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Amaaskia: Another caveman lacking understanding, proudly displays his stupidity.

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Question Are men and women equal? Yes or No

So what do you suggest should be done in this case

Note whatever you advise should be applicable when the reverse is done i.e Husband slaps wife

See people advising the man to smile and talk and show more love to the woman

Assuming the roles were reversed and the woman was the one slapped Is this the same thing we would be saying on Nairaland family section

What do you expect to dig up from a trophy wife

Arysexy: Although no dead body was discovered in the shrine located inside a thick forest, a live python was seen inside a coffin Aliyu allegedly constructed to invoke the spirit that produces fake naira and foreign currencies./

Praise Goddd. Unlike elsewhere we know of

deols: But I hate to hear that men can go ahead and do whatever and even be praised at it while women can't and would be stigmatised for it.

The point is, whatever is bad is BAD irrespective of who is doing it.

Whether you like it or not, Its the fact of life.

A man would sleep with 50 women and brag how many women would brag of such

I know friends as teenagers who brought girls to sleep with them at home with their parents knowledge, How many parents would allow their daughter to bring a guy home and lock the doors

repogirl: Don't be so sure o, its not like he himself is a saint..... His reputation of being a chronic womanizer precedes him.... Besides who doesn't love gossip even if its filled with lies? I even have a title....... MEMOIRS OF A FORMER RUNS CHIC GOVERNOR'S WIFE.....or......SECRETS OF DE GOVERNOR......

None of these is damaging in the Nigerian context. None of our politician is a Saint. When Obaanjos son came out to allege his dad slept with his wife, As damaging as that sounded how did it affect OBJ? I am sure some of OBJ's friends were giving him hi -fives for being a sharp man and even envying him

When gist got out that Atiku the Vice President despite being married was rimming Nike Oshinowo and Genevieve from behind, and all soft sell magazines were reporting it every week What damage did it do to Atiku.

People have been saying Tinubu smokes weed for ages, What damage has it done to Tinubu. It was alleged Dino Melaye got one actress pregnant what damage has this done? even Oshiomole

Every Nigerian Politician is a womaniser, Most of these governors have probably been in the same womanising clique with CHime in the past so you are basically preaching to the choir by telling them Chime is a womaniser

I have a friend who once described how those top Politicians like Tinubu, Osoba, Obanikoro get down and its even worse than some orggiess you have watched before

Hope the boys come back from international breaks without injury

eggheaders: Oga abeg come complaints thread for politics section joor.

The albino don ban me from that section till monthend

If the woman was making progress in her own life and career at the same time why wont she be respected

The ones that get disrespected most are those who have nothing going for them e.g Clara Chime

repogirl: Clara, while you are still in the spot light, claim it very well......write a book, spill secrets, forget shame, that ship has sailed long ago,..... Now, its time for revenge starring Clara chime, season 1, u will sell die!! Everyone loves juicy celebrity gossip.

WHat would she write that anyone would take seriously?

Whats worse than "Oh The governor diickk is 1 cm long, He only last for 2 seconds, He used 1000 people for jazz, he has mental issues, he eats human flesh"

How many ppl would take the words of a person already suspected to be insane seriously? She would have the same influence as someone like Omololu Olunloyos daughter

Chime only needs one answer to anything she writes

[size=14pt]"I have heard what my former wife wrote and I would like everyone to join in praying for her in this trying time of her Ill-health/insanity"[/size]

Shikena, Case closed!!

coogar: someone please remind me not to go near any enugu girl.

Coogar your girlfriend is back at it

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[size=18pt]HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE BEST RIGHT BACK, LEFT BACK and soon BEST DEFENSIVE MIDFIEDER[/size]

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izuplayspiano: @Op. point of correction, she's the first lady. There's no where in our constitution that the first wife must be the first lady: they're two different things.
I don't feel we should be judging this case from Mrs Clara's point of view since both families and the doctors already declared her mentally unstable. Mad people will always let you know you're the one that's mad, not them.
In a way, I blame Clara. She knew her husband doesn't joke with anything under the skirt, still she went on to marry him. Now, she's having emotional trauma, maybe because of the rate of his bleeping.

I am not saying the first wife has to be first lady

But what I am saying is if you were sleeping with someones else husband and he later married you, It would be wrong for you to go around and say he is cheating

He married her as a result of cheating so why do you think he would stop? You think only Clara has a Golden Puzzy?

Deschil: You shoot yourself in the foot. How does a mentally unstable woman who is so dangerous she has to be locked up have such cunning, how does she plan and understand all these?

They say when a dog is mad he still doesnt jump into fire.

The question is If you claimed you were detained against your wish and suddenly your detainer grants you freedom, Would you flee or insist on staying at the same place you claimed you were detained

If you stay back then there is a flaw in your initial claim

wonlasewonimi: He is actually well versed. There's not much difference between him and Musiwa. Heck, they both studied in Canada.

Are you saying Debosky is Musiwas deputy in Canada?

Both are even Engineers. Musiwa is an "Electricity Engineer" , Dobolawin is also an engineer

tpia@:
firstly, all parties need to agree mental health issues are involved in the matter.

secondly, your statement does not explain why rich nigerians still have abusive marriages.



as per #1, since all parties involved, including the complainant, agree mental health issues are a factor, then the topic should address that as well.

1. The wife never admitted she is mentally sick Its the Chime side thats pushing the mental illness story probably to justify the detention.

2. Financial status has no bearing on marital abuse. Rich Americans, Germans, Britons, Japanese all have abusive marriages as well

Nashville: That is why I said serious money must have changed hands between the couple in addition to several other promises. She is married to a governor, she sef must clean out before 2015!

I think what happened was the Governor called her and her family and stated to them the conditions of separation which she never expected

Which might include stuffs like immediate eviction from Govt house, Withdrawal of all ATM cards and access to accounts, withdrawal of all security details, Eviction of her parents from the governor bought house, cars etc they are enjoying. Immediate demotion from Governors wife who attends all function and is respected to Mrs Nobody.

When she realized the impact, that was when she backtracked

coogar: isn't the woman mentally-ill?
protecting her from the public should be the logical thing to do. the woman then managed to get near a phone & screamed she was held against her will. that's the problem with today's women.

you attempt to protect them then you are too possessive or being too abusive. ignore them & you are not caring enough. maybe she would have loved it if the governor had uploaded a youtube clip of her having fits & foaming in the mouth.

She wants to leave the governor yet enjoy the perks of being governors wife. Its confusing. How do you want to stop being Mrs Coogar yet continue to enjoy the benefit of being Mrs coogar

The stuff I always say about women wanting the benefits but not the responsibilities attached to it.

Clara's ideal resolution would be for Chime to divorce her yet let her continue to live in Governors house with all the allocation, escorts, cook travels and owambe

Help understand how that works. The only one I respect in this is the first wife who walked out and never looked back

Nashville: I think the Governor and Clara reached an agreement to protect the Governor's image. Her declaration was very damaging to the governor and I can bet you they reached some form of agreement. This woman called Femi Falana and he confirmed they both spoke about her case. For her to suddenly make a u-turn suggests to me that lots of other things have transpired between the two.

Chime is a serial womaniser according to sources. I believe he truly put her under house arrest but now that she has cried out, he had to slow down because of his political career. In the end, serious money must have changed hands between the couple in addition to several other promises.

The governor want to set her lose that she should leave he even wanted to forcefully remove her from the Governors house but she declined

She now claims she want to be sent abroad for treatment and shopping and later return to continue as first lady

ileobatojo: @ bolded. Yes, the governor is quite the innocent angel isn't he?

*eye roll*

With that being said, the confusion and drama in that family has no part 2. The fact that she reached out publicly would seem to suggest that she was ready to take off the kid's gloves and damn it all to hell. So it now seems weird that she wants to come back as his wife after going for her treatment abroad. I would have thought she would just leave, get treatment and later focus on getting her payday in court since he wants to bounce her unceremoniously.

But the truth is that we don't know all that has gone on behind the scenes that now makes her want to 'save her marriage' and continue to enjoy the perks. Too many unanswered questions.

The governor is not innocent and has made it clear he isnt innocent. I read on NL that Clara Chime was actually a friend of Chimes daughter from Chimes original marriage.

If you are wondering why she does want to come back the answer is MONEY. The first wife Who i heard is a Judge walked out of the marriage to the philandering man but this Clara is still hanging on why? Is it because she loves him or want to save her marriage? No

Its because she is lazy wants to continue enjoying the perks of being governors wife.

It was even reported the Governor got her younger sister too pregnant.

The same man who you claimed was abusing you, You want him to send you abroad, pay the bills for your treatment and shopping and you afterwards want to return to the same abusive marriage.

I have been going through the case of Mrs Chime and it reminds me of what we always discuss on this family section regarding some Nigerian women

She cried out that she was detained by the Governor

The Governor attempted to set her free, Now she has rejected that she doesnt want to leave because of the perks of being first lady

This buttresses one of the points that poverty and laziness is what promotes abuse in Nigerian marriages

I heard the woman Clara is not even the first wife

FBS: Just wondering why the squad just dey blow HOT and COLD. What can be the major reason?

Maybe its the weather Nothing to do with the coach. The coach is infallible

What Failaini would never be

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ifyalways: Bad belle kill joy. Your brother don marry public toilet according to una,oya quench if you must. Was it not men like you that were doing and getting her pregnant? You guys expected her to marry a ghost abi ? Everybody has a past - good or bad,so why use hers against her ? What if she's changed? .

Would you marry a serial killer, Hired assasin, murderer, ritualist, junkie, wife beater, serial rap11st, child molester or armed robber, who has "changed" ?

I wont keep quiet if I find out my brother self wan marry public toilet olonsho

Na all night party

I never see this kain dj freedo before. How can you be singing with your mouth filled with nkwobi

Who cook this ofada rice.

Na so so stone full inside.

Naijababe e no good o

Abeg shey pounded yam still remain

These kidnappers release me at last aboki you get erinmoore or white London.

Party wan start.

Dj. Give me Haruna Ishola.

I see some area boys outside led by kay pumpin

Can you get OPC to chase them away

Na because ozil no play jare

Arsenal fans don kIdnap me so I Won't play here today