jessca048:
the earlier you realise you can't take the place of a father in a child's life the better for you. you had a fall out with your husband, that shouldn't stop you from denying him access to his child

Earthbound:
Good for her.


Truth is plus size women only look good in lingerie when they've made an effort to flatten their stomachs.

AlwaysUltraPad:
you Don use am before? Make we talk via mails.

Realitycheck007:
Good day,

Good people of nairaland, I am new to the thread so please bear my mishaps. Nairaland was Introduced to me by a colleague of mine at the office yesterday. So i said i should seek your advice on an issue bothering me.. Back to the topic.

Name withheld, My fiancee has been my girl for over 4 months now, and by early next year am thinking of taking it to the alter by God's grace but here is the problem....

On 3 or 4 occasions i have invited her to spend the night at my place, she do agrees but the problem is she over sleeps. She would sleep from 11 till 7am, A working class lady. I dunno how to tell her again, Cause i told her jokingly she laughed about it and said Is It my sleep. Imagine marrying her and she wakes by 7 or 8, Were is the time to take care of our kids nd d home I.E, Preparing breakfast and bathing the kids and also preparing for her work hour..... Please Nairalanders, Your opinions will be highly welcomed.

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francis247:
Good riddance. Why can't she pick the call of her husband to be if he's not there? What are you hiding? What kind of marriage will you both have? Imagine you're bathing or you went out to get something around the neighborhood and she has a visitor then your phone rings in sitting room. So she can't pick it up and tell the person to call back later? What kind message will that send? Married strangers? How would you feel if she slaps you for repeatedly doing something she's been complaining of? And the fact that your mum is in support of what you did says a lot about how shallow and backward her person and background is as far as marriage is concerned.

BrotherJesu:
My mum is very beautiful, and successful yoruba woman but dosent regard her husband a bit,
Trouble got out hands when she got her first car and her husband who is an engineer doesnt have one yet,she then became pompous and over protective of the car that even those around; church and family knew that popxy doesnt own the car. Mumc is an established fashion designer and holds several positions in Nigerian Union ofTailors, as a result of this she comes home very late not givin any excus. As time goes by she stopped cooking him as she is always busy with work or travelling on state sponsored trips she does not bother to notify her husband whenever she is travelling.
There was a day i was so angry kus even my friends have started to take note and it becoming embarrasing, so i spoke with her, while talking she broke down in tears, she said she is the one responsible for 80 percent of the house expenses that popcy recieves 400k monthly bt always complaining of bin broke, she said other things i cant really type here.
This went own for a long time, they soon became enemies in the same house everyone going there way doing things differently, admist all these popsy has never rised his voice on her even when mumcy somethings did very annoing stuffs.
In the heat of this, popsy impregnated another babe although i have never seen the woman nor the child since birth which is close to two years. He apologised and promised to never bring them to interfere in our lives.
However this literary set our house on fire. While mumc was gettin over the haertbraek, she promised to get back at him which i didnt undesrand then.
Early this year, mumc bought 2 cars at ones, i was very surprised as she normally tell me her moves, she gave me one while she uses the other one. What broke myy hear was that she kept the one she was using before under cover when i asked her why she didnt allow popxy have that one she said she he should go buy his own and warned me that the day she will see him use my car na problem .
For sometime now she has been joking about moving us out of the country without his knowlege.
Popxy right now has facilitated his tramsfer to delta state.
Now they dont even see neida do they communicate again
the whole thing is driving me insane as i dont see popman coming to the house again pls guys help a brother what do i do
excuse my typo and coherence.

Marotzke:
How many Megawatts of electricity do you think a functional American university consume in a day? Then add the massive student hostels and staff quarters.
Then add a massive industrial complex that bottles hundreds of thousands of Faro water and Faro fruit juice daily.
Savanna sugar refinery nko?
Fertilizer blending plant nko?
Radio Gotel?
The most massive mechanised farm in the north east nko?
Massive real estate follow join ooo.
30 megawatts is a very modest estimate.

Angelparadise:
So it mean the girls didn't even trust you that made you to prove if the food is safe . How can Nigeria trust you ,Hmmmmmmm

jay2pee:
Atiku, I have just one question for you...






Did you actually ear the food[i][/i]

soberdrunk:
Dammmnn!!! See better wife!! Not all these hand bag loving, shopping addicts, makeup mannequins way fit send somebody go back village with only Nylon bag and charger......

Kokaine:
okay i get what you mean. I'm sorry for my choice of words.

but just to clear the air, what i meant by being stingy to girls is just the ability to decipher what to give from what is unnecessary. it is a known fact that some guys cannot maintain their financial discipline when it comes to meeting the demands of beautiful women. i wasnt born with a silver spoon. i started out with a job where my monthly take home was 30k and my daily transport was 1200naira. from egbeda to lekki phase 1.

so even when i gained experience in electrical installation and decided to stand on my own, i still recognised the value of money. i wouldnt spend on things i feel are not needed, and because of that, certain girls saw me as too principled or tightfisted. money is not mearnt to be wasted. rather than spend 100k in a club for example, id give it to someone who just needs as little as 50k to start his life up.

Kokaine:
i think of you as a sadist.

Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.

I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.

Of all the girls I ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when I date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. In fact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, I was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasn't all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime

The trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. Then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. I mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didn't know.

Brothers and sisters! When I opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! I copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.

For the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.

She begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just don't know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, I'm thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. Thanks so much. one love!

Cholls:
my brother's may good bless us all with a good wife.

HungerBAD:
Dumb Cheat.

She is now free to move in with her lover,if he will accept her and i hope he the husband has the common sense to do a DNA test on the kids. ( I am not sure the lover will accept her anymore cos it is sweeter to steal than to own)



This is not fair. Our fathers had decent ladies to choose from when looking for wives,but our generation is stuck with slay queens and pepper dem gang. ( This is because men of nowadays have negated their responsibility to women, be the men that you were ordained to be. You can only attracted like minds to yourself)

Hotshawarma:
she will not mind her own business now oooo she wey her finger nails long pass her marriage...

obataokenwa:
Very good lesson. My mentality about women changed after I read Myles Munroe's book (Understanding The Power and Purpose of a Woman). From that moment, I will support my wife and my girls to achieve whatever they want to achieve. Steve Harvey's Book (Treat Her Like A Lady) also did a great lesson to me. I smh for men that beat their women.

ivolt:


So if your husband is cheating on you, you will start sleeping
around in revenge ?

Why didn't she get the hell out the marriage ?
If she is divorced she can hire 10 men per day
no one will care.

I suspect she is a jobless wife who depends on
her husband for survival while at the same time
disrespecting their union thinking she will never
be caught.

There is no excuse for a cheat.

ivolt:


There is no other side of the story here, if a woman is tired of her marriage
let her divorce the husband.
But the greedy backstabber want to eat her cake and have it.
A cheat is a cheat and there is no excuse for her actions.

Nma27:
Its even obvious she's no longer interested in d marriage... The husband just wanted to shame her. Some guys can b petty sha

stephleena:
see her unrepentant, face..

ebusfav:

He said:

“The last time I saw him was 10 years ago. I asked him the sort of business he was into.
He said he was into drug trafficking. Why did the father not report him when he knew he was doing drugs?

He added:

“ I heard about all the millions, and I said to myself, do I have such manner of rich son and the roof over my house is leaking. I now survive by selling pigs.” So he would have collected the illicit funds if the son had given abi Ok, kontinue

fuckerstard:
Sharp

Tattoos dey fine for rich people body sha

TinaAnita:
One thing I noticed about most female drivers is that they drive as if the road revolves around their cars, they don't drive at ease or effortlessly unlike male drivers. I think it boils down to gender insecurities.

007author:
I can't deal with women driving me

LordHelpMe:
All I see is bit*ch, bit*ch, bit*ch. The man is jobless and incomprehensible.

Their problem tho