₦airaland Forum

Pedro JP: Detects of our world do not allow for absolutes. So no principle assures perfect relationship. Women are not programmed and can't work as if programmed.

bobolekepee: Honestly, I'm a victim of number 5• now, I was comparing my present girlfriend with my ex last night and now my girl is mad at me, I have been begging her since then but she was telling me that how can I be comparing her with my ex... I'm still on my knee begging her that never will I repeat such attitude again but she had not forgiven me. I felt bad thinking that had I know, I shouldn't have said that... Honestly because of this, I had a sleepless night.

dazzy4real: Pls guys someone just told me that dis strike is not affecting all skuls so am beginning to wonder re they skuls dt re under ASUU tot it was all uni apart from private uni..some shud clear me on dis pls...

anitank: I remember the days of ASUU strike in my time, I was always the happiest!!!

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elimaxwel: before you know,it will become a devastating issue and the whole world will be living with another incurable disease

sobaemma: ONLY A FOOL WILL NOT KNOW THAT THIS MATCH WAS PURPOSELY GIVEN UP BY SPAIN,BLATTER AND THE PRESIDENT OF BRAZIL HAVE BEGGED THIS GUYZ,CUS ANYTHING SHORT OF VICTORY WILL SPARKLE THE RIOT THAT IS STILL ON NOW AND MAKE THE PRESIDENT REGRET FOR HOSTING,BUT VICTORY WILL CALM IT DOWN,AM SURE BEHIND THE FIELD BLATTER WILL GIVE SPAIN THE SAME MONEY AS THE CHAMPIONS.

ppara: 4-0

all4naija: These are not Nigerian village photos. I have been to Nigeria before and village buildings there are not so much different from the Zulus in SA.

Evestar200: YO MEHN!,,YOU CANT PASS THRU WHAT AM PASSING TRU RIGHT NOW,,,HOW CAN U BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT DOESNT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP? WE HAVNT C EACH OTHER FOR SIX MONTHS NW,,IF I DONT CALL HIM,,HE WONT CALL ME,,IF I ASK HIM WHY HE IS NOT CALLING,,HE WILL GIVE LAME EXCUSE (NO MONEY TO BUY AIRTIME) IS THAT A RELATIONSHIP? And i havnt cheat on him all this while,,SO AM TIRED

smoosh15: 1) What should a woman do if she finds herself alone in the company of a strange male as she prepares to enter a lift in a high-rise apartment late at night?

Experts Say: Enter the lift. If you need to reach the 13th floor, press all the buttons up to your destination. No one will dare attack you in a lift that stops on every floor.

What if it is an apartment where the floors are usually isolated? By then, the evil deed would have been done. Secondly, lifts and elevators can be stopped midway.

2) What to do if a stranger tries to attack you when you are alone in your house, run into the kitchen.

Experts Say: You alone know where the chili powder and turmeric are kept.And where the knives and plates are. All these can be turned into deadly weapons. If nothing else, start throwing plates and utensils all over.

Let them break. Scream. Remember that noise is the greatest enemy of a molester. He does not want to be caught.

What if the house is in the middle of nowhere or he has a loaded gun and shoots out of panic...in the case of the latter, i'd advice the lady to keep her calm and co-operate

3} Taking an Auto or Taxi at Night.

Experts Say: Before getting into an auto at night, note down its registration number. Then use the mobile to call your family or friend and pass on the details to them in the language the driver understands .Even if no one answers your call, pretend you are in a conversation. The driver now knows someone has his details and he will be in serious trouble if anything goes wrong. He is now bound to take you home safe and sound. A potential attacker is now your de facto protector!

Good idea but not really brilliant...the license plate number of a vehicle can be swapped or changed. The only fool-proof logic is to have access to his driver's license which is not realistic at this point


4}What if the driver turns into a street he is not supposed to – and you feel you are entering a danger zone?

Experts Say: Use the handle of your purse or your stole (dupatta) to wrap around his neck and pull him back. Within seconds, he will feel choked and helpless. In case you don’t have a purse or stole just pull him back by his collar. The top button of his shirt would then do the same trick.

Still not a good idea especially when he is doing over 60mph/100kmph. The vehicle could lose control and topple over which might result in the loss of your life and the driver and this particular feat is only possible when you are at the back. Criminals usually think about counter situations before carrying out their crime...in this particular case, the driver will definitely not be alone.


5} If you are stalked at night.

Expert Say: enter a shop or a house and explain your predicament. If it is night and shops are not open, go inside an ATM box. ATM centers always have security guards. They are also monitored by close circuit television.
Fearing identification, no one will dare attack you.

Entering a house: The occupants of the said house are also security conscious. They might pay a deaf ear to your alerts. I for one would not open my door for someone i know is being stalked by a possible killer. I'd rather call the police from inside my house.
ATM: A much better idea only if the stalker is aware that ATM have hidden cameras that can take his picture which many people in this part of the world are hardly aware of. The most safer part is if there is an "armed" security guard at the ATM post too.

After all, being mentally alert is the greatest weapon you can ever have.

Please spread it to all those women u care & spread awareness as dis is d least we can do for a social & moral cause and fr d safety of women.


Bottom-line...never pray to find yourself in any of the aforementioned situations cos some others before you did same but did not live to tell the story. God is the ultimate protector!

freecocoa: Ofcourse you don't get how embarrassing and degrading it is for a man you love going about bragging of how he used, dumped you and doesn't care how it makes you feel.

*kneels down gets naked and faces the sky*

dominique: I wikipediad the film btw, not one cast or crew member looked familiar. More like a z-grade movie. Even Razzies go reject them

lynpetra: Am lamenting over my lack of husband!Are available darling

lynpetra: When I was begging him no marry me,he refused!He wanted a "agwalagwa nwanyi".Nonsence! .Nkita lasha kwa ya onu oji e be akwa!

lynpetra: When I was begging him no marry me,he refused!He wanted a "agwalagwa nwanyi".Nonsence! .Nkita lasha kwa ya onu oji e be akwa!