₦airaland Forum

1 : if a woman wants to cheat, she should go ahead there's no law that states "a man can cheat but not a woman", if you let the words of people control you, you shouldn't blame anyone.

2 : men are not immune to chores, as I see husbands taking care of domestic chores daily (even when they are the sole financial provider in the home), they lift heavy properties around the house , they take care plumbing, electrical (...e.t.c ) faults.
the thing is that women are mostly on a low percentage when it comes to bill and men are also on a low percentage when it comes to chores, so it is balance , although the reverse could be the case in just a few marriages.
bills most times : men 90%- women10%
chores most times : men 15% - women 85%
my assumption according to daily views .

3 : its same as number one , f*ck and brag, there's no law that support a man and restricts a woman on this issue.

4 : It's nairaland as you have typed, so if you can't beat them , join them

5 : almost everyone is bound to be sentimental on issues concerning their loved ones , so it doesn't apply to men alone .
women do say "all men are cheats/same" but refuse to admit it applies to their fathers .

lezz:
'Sup, bro. Thread's been closed down after several calls!

What's happening?

I noticed just a while ago too .

Lilimax:
Abeg, they should release the Fulani Herdsmen asap. Authorities concerned should mediate into this matter and resolve it amicably.
I wouldn't want a situation some Aba/Ngwa boys will resort to Kidnapping as it used to be
It wasn't good stories those period at all.

so Wetin I post/type pain you so tey you go report me ?

or are you a moderator?

only small "fowl" wey I post Naim you go report .
ok no worry I will certainly direct more at you when the time is right .
bye for now , no go report this one too o.

in respect to the arguement, wether anyone likes it or not, the percentage of young women (25-30) attracting suitors and getting married is by far more than that of the percentage of older (30+) women getting same chances .#any where in the entire world

I will find the robbers, beg them to repeat exactly them test but this time they should be certain the gun is loaded with bullet.

when the gun is handed to me........your guess is as good as mine

K9blunt:
Check the questions the guy asked properly he asked "married man"

Don't be quick, boy!

na wetin you for talk before na, no be question I ask you.?

mumu

K9blunt:
Daddy dcholeric why you no write my name for your will na.
You are a dog.

lol this one na fool oo question wey I ask you, you begin Dey mad ... well...continue

K9blunt:
When they say men are dogs


Boys will be screaming blue murder , 'feminist!'


See wahala now , an outsider is claiming what should rightfully belong to the children of the late idiot (hope am wrong)

Why can't some people have since.

men are dogs?
your father is a dog?
how can you be so rude to your father?

you also typed women are fools who sleep with a man (dog)
do you mean your mother is a fool?

Jez asking base on your comments

stripping the lad is foolishness
will she be mentally ok if all in the name of decipline she was stripped and paraded by her parents when she was younger?

I go don pieces the phone since the very first day wey police reash my house

EggovinMma:
You got her daughter pregnant despite you knew you were a destitute and you expect her to be nice to you abi? Not only that you left her with her mother to take care of, as if the woman no get her own problem? You are not serious. I'm happy she chased her daughter back to you, at least it made you remember to take care of your responsibility. If you like help, if you like no help her, heaven no go fall.

she allowed herself to be impregnated by a destitute, despite the fact that she knows, the both of them has to be responsible, and since the f*cking mother could not fend for her f*cking daughter part of the whole assumed mistake, then the f*cking mother shouldn't bring her f*cking problem she had to pile up on the guy and her daughter because they sipmly got their own problem to tackle.

f*ck you in advance (this is for your next quote)
I will read it next month when I log on

Femistico:
I went to the nysc briefing and all I heard is above 30...buh what I can't say is mayb by feb now you'll be 30 or March u'll start counting 31 dat's what still baffles about ur questn..

now my results has been approved since on the 19th of this month.
does that mean I qualify for service even if I do my nysc registration after my birth date, which is Feb 2?

B or E for me

I can still go with T or A if I don't have B and E as options.

zainabicy:
Dere r some kindof cultures that encourage this 'free talk'
In my side, if u r telling ur husband how u want it...ah, You be 'ashawo' b dat or u r spoilt

U r 2 just lie down on ur back and take it...like literally

that your side get how e be for sex matter o
how woman go just lie down collect whatever that is given?, me too as the man won't be pleased o.

well....

no matter what goes, I can never hate the Don. Bad belles are allowed, e nor go shake you.

adakoleagbenu:
. COLLECTION/REPLACEMENT OF CERTIFICATE OF EXEMPTION Below are the requirements for collection/ replacement of certificate of exemption. In accordance with the National Youth Service Corps Decree 1993 section 2 subsection (1) it is stipulated that; "With effect from 1st August, 1985, a person shall NOT be called upon to serve in the service corps if, at the date of graduation or obtaining his diploma or other professional qualification" : 1. He is over the age of thirty (30) years. Mainly, NYSC checks out the dob used in JAMB and WAEC/NECO. While I'm not sure,it seems to be "ABOVE 30" make official enquiries too... I think,think ooo,its on a monthly basis

thanks

.

adakoleagbenu:
To be honest,if your school does not approve your result before Feb,you may not be eligible,because the age is determined AS AT THE TIME OF GRADUATION which is the time your results are approved.

thanks bro
if my results is not approved before feb, how possible is it to change d.o.b in order for one to be eligible in terms of age limit ?

thanks once more


and I wanted to know if the age limit is from 30 above or above 30 (I saw an abstract that says above 30)? and is the age limit calculated base on yearly date or monthly date e.g 2016 I am 30 irrespective of the month, or march 2016 I am above 30?
sorry for the disturbance.

is the age limit for nysc service calculated using date of graduation or date of mobilization? I am going to be 30 this year February I wrote my last examz last year December, I believe senate will approve my school results before February , will I qualify for mobilization ?

is the age limit for nysc service calculated using date of graduation or date of mobilization?
I am going to be 30 this year February I wrote my last examz last year December, I believe senate will approve my school results before February , will I qualify for mobilization ?

@ Darkchocolate

pickabeau1:
You have no issue



Inculcate some empathy when passing your message across

Dazall

There is a way to tell a man to go to Pluto and he will like u for it even if he has to go for his own good

thanks, I get what you mean.

just that in most of this cases, both the person/persons involve and the persons or people advocating for them seems to totally ignore the fact that might they be wrong and that their attack or actions might be against someone else who doesn't even contribute to the problem they are passing through.
and because of this, most times they come across to me as being self centered and bias, thinking only about what and who angers them and doesn't care if they are doing the same to someone else who is innocent.

but in all I will adhere to your advice and try as mush as possible to hold my anger even when they don't believe they may be wrong.

I realy do appreciate.

an obstinacy that is as hard as life itself, wouldn't break unless there's no more life, the privilege of having all partners and stake holders push me to the position of leadership without any suggestions from me "in every kind of relationship(casual friends, intimate. groups.....etc)". I have never been deterred by the difficulties of life, I do not hold anyone responsible for problems I encounter.

I see leadership as a privilege to decide for others over few but important issues that concerns their well being, hence I do not in anyway abuse this privilege.

I can be as cold as ice when its time to implementing justice, as warm as a cup of coffee in a cold night to console a victim,and as hot as fire to protect the innocent.

have it all, or so I thought.

but yesterday I did a rethink over few of similar statements told to me in different events of life happenings.
statements such as
*you think you can do it all? : by my brother

*people like you makes it difficult for people like us: by a lady on NL.

*just because you can't be broken, doesn't mean others can't & if you don't care others do: by 5minmadness

* if you were in my shoes: by a feminist

my brother holds me responsible for his difficulties just because I seem to fight out every problem and win why he doesn't have that obstinacy to overcome same problem, making him look weaker(even though I love him much)

the NL girl sees children as useless for reasons I know nothing about but in any case those children are not useless and are innocent

5minmadness sees me as an hindrance against solving a problem for paying back the thought of the girl who sees children as useless by seeing her also as the same (I sincerely apologize)

most feminist thinks men are their problem "why in the real sense men can also be those that protect the interest of women, even the very law that protect women are created and mostly implemented by men".
the feminist who told me "if you where in shoes" does reason this way 'men are my obstacle"

now here is the issue

I do not hold anybody as the cause of a difficult situation, I face them as it comes and who ever intentionally tries stop to me, I go against.
and I do not jugde anyone unless that person is a threat to an innocent person or group of people.

WHERE I NEED ASSISTANCE:

am I becoming what I detest ; "judging people unjustly"?

people who attack or detest the innocent just because those innocents are slightly attached to the source their problem or difficulty. shouldn't they be told their wrongs or jugded ?
( I only learnt yesterday that some of this cases may be mental disorder )

I realy need to know as it will help my daily decisions as a leader.

5minsmadness:
How do I correct you without insulting you now?

This was an extremely ignorant and insensitive post. You must NEVER post this kind of thing again, its not everything online that is a game. If you see a person in a dilemma like this you must NEVER suggest what you suggested above, EVER.

You think the OP's temperament at this time is one that should be provoked by shock therapy? Do you k ow the implication of your statement? There are so many things I want to say to you now but I realise in your own warped way you were trying to help so I will hold my peace. Please do not for any reason in any situation in your life try this method again. The outcome can be very disastrous.

first let me let you understand that I don't give a damn what you say in any way to insult me, don't even think the hardest situation can break me talk less of an online insult.

I would have said I don't care whatsoever happens to the op, because of the your "supposed" better post, but for the op sake I do care about her life.

don't you ever in your life threaten me in anyway again, if you are going to take actions against me, fucking do it, I wish you could locate me to take your actions, cause that would be better.

I see your personality from your moniker, you should know mine from my moniker

thank you

thorpido:
if she sees me as dirt,I will understand.I want you to see her from her point of view and not your point of view.She has some challenges and is seeking solutions to it.
It's not about being a 'good boy',it's about being in a position of a solution provider,a therapist.What will you do if you had to sit with psychiatric patients(not saying the Op is) and listen to what they say?Will you curse them out?
I hope you read what she said about your comment and how it could make someone take their life.Is that what you desire?
I'm not reprimanding you,just trying to make you see from where she's coming from.She's admitted she has challenges.

well its good job trying to reset or reajust her mentality.

I think I wouldn't be too good with this type of case, but I have tried to explain to her why my post portrayed hatred or so it seems

thorpido:
Don't mind dcholeric's comment.On this site,you will have to sieve the wheat from the chaff.
I asked if you've ever had a relationship with a boyfriend?

sorry I said it as it should be, you have the choice to state your advice but you don't have the privilege to decide who is the wheat and who is the chaff.

if a grown up and educated person sees children as chaff, then am sorry to tell you that even with the "good boy" you are claiming she will never see you as the wheat but the chaff

and you know what?
I will support her 100% if she sees you as dirt.
nonsense.

preshuzpearl:
@dcholeric. I don't think you understand what I wrote up there. Its people like you who makes things worse for people like us. You wouldn't mind if I took my own life? You even advise me to do so.
You know what. I would have done that long ago if I wasn't scared of the afterlife. I dont see any point in living if am not making a difference in the world.

Maybe people should start thinking that way. In that way we will be able to make reasonable decisions that doesn't include overpopulating the world and breeding children without having any good plans for them or to cater for them properly

first let me say am sorry if you feel bad about my post.
now I hope you will understand how someone else would feel when you feel there is no need for their existence.

I ask again, who told you that every kid in the world are not catered for?

who told you they are not happy?

who told you they are a curse and disturbance to those who gave birth to them?

the world didn't have the kind of development it has now.
you know why?
because people contributed to making difference in the world, to make it a better place, the shelter, technology.....

now the development wouldn't have gone this far and better if there was no reprocreation and if children were not loved and catered for.

I think you better start thinking of making the world a better place instead wishing to be not useful and dead .

preshuzpearl:
The kids are innocent I know. Thats why I believe they shouldn't be brought into the world and allowed to suffer. U get what I mean?

By the way for those who talk about mental issues. I might agree that I Get depressed alot and am usually sad. But that has nothing to do with this. And I dont think its that disturbing @spotity

I have no serious traumatic experience so far that I can remember.

the kids shouldn't be brought to suffer?
who told you all the kids in the world are suffering?
if you feel it is better for those kids not to exist or to die, I think it would pay you more to take your life, at least show them a good example and also help the society from this your hatred (since you hate anything with life in it so much)
those kids deserve life and the choice to live.
and for the men hatred, here is a suggestion, since you can't kill all the men and little male children, why don't you just kill yourself and be at peace?

I can't judge who the problem started with or who is making life unbearable for who

But I am definately not in support with tying the wife and dragging her to the police station, it is so humiliating, he could have reported at the police or better still bring them(the police) over to the house if things got out of his control.

IMO
though inclusion of middle name would stand for proper or unique identification, I think first name and last name are more important, and so I think it wouldn't be an issue on presentation of two different certificates in which one is identified by your last name and first name and the other identified by your first, last and middle name , because there should be other informations that correspond, like photo,signature/finger prints........

in other words I don't think there's no problem registering her jamb with the 3 names.
but I think it is best if she starts using the 3 names she should continue using them.
who knows what the law might bring up?

wait for other comments also.