Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

Preciouschinwe:
Las las you will still spend the money

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

PharmaGirl:
So which one?
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6 or 7?
Remember, it's not as simple as it looks .

Your time starts now!

Codyt:

Hello. I don't mind at all. There's a new group on telegram that ease newbies into ui/ux with tips and resources. Hit me up if you're interested.

Controller360:

Would be nice. Can I get your contact?

Codyt:
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My rates are affordable and I guarantee smooth work relationships. Kindly check my signature or visit my portfolio site https://lanremalumi.netlify.app if you have any projects and reach out to me. Let's create something beautiful together. A big S/O to you guys !

Controller360:
Nice, I just started learning ui/ux today.

SideHustle:
If you have any questions concerning the internship and registration, pls ask. We will be glad to answer.

Pimpstar:
I'm in. We go dey improve everyday.

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread

Obianujunwa1999:
I just wrote the online aptitude test today and scored 50% 10 questions right and 10 questions wrong....Any hope for me?

JamaicanLove:



I do have suicidal thoughts sometimes

Don't know what it means

But sometimes, whenever I think about taking my life, my thoughts go to my dad, how he would feel. The pains he would go through, when I'm gone.
He doesn't even know that I have chronic asthma, and sleep apnea.
I hide this things from him.
I'm an introvert, I don't associate.
Lots of things are weighing me down.
Who am I Kidding, no one here gives a fuc.k

makydebbie:
Case of mistaken identity, I can't answer your question.

babtaima:


Luis Vuitton on Supreme Just screams FAKE!!!!!! LV never did a collab with Supreme.. it's just like seeing both Gucci and Nike written on a shirt.. you don't need to be very savvy to know it's fake, you just need to not be a Nigerian.

odigbosky:



Being a boy here in this country, you are raised in a spartan way. Were i came from, we boys do the heavy jobs, what the girls do is cooking and cleaning which we also do very well. I have a mentality that i must protect all females in my house both the ones older than my father. i give my younger sisters the best things and tell my younger bro he doesn't have to complain that he is a man, this small boy is just 12. I scold him for beating his younger sister at home when she insults or disrespect him and i shower him with praises when he fights for her after she has probably insulted another boy outside. That was how i was raised, my cousin and i were taught to defend our sisters first as long as they stood a threat of being molested whether they are wrong or right.
Being a boy on this continent isn't soft, you wake up with the feeling that you have to be the one to save your family from poverty. It is your obligation to buy daddy a benz and build mummy a house. it is your sole responsibility to train or assist in the training of your siblings. Here, it is never about us first, it is about family first before us. i have guys who don't talk with their dads, not that they are quarreling its just that they come from a militarized background. where you are not allowed to have a relationship with your superior.
Please it isn't soft here for boys...help me tell them

NaijaMutant:
I've always known this school to be so backward.

A tragedy like this happened since yesterday and no student is social media savvy to report it.

I don't even think there's a nairalander in that school.

so backward.

naija2:

Most men don’t respect the positions we hold, they don’t respect our decision making, our contributions a views to issues. As a lady, we move down the street and we are body shamed or sexually assulted. So, yes we are not respected. I am not asking for the equality but what ever view or position I hold on a matter should be respected just as you want yours to be respected. A minister from an Arab country I presume, saying a lady needs to be raped or deserves to be raped because she wears a ripped jeans? For what reason and what type of respect does he have for ladies to say that?

houseofwags:
Wanna join house of wags comedy group on WhatsApp? we share comedy stuff like pics, memes and videos.Drop your number here to get added to the group.

IamKashyBaby:


"FAKE IT TIL U MAKE IT"

Im really great in pretending that I really care

Novelistguy:
5.....4.....3.....2.....1

This could well be the fastest Method to make a woman fall in love with a man ever discovered...and yet very few even know of its existence.

Even the leading gurus have no idea. I knew this only because I had stumbled upon this Method by accident.

Hi, I'm Novelistguy, and in a few minutes I'm going to show you how to get the girl you've always wanted. It's a 100% scientifically proven method. You don't have to cram cheesy lines, spend money to impress girls or make up lies.

First lemme warn you, this is totally for guys like me (or rather who were like me) - I mean friendzoned, gameless and totally wussed up. Only use this method for good. It hurts me to see other guys go through so much stress and rejection and that is why I'm posting this.

If you consider yourself an above-average, or even a typical guy, stick around... this is totally for you.

Let's face it.

If you were getting as much of the women you want. You wouldn’t be reading this. You’re here because you haven’t gotten the girl.

WHEN YOU TRY TO MEET NEW WOMEN, YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO SAY.

And the girls in your life “just want to be friends”. You’ve bought into the idea that the only way to get girls is to impress them. You know... if you just show off enough to a girl... Spend enough on her. Or do 100 barbell curls. She’ll magically want you.

Or even worse you’ve bought into the “just be yourself” lie. The one where people tell you...If you “just be yourself” for long enough everything will magically work out for you.

Well look...

ALBERT EINSTEIN ONCE FAMOUSLY SAID THAT...

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again...and expecting a different result.”

And Albert was a pretty smart guy.

So how did Novelistguy, this skinny short loser-looking dude go from zero to "budding dating coach?" Did I get rich? Did i hit the gym to get my six packs? Did I fake it on facebook?

Nope.

The truth is pretty brutal: I was an absolute loser with women until i discovered this method...If you looked up "loner" in the dictionary it'd say:

"Noun - A person who can't avoid getting friend zoned even if he was the last guy on earth (see. Novelistguy)

In fact, if i hadn't hit complete rock bottom, I'd probably still be terrible to this day.

Sometimes I'm really happy I discovered this early. Yeah.. My so called secondary school crush told me off. Another made me zonal officer of friendzone. I'm also the guy who couldn't get any girl (even the most unattractive) to march with him on his senior secondary school graduation.

That was me. I just sort of woke up and realized that I was a complete and utter wuss. I was a sorry excuse for a man!

Months later and I'm surfing the internet when I come up on a link saying 'The Scientifically proven method to get the girl.' I watch the video before its taken down. I was learning ...

A year later...its my first day in college. I decide to give it a try. I simply run the method on a girl (a completely gorgeous '8' ) in class for five minutes. She ends up looking for me to introduce herself and gimme her number.

Afterwards, I went back home and spent the night combing the internet. Then 2 weeks... Then a month...
6 months went by and I had read:
- 5 psychology text books
- 12 "dating advice" books
and watched over 400 hours of training videos on building rapport, subliminal messaging, seduction, attraction, body language, and personality typing.

I Was A MACHINE.

And eventually... I began to see patterns. Things that allowed me to plug myself into an "attraction switchboard".

So I created brand new techniques and tricks that the world had never seen before. All to help me take advantage of those powerful patterns that I discovered.

So what were some of those techniques that I used to get this attraction thing working?

You might want to get a pen and a piece of paper ready for this part. Remember, these techniques will get you results instantly but I'm just barely scratching the surface here.


The first technique has to do with a girl's mouth. Yeah you totally wanna kiss that. I know this is strange but did you know that if you look at a girl's mouth while she is talking to you, that you'll subconsciously make her think about kissing you?

It's an attraction trigger.

Attraction triggers are secret techniques that bypass all of her barriers and turn her on without her knowledge. And I'm going to reveal dozens of them.

These triggers are so stealth that they actually bypass a woman's logical brain (and yes she has one) and they speak directly to her emotional brain.

Here's another attraction trigger:
Did you know that over 90% of guys turn women off before they even open their mouths by facing them directly with their bodies?

Yeah... I didn't either! Turning your chest toward a girl too early is a subconscious sign of neediness (and it completely destroys attraction!)

How about this little trick: Before you really start talking about something serious with a girl...say this:

"You don't have to be excited," Then continue your conversation with her.

Doing this at the right time will subconsciously compel her to feel a rush of excitement. It uses this psychological trick called "Inception" named after the movie where mind architects have to implant an idea into a billionaire's mind.

And it's a biological shortcut that skips over all of her red-flags and plugs you directly into her "love center".

I don't think I need to warn you not to use that one irresponsibly!

Look... I know this all sounds ridiculously simple... Well... It is ridiculously simple!

But I've got a lot more to share with you if you really want to get the "9's and 10's". These triggers are going to get you in the front door, but they're not going to get you all the way home.

So let me teach you exactly how to get "all the way home."

But first I need to reveal a big big lie to you. If you don't see these lies for yourself, you'll always be invisible to the super hot chicks.

Because you've been lied to! A certain group of people want you to believe that women want this crap but they don't want it.

So let me start from the top:

1. Money
You think women want money?? Well guess what?

You've been lied to about money and I'm pissed off about it! Women are not attracted to big muscles either (most women are actually repulsed by guys who look 'steroided up') and it's not a full head of hair either (in 2007, a survey revealed that 97% of women actually find bald men sexy).

The Charm 101 system is completely built around two well guarded secrets in the world. They are Pre-selection and Fractionation.

What's Pre-selection? Preselection is simply making a girl think that other women already want you.

How do girls know that other girls are attracted to you just by looking at you? Well here's the beautiful thing... They don't! They are absolutely guessing... And they're pretty good at it too!!

But..

They're NOT Perfect at it!

And if you know the exact techniques... The exact techniques that I am going to reveal to you. You can make any woman think that you have a long list of hot women longing to date you. This will practically make her compete for you.

What about Fractionation?

Fractionation is the grand daddy of all attraction concepts. If the art of getting a woman was a gunfight, then fractionation would simply be bringing a nuke to that gunfight.

It is what the pros use to make a woman fall in love in as little as 15 minutes. Funnily enough, you may have actually came across or used Fractionation without knowing it.

It was discovered in the 1930's by US psychologists and has been kept secret ever since then. And for the sake of keeping it that way... I will not be revealing it here.

Guess who's also protecting this secret?
The MEDIA.

Well, cat's out of the bag, you now know that what women are really attracted to is pre-selection and Fractionation. That's IT. That's all. Everything else is A LIE.

But knowing exactly what to do to use pre-selection to attract flocks of women is EVERYTHING.

And, while I'm nothing more than just an average guy...When i started using pre-selection to get women to chase me I was completely broke and just a student.[/b]

But I was getting up to ten girls chasing me at a time and battling for my attention.

So now, I've revealed some pretty controversial secrets on this page.

Secrets That, Quite Frankly, I Could Get In A Lot Of Trouble For Revealing..

• You now know that looking at a woman's mouth at the right time will make her uncontrollably daydream about sleeping with you...

• You learned that facing a woman directly when you first meet her will completely and instantly turn her off..

• You learned that just by saying one sentence you can make any woman feel excited and turned on.

• You found out that women actually don't want money, big muscles, a full head of hair, or good looks...

• You now know (and this is what would get me in a lot of trouble) that women are actually attracted to "Pre-selection" and that you can follow a few simple steps to use Pre-selection to turn on any woman you want...and you also know that Fractionation exists (If I reveal it here I will surely get into trouble.)


Now, you can take this information that i've taught you here today and it will work...

Or, you can do what many guys do and get a headstart by learning the full set of attraction triggers that most men will never know along with Preselection and Fractionation techniques by keying into the Charm 101 system.

Techniques designed to get women interested... addicted.. and competing for you the moment they see you.

If You're One Of Those Guys That Wants To "learn This Stuff Over Time"... Then go ahead and close this page right now.

Because the next secret I'm going to reveal is only for guys who want my quick-start version.

Yeah... You might be a little impatient. But you know what you want and you don't want to waste your time with unnecessary trial and error. If that sounds like you, then you're going to want to know about my ultimate badass solution.

Mostly because no one else knows the secrets to bypass her logical brain that I do. It's not a recycled version of something you've heard before.

And I'll be revealing them, for the first time. It has been secretly tested by thousands of guys who are in my "inner circle".

I'm ready to open up this class to a few new guys who are ready to use these techniques to attract good looking, young women.

But... I'm only interested in revealing my full system to a specific kind of guy.

So, if you're already really good with women and you don't want to know exactly how to attract every hot chick you meet...

Then close this page now and do not continue reading. I'm not here to make the rich richer and the poor poorer.


If you've ever had a girl that you liked stolen by some loud douche...

If you feel too old, ugly, fat, short or weak to date the most desirable women on the planet without having to chase them or buy them anything...

Or if you're just tired of having to constantly try to get women interested in you...
Then I want to start downloading my brain into your head.

Let me just tell you about a fraction of what's in it for you in The Charm 101 system.



• Three magic words that will automatically make any woman trust you..

• A simple trick for talking to a girl even Yemi Alade without getting rejected... (foolproof!)

• How to make a girl you’ve known for years suddenly start to want you...

• How to introduce yourself to a woman in a way that instantly turns her on.

• How to control the secret “silent language” of your body to draw women to you from the moment you step into a room

• How to make a woman think you are an incredible conversationalist... Even if you have nothing in common with her...

• How to trigger a woman’s primal “bad boy” sexual response... without being a dickhead or a jerk

• How to inoculate your girlfriend against other guys. She will reject them all. It's unbelievable.

• Then I will expose you to Preselection and Fractionation and how you can use them.
And much, much, more...


So there's only one thing left for you to do now.
Enjoy the classes.
I look forward to working with you and seeing your testimonies.
Welcome to the big leagues.

HARDDON:
Deeboiy nland mail is a circus i cudnt wade tru.

Kindly mail: datingdrill@gmail.com

HARDDON:
Deeboiy nland mail is a circus i cudnt wade tru.

Kindly mail: datingdrill@gmail.com

WebSurfer:
Well, let's say I'm bored for today..

Same time, I'm thinking not every dress pattern should make it up to the gram.. So I'm asking

Rate my fashion sense on the scale of 1-10

Thanks


The Thread is open for all too... you can do thesame