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BRATISLAVA:
From the sorts of things posted on this forum, it's okay to be a liability if you're a man. Men would look at relationships through the money angle, but heavens forbid a woman does.

This is just another male golddigger thread. They were all interested in money, not relationships. Female money is their criteria, but look at how they lash out at any female who shares the same opinion with then. Men who hate women are such hypocrites.

The OP says he ran out of data and is using free basics. They will soon come to defend why he needs a rich woman to give him money urgently, when he cannot handle his internet subscription. His woman didn't give him.

Such topics are created by poor men. I never grew up among such whiners. Modern men are just bitter women with pen.ises.

Like braaah u are way on point with this

I love this!

ameh99:
I can not really understand why men date girls that are always demanding and receiving but never give back

I once asked a friend why his always dating broke girls and he said "is to be in control"

that when you date broke girls they fear you and you can easily control them cause you are like their only hope of survival.

As for me, am still struggling to build and I can't afford to add any liability to myself

Exactly don't be in an exclusive relationship till u have maximized your potentials

Confidently:
I thought you created this post?

Nope

Confidently:
I really want to understand this nairaland.
like creating my own post.
how to reach out people personal.

Oh that's not my thing though

ravensckar:
I wish I can like this post a million times! God bless you bro!


PS- Any woman who cannot share bills with her husband is a liability. Forget about borrowing me 5k, las las, she go still collect am back (directly or indirectly).

Only weak men share bills with their wives though

Prussian:
My current gf is in Mgt level in an FMCG. Under 30.
The previous one is CCO of a tech startup. Recently relocated to Canada with her husband.
I once dated one who is an investment banker.
The only student I dated runs her own fashion business. I helped her run some stuff for the business. This was after breakup o.

I don't date bottom-of-the barrel ladies and I don't fight them after breakup. I have developed myself to that level and taken a deliberate decision on who to fall in love with.

Not that I'll be negotiating a bill with a client and your girlfriend's father is flashing you and asking for 'Mtn card'.

So u love pseudo masculine hybrid beast women, interesting.....

I don't believe in building up with a lady cos I don't believe women build. Women don't build,they just move in.

A high value man won't b looking for a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman as a wife material though

Confidently:
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Am new here. I really want someone that will guide me, am pretty confuse on how to use this nairaland.
like how to post a new topic etc
Help a brother

Wat do u need help with bro

kokomilala:
@DEMZEE, everything! It's gender consumerism,and if flirts between greed and selfishness.

Men and women love differently

Men love idealistically
Women love opportunistically

Women show love by having fidelity
Men show love by giving their commitment, resources,time and attention.

Prussian:
You think so? As at that time, I owned my business and I'm not looking for a lady. I just wanted someone who can represent me in meetings, who can take executive decisions, not one idiot calling in the middle of a business transaction to tell me that her mother is sick and doesn't have money for hospital bills.

Why wud u want a pseudo masculine hybrid beast woman as a wife material

Women are not built for leadership and big business especially young women.

Why wud u prefer ur wife to make critical decisions in ur marriage That's forcing her to b masculine dude

Women make the domestic decisions in the home
Men make the critical and important decisions in the home

Men lead
Women follow

Thelucifer666:
It's that drunkard you call a father that's a bastard

Lol

Do u even know ur own father?

cococandy:
Constantly whining

Don't mind them joor

Weak ass men

Confidently:
Am 24
but y asking?

Please don't marry until u are in ur 30s

Don't have onetitis for that bitch

Maximize ur potentials now and think of marriage in ur 30s

Confidently:
l meet one girl on Facebook, she is 20 years of age. We had a series of conversation. We only talk on Facebook. One day, I traveled to the village, something happened and I needed the least cash. l contacted her to try my luck. she didn't even want me to explain, she immediately ask for my account details. I received money for first time from a female friend. Since then, she has always been my best friend.
Am even thinking of getting married to her. She is such a good girl with a golden heart �
Love her dearie ❤️

How old are you?

Prussian:
Have you ever dated a girl from a poor background? Yes or no? I have.

Remember that Traceey girl on Nairaland whose mother was complaining that her boyfriend didn't buy bread when he was coming to greet them.

U dated a poor girl wen u were not even a high value man. U were still a boy.

Men,especially high value men don't give two bleeps about women's status and money, infact a successful woman is less attractive to high value men

Oracleforce:
Most African girlfriends or wives are liability....having a stone-age mentality...
They see dating as another source of income and the wife family see their husband as a means of achieving their financial goals.....
Marry African ladies to your own perils....

Though.few of them are assets and rare gold...but you can hardly identify them except by the favour of God....
You see to flamboyant ladies are liability....some are school.dropout runs girl olosho, Ashewo....Ritualist, evil, and good-for-nothing.....
They only have three natural assets...namely....butts and boobs, and cunts...

Women are sexual objects though

kokomilala:
There's an infectious culture that breeds our young women or ladies as entitled liabilities.They believe men exist to take care of all their financial burdens,from feeding to sundry things like to go panties.This is a warped culture.

Wat is so bad about it??

Prussian:
Poverty is contagious. A rich guy dating a girl from a poor background will be poor in no time. This is because she will always need money and because the guy is a designated provider, she will never run out of requests.

Status isn't a requirement men need from women.

Women are hypergamous

Men are hypogamous

If she's young, attractive, fit, fertile, has feminine traits, submissive, friendly, cooperative and compliant.... She's good to go dude

First of all, if u are a guy and u are in ur 20s pleaseeeeeee don't be in an exclusive relationship with any lady. Spin plates and be redpill aware while also maximizing ur potentials and building ur dreams.

Now a smart lady is an asset if she's young,attractive, fit, fertile, feminine (knows how to cook and clean), submissive, cooperative, friendly and compliant.

tunapawizzy:
for you i guess, do u realize other persons might not like the things u like and it doesnt make either u or them stewpid...just preferences.

It doesn't make sense anyways

Look amh na

Wetin una dey do for that longgggggg

tunapawizzy:
life no get template, all men go do d one wey dey work for am

By dating for that long

It's stupid though

It just shows they ain't serious and the lady is getting older by the way

dangotesmummy:
everybody has choices and reasons they make the decisions they do.

Take it easy o

It doesn't make sense to me tho

Dating for years and u are a high value guy, it's nansense

Dalil8:
Good question with no answer unfortunately.

They have nothing else to use.

Exactly

Women are sexual objects

Men are success objects

dangotesmummy:
bad belle

Always having orgasm on tragedies

Just saying my shit

Why wud a guy, a high value guy date for more than 6 months sef without marrying his bitch??

Dalil8:
Yes. Women are predators to successful men. Always on the hunt, using their bodies as bait.

So Wat should they use if not their bodies??

I won't b surprised if they don't get married

Yusufisraelj:
Now you get where am going, the man in question should be someone who is very grounded about life with adequate understanding to lead the family properly.

Yes that why men must become. It's our burden of performance

Women just are, once a girl starts menstruating that's all. Women have inherent value.

Yusufisraelj:
Hmmm am trying to understand you but can't really place a handle on what you are driving at.

If you assume this position, don't you think your woman should be able to say one or two things about things?

Men lead
Women follow

Women already make the domestic decisions in the home. Wat else do they want again

If a woman cant trust u to lead her then she won't submit to u

Yusufisraelj:
What are you saying? You are talking from both sides of the mouth.

Tell me one man in this world who had gone far without a woman.

Name one, am waiting. Let me clear your doubts, for every one I will give you 10.


Am not saying women should be entirely dependent, but co-dependence is a higher form of living than forming macho be you man or woman.

Certain levels in life has to do with a man having a woman in his life before he can handle certain things, a woman should recognise what she's meant to fulfill in life and do it, equally making a living from it.

Men lead
Women follow

Women are the submissive gender in marriage and men are the dominant gender in marriage

Men make the critical and important decisions in the home, women make just the domestic decisions in the home.

Draslo:
Oga I've been redpilled since I was in secondary school. I'm the one that has been finessing them my guy.

That's good bro

Raggy:
I have been looking for a roomate to share the rent of my logde with but all the guys I know have gotten accomodation. There is a girl in my department that is looking for accomodation and has approached me.

If u are not fucking her then u are her girlfriend.

Guys and ladies can't b roommates talkless of friends bro

Thelucifer666:
Go and hurl these insults at that local prostitute you call a mother.

Do u even have a mother. U bloody bastard!!

Draslo:
I agree with your statement since you didn't say all Nigerian women.

Just yesterday, one sent me a WhatsApp message to buy her a nightie worth 8k on Instagram. I laughed and showed the babe I was with. She told me to reply her that her mates are buying nighties for between 500-1k at Oshodi and Ikeja Along. Laugh wan tear my belle but I couldn't do it. I just sent 3k and asked her to source for the balance elsewhere. Mind you, this na person wey I never see her panties before o. But really, if not for over dependency on men, why would you ask someone who you're not intimate with to buy you a night gown for Chrisstsake? Women have it too easy. Even the mumu that said I should reply her is set to leave this evening with a sure billing.

Because as a man u have to become and be redpill aware (understand women's nature and sexual mating strategy) so that u don't get finessed