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nateevs: So Pep joins Bayern. Congrats to him. I wasn't totally convinced he will join Chelsea anyway.
It's nice to know that even in the face of very tempting salaries that he must have been offered by Roman and City, he chose what was best for him.

[size=14pt]You should know Bayern run Europe like drunks run streetlights[/size] We be dem baba

jidegirl12: And how's that different? Oh I forgot Va gina and p enis .... sorry

Exactly thats why even in Sport they dont pair women to compete with men. Pawa pass Pawa

sweetcocoa: Before you type your next reply, do well to remember we are all human, think how it feels when you really feel hurt especially by someone whom you loved or love.

Now I'm not saying its okay to wish someone bad, I'm just saying try to understand how the OP feels, as for your question, you shouldn't be sad and wish them evil but you need to realize that the OP is still hurting, she's yet to let go and forgive.

I've been heartbroken before and I know how it feels so I understand.

That means its everything to do with the OP the girl and nothing to do with the Ex. You cant say your ex shouldnt be happy again in his life just because it didnt work out between you two and OP was the one who broke up with him

stillwater: That is why you cannot be my boyfriend.
Men can be so blinnnnnd honestly. You think women would readily hang around you if they don't still think you're a potential mate? If they had anything going for them I doubt they would pay you this much attention.

You mean whenevr you ex says hello to you its because she wants to be back? Or you only talk to potential mates?

This one you are talking to me that must mean God don butter my bread

So its wrong to be on talking terms with ones ex?

This person I am talking about is already married o. Married 2011 December

Ujujoan: Envy is only a human feeling . . you'll be a hypocrite you claim you've NEVER felt it!
What's not cool is when it turns into dangerous jealousy . . .
All this poster needs is time to move on and let go. These things don't happen overnight!

When it's come to being sad cos someone is happy and being congratulated then it's dangerous.

Guy is getting married she is bitter. What should the guy do to please her shey make he kuku die to make her fullfilled

sweetcocoa: Like seriously?

Claimed abuse? Hmm I don't even know what to type right now but believe it or not, if you see where a woman is being abused, you won't call it claimed.

Many jilted lovers come up with claims that are sometimes exaggerated Thats a well known fact.

[quote author=baby_123]No, i didnt. Some things are better left as hearsay or after the fact. He reached out to me. I wouldnt have had the mind to even reach out to him.[/quote]Assuming he lives on the same street as you nko?

sweetcocoa: OP relax it is well, like most people have said, you should be glad you are not the one he's marrying, your own man will come.

@Dayo, its obvious you don't know what a bitter break up looks like.

A bitter breakup cant be worse than what I described below.

"So assuming there was an EX, who stole my money, beat up my family and sent me to jail and whatever evil happened

When I see her getting married and she is happy the next thing for me is to be sad and wish evil on them? or go there and scatter the place or splash acid on her and her groom?"

You mean I would now wish them evil for life and be sad they are doing well? If I cant even wish him well the worst is to be nonchallant but not to be sad that they are doing well.

There are some people who have done everyone in life bad at some point in time, Sweetcocoa Im sure some people too would claim you have done them bad one way or the other So should they wish you evil for life?

[quote author=baby_123]No, really. I have an ex i mistreated (secondary school) out of childishness and i guess its a good thing i have a conscience. I avoided the guy till he reached out to me. I still avoid and watch him guiltily. I feel bad about my behavior. I wouldnt have done what the ex did. I assume she trying to be the bigger one may have accepted to take that call. Its obvious she was crazy about him, and he knows it. You know why? Its obvious she has not moved on after all that time. [/quote]Assuming you live close to him and you are getting married the whole area is agog with activities You mean you wont even call him out of courtesy to inform him

Ujujoan: Did you repetadly beat them and humiliate them by chasing them our in the middle of the house NAK3D I think not!

Obviously, poster and her ex are NOT friends. I bet him calling her to tell her about the wedding was the first time he called her since their break up.

It's obvious what his intention was!

Thinking of trying to hurt an ex with your upcoming wedding can only mean one thing . . .

So assuming there was an EX, who stole my money, beat up my family and sent me to jail and whatever evil happened

When I see her getting married and she is happy the next thing for me is to be sad and wish evil on them? or go there and scatter the place or splash acid on her and her groom?

This kain OP if her ex becomes rich and has kids she can even waylay the children and kidnap them just to get even with the guy

What happened to MOVEON.org ??

joangirl: My ex boy friend who was very wicked to me,beat me,insulted me at every given instance and even threw me out Unclad at the middle of the night is getting married this saturday and everybody is congratulating him and wishing him the best.I feel so so angry right now. I dont want him back cos I called it off when it got to a point I couldn't bear it any longer.I just feel bitter that a man who was wicked to me is happy smiling(saw the engagement pics on fb)and everybody is congratulating him.I think this is the most traumatic experience of my life cos I can't sleep,have been so irritated since he personally called me to invite me for the wedding.he lives close to the house so[b] [size=14pt]everybody would know about the wedding very soon.and me I can't boast of a boyfriend[/size][/b].feeling so bad,father lord pls c me thru

Why would anyone be sad that someone else is getting married that they are happy and everyone is wishing them well

I ask if this girl has supernatural powers what would she have done to the guy.

She claims she was the one who dumped the guy so what else do you want, You dump someone and you are sad to see him happy. Ok carry gun and kill him You dumped him and you still want him to be dejected for life and come begging you everyday? Get real jare

All those beat me, insulted me throw me out might be true but those might just be normal sentiments women use. e.g "After all I have suffered with him he did this to me", or mens "After all I have spent on her she did this"

The bottom line is the guy looks happy and the girl is sad because she wants the guy to suffer for leaving her

Lawyer do you know if the place floods

I dont know much about place on the Island

[quote author=baby_123]Dayo not someone you hurt this bad. If i hurt any of my ex's i wouldnt even have the conscience to even call them and keep in touch. That shows he is still an as*shole. If you have messed up, its respectable to keep your distance and let buried things remain buried, except that ex reaches out to you. Not rubbing the fact that someone could actually endure and marry someone that despicable when she couldnt. Especially someone you know cared about you THIS much.[/quote]I think its childish to habour hatred over a broken relationship.

Baby I cant live with A, B and C Lets go our separate ways, Whats the fight there? And whats the point in keeping malice and wishing each other bad

So if the OP had supernatural powers she would have made the guy unable to marry, Barren, poor, lonely just because a relationship didnt work

Na wa for some women sha. You marry them wahala you dont wahala

When would it be time to make bygones bygone? "Ti a ba ja bi ka ku ko "

jidegirl12: Jacqueline beat the heck out off Caroline Manzo (SIL) after poking her nose where it didn't belong .......Caroline is over 20years older and mother figure for Chris ..... Na today?

Woman beat woman Banbashi two fighting Case closed

Let any woman try beat up a 12yr old girl till she bleeds and see if anyone would be interested in what she said to provoke you

Infact there was an ex that I helped read over her essay to apply for Pharmacy school. And whenever I am getting married I would surely let her know

stillwater: Lmao!!! The circumstances they broke up is not 'friendly'. In fact this lady dumped him. The man's ego is bruised. This is not civility, this is gloating. Dayo you are a man, don't pretend not to know what this man is doing. Men do this all the time. More than likely civility flies out of the window, when emotions are involved.
I would be highly disrespected finding out my fiance contacted his ex prior to our wedding. He had months or years to sever all ties with all ex-convicts before even dating me.

In every broken relationship someone would dump the other so its no big deal. Would it have been better if it was the GUY who dumped her?

You mean once a couple break up they should remain enemies for life or why would you be disappointed your fiancee contatcted his ex before your wedding?

It depends on what their contact was about. If its to fuuuck then its bad but just a "hey Nneka I am getting married by monthend" Whats wrong with the "Congrats Obinna, have a wonderful marriage"

I have exes and Theres none I'm fighting with. Those that I still have their contact we talk like 4 times a yr and we still talk about whats going on in each others life

Anyone who thinks Michael Jordan, Johnny Depp, Bernie Ecclestone, Rupert Murdoch, Mel Gibson, Harrison Ford, Steven Spielberg, Tiger Woods, Madonna, James Cameron, Paul McCartney, Kevin Costner, Kenny Rogers, Lionel Richie, Donald Trump, Michael Douglas, Mick Jagger,

Paid their EX willingly and not compelled by law must have a thinking defect

So police gave me a fine of $100 and I paid it you think its because I want to donate money to the community?

biolabee: DAYO DAYO DAYO

bros for some women it is not enough
My best friends wife nearly lost her life trying to combine work with preg
Another had two miscarriages in my former place of work (im sure u know d person)

This topic is too dear to ur heart.it does not mean there is no middle ground

Do you also know women who lost 13yrs out of 15yrs getting pregnant and raising a family

If he is doing anything wrong or untowards I doubt he would want someone to be taking pic and putting on Instagram

Like many here have confessed, they have shared beds with their dads.

Its this new world that has issues.

When I was growing in naija 3-4 boys would sleep on the same bed and no one would think anything of it. In University almost 70% of boys in Hostel sleep 69 position with their bunkmates

Nowdays you cant even share a room with a brother or friend without suspicious looks.

I had a niece that early in the morning like 4-5am she would sneak into her dads bed she did this till she was a teenager and nothing happened to her

Retardeen went for excursion at Police College come mean wetin?

He would go there, Make fancy statements about how deplorable the situation is and accuse previous leaders of neglect

3 days later he would set up a committee to look into the decay

After 2yrs they submit the report , He now sets up another committee to verify the submission of the previous commitee

they would allocate billions for the renovation, The contractor would carry 2 lorry of sand and the newspaper would celebrate as fresh air.

2 more yrs nothing would have been done.

They would now document the findings and pass it to the next regime for execution

stillwater: ^^^Contact your ex before your wedding? That is highly suspect.

I think its civil to tell your ex before you get married

You guys are friends and she shouldnt be knowing from an outside source

So she can knw any hopes of a comeback are finally over.

Well said debrief

Maybe OP is sad because the guy moved on before her, that the guy is happy or that she is still single while the guy is getting married

AJJ: What‘s with the ‘but‘?
Which of the questions is legitimate ?

Question: How to make his wife slim down without she feeling somehow

The wife was wrong to have insulted the sister

The sister was wrong to have come to the house to challenge

But the husband was the worst for BEATING someone. Beating is wrong but beating someone weaker than you to the point of BLEEDING is worse.

If I decide to beat coogar even though he is a man of equal strength its wrong but beating someone weaker than me maybe by virtue of age(younger) sex(Female), physical condition (Disabled), social status(Poorer) etc is OUTRAGEOUS To the point of bleeding is even criminal

Take all 3 to a court of Law and the man would be the worst hit

Metalgoong:
This is one of those moments when feminists suffer momentary dementia . .
Now, they all are happy because their sister in law was beaten to pulp. . .
ooh, the woman beater is now a hero ( he is no longer an animal, but a REAL man) . . He did the right thing by defending his wife!
Hypocrites! . . tomorrow same group of women will be using some selected bible passages to deceive the gullible ones!

You sef dey see am? A man is allowed to beat a woman if he is defending another woman.

Thats one thing about people Its only bad when you are the victim

debosky: I am revealing the hypocrisy of the Torres bashers - these 2face wannabes will accuse Torres of scoring 'useless' goals but praise Walcott when he does the same.

Which goals did Walcott score that was useless?

I know youre an illiterate so I would help you

[quote]Decision to develop Apapa Port was taken in 1913 and construction of the first
four deep-water berths of 548.64 metres long at Apapa began in 1921. Twentyseven
years later (1948), an additional 762 metres of berthage were constructed
as continuation –downstream of the first four berths and about 41 hectares of
reclamation behind the wharves were formed to accommodate transit shed,
warehouses and marshalling yards.

FXKing2012: @dayokanu & 2good, yes the man takes care of the woman while pregnant but you still havent addressed how you expect the woman to make any real contribution after carrying pregnancy and nursing kids for 13yrs out of the 15yrs she was married.
Or would u suggest she risk losing the pregnancy by working while heavily pregnant? Or she should abandon the babies at home and go chasing after money?

Pls put yourselves in her shoe and tell me how you are going to make any reasonable income to contribute based on the analogy I gave about a woman being pregnant and nursing kids for 13yrs out of the 15yrs she was married.

Majority of mothers in Nigeria worked for most of their pregnancy.

Majority of mothers in Nigeria worked while the kids were growing and their children didnt die

Its only LAZY bones who would take 13yrs out of 15yrs for child bearing

Show me one person who took 13yrs to take care of children and I would confidently tell you that 80% she is a lazy bone without any meaningful career to start with

Yahoos CEO Marissa Meyer was pregnant while working as the CEO of such a giant tech company because she is not LAZY

Okonjo Iweala, Is she barren? or did she also take out 20yrs of her career to have children? or have Okonjos children all died because she was working?

Excuse for LAZY people. All the pregnant women in Balogun, Alade, Onitsha market have they died?

Nasarawa governor is trying to fix the state from the ruins the former PDP left it

Whats Retardeen Jonathan doing to help his people abi na Buhari and CPC he go blame again for this?

Lagos was without allocation for like 3yrs even after court rule in Lagos favour until Yar Adua released it in 2007.

If tax from oil company leaves then Lagos would take revenue from Ports 100%

kettykin: Anybody fooling him self the Biafra lost the war because of no food must be a real fool.

Did the food sabotage affect Biafran children or Biafran soldiers , little wonder Nigeria refused to go to war over bakassi preferring to abide by a court ruling that most nations don't even obey

Of course Nigeria was sensible not to use the lives of 3million children and women to play kalokalo