₦airaland Forum

Boss13:
Western men are abandoning western women. This is what our women want to become. This is the outcome.

Aswear

Women don't think

Wittyduchess:
Really ,I thought Nigerian women were useless according to your brothers on this forum.


Anyway those lonely women will come and rob the cradle of your sons desperate for papers .

Exactly we use those miserable women and dump their ass in afterwards

Useless set of human beings tuehhhhhhh

BRATISLAVA:
Demzee, is this justified? This is domestic violence. It is murder.

This man probably supports statements from old men like edochie. It is wrong.

If she's a useless lady and isn't feminine, submissive, friendly and cooperative

She's already a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman

budaatum:
I do not see any common sense or science nor humanism in "kill them psychologically" and in "u will b shamed and ridiculed". In fact, I see no sense and complete lack of humanism in how you describe yourself and your acts.

I must say though that "common sense" is the sort of sense most do no work to acquire and just pick off the street because it is common like sand so I can understand how you might think you have something of value when what you have is really worthless.

Science, for instance, is the use of the senses, and is a learned skill. For though you might think you see, you really might not even know how to look. And that's talking about just one of the many human senses.

As for humanism, you actually don't sound like you know that it means, love your fellow human beings, or you would not "kill them psychologically" nor "u will b shamed and ridiculed".

Anyway, I do believe in freedom of worship and belief, so if you want to go about "kill them psychologically" and "u will b shamed and ridiculed", please go ahead and enjoy yourself. Just know that there are others out there who believe in an eye for an eye.

Abomination, aberrations and abnormalities like LGBTQ won't be d norms in Africa sha

We will never be like the western societies especially culture wise

Thank God for Islam

BRATISLAVA:
It's been happening long long before feminism. Hence a man who wants to beat his wife is just a wife beater. It's a thing about physical strength. Men don't beat other men because they know they will be beaten up in turn.

So all our great great great grand mothers were domestically abused and still encouraged their female children to get married and they also shame women who don't get married uhn?

JustforMen:
Poor and average is a very relative standard... and is not even an objective measure. what level of wealth qualifies one to be poor and average?
reading one single book on mating strategy will leave room for misapplication. Even monkeys and dogs get pussy why not a man just because he is 'poor and average' ... poor and average by whose standards?
Well, the irony of your argument is that poor and average people get more pussy than any other category of men. As evidence, you see population explosion in poor and average populations.
Infact, average and poor people dont struggle to get pussy at all and sometimes they even get it from women who pay them to give them.

I still want to know what a man is designed to gain in marriage that is worth all the suffering he goes through.

Poor men and average men get only one pussy but high value men get as many pussies as possible.


Again men gain authority, dominance and responsibility. Especially high value men

Wittyduchess:
Lol.


You lots say same about Nigerian women on this forum daily.

At least Nigerian women are getting married and enjoying their marriages and marriage institution here is favorable to both genders

Unlike in the western societies where everyone is just fucking around and no one wanna marry the lonely and miserable women there

DrFunmisticGlow:
Really?

The part of him blaming feminism for the actions of men is appalling.

So men who grew up watching their fathers beat their mothers, it's feminism that caused it abi?

How many of our great great great great grand mothers were domestically abused by their husbands

And how come the marriage institution was working then and it's not working now??

BRATISLAVA:
Sometimes you will wonder at the sort of minds people carry. And he even has gray hair.

When okonkwo in things fall apart was descending on that wife of his, was she a feminist?

So all our great great great grand mothers were always abused domestically by their husbands uhn

Wittyduchess:
You and Pete are the daft ones here.


If you want to be stuck in the 1800s go sit in the grave with your ancestors.

That's why women in western societies are lonely and miserable. They are just pure sex objects. No man wanna commit to them, they just want to smash and mover on....*tuehhhhhhh

Useless feminism

isthatso:
if a man is doing well, it is women who will chase you and you will not lack for women chasing you wanting a piece of your pie!!

Exactly

Because women love opportunistically

JustforMen:
There are more poor men in Africa than anywhere else on earth, so how do I understand your argument?
Poor, mediocre and average, in fact completely useless women, still gain the same with any other woman in the institution of marriage.
I still don't see what a man gains even with your argument which suggests that if a man does not have wealth, then he deserves to suffer.
Another double standard against the man who marries the usually broke, dependent leeches without requiring them to have money and even if they have money, it is for their own selves alone! most women are broke anyway...I did not say ALL because an insignificant percentage still dey try get some money without men.

That is why poor and average men should not even think about women or having serious relationships with women. Those men should Rather focus on increasing their value and understanding women's sexual mating strategy and womens nature and know game.

Poor and average men don't deserve the pussy man

Oiza131:
"men don't cheat sexually" you said?
Lemme pretend not to have read that.

Money wey no reach, he still dy share. Lol...
It is well jare

Men have sex and are not emotional attached
Women have sex and are emotionally attached even if she's promiscuous

Men don't cheat via sex
Women do

Sex is just physical to men

isthatso:
Thats exactly what I tell men, focus on your career, make a lot of money and women will dance to your tune whether you are married or not!!

Exactly bro

U come first
Ur purpose second
She comes third

Never pedestalize ur woman or any fucking bitch

ABANGWABOI:
My dear if your husband cheats .. Cheat your own too and make he know you did so, you have the right to do whatever you want too, it is your body now.. and pls update us on how it panned out after you cheated and made he know you did so..

Men and women are fundamentally different

Men love differently from women

Men Show love by sharing their resources, time and attention

Women Show love through fidelity

Stupid simp

He has pedestalized her and hopefully he doesn't regret it in the future.

Why do men pedestalize their wives for bleeps sake??

She is entering ur world and not the other way around.

Beta males shaaaa *sighs

isthatso:
true but for the average christian polygamy is taboo but they still have mistresses or are mistresses lol

The whiteman really did a number on us!!!

That's why I advice u don't become average as a man. Increase ur value and become polygamous

JustforMen:
Even in Africa, bro!
Men are just doing donkey job in most cases... nothing for them apart from suffering!

Those are the poor and average men though and they are meant to be suffering cos men must become and men are judged based on our burden of performance

Oiza131:
That's why Nigeria is where it is. We keep going backwards, in my time, bla bla.
I had a married neighbor that was seriously asking me out then. If you see this man's wife ehn, beauty finish work. She's neat, takes very good care of the children. Infact ehn, she's a definition of a wife. When I asked the man why he'd still flirt around despite having such woman in the house. He attested that he has the best wife but that she's boring. Imagine!!!
She's boring?!! Can't he make her to what he wants? Play with her? Take her out?... But no, he'd rather do all that with his whores and leave the innocent woman to die of boredom and doing housewife duties.
You guys think you have monopoly over cheating and justifying yourselves for the rubbish you do, only to take the blame on the woman. Is there ever a thing a man does wrong sef?

Men dont cheat sexually

Men cheat by sharing financial security and resources with other women outside his wife especially if he's not married to them

PrimadonnaO:
I wish I could share this a hundred times.


The man will be making sense , and then coat it with something very dismal.

These days I read the things he says and my heart just plunges. It's painful to have to unrespect a man I used to admire so much.

Encouraging domestic violence has cancelled anything else that made sense in that might have been sensible in that post.

So u are telling me our great great grand mothers were always abused domestically by their husbands and yet they will still encourage their female children to get married and shame women who don't get married

How logical is that for bleeps sake

Plead:
This man is a fool. Since cooking is a basic skill like you said, why can't the men learn how to cook and do the cooking themselves?

Old age doesn't equate having sense.

U are stupid

So u believe marriage is 50/50 ryt

isthatso:
I dont been abolished but we take it as a taboo

just saying,

If u are wealthy, it's not a taboo in Africa

budaatum:
Do you have a religion Demzee? What is it?

Common sense, science and humanism

JustforMen:
in the current reality, men dont have any of those gains anymore as the simp dominated society and the law has taken away all of that and you cannot honestly claim that men are still dominant.
so what dies a man gain in marriage today?

I don't know about u but here in Africa, we gain dominance, authority and responsibility

isthatso:
I always say the biggest mistake Africans did to themselves was the abolition of polygamy by Christianity. It is also the reason why there are so many single women 90% of whom are dating married men secretly and who will never find a good husband and will not want the shame of having a bastard child wheras they would have been respectable wives with legitimate children under polygamy. It is the reason why women have become cheap playthings to married men of means and why women are no longer regarded or respected in society.

if you meet a single presentable woman of 30+ in Nigeria, 90% chance she is dating or has dated a married man, above 35yrs 95% chance, above 40yrs, 99.99%!!!!

Polygamy isnt abolished in Africa. It's allowed under Christianity too and Islam.

Why wud u settle for a lady in her 30s though

nextstep:
Respectfully I disagree.

Nobody deserves to be beaten like a goat by their partner (of either gender) no matter the reason.

If you feel the need to beat a woman because food was not served, or some other rubbish, don't be upset if we call the police on you.

Times have changed Sir. Your mother was able to cook all these soups because she wasn't working full time as a banker, lawyer, engineer, etc. You can't expect somebody who's out of the house for 10-12 hours working, to do the same as somebody whose sole occupation is home keeper.

So feminism has come to help with men beating their wives ahbi

Queenlovely:
No comment because I would be biased.

things are changing

How are things changing

saphiere:
First it was: If your husband is cheating, buy him condoms.


Now it is: Feminism Is Why Women Get Beaten Up In Marriage.

How is women empowerment the reason for women getting beaten?

If these are not symptoms of old age what are they?

Modified:
I got it now. He means when women get empowered, their husbands beat them cause they are scared their wives would be doing better than them.
Men and their low self-esteem.

It's not about esteem

A woman can never love a man unless she submits to his authority.

Women are hypergamous and love opportunistically

budaatum:
Please show me one LGBTQ person you killed for sports in Africa.

And show me one case of illegal abortion in Africa too.

We kill them psychologically

They are hiding

They are aberrations and abnormalities

They will forever be in hiding, those demons

Same with abortion, it's legal for those cases I told u about. But if u commit it for any other reason outside those cases, u will b shamed and ridiculed

isthatso:
which then begs the question...why tie yourself down to a woman when you know if you lose it all for any reason she'll be gone (if she can find a more financially secure man) and if she doesnt go because she isnt capable of finding one..she'' give you hell!!! Especially whn you know if you are financially strong you can get anything you want from a woman without being married to her.

That's why I advocate for men to b polygamous, understand women's sexual mating strategy and womens nature and know game

JustforMen:
you are absolutely correct... you clearly articulated the benefit of marriage to the child.
but what does a man gain in the marriage institution, especially in the context of present realities?
that is the elephant in the room

Men gain dominance, authority and responsibility in marriage