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BABYharder:
6months.
But I'll rather use the world 'Courting' instead of 'Dating'.
For a good result, sex shouldn't be involved for the first 3months.

mmadu4:
simp kwa? i pray ooo . im ahead of you bro .

SIawomir:
As a real nigger, I've heard, or rather read that people tie the knot after as early as 2 months of dating, while some people spend as much as 5yrs to study their potential spouse, what is your stance on this issue?

mmadu4:
i have been there and done that not worth the time and the efforts . you will end up draining your self and your finance at the end of the day you will realize you wasted everything for one ungrateful self centered entitled hoe . the way this is going lots of nigerian women will be left with no husband to or boyfriend to milk then that is when they turn to prostitution if you are a nigerian girl shame on you

SALLYBERRY01:
Been following this thread for a while God bless the op, there is this particular word am looking for , the act of a girl choosing a powerful person over a weak person or the act of choosing a rich person over a poor person is called what

Mrscarter:
Lol maybe so.
Majority of men are but what im saying is there are exceptions.
Some will cheat non stop
Some will cheat once n feel guilty n then stay loyal. Some will not cheat at all.
Some cheat until they meet the right person that they love to much to cheat.
Thats what im saying

Saviolamemphix:
Guy try get sense Abeg even if na small

Jessepaid:
if you no win Grammy for this your stupidity then I don't know what else you are trying to achieve here...

you behaving like someone who has pussy instead of lips..

Use your head and stop all this nonsense...

TheLionofLasigi:
Your mum's legs?

TheLionofLasigi:
Islam is a religion of shit and piss that stops growth in societies.....real "alpha males don't depend on national or regional laws to be an alpha to his woman, beta males depend on religion and a moon god to act like alphas

TheLionofLasigi:
Majorly thanks to free crude they pumping from the ground....apart from that they largely can't survive,(we saw it last year during Covid when oil prices crashed but you're a manlet who probably doesn't follow the news)... even with that Syria, Libya, Iraq, Yemen, eygpt, northern nigeria are probably not enjoying stability talkless of peace....you can only dominate these women within those shithole countries, when you both flee to europe you better adjust cus now she has real rights or when the real 'alpha males'(ISIS/BH) comes to your home and takes her as their wife slitting your throat like a beta goat.

TheLionofLasigi:
Yeah you guys can fantom it by screaming Alister snackbar and slamming your empty skulls to a moon god invented by a pedophile prophet who has a fetish for 7 year old pussy.....with all your redpill, half of the middle east is currently in shits and every moon niggers dream is to enter europe for a better life.....real men create stable societies, not bitching about how they can oppress weak women.

TheLionofLasigi:
Yeah you guys can fantom it by screaming Alister snackbar and slamming your empty skulls to a moon god invented by a pedophile prophet who has a fetish for 7 year old pussy.....with all your redpill, half of the middle east is currently in shits and every moon niggers dream is to enter europe for a better life.....real men create stable societies, not bitching about how they can oppress weak women.

TheLionofLasigi:
Yet you nitwits blow up yourselves for the promise of 72 cunts when you reach paradise.....Islam is a retardded religion, meant for pedophiles, rapists, sand niggers and crazy manlets....Islam is the opposite of redpill and what patriarchy is all about.

TheLionofLasigi:
Yet you nitwits blow up yourselves for the promise of 72 cunts when you reach paradise.....Islam is a retardded religion, meant for pedophiles, sand niggers and crazy manlets.

Onyi22:
A real man

TheUndercover:
I've been thinking of something, from the couple of posts I read just now, a thought just came to my mind. Without strict rules or something to put everyone (not just women) in check in a particular society or country, these are what would likely happen in that society/country:

- Female hypergamous instincts will go off the scale.

- There would be violence and high level of immorality/indecency in the society.

- The little freedom given to the female gender is what led to the birth of feminism.

- We would live like animals, because in the wilderness, there are no rules.

- What's stopping most people from engaging in degrading acts is Religion and their beliefs or level of morality.

I know there are still more to this, but this is what I can say for now. We can all see the difference between a country that gave her citizens unlimited freedom to act on their will and the country which rules and boundaries was set for everyone.

In addition, women needs to be controlled in a society, if not, there will be chaos. Controlling the female gender can either be done by the laws guiding them in the society, a strong masculine figure around her, or her religion laws and beliefs.

phantomx360:
CODED:
I need a good husband.
DECODED:
I need an excellent provider.

phantomx360:
CODED:
I need a man to make me feel secure.
DECODED:
Above all,he must keep his financial worries to himself.

flogthem:
when we talk patriachy,don't bring Islam into it abeg.
We all know women in Islam are no more than slaves
its obvious you are power obsessed.
people who behave this way most times are dealing with insecurities and are try to overcompensate for it by being tyrants!

nobody wants to be under a tyrant,not even animals

SOZINN:
If you believe women cannot hurt because of the absence of gynocentric laws. You are inexperienced.
Never underestimate women.

brainmax2000:
did you really have to quote the entire post

aroundtheearth:
Your points have nothing to do with feminism. You managed to leave out the so-called misunderstanding between you two, which is what caused her change in behaviour towards you.

wofayouths:
Some Feminist with a good home training are nice and easy going because they have the right mindset becoming a

Feminist or joining the movement of feminism. They are self motivated and self driven to the core, if you date any of

such ladies, you will keep thanking God for meeting such person because they are backbones to their partners.

Though such people can't marry a provider but a partner. On the other hand, most of them are bittered or angry

because of their negative past experiences with Men. I realized that most feminists have similar past negative

experiences which led some of them into joining the movement just to get comfort and intimidate men as payback.

They are so proud and always want to be in competition with their partner or husband. Such people don't know what

submission means in marriage, they want to override the man by bringing him down instead of supporting each

other to grow. They are very unforgiven because they go into another relationship with bitterness and always in

suspense that what happened in the past relationship may happen in the present one. They are not self driven,

always seeking advice from their fellow angry feminist in their relationship matters.


My Experiences, There was this lady I met during my NYSC, whose name I won't mention at the moment because I

still respect her. We were just friends because my eyes was not on her but on someone else. She was not in any

serious relationship though but there was this my neighbour asking her out and my neighbour always told me about

her because he realized the lady was a bit close to me then and the lady herself told me about the guy because she

didn't like him. Unknown to me that she liked and wanted me because I rescued 2 different ladies from domestic violence and rape (She told me that later).


Fast forward to when we met in Abuja, we reconnected and started talking. I discovered she was even a Feminist and a

leader in one of the states, I ignored that because she was my closed friend before that. The following year I asked

her out and I told her marriage is what I wanted in this relationship, let's pray about it, I don't have time to waste.

In most relationship, challenges comes but what keeps partners together is their ability to understand each other

and thrive above challenges. We had a little challenge, which I apologized and she confirmed to me that she had

forgiven. I was always ready to say sorry if i err, she can testify that. But i was surprised at the things I discovered,

a. I discovered she has not even forgiven me, she was so bittered and I didn't know. Her response to me on phone was normal because she travels most of the times

b. I discovered she was broken from her past relationship and she has not been healed from it and she wanted to use me in the healing process which was a very bad mission for me.

We both have our flaws, my focus was on her good part because I knew everything would be fine if we both agree.


Meeting this lady after the misunderstanding (The misunderstanding was on phone) became a big challenge, I was

ready to meet her wherever she was just to see her, but she kept declining. One day we crossed our path in one of

the Government offices, she saw me first, when I saw her, I caught her pointing her finger at me showing me to her

friend in a disgusting way, when I saw that I just acted like i didn't know her because I didn't want anybody to

disgrace me. I couldn't believe she was the one I saw, because we still talked normal on phone. When i left the place

i called and asked her if she was the one i saw that day, she said NO that she travelled, I marvelled at that

response because only God knew how long this lady has been lying to me that she was not in town and all that. I

don't want to talk about the arrogance and insult which I have always overlooked because I believed it would stop someday.

It's a very pathetic story and lengthy. From my experience, this is my advice to guys that wants to date or marry a Feminist;

1. Don't ask them out until you confirm she is healed from her past mess.

2. Don't even go close to asking them out if they are too glued to their Feminist colleague because they will always get negative advice or hear stories of negative relationship issues that may replicate same in yours, what you hear is what you attract.

3. Watch out their Family background, how does her mum communicate with her father? In a respectful or harsh way? Some of them replicate such traits in their relationship. This is for those who wants to marry a Feminist.

4. Broz watch well before you marry a Feminist ooo

5. Watch out their friends, are their relationship working? If theirs are working, yours would work.

6. Don't be deceived by love at first sight the moment you hear she's a Feminist, she will change it for you if you make a mistake because some of them hardly forgives.

7. Some of them have a very bad character up bringing, don't judge them by that but look out for the good part of them and help them change from their bad character if they want to change.

8. Some Feminists have big spiritual issues and am going to talk about that in my next article.
Many more.

Thanks for ready people.

Mrscarter:
Yes. I dont care if u believe it.
Not every person is decietful or sex crazy.
Its actually real that some people are actually faithful n satisfied with their partner sexually.
Could u imagine the spread of stds if everyone was so careless n loose with their bodies.
U n ur stupid feminism obsession. Not all women are femenist.

WoundedLamb:
Lol... it's just funny how Nigerian men claim to know everything about both genders. You even go as far as telling women more about themselves. There's no kind of logic you guys will not bring up to make cheating on the men's side seem okay.

But then, do you know why it's called cheating? It's not majorly about the se.x. It's more about the lies. It's called cheating cause you both agreed to be sexually exclusive and you go behind to breach that. The moment you falsely claim she's the only one you're sleeping with, you're cheating and such lies make you not be trust worthy. Tell me, what then is a relationship without trust? This has nothing to do with gender and it definitely has nothing to do with whether you've got emotional connection with the person you're sleeping with or not. Looking into the eyes of someone you claim to love and lying through your teeth is bad enough.

If se.x is appealing to you, it also appealing to other genders. And regardless of how anybody loves you, they'd always see someone they'd fancy sleeping with. It doesn't mean they don't love you anymore, it's just natural. If they're obliged not to give in to that desire, I don't see any logical reason why you should.

Anyway, I was just passing and decided to drop my opinion. Enjoy your day sir.