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Yeah keep rejoicing as the same cray cray leaders rule over you. You can not see that the only change coming your way is change in party. The same old godfathers keep running the show. Dem just dey change uniform the man underneath is still the same.

So she had Blessing at age 9?

Seyiojewuyi:
Mumu go to his page @bigchurchhaven real estate @kingandrearealtors. @bigchurchgroup @bigchurchfoundation

Churchill take am easy. No too dey vex like that. You get to learn to ignore things some times.

Implication of teaching children to obey adults. Tell your kids not to obey any adult that sends them on errand. Let the adult come report to you and you will apologize and tell him/her that you told them not to go anywhere.

I hope the babies would be found soon.

How are they sure someone else did not do it and kidnap the mother? The police should investigate this one before we conclude.

I love this and will bookmark it for future reference. All the best bro

Wahala dey o

Surulady:
You are a counselor pls dm your contact I need to talk to you personally God bless you @poster if you do any other thing contrary to this hmmmm May God help you

You call that counseling? That shii that will throw shit ontop matter? That is not a good advice. Please do not apply such to your or anyones life biko. My dear the number 1 thing is for him to ask himself if he is ready to become a dad if no he should prepare mentally and physically cos her parents may chase her out in the end.
Then the next step is to break the news to his parents (Hopefully he has his own place by no cos they may also throw him out)
Then he should alert the girls parents pastor
Then He and his parents with her parents pastor go to the girls house and break the news.
If the girls family insist that they come do small wine carrying on her head they organise and do it.
If he is still hustling and his parents are mad at him and kick him out he should go to the girls parents church and with the help of their pastor talk to her parents for leniency until both families can resolve the issue at hand. Which one come be big bible grammar through SMS? Is that a joke or what? We dey talk serious thing someone dey say send her mama SMS. LOL behind the girls back for that matter?

oolongtea:
no child should live as a punishment, born to parents unready to love it. getting abortion pill from hospital is N5k, it's not like it's free. the payment of that 5k will be them facing the consequences. bye





for those screaming complications of abortion, however u think an abortion is done, that is not how it is done. abortions are carried out with a single pill designed to halt the secretion of progesterone(pregnancy hormone). shortly after the pill is ingested, menstruation begins and there are no risks.





how many of the males here saying 28 is so mature got married at 28? 28 is not a child, almost 30 but in the nigerian society, an average 28 yr old male is not ready to settle down except he was born into money. he needs time to write jamb, finish uni, do nysc, get a job, move out of parent's house, have some savings and get a solo apartment. then there's the mental growth that i wont talk about cos only 1% of nigerian men bother about that.
there are ppl more mature than their age and OP is not one of them. he has no clue what he is doing. i dont know the average age of the males in this forum but i wasnt born yesterday. any mature man here would know there are questions OP would have asked that would show a man in a slight predicament but if given the right counsel will take charge of the situation but this is not the case here. yes, there are other options and abortion is the best thing to do in this case. 1 yr from now, whatever OP does, he will see the truth in this. when he finally matures and is ready to make moves with his life, he'll be glad he didnt make irreversible mistakes thta could have held him back.

and to the person talking about hustling teenagers who have single handedly raised children, oya typical nigerian lemme teach u something. anytime in life u have to compare yourself to ppl at the bottom, it means you're not so far from there. instead of telling nigeria that afghanistan is worse so we should not feel bad, why not say canada is better so we should not relax and work harder to catch up? why are nigerians so drawn to suffering and the idea of delayed gratification that has done them elaaa like 1million times? 98% percent of ppl on this site would choose not to be born in the first place if they could. yet, look at your parenting standards. instead of using a teenage hustler that raised a child the hard way to encourage OP, why not tell him about billionaires that started from the bottom just to give their children silver spoons at birth and tell him to work to give his child that kind of life.. why does the standard comparison have to be absolute wretchedness? if it has come to that, spare the person not yet here such a life, it's only fair to not bring them here. that's all.

So, after all said and done na to kill the pikin nain sure pass for you?

praxs:
Its not yet confirmed but we are suspecting pregnancy. I am 28yrs of age and my girl is 22years. We started dating not too long. We made love sometime last month and she missed her perioed. We used strip and it shows she is pregnant. We will go for a proper test today to confirm. Now here are the issues disturbing me:

A: She wants abortion but I don't want that: she's a student, hence keeping it will be complicated for her.

B: I have been thinking of ways to convince her but she's adamant, abortion is the best for her. Please more ideas for me on how to convince her. And if I successfully convince her to keep the pregnancy, how do we go about this?

C: Both of us come from a very strick family.

D: I am still thinking of how to report myself to her family. I could end up in police station tho. Do I go straight to see her parents (suicidal), do I go tell their pastor so we could find a way to break it to her parents. Do I go tro her parents siblings?

What is just the best way to report myself?

I need your advice's urgently please, coz we are doing the test this afternoon.

My dear the number 1 thing is to ask yourself iF you are physically, emotionally and financially ready to become a dad if no you should prepare mentally and physically cos her parents may chase her out in the end after all said and done.
Then the next step is to break the news to your parents (Hopefully you has your own place by now or you can afford one now)
Then alert the girls parents pastor
Then you and your parents with her parents pastor go to the her house and break the news.
If the girls family insist that you and your people come do small wine carrying on her head organise and do it.
If you is still hustling and your parents are mad at you and kick you out you should go to the girls parents church and with the help of their pastor talk to her parents for leniency until both families can resolve the issue at hand.

Very hard to entrust your business to the average Nigerian. Them go chop you ass winch dey chop baby in the womb. Dem go suck you dry and even suck your future generation own join. Then the ones that vex would even kill you off. You good o, you bad o, those ones just want what is yours and will do you in for your car or fridge.

You would not believe it but there are men who touch women in buses. I know a young girl who was a victim. It happens plus because a woman is up early doesn't mean she is a prostitute just like you are not an armed robber for being on the road in the morning. As for bank workers insulting customers, I have been insulted a few times and the insulters were men and women alike. More men than women even.

SARS, POLICE, MOPOL, POLITICIANS are all your friends. They are also friends with Boko haram, Kidnappers, Armed robbers, Cultists, Assasins and Ritualists

We don hear

As usual......Just blame the wife. It always saves the average naija man from any judgement.

You sleep with house help and got caught? Blame your wife
You give your neighbours daughter belle? Blame your wife
You rape your step daughter? Blame your wife
You rape your own daughter? Blame your wife.

Nigerians would sympathise with you the moment you say she was not around for you. If you don't have a wife blame your GF if no GF blame your step mom if no step mom, blame your father's sister, if no father's sister blame your grandma, if no grandma, blame the oldest woman in your village, if no old woman in your village blame the one in your street, if no woman in your street blame the spirit of jezebel, if you forget jezebel blame marine spirit. No matter what you do.......Blame a woman or female spirit. It always works wonders.

You have already moved on na. Dating for 6 months is moving on.

You can only get contacts of the girls and try to convince them otherwise on the other hand since prostitution is a crime in naija you can get the police involved at your own risk. You can also pray for the man and the girls.

LuciferChristi:
[s]If Buhari is a grandpa of 18 and he is addressed as such, I see no reason why he should deny it.
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Why is this woman so disgusted by what she is?

What Punch wrote is the truth - she is a mother of 5. Why should she be offended by the truth?

You're the one with a warped mentality. You have 5 kids but you do not want the world to know about it. Shame on your lot.

When you grow up you will understand. Hopefully you will do so soon.

LuciferChristi:
I don't understand...

Is she not a mother of five?

Does she want to deny her children because of her political aspirations?


Because of this, I won't even vote her. She must be one of those hypocritical feminists like Chimamanda & Linda Ikeji that are trying to hide their union with a man in order to look 'strong'.

Rubbish!

Why did they not use father of 8 grandpa of .... for Buhari? Why do they choose to use her motherhood as her identity? Na mother we dey vote for? Are Nigerians looking for the most fertile candidate to vote for? This mentality is why Africa can not progress. our youth see humour in every thing and downplay everything. It is a shame really.

Osaze007:
I stayed in China till Feb this year and I will tell you they are extremely racist to blacks they only worship whites

That they worship whites is true

Some Nigerians go abroad and start behaving like animals. How often do we see other foreigners fighting in the streets of Nigeria or standing along rod side offering their bodies for money? They come to naija and operate silently and achieve what they want and leave. Nigerians on the other hand (rotten eggs) go abroad and behave like apes soiling the name of the hardworking and wise ones.

He did not take selfie in the eye of the snake. He took a photo of the snake and it happens that his reflection was caught in the snakes eyes. It is a normal thing.

geoworldedu:
The holy spirit sabi better thing, chei! Holy Spirit saw Elizabeth, didn't sleep with her, prolly cos she was old, haggard and ugly. Sexy Mary, chei! This girl too sweet for straff. Sharply, Holy Spirit straff am, perhaps he drugged her cos she wasn't aware.
Sharply Sexy Mary got pregnant.

Sex b4 marriage, holy spirit is guilty. Hmm.

Christians in the house, come and defend the Holy Spirit in this situation.


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The things you dont know is more than you. When the student is ready the master would appear. In all I feel nothing but joy for you. Because you are alive today and have the opportunity to seek God and find him through Christ the Nazarene and messiah. Such wonderful opportunity did not avail itself to many who have died without repentance. I did worse than you are doing right now. So There is still hope for revelation of truth. May the good lord touch you.

MrPresident1:
He is just a chicken. muttleylaff-chicken.

I have decided not to reply any of his quotes again. I gave him the benefit of doubt and he latched on to me like one of the legion. I will ignore him from now on no matter what his quote is.

MrPresident1:
Stop being a cowardly pest. Come and meet me on that Aorist thread if you want to debate

Muttleylaff-chicken

Just ignore that one. His heart is full of deciet.

MuttleyLaff:
My prayer is that you will end up like saul who became paul.
- delishpot ©

Saul was known for hounding or persecuting the brethren,
hunting them down, getting them rounded up to be killed.
He even held the clothes of Stephen's killers, guarding them
and stood afar watching the killers carry out their dastardly acts on Stephen.

That is the summation of what Saul was up to
and what he ended up like
before his conversion and renaming to Paul.

Evidence of what you originally typed is clear enough.

You too like to tear people down. I have made my point clear that I want him to end this his journey of blasphemy like saul did. God called him in the end and turned him to paul. His end as Saul has an interesting story to it too. I did not say he should begin like Saul, I did not say he should live like Saul before he became Paul. Even if I was not clear enough or if I did not put it as perfectly as you think it should be. I have explained what was in my heart. If you like ignore my explanation and stick to the devlish thoughts of your heart. Please leave me alone. I have no time for your now. Get behind me.

MuttleyLaff:
Hmm.
If your prayer is that, he will end up like Saul who became Paul,
then brethren watch out for when the rounding up and killing starts

Wipes off beads of sweat from brow
Thank God, he is only good at writing fictions albeit denying it

He may not be killing by sword my dear, but misleading people is also death in the hereafter. So yeah, he can become converted like saul. I did not say he should live the life of saul. I said he would end up becoming a paul. I hope I am clear enough?