross, when u know that paganism was far from the Jews? The Bible says he was hung on a stake which in classical Greek, means "stauross" as against "crausses" which is used for cross but what do we know? Knowledge has gone to the dogs.

Prigidypogodo:
shatap this is not mining skull and hunting heads inside brown roofs hoping to loot any available palliatives and trailers at sight.

God 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

YourGFsnatcher:
Back Americans are more outspoken about racial attacks... but I can't seem to find where it says they are smart or invested something useful to every race, that's if u ll remove complain sha...cos no one seems to use that tool better than them. I think most of them should be from that region

Are there also "Front" Americans?

garriAndsugar:
People do enjoy nairaland, so many important threads to gain knowledge from.

That was then

seoxpert:
A certain set of people who feel best aggrieved about being attacked on Nairaland and are more outspoken about it.

So the fact that they are more outspoken about it, doesn't tell your daft brains that they are far more educated or enlightened and believe such ethnic chauvinism shouldn't be found in the corridors of Nairaland?

chyzoo4u:
I think you should first of all ask what he's doing for them to find out if you have the skill.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Baba no send o