Agriculture › Re: See The Big Python Killed In My Farm Today by davillian(m): 12:44pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
obiekunie2: OGA THAT THING IS NOT PYTHONoo!!!
that snake is called pit viper!
ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS SNAKE IN THE WORLD! 
if that snake bit your leg na to cut the leg sharp or u r dead!
if nothing is done to counter the poison , 20 to 30 minutes you don dey on ur way to see Baba God!  Lmao its a Gaboon viper. Say thank you when you confirm |
Crime › Re: Kidnappers Kill Member For Fleeing With N5m, Buying Lexus (pics) by davillian(m): 12:36pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Person way buy that car Don enter problem for police hand... |
Family › Re: My Sisters-In-Law Are Causing Problems In My Marriage! What Do I Do? by davillian(m): 12:19pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Anifaza: Please pardon me for using a new moniker as I am quite known here.
Friends and family, I really need your sincere and matured input on this matter.
I have been married for over 10 years with 4 kids. My hubby is a great guy save for this area that we will never agree. I have sisters-in-law who have vowed never to give me peace despite all my efforts to give peace a chance. Most of them are all older than him and sort of influences his decision that affects my marriage greatly.
From the beginning, it has been if I am in their good books, my marriage will work and I will be happy, then if not, reverse will be the case.
My husband has refused to see all their manipulations and always tell me that he grew up with them and so he is indebted to them. I have never tried to cause a separation between them but they usually see me as an intruder to their unity.
For these 10 years plus, it has always been the issue, I have begged, used gifts, apologised ,sought for forgiveness from them for sins I have not committed just for peace to reign yet, the next problem will be bigger than the previous.
Some are married while some are not. The worst that affect me most is the married ones with children.
Now, they all don't talk to me and this is affecting my marriage. Hubby gives me cold shoulders, no sex asking me to mend the relationship with his sisters of which I am fed up with the whole thing and I don't want to beg again.
My mind is made up that everyone should stay on their own. Hubby is the only male, seems to be the only one doing well and parents are no more Please what do I do?
Mods front page please for more inputs.
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Thanks for your input. I truly appreciate. It all started in my ist year of marriage when I had my baby and still in school. My mum came to look after baby and few months later, I took in again of which I left baby with mum while I continued schooling.
They accused my hubby of allowing my mother to be the only one taking care of baby and not them. That in their tradition, mothers of wife have no say and influence in family affairs. This was a major issue and still is. While in my culture, nothing of such as we see nothing wrong here. They disrespect my mother till date because of this. I have caught one twice giving my mother bad eye.
2ndly, a distant relative came with high risk pregnancy with fibroid and I asked she comes to seek medical help and go back, when she came, it was war in my house that it is forbidden in their culture for a pregnant woman to come to another man's house which she's not pregnant for. She later left but loads of issues after this.
My in-laws come anytime even with their children .Every other week and weekend is in my house. My husband will not take us out unless they are around.
Hubby's lil sis but older than me lived with me for 5 years and that's where the whole wahala persisted with her giving information. I began to see their collaboration through her and frustrated me to the very letter.
We had a fight and hubby asked her to leave. They all ganged up not to talk to me or hubby again which hubby is feeling alienated. Hubby said his position is threatened in his family and I am the cause. I took care of his older sister who had complication in her surgery for 6 months in my house, non of them came to visit her in my house nor call me. Rather , She got well and told others that I didn't give her food that was why when one called her and she said she was in a restaurant to eat. Hubby and I had issue on this.
I am so fed up . I work and I contribute significantly in the family. They see me as the one who eats their brother's money alone. Hubby takes great financial care of them. I am just tired. If you have ignore button use it.. Anytime they are around let your happiness show. |
Romance › Re: This Is Where I Totally Gave Up On Loving Women by davillian(m): 9:08am On Dec 20, 2019 |
don't try to impress Women with money Don't show her a penny You will know if she really likes you or not... Most of them will leave when they make demands and you don't give them a penny for 3months. |
Education › Re: ABU Didn't Admit Goodness Thomas Into MBBS Cos In Niger Alone She Ranked No. 7 by davillian(m): 8:54am On Dec 20, 2019 |
I didn't know the school Admits students like NDA |
Properties › Re: Our Tenant Refuses To Vacate Our Apartment After About 10 Months Quit Notice! by davillian(m): 8:38am On Dec 20, 2019 |
WAECMATHEMATICS: Thanks for your advice.
Hope it'll not drag for months before he's ejected by the court's Sherrifs.
For the traditional means, can you shed more light on it?  Lmao... Just act fetish he go run... Pour red oil first for front of his door Buy snail shell tie red cloth Or do small coffin buy red candle and white candle All this na empty threat o... |
Romance › Re: I Think I'm A Lesbian. I'm Attracted To Only Girls by davillian(m): 8:25am On Dec 20, 2019 |
You will say this someday "I've been a fool for being a lesbian" A girl actually said this to me when the banging hit her brain. |
Celebrities › Re: Zlatan Ibile Buys A New Range Rover Worth ₦80 Million For His Birthday by davillian(m): 7:01am On Dec 20, 2019 |
ArcFresky: I hope these guys dey invest... Make dem no do OJB for Nigerians later... Nobody will answer you oohh.. I have one as a blood brother He still pays rent till now... If u advice them to invest they run a way from you.. The only thing he knows how to do is cars,travels, party, women, hotels and clubbing nothing more.. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Picks Up Mohammed Adoke On Arrival From Dubai by davillian(m): 11:41pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
xpmode: Actually, they don't maltreat high profile criminals. Remember Evans and that serial killer of women, Dasuki, Zackzagi all of them have chilling cellpartment Its not suppose to be that way... They all should be treated the same way Crime is crime And a criminal is a criminal No preferential treatments They even deserve the worst treatments |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Joey Saladino Donates His Testicle To Protest Trump’s Impeachment by davillian(m): 7:31pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
The ones that said we should stone them if they fail They better come to eagle square for stoning. |
Business › Re: Bet9ja Refused To Pay 15 Million Won With Bonus All Evidence Available by davillian(m): 6:36pm On Dec 19, 2019*. Modified: 6:51pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
The Welcome Bonus amount remains non-withdrawable until the Welcome Bonus has been wagered a minimum of 10 times on any sports market with odds 3.00 or greater. Example: You deposit N1000, play it and get N1000 Bonus. You will have to play a total of N10,000 with overall odds of 3.00 or higher before it can be withdrawn. In the event of any breach of these terms and conditions, Bet9ja reserves the right to take such applicable action as it deems appropriate in its absolute discretion. Such possible action includes the right to levy an administration charge on the Customer(s) of up to the value of the bonus. The question is how much is the total bonus bet 9 gave him... Let's assume he loaded the account with 1k Then he needs to play a minimum of 3 odds or more with 10k Contact me if you dont understand this. They dont want him to get the money thats why they dont want to tell him |
Politics › Re: EFCC Picks Up Mohammed Adoke On Arrival From Dubai by davillian(m): 6:11pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Beans for Xmas won't be a bad idea in kuje prison... But why do they give these criminals VIP treatment in jail. They should keep them with other criminals so they can be receiving beatings and their ass drilled without lub |
Politics › Re: Has Tinubu Learnt His Lessons? Check What His Newspaper Said by davillian(m): 4:17pm On Dec 19, 2019 |
Nothing is happening The final blow is coming in 2023... |
Politics › Re: Lagos Council Suspends NUTRW, RTEAN Activities Over Gang War by davillian(m): 2:27am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Everybody is reacting Even illiterate |
Romance › Re: Chinese Man 'Long Ting' Marries Nigerian Girl In Anambra by davillian(m): 6:39am On Dec 18, 2019 |
armyofone: Continue to overestimate penis in good marriage and underestimate the power of money.... Penis that rich married women can do anything to get... |
Politics › Re: Samson Ogunfadebo Arraigned In Lagos For Defrauding Business Man by davillian(m): 5:46am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Na Them... |
Romance › Re: Chinese Man 'Long Ting' Marries Nigerian Girl In Anambra by davillian(m): 5:36am On Dec 18, 2019 |
armyofone: Love isn't all about penise*s! De there Never underestimate the power of a good penis in marriage... |
Christianity Etc › Re: Slay Queen Gives Life To Christ, Burns Her Make-Ups, Wigs & Trousers (Photos) by davillian(m): 12:19am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Kalixx: Guy abeg how you go find out? Shey e go wide ni i? Mehn, but p*ssies are very similar regardless of their mileage na I no wan talk But 18 to 24 If the pussy bings water instead of oil The pussy has skata.. I had 2 good pussy this 2019 the rest were trash |
Romance › Re: Chinese Man 'Long Ting' Marries Nigerian Girl In Anambra by davillian(m): 12:17am On Dec 18, 2019 |
These ones that their penis is 1and half inc Even their girls prefer a Nigerian rod.. Good luck dont cheat on him o |
Family › Re: What Wife Friendly Occupation Would You Suggest? by davillian(m): 12:14am On Dec 18, 2019 |
House girl  |
Christianity Etc › Re: Slay Queen Gives Life To Christ, Burns Her Make-Ups, Wigs & Trousers (Photos) by davillian(m): 12:13am On Dec 18, 2019 |
Kalixx: Lol, na that one need burning pass. Unfortunately an unsuspecting ni66er will get hooked on that all in d name of marriage.
Outside life. Me once I enter pussy way don run marathon I go know |
Politics › Re: House Of Reps Rejects Bill Proposing 6 Years Per Term For President, Governors by davillian(m): 5:01pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Chai na them Selfish interest |
Christianity Etc › Re: Slay Queen Gives Life To Christ, Burns Her Make-Ups, Wigs & Trousers (Photos) by davillian(m): 4:53pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
And her pussy Why didn't she burn it too |
Sports › Re: Retired Teacher Scammed Of Ten Million Naira By A Betting Agent In Delta by davillian(m): 4:45pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Na u sabi was even thinking he don win already. Next please. |
Politics › Re: We Must Tax The Rich Mercilessly – Aregbesola by davillian(m): 4:07pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
The gap between the rich and the poor is too much. The higher you earn the higher the tax And the lower you earn the lower your tax.... But the rich people will fight this with their last blood. |
Politics › Re: We Must Tax The Rich Mercilessly – Aregbesola by davillian(m): 4:03pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Michael Iloduba: EFCC Celebrates Corporate Bottle Water Seller In Suit by davillian(m): 3:31pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Suffer |
Sports › Re: Bassey /Joshua: The 1st And Current World Boxing Champions Both Nigerian-British by davillian(m): 12:06pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
A lot of Nigerians would excel in what ever profession they choose When there is an enabling environment. Our footballers Our doctors Boxers etc They do well when they are out of the country. |
Romance › Re: Am I Making A Mistake? by davillian(m): 12:03pm On Dec 17, 2019 |
Marry him and he will kill you  |
Crime › Re: One Killed In Calabar Cult War (Graphic Photos) by davillian(m): 11:45pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
I love the way his blood was spilled err were Great sight Stupid cult murder fucker |
Crime › Re: Bernadette, Gildas Tohouo's Wife Murder Update: Why We Killed Her - Suspect by davillian(m): 11:32pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
HBB1: And the people that were nice and still got killed nko? Badluck |
Crime › Re: Bernadette, Gildas Tohouo's Wife Murder Update: Why We Killed Her - Suspect by davillian(m): 11:32pm On Dec 14, 2019 |
HBB1: It does not mean they still can't kill you!
Was Jesus mean to Judas? How many Judas did Jesus had!? |