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jidegirl12: ^^^ very true Baby , most men get ( cant speak for Dayo tho , he seemed too wise ) carried away and blown away with the koko until the lady moves in hence OP's rants.... I had long term courtship so I cooked wella with help of his househelp He always opt for take outs tho ,

I mean common he didn't expect me to bring my A game completely during courtship, that's what makes marriage special

FBS: Sometimes I wonder if it is possible to have an argument on here without throwing missles at each other? We (including myself) are all guilty of this.

oga A-40, I must have missed your earlier reply. Tell us why Pep left Barca? cos he was tired, bored or got beat by Mou in that season? Else why would a young coach go on sabatical?

AjanleKoko: Walahi
Plus one. You can have passion for anything, once you don't have any need for money.
Passion doesn't pay bills

coogar: what has being unmarried gotta do with raising kids the right way? america must be the only country where blacks have kids out of wedlock - come to the UK and see enough black kids born out of wedlock and guess what? the prisons here have more whites than blacks

and it did not occur to you majority of these men got locked up after knocking their women up? it did not occur to you these men were not given the chance to nurture their children in their formative years?

shame on you with this backward reasoning.....

coogar: you are so thick-skulled!
the reason there are so many black kids without a father figure is because the fathers are in jail. they got a custodial sentence in the crimes the people of the other races would get a fine or few months in prison.

gbosaa: I thought he said it wasnt about the pay,i think he should follow his heart..Not everyone is cut out for doctors job..I know a guy who got distinction in physiology and biochemistry in his 2nd MBBS exam,started clinicals but stopped after smelling dettols and izals and seeing lots of sick people in the clinics.He just decided medicine wasnt for him.
He switched over to physics and started from 2nd year.

coogar: it has plenty to do with race
follow this illustration - if 30 white guys and 10 black men commit the same offence, 8 of the black men would go to prison and only 4 of the white men would end up behind bars.

black men are disproportionately represented in prisons. they make up less than 20% of the entire USA population but they make up 60% of the prison population - can you not see there's a bias in the sentences passed between the two races?

coogar: but these people also get incarcerated....
do you not read the news? 1 in 3 black men is expected to spend some time in prison at least once in their lifetime.

the question begs - where are the parents of these angry black teenagers? they are all locked up in various correctional facilities.

supaeagles: Again, it is not about race.....if you do not want to do the time do not commit the crime. Wake up and smell the roses my friend. People are not incarcerated because of the "colour of their skin"...... where did you read/hear this?

R2bees: boast?.. But you were here before bayern won those things.

debosky: There's nothing more to be said in this regard beyond this - only dimwits see a statement regarding Arsenal's best player and respond by talking about the most productive player. It shows a clear inability to understand simple posts and engage in a coherent discussion.

With that I draw a line under this pathetic display by so called Munchen fans who prefer to spend more time on other clubs' threads than theirs.

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Pataki: Dayo please relate to the story posed here. You are drawing irrelevant analogies to buttress your sentimental views.

For three years, this wife tolerated a sister-in-law in her own matrimonial home. Three years is sheer madness for a woman to have tolerated such. Even a Masters study in the UK will not last for three years. What is your point sef?!

Pataki: I think it is wrong for newly married couples to be hosting family relatives in their house for a long period of time. It is maritally unhealthy and goes a long way in making couples not having the perfect bond and true understanding to themselves fully.

Its best but circumstances make exceptions to certain rules.

You newly married and your Brother In law got a visa to your city where he knows no one, Would you kick him out in the snow because Couples need their space?

baby_123: A lot of people have been raised by plenty househelps doing everything for them. You would be terribly shocked how some girls can only boil water. I dont agree with cohabitation, but staying over some weekends may be fine.

confusion247: Buhari wanted federal government to pay boko haram for killing innocent Nigerians

coogar: what about her personal hygiene? a lazy woman would be extremely untidy.

coogar: the op is just fibbing!
there's no way a wife would be useless in domestic chores. it's the basic standard you would expect from any woman from age 12. if she was useless like the op is painting her then how did he miss these lazy attributes in their courtship? it seems op is looking for cheap excuses to cheat.......

Pataki: Exception to certain rules you say? This then implies for her to stay with her married brother for three years? No form of privacy for the couple. Even the wife has so much patience to tolerate such madness for a long while.

If my brother in.law moves in to my city, he has to get his own place asap. That is what a responsible man should ensure.

Zik like many African rulers had a major character and integrity problem. At the root was his self-concept or self definition(the way one sees oneself). He saw himself in his own words as a "Beautiful Bride" for the highest bidder as well as indispensable. The former executive president of Nigeria, Alhaji Shehu Shagari, a mild mannered man captured it well when he told Zik during the 1979 election campaign: "when you switch husbands one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight times, you are no longer a beautiful bride but a harlot." Zik was a weather vane-go where the favorable wind blows

dipo+:
Three trophies and Donkeykanu still prefers to spend his time on the Arsenal thread. We rock[b]s[/b]!!!