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DEAR POSTER, PLS DONT LET THE BITTER PEOPLE HERE BULLY YOU OR MAKE U FEEL THAT THERE'S SOME THING WRONG WITH YOU.
Most don't understand that there are some basic courtesies that are expected of an employee to anyone associated with her employees in whatever capacity so you are right to be upset. However, try and ignore her and don't let her cause friction btw u and ur guy. Try not to also let her give his people a wrong impression about you by creating scenarios to deliberately upset you and cast you in a wrong light.
Leave her, she will soon put herself into trouble because she will behave the same way to others. Character doesn't hide for long.

I vote Lupey
#Lupey all the way
That Q & A was HOT!!! Wow!!!

Afam4eva
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Berem

Virgo[b][/b]

nikkyshyne: Thank God. So unfortunate she might have to deal with a scar on her chin for the rest of her life.

Moral of the story 'Thou shall not snob'!

U must be very callous and bitter for this statement! Haba! It is females like u that make women seem like self hating bitches.
As a lady, is it every guy that shines his 32 to u that u immediately become friendly towards? There are some people u just have a bad feeling about and the best is to keep ur distance from them.
What happened proves that there was a very good reason her instincts told her to keep away from the guy. The guy must be mentally unstable and is capable of harming even his friends or family if they upset him.

U pple should stay here and be shouting. U can only talk about this because he said it out. Alams and his wife are always in Aso Rock, infact they virtually live there so this is not news to those who know. Only God knows where this comedy of a country is heading to with these leaders who have no sense of right and wrong.

pawpawguy: did u mean the whole of 9ja is haunted?

Noo, only your house

Mavrick2012: pls dnt tel me u swallowd d post hook-line-sinker.dude THINK!!! If dey are true(com 2 tink most are located in d scientificaly cum tech advanced west)wat do u tink is stopin al those curious researchers(who are constantly lookin 4 wat 2 research)4m lookin,verifyin n provin al dis iratnal folkores.even witout riskin their lifes(wich dey ar ready to)wit d existence of micro/mobile cameras,robots etc. dey can reserch n prove al dis.rememba hw science made nonsence of "misterious" mamunda triangle? dude THINK!!!

MAMUNDA TRIANGLE KE Bros its BERMUDA. pls do ur research well next time

tinuolababy: My church doesn't descriminate against singles.Ɣ☺ΰ sit wherever Ɣ☺ΰ like. except there r empty spaces @ Tђξ front seats,no Usher will tell Ɣ☺ΰ where aπϑ where not to sit.Daystar all Tђξ way

Pls grow up!!! This is not about advertising one church over the other

Like scenes from a low budget movie. Something about the whole setting just looks so off! Still tryna figure out if its the quality of the pictures or the people themselves. BTW what is fred amata doin there? No be agbaya waka be this?

This thread has suddenly gone quiet...Anybody know whats goin on currently and timelines?
Thanks as you respond

komek: Bros I pity and feel for you, I undastand what u are going through right now. Just Ignore her and don't look her way again. Try and see the ugly part of that relationship and develop serious hatred for her, it will work. Cos it happened to me at a time too.

Very bad advice...Hating only affects the hater. The person being hated is most times blissfully oblivious so don't pollute urself with such.
Move on, u'll be fine.

sweetcheecks: 1. IGNORE HIM/HER

2. DON'T GIVE A DA*MN ( IF YOU DO FAKE IT AS IF U DON'T)

3. GYM, GYM, GYM

4. CHANGE WARDROBE

5. GO OUT HAVE FUN

6. FLIRT, FLIRT, FLIRT BUT DO NOT START A NEW RELATSHP YET ( ITS TOO EARLY)

7. CRY ONLY WHEN YOU ARE ALONE IN BED ( IF YOU NEED TO)

8. DO NOT GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO AVOID HIM/ HER ( JUST ACT INDIFFERENT IF YOU SEE HIM/ HER, NOT HAPPY, NOT ANGRY)

9. LOVE AGAIN ( BUT HE WILL NEVER STOP WANTING YOU BACK)

XOXO

Hi FIVE girl!!!!!

On a serious note though,getting to this stage wasn't easy at all,I cant thank God enough for seeing me through the break-up of an engagement/relationship which we had for years. But now I'm having the time of my life, socially, professionally and in every way. My self-confidence now is amazing and generally just a happy child. Word of advice (for the serious ones and not the jokers who jump in and out of casual relationships), dont let bitterness rule you, find solace in God..the process might seem slow but trust him, he'll do a complete job from the inside out. Move on from the blame game. Accept your part in contributing to what happened and LEARN from it so u can be better for the next person. Accept that everything happens for a reason and whatever doesnt kill u makes u stronger and better like refined GOLD...

Will post more if anything else comes up. Take care of yourselves.

berem: am not surprised! Mtscheeeew!

@op I love Freeze (cool fm)
Yaw(wazobiafm)
Anita esede(rythm fm)
OPJ(wazobia fm)
Overall favourite is FREEZE

lolololol

acidtalk: Shut the 4uc*k up!
You poverty stricken bit*ch.
Per paint? Olodo oshi.
Simply say "paint bucket" and we will have an idea.

Fo*ol!!! If na to jealous Goldie now na her smelling mouth go loud pass.

Razz idi*ot!

It seems this guy is unstable. How abusive can one get? Must u hunt down everyone who does not share ur point of view? Must u force ur opinion down others' throats? If there r more men like u then it means trouble is lurking for this generation.

acidtalk: How e go concern you?
Bloody sadist and enemy of progress.
If na to kill the entire Aluu Community now, na you go dey shout everywhere.

Blood tasty bit*ch.

^^ WTF?

acidtalk: If 3/4 of Nigerian ladies were as barbaric and evil as you are, i wonder if the whole ladies in this country will have a husband.

Razz girl.

Acidtalk or whatever ur name is..what exactly is your point? Its like you are even from that evil village but u just dont know how to say it. Hunting people like berem up and down with silly replies to their comments (Even if their comments are not 100% right). Whats all this nonsense about bringing up past issues and saying that because people kept quiet during those times they have no basis to express their viewpoints now The reason why there is so much reaction in this case is that the horrible and gruesome videotape and pictures are right in their faces. So why wont there be outrage? In life just one catalyst is enough to trigger a revolution, it doesn't matter which. For the fact that people are speaking out now then its something.
So do we keep our mouths shut just because its been happening before or because politicians steal money every day then we should remain sentenced to silence?
Pls think well before u make useless comments just because this is cyberspace and anything goes

igbsam: Who told you it was Nigeria. Its because of the ball he gave away during the champion game against Juventus. Fans were furious at him for such blunder and are all abusing him. Wetin Concern Nigeria with Racism, u hear say we white ? Rather, some Nigerians dey worship white men. We never chop belleful, na racism we wan begin entertain ?

Do you understand English at all?

Nigerians are so UNGRATEFUL!!! *hisses and walks away*

ITbomb: To ban a Username and to Killz a Username na d same tin na

The gullible men who will listen to this poster will never find TRUE LOVE!!!!

I've missed kissing and being kissed properly *sigh*

I dont think this OP is serious

OMGGG! I HOPE THEY GET BACK TOGETHER

adahib: Rarely do i comment on most threads on N/L. I'm good with just going through folks' comments but this level of hypocrisy just churns my gut.majority of folks here,males and females alike were quick to condemn kim while embracing mrs. Obama when in reality,they would jump at a chance to remotely look like kim(for the girls,hence the brazilian hair,fake lashes,glass nails and the likes) or to get a kiss from her(for the guys,every guy wants a looker)..think what you may,i'll go for kim.she is successful,aint she?

^^WORD

I smell a tummy tuck

Wonder how all these yarns really affect the price of GARRI in the market

obadiah777: First of all, know your place woman. the woman is supposed to serve the man. just because we are on this online forum does not mean i cant trace you and come and give you a serious beatdown for disrespecting a man. if we lived in biblical days or afghan or iraq you recieve a death sentence just for mouthing off to a man. know your place woman . and yes OBJ is an old fool and an slowpoke to boot. how the heck do you afford to buy a trillion naira farm on a generals salary ? he is a thief and a fool. someone who steals is a fool. scripture says
PSALMS 14 VS 1 The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.

so by his actions ( stealing ) he has denied God and that makes him a fool.

TITUS 1 VS 16 They claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good.

AS SUCH HE IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE A FOOL. AND MIND YOUR TONGUE WOMAN OR I WILL CUT IT OFF WITH KNIFE. I WISH WE WERE IN AFGHAN I WOULDA TAKEN YOUR HEAD CLEAN OFF YOUR NECK WITH SUYA KNIFE

Who is this clown? As a MAN, dont u have better things to do than display your joblessness and fanaticism on this forum? Na only for woman body u wan show power...I bet in actual fact one strong woman can hold u down and give u the beating of your life . Na mortar and pestle dem go use pound your spinal cord

P.S: Kindly leave Bible passages out of your show of madness.

eduson33: **clears throat**
madam,come collect your money jare.bring xtra kpomo and tooth pick.no time to waist...

Pls ban this clown...what rubbish

andyanders: What I keep asking here is, why should we not consider the state of our roads nationwide and the safety of the hazardous job you want to expose these young graduates? Have we not known that these our roads are death traps? Why must one come out and be given a job he or she does not want because he/she is hungry and must carry these trucks to die on our highways? Have we considered that our security system here is a complete failure in that these guys will be at the mercy of the armed robbers?

If you drive a truck outside the shores of this country like USA, you stand a chance of making good use of your time since they have time to operate as trucks are allowed to start operation by 10pm and exit out of the roads by 6am. Now, just take a look at our roads here and tell me the roads that are safe and you want a graduate after suffering to go to school to be exposed to dangers without any form of security. In as much as we appreciate Dangote's gesture to the youths, he should have employed them as marketers, than truck drivers. Creating employment for the youths should be seen as nation building and not a proposal for one's death.

Use your brain pls...everyone is exposed to these dangers you're highlighting even the so called marketers also travel up and down on these same roads. Bankers are robbed almost daily while commuting to and fro work

I'm quite disgusted at the kind of comments here saying Dangote should have done this and that...were u the one who worked the money in his pocket? Lazy ass people make the loudest critics whereas they cannot do one tenth of what they are criticising. In my opinion Dangote is a business man and not Father Christmas so whatever he does has to serve the primary purpose of benefitting his concerns and if along the line this also helps the society then even better. A huge problem with our people is this false sense of pride over nothing, I choose to call it laziness in disguise. No job is worthless, every job can be used as a stepping stone and as the first article pointed out there might be opportunities for career progression within the Dangote group or one can even become a fleet manager/supervisor elsewhere or even an operations/logistics person for dhl, fedex etc. I'm guessing there will be shifts so a focused person can even run a small business by the side or train further in any area of choice. People pls think and get off your lazy asses/high horses. Get rid of your caustic attitudes and move forward. There are so many opportunities in life but they may not all start of glittery.

Rick Ross is so handsome

acidtalk: Why should a lady who has been chaste, God fearing, humble and very well behaved eventually find herself ending up with a flirt, womanizer, drunk and probably a woman beater.

Because men are liars