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TheRealestGuy:
Even in those historical civilizations, men still had to ask for the ladies' hands in marriage? Had to pay bride price?

My grandfather married 6 wives, but he paid their bride prices and carefully picked women of value as wives.

So cut the stuff about sexual value and get to the chase.

Who's the prize actually? Especially as we have to even commit our funds/goods by the way of bride price to secure their loyalty.

You don't wan to face the fact staring you in the face huh.

Paying of bride price is to exert ur masculine frame over her and her family. That's why western men are emasculated, they have so pedestalize women and as a result made themselves second class citizens.

TheRealestGuy:
They're not the prize but you have to pay bride price?

Let's stick to the African culture here cos it's the major culture that can even remotely offer support to your 'red pill' theories.

Paying of bride price is to exert ur masculine frame and dominance over her and her family. She is now ur property.

It's part of our culture that must not be tampered with.

bepositive11:
Dehumanising women to sexual objects. I feel so sorry for the women in your life.

I'm not dehumanizing anyone. Women actually agree they are sexual objects. Their sexuality is their value and their power agency, they are the sexual selectors for bleeps sake

ehay:
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Lolllll your eye go soon open....only Africans think this way. That's why the end up in tears when they leave Africa.

That's why western societies women are divorce raping their men and have made men second class citizens in their societies

Alexaonfleek:
Nothing factual in the gibberish you typed

Okay lol

Alexaonfleek:
Some people just open mouth waaaaa

Lolzzzzz

Facts don't care about ur feelings tho

bepositive11:
F*ck off!!! Women are not sexual objects!!! Is your mom a sexual object? Is your daughter a sexual object? Is your sister a sexual object? I pity the women in your life!

Women are human beings. Women have emotions. No human being deserves to be treated as a sexual object! A sex doll is a sexual object

All women are sexual objects including my mom, sisters and wives.

TheRealestGuy:
If she isn't a prize to be won, why do you want her exclusively to yourself?

Just answer the question, skip all the fundamentally not equal thing.

Because women show love through fidelity that's why no man wanna wife up a hoe.

She's not the prize because women are the sexual selectors and men are the relationship selectors.

cococandy:
you don’t even understand what’s bothering you much less understanding women and their sexuality.
Parroting incel talking points is not knowledge.

Lolzzz
U amaze me

Did something happen to you today ni, cos I don't understand where this bad and negative energy is coming from tho

TheRealestGuy:
From your line of thinking, you seem to be a young chap who hasn't experienced much in this thing called life.

So if men are the prize, why is it a man that has to ask a woman to marry him? Remember that a man asking a particular woman to marry him means he sees her as a worthy partner out of all the ladies he's ever met up till that point.

First of all, men and women are fundamentally not equal. Men lead, women follow. Now asking a lady to marry u doesn't mean she's the prize.

In a relationship(marriage) there's no partnership, we have the dominant gender (man) and the submissive gender (woman).

cococandy:
Mansplain to me some more.
Tell me what it’s like to be me. Go on

How do my hormones make me feel?
How does sex feel to a woman?
How will I know what to feel if I don’t have you to tell me?

Wat the Bleep is mansplaining??

So understanding women nature is mansplaining uhn hmm interesting.

ehay:
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Just for some time... After that short period of time, all we do is become considerate and work on our self control.

As the man u have to maintain frame, game and increase ur value. Ur woman is not the focus of ur life but a complement to ur life. U are the fucking prize man!

cococandy:
Look at the mental gymnastics it’s taking for you to accept your weird logic and try to make sense of it.

Maybe repeat it 109 more time and you might actually start to believe it.

Lol

U are an emotional estrogeneous being so u can't understand logic and common sense babe

neyohh:
Ok i meant southerners in general.

The North is holding for now, albeit a lot is happening underneath but still manageable.

We have Islam in the south too and they are holding it down. Infactbwe even have traditional worshippers too in the south. Gynocentrism is far from Nigeria bro

neyohh:
Demzee u be ma og , i know your iq is high asf, but look deeper.

The storm is coming, worse than the jamo/ black American.

Nooo

We have Islam and the north bro

Our society can't b fully gynocentric.

Until Islam accepts gynocentrism then we can talk

neyohh:
U mean black Americans and Jamaicans.. black African women raised abroad are ok for now... they're the best.

Naija women in Nigeria are now like black Americans and Jamaicans but people are still in denial.

That's a lie

Sterope:
Were you a woman in your previous lifetime?

I understand women's nature and sexual mating strategy

Rozcol:
What do you mean by men don't cheat,they just have sex? Like men having sex outside a union isn't cheating, its just sex?I don't get you.

Men are designed to be promiscuous and polygnous by nature.

ehay:
That's what you want to believe.... The only thing that keep women from sleeping with other men is the thought of what society will say not their love for their husbands (that why they are very careful in the act). Lots of married women sleep with other men (both physically and mentally) and still love their husbands.

Once a woman loves u, she respects u. Other men become invisible to her

AntiWailer:
Life is not black and white bro.

At times she sees a man she cannot av 4 life but he ticks every check box.

She will fck him and still love her man.

She can fck another man for cash to keep her love and make him happy.

She can fck to get cash to keep the family. Call her a whhore but remove the financial constraint and she will never cheat.

A woman can't love a man she doesn't respect. Once a woman cheats on u then she doesn't respect u. That's how women show their love through fidelity.

If as a man u accept a cheating partner then u are a low valued beta male simp

Wittyduchess:
For someone who refers to wife as "main bitch". You are better ignored.

Because she is my main bitch

All women are bitches

It's just that women are comfortable being sexually objectified by men with status and clout but are repulsed by low valued beta male simps who sexually objectify them

Wittyduchess:
Yes.

A woman can love a man and still cheat on him.

That's a lie

It takes much more emotional connection for a woman to have sex unless she's a LovePeddler. Once a woman cheats on her man, she doesnt respect him again. She's done in that relationship. Women don't love men they don't respect.

Men however can Bleep other bitches and still love our main bitch (wife). Men can have sex detached from emotions

Plead:
I doubt you understand the concept behind dates.

Please explain it to me

Humanoid01:
This is a degrading view of a species which you share common characteristics with. Sexuality isn't the only thing that validates a woman. If that was the case, then women wouldn't have the capability to make wealth and contribute positively to the society.

By the way, what makes you so sure that sexuality is not a thing that men should value? Why should it feel right for a man to cheat and a woman not to? That's a slave mentality and it doesn't do much justice to the purpose of coexistence.

Because privilege is invisible to someone that has it. Women from a young age of 18yrs are already having sexual abundance, men must create their own value to get such sexual abundance and it takes time to do this, it's always around 35yrs plus before men reach and maximize their potential. Moreover most men are monogamous because they lack options, a man is as loyal as his options. Monogamous men are monogamous because of necessity.

Men are women are fundamentally not equal.
Men lead
Women follow.

Men seek beauty, young, fit, feminine, cooperative in ladies
Women seek strong, status,looks and money in men

Humanoid01:
Everyone is born with values, irrespective of their gender. They just need to know which pertains to their gender and be able to uphold it.

If high value men have the right to exercise their options, why can't high value women do the same? I don't understand your point of view.

Firstly understand that men and women are fundamentally not equal. Men must become, women just are. Men must create their value, women are born with value ie their sexuality is their value. Women are sexual objects and men are success objects.

There's nothing like a high value woman. Women are hypergamous and wud never date or marry down. They don't see equality, they only see weak and strong men. They are the sexual mating selectors, men are the commitment and relationship selectors.

Humanoid01:
So you're saying a man has the right to have sex with as many women as possible, and a woman doesn't?

Yes because men must create their value and women are born with value.

High value men have options and have the right to exercise those options too.

folabayo:
Really...?
I like this ur analogy but i won't accept.
Because of the polygamous nature of men unwanted kids are being giving birth to everyday.
Am I permitted to use the word bastard?

So u will rather blame the polygamous men that make those women who Bleep those men take accountability ryt SMH!!

It's stupid because women are not built to lead men especially in a relationship

Mrscarter:
Lol mr high value man how u dey

Good afternoon ma'am

I'm good and you

Jeon:
Keep the sperm and egg aside
Keep the king and Queen things aside

K

Jeon:
I'm queer.
No need of points. Because you won't admit the truth.


THEY ARE EVERYWHERE IN NIGERIA.
Don't be a hypocrite

Ok

Jeon:
every minute the abortion are done in Nigeria. So why will it be higher.

Ok