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nnokwa042:
thanks bro then let her go and share thier family land with her brothers in her village one day she will even like to break colanut in front elders of her kinsmen feminism my black ass again thanks

Have you tried to find out what feminism is about? What is wrong in a woman sharing her fathers land with her brothers? Is it a curse to be a woman? No be the same way dem born boys dem take born her? You are saying this because you are a man and as such you can have land ba?

blackberlin:
Delish baby, anyone can wiki or google up anything and copy the part that suits his/her views just like you did, so let's not go into that. Now rather than argue the semantics of the word ''feminism'', I'd like you to compare it to it's male counterpart, masculism.

Now compare both. . . if you reach the conclusion that masculism is right and there's nothing wrong with it, then I'd also agree that feminism is 100% right.

The keyword here my dear is extremism. . . Each party focuses on domination rather than equal rights and that's my point exactly.

Like I said earlier,Google is there for all to use. Whether I copy and paste or Clip and paste, it does not change the fact. Feminism is not saying anyone should be put down for anyone to survive. If your so called masculism is about pushing down women, then it's wrong.
Feminism has clearly defined itself but I guess you rather take it from the way you wish to see it rather than use Google to "copy and paste" what those who stand for it belief their struggle is about.

blackberlin:
*sighs* You still don't understand the ideology behind feminism. . . There's a difference between women's rights and feminism. I won't keep schooling you guys.

Abi you Don write your own dictionary? What is the diff between women's rights and feminism?

Feminist movements have campaigned and continue to campaign for women's rights, including the right to vote, to hold public office, to work, to earn fair wages or equal pay, to own property, to receive education, to enter contracts, to have equal rights within marriage, and to have maternity leave. Feminists have also worked to promote bodily autonomy and integrity, and to protect women and girls from rape, sexual harassment, and domestic violence.[3]

Feminist campaigns are generally considered to be a main force behind major historical societal changes for women's rights, particularly in the West, where they are near-universally credited with achieving women's suffrage, gender neutrality in English, reproductive rights for women (including access to contraceptives and abortion), and the right to enter into contracts and own property.[4] Although feminist advocacy is, and has been, mainly focused on women's rights, some feminists, including bell hooks, argue for the inclusion of men's liberation within its aims because men are also harmed by traditional gender roles.[5] Feminist theory, which emerged from feminist movements, aims to understand the nature of gender inequality by examining women's social roles and lived experience;

What is evil in that movement? You are afraid that you will not have the right to sieze her kids and throw her out peniless should you decide to do so? Or you are afraid her new found freedom would make her not worship you like she used to when her only hope for life was in her being married to you and seen in society as a married woman no matter what abuse she has to endure to keep that status? Feminism by is not a power tussle thing, only that men wantbto have control over women and as such, fear to lose the one thing that makes them feel big. But a real woman shouldn't try to shut her man down, a real woman just needs her man to see that she also has goals, dreams, passions and aspirations which she can achieve with his support just as she also supports him to grow. Same with societies that feel women are not given proper brain from heaven and as such should he under the control of men even if the men are foolish.

blackberlin:
The funniest part of it is that she might actually be submissive at home. . . unless her husband is the recessive type cos there are men like that. Some women will form feminist outside, but inside they are sweethearts. . . so let's hope she's like that.

To show you that feminism isn't about taking power from anyone. If a woman misinterpretes it and starts messing up, it doesn't mean that it is what feminism stands for. Just as men have been abusing their leadership from time past doesn't mean those men are right or doing what is expected of them.

blackberlin:
When you're ready to get married, marry one. The feminism that african women are carrying on their heads now is what the white women who have tried it are running from. God never created women to be the head of the family, yet so many of them want to upset the balance of nature all in the name of gender equality. If a woman slaps a man, she's a weaker vessel, so no big deal. If a man slaps a woman, he's a monster. . .

Ara yin a to bale.

You equate feminism to overthrowing a man? Why are you afraid if you have been treating women well and you believe women should be happy in that position, why are you afraid to be put there too? Isn't it a happy place?
Oh the pain is only sweet as long as you are not the one experiencing it ba? How does your daughter being given full right as your son in the society mean she would take the manly role from him? Do you even know what brought about the tussle?