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imconfused:
I think one of the reasons for frustration in this marriage is that the OP brought in naija style of marriage,the type where duties are relegated to woman type and man type.

Op you both failed to work together and support each other.You mentioned something about the children going hungry and I want to ask if you are handicapped?So you were busy marking time and waiting for hunger to finish your children because it's your wife's job to feed them? Both of you should have been able to work with and round each other.If She's in school ,you deal with home stuff,if you are in school she does home stuff.This is the only way to survive abroad especially for a couple who are still finding their feet.

You both can choose one thing after another esp with her own ambition..na turn by turn till you stabilise.A happy loving home situation with calm discussions would have taken care of this.After all,you love each other.

Its easy to see how she became cold towards you.Stress and thinking de kill am.She left Naija not really knowing what America is.You sef hustling and school stress would make things more tense at home.All you both need is understanding & working side by side.You must drop all your preconceived notions about marriage and forge your own style.

Its veey disappointing that at the smallest hint of trouble you went to a stripper and worst of all you were doing 69..no hiv test,you don't know if she has herpes,you carried your wide mouth and chooked inside stripper Kini..

Your wife was wrong ,very very wrong for the words she said,it was below the belt.Please forget Awaan,she CHOSE you,she CHOSE to be with you.People hurt each other and say horrible things sometimes when arguing especially as a semi newly married couple.She tried to atone by offering herself to you and she was humiliated by your rejection/ lack of erection..
She really had no choice but to leave and have some space.

This marriage is very young & can be salvaged.Its not too late.The time apart can help you both re evaluate & decide to help each other out.Ambition when supported within reason can yield massive fruits

Go and save your marriage,kpatakpata wear red pant..Good luck

Dcholeric:
don't let anyone deceive you that you didn't pay attention to her business plan (that is foolishness). Reason being you don't have $10k , she refuse to work in order to gradually start up her business even when she knows you are going to contribute . she didn't consider the fact that you don't have the cash at hand and it is a very risky game to stand for a loan (even if you were the one with the idea I guess you still won't take that loan knowing the risk involved).

Don't blame yourself for the sexual paralysis in your home ...Reason being you can't force her to want sex with you otherwise it did be rape (if what you said about her refusal to have sex with you is true).

Don't blame yourself for her pursuing what she want . Reason being you seem not to be able to provide financially for her ambition and she is impatient to work towards it and is also selfish enough not to consider your financial capability.

you bleeped up..yes you bleeped up. firstly you cheated by fvcking a wh©re, like that wasn't enough you let the "fvcking" get into your head that it affected your emotion for your wife (you could have at least pretended especially seeing that she was making moves)..

now be calm. work hard . keep a positive and happy mind set ( tell yourself that whatever happens whether she stays or leave, you have chosen to be Happy "take a deep breath and smile". take care of your kids and always reason with what she says before taking any action.

lastly, live your life to the fullness of joy. Don't kill yourself over nobody, do what you can at your best and walk out on what will kill you .

UjuJoan2:
Men and women react diffyerently to sex. You know that.

For a man to see a willing woman and Not get an erection, something terrible must be wrong!

BlaqCoffee109:
... Hey Billionaire, thank you for your warmest thoughts, wishes. There's this striking wish of you to me: to know what life is! It seemed like a wish/prayer but I need you or anyone hereon to focus on that "Life" and quest for it.

femora007:
finished from federal university with 2.2
still got regret mail
can i apply again?

Billyonaire:
Friend,

It took about 20yrs of daily researches to find God, because my parents, Pastors and even Scientists could not give me convincing evidence of the Universe and why I was born. I refused to have kids because of this search because I never wanted to bring a child to this world without being able to tell them why they were born and where they will go after they die.

That is how realistic I am in my principles and for almost 20yrs, no day passed without me searching for God via this WWW and going to churches, joining organizations and sincerely becoming Atheist, pantheist and FINDING THE PURPOSE of LIFE.

The past 3 weeks I literally met my end, I never believed I would be alive today because of what I found out, and trust me, I am so sincere that I wanted to publish my findings online here.

But if I try to, I will be dead and you will hear or read my biography that I died of Cardiac Arrest. This world is scary, you guys do not just know about it. Enki himself has a warning. I could share my finding in a parable, but if I am to share with you how you can locate this Truth, you will either go crazy, because the truth is so uncomfortable, or you will never work again. You will enjoy your life as if there is no tomorrow and the matrix will come to an end if many people know this truth.

I have met ETs - Angels and Demons, I have seen way too many things, attacked too many times and I mean deadly attacks I had to go to MFM for deliverance and IT DIDNT WORK and I hard to die and be back again with a new Soul. This sound nuts but I have been upgraded twice on this journey.

Today, I can say I know what this life is about, cos I will keep quiet and use the knowledge gained, not to join the Illuminati but to remain friends with the Angels and help humanity in any way I can. And raise babies.

Those are the only reason I choose to stay here on Earth. The Truth could make you want to commit suicide, but I have decided to stay here and live heavenly life.

I am sorry that I have to choose between Death and sharing the info, but I might in future share via email to BlaqCoffee109 and Correctguy101, those two humans challenged and made me stay here online to continue the search, and it will be their decision to share the info at their detriment. At the moment, I need to ask not only Enki and Jesus for permission, but also the Almighty Creator and Source of ALL.

I am sorry.

PatrickOkunima:
Still Open.

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dos247:
Please can u screenshot I want to see how the regret mail look like.. this i received (Image below) when i type the name of my school manually since its not among the selected school.. is this the same as regret mail..

Lalas247:
so ur sis. mama .aunt. grandma.cousin are all sluts oga take it easy insulting ur famz

Sarassin:
Here is the thing, the story is quite unique really, before Jesus was born the story was written therefore Jesus’ very first acts were a drama, that is to say, his real life was also just a role. Similarly everyone, Christian, Muslim and whatever else thinks they live life but it is just part of the drama, a role given to you by society and you have become identified by the role given to you, and we then mistake the drama…for life, but in order to truly live life, you have to break that identification.

For those who walk in the path of Divine light, it is not that you meet a man intoning “verily verily I say unto thee…” before you know you have encountered Christ. To encounter the Christ consciousness is in itself an act, a transcendence of human experience. Many claim to have experience of Jesus complete with audio-visuals and miraculous effects but in the end it is always psychosomatic.

The Christ consciousness is a realm that resides in the second part of the human experience, not the doing where we act out our given roles, but the being, that is to say, a state of being where we are full of; forgiveness because to forgive is Divine, Love, because God is Love and suffused with compassion because Christ is the deity of compassion.

Sarassin:
Hello there, it depends on the context in which you are doing the practice, essentially it is the "Middle Pillar Ritual" and there are divine names to resonate with it. Are you doing the grounding exercise prior to beginning meditation? or as a gateway to other rituals? and are you sitting or standing? If you can give me more information on the context of your practice then I can give you coherent feedback. The exercise seems to be working for you.

ProsperOkec:
There must not be jerry can because keke will buy to fill his tank.
Secondly it must not be inside the filling station because the queue due to scarcity do reach outside

GraGra247:
When ladies are hunting men by baring their body, they rashly defend it with words like "slaying" , fashion, "my body my business".

But when they marry and become victims of other ladies hunting their men by baring their body, they slut shame her and snap her picture and call her prostitute.

Different shades of hypocrisy.

xendra:
well collecting money is still better than free anytime.

xendra:
because it works for them. No need for debate.

So you want to act like you don't know even women who try to work are threatened and molested by their bosses to sleep with them, so y go through all that and still stress, when it can get u quick/easy cash


From Adams* you men started it

xendra:
sebi na una say make dem no dey ask una? Say u no be her father? Why complain about that now? Abi if she no take care of herself you for like her? No be money dem take dey maintain?

cococandy:
She did something morally wrong.
And now he’s committed a crime in response.
With clear evidence.
He has to pay for his actions

jashar:


The guy is not well for hitting her like that.

But, if reverse had been the case, people would be shouting forgive him, men are polygamous by nature, blah blah blah...

Reeberry:
Because your post confused me. Just dey wonder oo.

Reeberry:
Are you against the person you quoted?

Lalas247:
Wetin Be my own
If he is broke he should just say; dear I can’t afford it simple ! She will go find her square root .....
Why cry about it he wishes he could just buy her that phone like it’s nothing, that’s why he is hurt ... he should use that hurt and work overtime ....

It’s out dated yes to the wise but to the foolish works every time .. go on twitter Instagram guys be buying sh!t for things they ain’t even seen before so you can’t blame the girl either ... circle of life for the unemployed