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Homeboiy:
And some girls dey count no 16 still de go

16 Hian are men that bad abi na the girl no dey shine eyes?

Olukat:
You have a point!
However, the man has started the process of reconciliation
I believe lessons has been learnt from the dark days of their union.
Let's hope they admit their responsibilities, forgive each other and build a better relationship.
In that case, there won't be any need to try other "points"
Have a great day!

Yes, reconciliatiins shoukd always be encouraged if the intentions are pure and not for the sake of cleaning ones character in the eyes of outsiders while still maintaining the same mindset when no one is looking.

The man clearly stated that he is doing it because he is tured of people giving him wahala. E be like how yoruba go put am ......."Oya gba, ma pka mi je"!
What he wrote is nott an appology Mercy could as well come online and say oya o, me too I have heard o. I have forgiven you can I also rest now?

discman2k2:
I know u r all tempted to blame the unguided man for his lack of sexual control. But wait o, ladies have u thot of what ur dressence is doing to our psyche?
All around what u see daily is sexual exposure of beautiful, juicy looking flesh, & daily u meditate on just how wonderful it may be to handle suuch flesh in ur arms,... and then you're in constant close contact with one of these daughters of Jezebel that feels no qualms sitting close to u in a mini skirt or sitting opposite u with legs wide apart, exposing Oh My God(some ladies could be so careless, u knw. And Wham! U begin to want her, & then it becomes an obsession.and then you go after her with all wooing, lying tactics. And nowadays, they dont feel any qualms if dude is married, they want to taste his experience. And Gbosah! Five minutes later, that's ALL!
All that desire just melted with the orgasm.,
.and you leave, feeling lyk a Champion, not knowing that the mumu was not afterall a big gurl like she forms.... ypur nightmare just began.... you are a man, you were supposed to have known better. That's the Conji World of a Man! Perverted in Lust.

Hmmmm, it is well!!!

All that is because men are not held accountable and are encouraged to explore. Do you think women dont have such feelings too? They try to walk a straight line because they know they are accountable to society and religion. should they miss step, no one would listen to their "he seduced me story". Peoole would say ah ah but you should know better now. You should have said NO.

Oladimejyy:
And how are we sure she didnt seduced the man

So if your wife was a lecturer and she has sex with a student because seduced your wife or if your wife slept with her boss at work because he threatened her job status, would you say it wasnt all her fault because she was seduced/threatened by the man? If NO. If you believe that she should have had the courage to resist his seduction no matter what! why then do you care wether she seduced him or not?
Some men would even blame a rape victim for not shouting loud enough yet you find a way to justify a man that was not under any threat to life or career.

Olukat:
I am not an advocate of domestic violence, I hate it with passion.
However, 'nomadic' marriages isn't a solution to domestic challenges.
Understanding the environment we find ourselves and avoiding issues that will ignite violence is what I suggested there.
Can Mercy state the truth why they got to the point of fighting? Is she a submissive wife?
That's their issue to resolve, good the man has apologies to her.
What you see before leaping from point A, may just be better off than when landing at point B.
Sincere discussion, respect, openness etc builds love and stable home.

If she says yes she was submussive? What other reasons would you then give? Have you asked her why she did not cook and take to the hotel? Do you kniw if he uses that food to feed his babes and she found out about it and decided not to cook again. I know first hand of a guy that does it. He is my cousine. His babe woukd ask for soecial delicacies that she ate from his cooler at work and he would call his wife to make it. The poor woman woukd run to the market cook and bring it he woukd tell her to drop it with the receotionist that he isnt at the office. Tell me if she finds out and decides to stoo cooking would you say she wasnt submissive. Being submissive doesnt mean being foolish. She is human and has brain to think too. Niw, I am not saying Mercy was right or wrong I am saying if a people start using violence when their better half doesnt live up to religious and societal expectations(note that sometimes men also dont live up to every expectation of marriage too) would that be permissible or it is only to be seen as a small offence when a man does it because his wife fell short?
What if she leaps from point A to point C which turns out to be even more better than point A and B? Point B may not be better but this world does not have only points A and B. I know of a woman who left her point A for the same reasons and she landed in Point C where she lived in peace and understanding till death parted them. If your hands are ckean then you need not fear to leave an abusive partner because even the universe would stand by you. The only time one has to fear is when ones hands are not clean and he or she wants to carry that same bad attitude to enter another marriage or relationship that is where the problem lies. But we should not say someone to remain in a bad place with threats of point B may be worse.

Snake era has passed crocidile things on board now. Lalasticlala weh done o. Enjoy your meal.

whizzyleejr:
Life imprisonement on top what, did he kill

Give him your daughter to rape for free. Is it because the victim isnt one of yours? Or are you a rapist fearing the same fate will befall you one day?

Babalawos:
Aboru Aboye

"Deliverance" do you mean the Christian (Church) deliverance?

If YES, that's not the solution to Ogbanje because Ogbanje is not demonic.

Ogbanje is who the person truly is. We are souls that have material body.

The soul of these particular set of humans on earth are called Ogbanje.

Let me ask you a question: "Can you separate one from it shadow?"

Answer: "No it's impossible."

The physical body and it shadow is the same way an Ogbanje soul is to the physical body, they are inseperatable.

The deliverance you see in church are only temporal solution because they are nothing but hypnosis, mind control and brain washing.

If you want to kill a tree, why cut a tree by it branches when you can uproot it from the ground?

The permanent solution to Ogbanje is to embrace who you are and dig out your Ogbanje pot or stone at the bank of the river or sea or home.

You can decide to discontinue by destroying it or you can decide to continue by not destroying your Ogbanje pot or stone and start to serve it.

But the church will not allow you to know this (the truth) because they want to enslave you forever for you to be paying every month tithes, offerings, sowing of seeds... etc because they want to be filthy rich and wealthy.

The sixth and seventh books of Moses and other Christian books was deliberately taking out from the bible so that the church members will remain slaves (sheep's) to their pastors and bishops forever.

The most annoying thing, these so called pastors and bishops secretly visit us for spiritual help but they will go on air to ridicule us (the fingers that feed him spiritually).

Thank you for reading, leave a comment

Babalawos

Why would the person serve the stone or pot? If as you said that it belongs to the person and the spirit and the person are one then why serve it? Can a man serve his own spirit? Can a man serve himself? Going by that your logic I can say that ogbanje spirit is the spirit of an entity that seeks to take over the body of an earthly person hence it shows its desire by influencing the person till he or she sucumbs to its demand by accepting and welcoming it or by cutting off ties.

MDsambo:
Trust me sis, those guys are not muslims. If they're muslims then why would they kill muslims? (ever asked yourself this question?)

Yes! I think I found out the answer. Islam has sects and sects dont get along so that is why they kill other Muslims(those of sects that they feel do not tally with their beliefs and calling)

Nigerian justice has been served.

This is what over publicity and ignorant handling of cases brings. A criminal having the guts to sue the police because they handled the matter foolishly.

Olukat:
Good one there!
This action will take the steam off Mercy's success in the media.
Madam pls forgive him, nowhere is better.
Those ladies and half men shouting and hailing you won't stand a minute with you in the cold

How do you know no where is better? That every man beats his wife or?
Yes couples have missunderstandings even parents with their kids but beating each other is not in every home.

Good. Stop feeding tgose polithiefcians fat under the disguise of EU assistance.

Op, if your fence is on your land then it is yours. If it is on yours and theirs then you both own it irrespecyive of who built it. He may decide to make you bring it down becaise it is partly on his land too. So, go and measure the land and find out where the fence sits.

Na there naimTiwa and Tonto use their own take do their fans and ACs long throat for donkey years

Well done sir you no get time for time.

Another baby mama things.

fuckerstard:
Naso you take fail the question o.

Hahaha no be small. I agree I be olodo on this matter

They stayed until God sent them out. That was how long they stayed.

ikechizoba:
Ewwww....."laying in State" LWKMD

Na lie I talk? just look at him in that red blouse and picture it in your mind.

Over payment abi over non payment?

Over patment abi over non payment?

This one wey dress like body wey dem put for laying in state abi na wake keep naim no want us to hear word these days again. Evans tori don dey fade now na huspupi own dey shele.

No need to waste that #5 milla. Go and invest it in those youths wey dey find capital and make profit from it.

The Bros don wise up. Unless she is expected to pay the child's school fees out of that money, then I will say 200k for just upkeep is more than enough for a child.

Lies in the name of profit.

Chibok girls.... The sacred cows of fed govt.

See how they treat people abroad yet we can't stand as one to make our land habitable for us all.

akinsmyk:
Well, sorry for using some language you find offensive. Didn't mean to. Maybe it was the height at showing my disappointment. Then you're still entitled to your opinion and the freedom to express it.

I see no reason why we should trade words over this. You might right that Tonto gave her money for bride-price. Churchill had denied collecting bride-price from her and he challenged her to present her evidence. This all a literate individual needs to get the difference.

Everyone knows Tonto is a liar and too desperate. Even if it's a rumor, she's proving the mongers right with all we've been seeing.

I am not justifying Churchill, he might be a cheater truly. He wants his wife, wants things work and you can honestly testify to that. It's understandable if Tonto doesn't wanna be with a cheater anymore but why try ruin him?

Everyone would had applaud her decision to stay outta d marriage but this drama is just too much for the one you onced love and has a kid with.

That's just my piece. Sorry once again for my choice of words on the last comment

It's all good. The bone of contention was that you said if she paid her bride price, why was it returned to kunle? I wasn't trying to argue if she lied or not. My point was that the fact it was returned to kunle doesn't eliminate the possibility that she provided that money to offset the wedding including her bride price. Besides he may have told her to give him cash any time he collects money from her under the pretence that he doesn't like going to bank or doing transfers. Smart players know their game. Plus if you read that story where they claimed she said so, there was no such talk from her rather she said his first wife paid her own(not tonto's)bride price. Unless I missed something.

ericsmith:
Jesus ,,marriage not even childbirth made a difference in her life,, why should my dick ...#she b national cake fr ballers jus wana have my share n pass her on ... #every olosho deserves to pay her bride price..

Go an collect Na.

akinsmyk:
I can't just believe that someone could reason this way. I am indeed so shocked. Now I know what an irrational thinking could be like. Use your sense nah.

If Tonto gave the bride-price to Kunle to pay, that is exactly what she would say. Don't you know her? If Tonto deceived you, must you deceive yourself? You saw the truth so evident yet you kept parambulating. I don't know what you hope to get from this

Churchill said he gave her 10m last December and he has evidence. He challenged her to present her proof of her giving him money. Teller, alert or something. At worse , she should print her statement of account and show us where and when she gave Kunle money.

I wonder when Nigeria will move forward when people like you still think this way.

Hahahah, so why has people like you not moved it forward? You said she claimed to have given him money, why is it inpossible to you that she did not? I am not here to argue if he gave her money or not. My point is it may be true that she gave him some money to help offset the marriage bill hence she claimed she paid for her bride price. Do you know how many women paid in full for their wedding? Is it because out of shame that people would call them desperate they have not spoken out?
You are the one being small minded. That she gave Kunle money to spend on their marriage doesnt mean her dad should hand over the bride price to her. It was kunle that gave it to him not Tonto. So abeg, bride price was returned does not mean that tonto could not have been the one who funded it. If he gave her ten million today or when ever, does it mean that he may not have been low on cash during their wedding? So because someone gives you a million today means he has never been broke or low on cash in the past? Abeg be rational and keep the insults low. What if he always collected cash? Yes, a player that knows his gane is smart and kniws how to evade detection that one day she may claim that she gave him money? If she says she paid her bride price so in your mind she meant that she gave her father her own bride price? Hahahaha, you are not too good at comprehending things fa! So if I say I paid for your traditional marriage rites you would expect people to think I carried the money and did everything myself? Oga it is another way of saying the expenses fell on me not that I went and did it all myself
You aint got monopoly to name calling you know. I aint doing too badly in that department o. Make I just use maturity try corner your craze first and see where this path leads.

Sorry na double post

Maga don pay. The big boys would fight over that money and share it. Nothing would be done to benefit the community it was intended for

3RNEST:
her marriage why the break up?

Na scam. They no follow the vow.

But what has returning bride price got to do with being a scam. Na that one I no understand.

3RNEST:
come to think of it...Tonto father refundinq her bride price.. that's full SCAM from the beginning.

I dont gerrit