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Lesson: Do not drink and if you must-Drink responsibly

TossTos:
When he knows our votes do not count to remove them .

Exactly my thoughts

Chris2863:
You seem pained

I guess you are not a Catholic... You would have understood my comment better. Smile

No big deal about it provided the chat is platonic in nature

Some things are not worth contention nor dragging

urchcoded:
Pls guys, I need a list of PPAs I can choose to serve in Lagos around Ajah. I'm a member of the technical crew in the OBS in camp and we have been given a privilege to choose where we would like to serve. I have an accommodation in Ajah but I don't know anywhere I could possibly serve, I need recommendations
PS: Even if they don't pay much, I'm ok as far as the place is near to Ajah. Pls I need this urgently, before the end of today. Thanks nairalanders

Try Chrisland Schools (VGC or Lekki branch)

urchcoded:
Pls guys, I need a list of PPAs I can choose to serve in Lagos around Ajah. I'm a member of the technical crew in the OBS in camp and we have been given a privilege to choose where we would like to serve. I have an accommodation in Ajah but I don't know anywhere I could possibly serve, I need recommendations
PS: Even if they don't pay much, I'm ok as far as the place is near to Ajah. Pls I need this urgently, before the end of today. Thanks nairalanders

Try Chrisland school (VGC Branch)

Hothar999:
My people,
The search for a good ISP in Nigeria has been so frustrating I wonder if I should boycott it but no, it's a necessity T_T.

Please anyone know a good one to use in Ajah/Sangotedo area?

I've already considered and tossed:

1. Tizeti ( a lot of complaints)
2. Spectranet( complaints of poor network, poor customer service, etc)
3. NGCOM(rude customer service with just sales enquiry, I don't want OYO after buying).

Any one else dey?

Have you tried Smile network... I also reside within Thomas Estate and Smile network seems good enough around here.

Money and position sway people easily if they have no principles e.g FFK, Keyamo, Desmond Elliot etc

Pastor Prince

If only he knew what the future had in stall for him... He has really done well for himself

Focus on her job not her hips

chegzyshade:
Good day all
Anybody willing to sell LG bodyguard home theater (1000wt edition) should reach me on 08026027270 call or WhatsApp.

Device must be from genuine source, not stolen or looted. Evidence of ownership(receipt) must be attached

Pls Bro, don't buy any fairly used things this period... I have seen some seemingly innocent picked up this period cos of such. So many stolen stuffs out there this time due to the looting that happened in Nigeria

What a mad father!!!

osamz007:
SOMETHING I DIDN'T DO WHILE PLAYING BALL IN OUR HIGHLY PROVOCATIVE COMMUNITY SCHOOL FIELD.


MAYBE THAT'S HOW THEY WANT TO WIN CHAMPIONS LEAGUE

Lol

Oh! This act of stupidity is not limited to Africans

Well, I wish the guys all the best behind bars

Title: The gods are dead

Nigerian economy barely obeys the laws of economics... It is a benefit to Nigerian banks.

Nice parish building

Dude has done well for his career

Lovely piece of art... Love it@

If you are in Lagos... visit ladipo market

lagosdeals:
Are you looking to get a new Microfinance bank license or aquire an existing one?

My team and I are willing to work with you on meeting with the necessary requirement with CBN.

We also help sell MFB license, Assets and Liabilities.

Reach out on emporiumlogistics@gmail.com

We have a state licence for sale in Ibadan... Are you interested in the deal?

While engage in illicit relationship with a married woman in the first place?

I pray he is found in Jesus name... Amen!

Not yet categorized by scientists

some50686:
Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.

The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.

Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.

To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her

Visit a marriahe counsellor, your pastor or report her to her parents (If you paid her bride price).
This is nothing to be ashamed of cos divorce is more shameful

Wow! It's pretty cool how it all played out... Nice

Glad he is fine cos we await his match against Joshua unscathed

Well... the waist trainer did the right job