₦airaland Forum

NewSoul:
And what award do you get by spreading your DNA on the face of the earth! who awards you a trophy!

It's pride for such men

To dominate and multiply

MrSamsung:
Look at who is quoting me. A very good and typical example of the kind of men we have now. Shockingly, many are adults and over grown up men who think they are matured. If women are sexual objects and they are not fvcking sticks or stones but men, then what do you truly called the men?

Anyways, when it comes to the blame game, do you really think that in any society or community that the blame should go to the women? Or shared, in which the female got the highest blame?

Think again.

Men are success objects because we are judged based on our burden of performance.

Women just are, they have inherent value for just existing.

Yes women must be shamed and blamed.

The thing is the gender that gets shamed the most in a society is the gender that's not in power and control in that society. Look at the western societies and see how they shame men and turned men to second class citizens. In Africa, women are shamed and are the second class citizens. And I love it like that.

The thing is both genders have been fighting a subtle war for centuries, check the Bible....which gender controlled which gender

JustforMen:
cant the so called lineage be continued without martiage?

Marriage institution especially having a male and female parent is the best form of raising children

budaatum:
LGBTQ and abortions are already norms in society, and whether you make them legal or not you can not police either since you can't place police in people's bedrooms and you definitely can not place police in a woman's womb. Most of the world already know this, and the harm caused by trying.

But hey, you go knock yourself out "making abominations and aberrations like abortion rights, LGBTQ rights illegal and criminalized". Personally, I'd rather be tending my own forest than my neighbours twigs.

Nope in Africa it's not the norms nd it's an abomination. We kill LGBTQ people for sports. They are pure evil and aberrations.

Criminalizing LGBTQ is a win for me

Abortion is legal in three cases, rape, incest and pregnancy leading to death of the woman

NewSoul:
Marriage doesn't make any sense to me. I have seen myriads of marriages and there is nothing meaningful abount that thing called marriage. This old folks pressure you into it so you can suffer like them, remember "misery loves company". Below are why you shouldn't find your way into that bondage called marriage

1. All women are the same, the unicorns are like 0.0001% of the entire female population. Don't be deceived by the religious ones. Yes! those ones that carry church and mosque on their head like gala, they will kill you faster. They have this illusionary sense of "holiness" that they carry about. They are very careful with chatting, you can't play with them because they are too holy, they feel too big to text because they are holier than the holyspirit, some too become too holy at times to have sex with their husband sometimes pushing the man to adultery and they themselves are very good potential adulterers don't be deceived by speaking in tongues and long skirts. That's is why some men opt for so called former runs girls as wives because character wise a bad lady can act so good and become well mannered for her man, doesn't mean she can't kill him tomorrow but it's better to marry someone that is obviously a bad girl then marry one that thinks she is an angel but a devil in disguise. THE BEST IS DONT JUST MARRY AT ALL.

2.FINANCIAL Brouhaha: If you are a man just finding his bearing in life the last thing you want on your neck is a liability known as wife and some kids to cater for. Oga go and make money and enjoy your life. The world is over populated already. There are so many out of school children roaming on the street, why can't you use your wealth to lift them up. who knows you might be raising a future president. And what is the guarantee that the children you suffered and spent money to raise will look at your face to acknowledge and reverence you. some will leave and you will never see them again till u die and it's time to bury you. Some will say it is selfishness not to marry and raise a family, let me tell you now. It's is actually more selfish to get married why? because you want to have your own children, you want to brag about your children to friends, you want to eat the so called "f*cking fruit of your labour" wherever that came from which u may never taste because no child owes u anything.

Finally, The Greatest Book in the world; The Bible says "It's is good for a man not to touch a woman...." and singles and widows should remain unmarried" no be me talk am na Bible!

Trash

So u will stop ur lineage and ancestry line all because u cant find a unicorn

Do u even understand women's sexual mating strategy and Women's nature

isthatso:
All women are transactional by nature dont confuse that to mean every transaction is always a finanacial one, although finance and being able to provide is a big part of a woman's DNA because they are nurturers and needs to provide for her offspring! A so called good woman is simply a woman whose needs are catered for and respects the fact that her needs are being catered for where she is . Let those needs not be catered for and you will unleash the beast!!

Women love opportunistically

If u don't give her security especially financial security, she's going to leave ur ass. Women are hypergamous and are always looking for the best male mate to lockdown

itsRhamzy:
Nothing much..

You marry her and foot almost all bills including hers.

Both of you get children.

The responsibility of those children rests on your laps from school bills to feeding for at least 2 decades while your wife contributes almost nothing in those bills. she'll tell you it's your responsibility.

A man can survive alone but a woman can't.

She wants your commitment in raising her children in the best possible ways as you're the disposable gender.

You're just a workhorse tool to fulfil her most desired needs -money, commitment, children etc.


So when you look at these factors as a man, you figure the only thing you gain is kids.. feel free to delude yourself.

That's why u are a man

Men must become, men are judged by their burden of performance

As long as u are not cuckold, u have ur own seed that bears ur DNA and continues ur lineage

MrSamsung:
Nothing if you married all those girls who have bleeped their bodies and soul away in universities, corporate world and the real world.

But you will gain a lot more if you marry the one who has respect for her body and worth. Keeping it 'clean' for the one truly deserving, not for man-whores and fvckboys even if the only man she has tasted is a late husband or one boyfriend. For this kind of lady would understand the importance of building with, sticking with, enjoying with and suffering with one man

But unfortunately majority of Nigerian men don't deserve good women because they can't and don't encourage and discipline one female into one. You want to know why, watch or get to know thier action from childhood to adulthood.

Trash!!!!

why blame the men, aren't the women also fucking around too

Ur point is dull

This is beta male way of thinking

Women are sexual objects
Men are success objects

aremuforlife:
Marriage is made for both men and women to enjoy and contribute. They should both have equal contributions and everything should be ours and not mine or yours

Equality is a myth

Especially in marriage

Men and women love differently

Men love idealistically
Women love opportunistically

In marriage, the woman is the submissive gender and in charge of the domestic decisions in the home while the man is the dominant gender and in charge of the critical and financial decisions in the home.


Once u understand this reality then you will b well equipped for marriage

Cutehector:
He who marries a good woman obtains favour from the lord.


Men who are wailing married bad wives. Sorry

There's nothing like a good woman

They shouldn't be banned

Very true

Most of them have hoe around in their 20s

U can't see a 30 plus lady who is still a virgin

budaatum:
So, it's not that they ask you to allow them. I did wonder about you being asked for permission.

Who is making abortion and LGBTQ "legal"? Are you sure you don't mean decriminalizing?

And do you understand the consequence of making abortion and LGBTQ illegal? Can you police abortion and LGBTQ?

By making it legal is making is become part of the norms of that society

I'm all for making abominations and aberrations like abortion rights, LGBTQ rights illegal and criminalized

Wat she means by God fearing man is a man who doesn't know his value as a man and a man who still has onetitis and believes in the soulmate bullshit.
Especially if this is coming out from a nonvirgin's mouth after she had hoe herself around

budaatum:
"Allowing"? Your aborting and LGBTQ neighbours ask for your allowance to abort and LGBTQ? Are you some god in your neighborhood that your aborting and LGBTQ neighbours ask for your allowance?

Me, I never reach your level, sorry. My own neighbours do not concern me with their aborting nor their LGBTQ, and I can only wonder why your's would.

By making abortion and LGBTQ legal is Wat then??

budaatum:
How humanistic is love your neighbour and mind the forest in your own eyes instead of the twig in your neighbour's eye, and stone your neighbours only if you are sinless yourself?

I don't know, Demzee. Educate buda please.

By allowing abortion,abominations and LGBTQ is stoning my neighbors eyes

Interesting

Women are sexual objects

Men are success objects

Kobojunkie:
Interesting take on it!

Pure facts though

budaatum:
By supporting the right for people to chose to go to heaven or hell.


buda is not God!

Lol

How humanistic is that uhn??

budaatum:
buda is buda who does not fit in boxes.

As Christ said, one mus not live by bread alone or one will be malnourished.

But for current purposes, consider Atheist Christian Muslim etc etc etc, if you must define buda by the Words buda eats.

By supporting abortion and LGBTQ ryt

budaatum:
buda is a book reader, and not a Christian.

Hmm interesting

So an atheist then??

Politics is amoral, logical and emotional

Religion is pure emotional and moral

budaatum:
Jesus is the Word! And the Word is God! And who so ever understandeth it shall not perish too soon.

So u be Christian feminist interesting

CHoccolaTE:
But men are hypergamous na
Is it not on nairaland they always tell each other to date working class or rich girls

How many women date men that they have more status than uhn

Even in western societies women date ND marry upwards

Her significant other is a simp!

CHoccolaTE:
Sex obsession is in every mans dna

Also criminality too

But women commit crimes too and women are sex obsessed too especially when they are young

Wat a simp!

Mcslize:
This is why it is we men that are spoiling our women.

Have you forgotten the initial reason why God created a woman for a man.

Take your mind back to the Garden of Eden. What was the initial reason why God created a woman for Adam? He saw that the man was lonely and he reasons it will be cool to make him a supporter.

What does a supporter in that context mean? You mean if you as a man has a wife who is earning very well and you are still struggling financially, you won't allow your wife to contribute to the running of the home? Easier said than done until you experience it.

If a man wants to prove headship to a woman, it is not with finance. Struggling men whom their wives are earning way better need the supports of their wives or else they will be choked with so many responsibilities. What will your wife be using her money for in this case? To be dashing it out to her sugar boy whom she may be cheating on you with why you are killing yourself shouldering all the responsibilities in the home just to prove you are the man of the home?

Every man needs his wife support financially, especially those that are still struggling. That's why it's always been advised that a man should not rush into marriage cuz we've been brainwashed to believe that only men should shoulder all the responsibilities in a home whether their wives earn better than them or not.

Don't kill yourself with responsibilities if you know your wife can still help sort out some stuffs at home. That's how marriage was made to be. To support each other not to leave all the responsibilities to the man alone.

That's why some men have nothing to account for, no investment, no single property to their names simply because they want to prove that they are the men of their homes why their wives are having numerous properties all around.

Don't be deceived. Anything can happen. Let your wife support you as a man in the little way she can in the running of the home. It is only men who wants to be controlling their wives that always want to kill themselves with responsibilities in the home, just so they prove that they are the men of the home. That won't still make her respect you if you don't know how to handle your wife as a man.

To make a woman respect you goes beyond just shouldering responsibilities of the home all alone as a man.

Women don't care about men's struggles, they wait at the finish line and Bleep the winner.

Womens role in the home is to make domestic decisions.

Only weak ass and low valued men will make their wives their financial support system or their financial backup plan

Sixfeetbelle:
No, he wasn't. He was lonely. Very very lonely.

So, God had compassion on his loneliness and decided to give him Eve.

But you know the funny part about all this: God had made Adam to be his friend kind of, so God could have someone to talk to and gist with and do stuff with, expect foolish Adam didn't think God was enough companion for him and started to wish for another companion. Unfortunately for him, Eve was smart enough to realise Adam wasn't a good friend to have, so she decided to make friends with the serpent instead.

Adam never asked God for a companion though

CHoccolaTE:
Ok, every man is sex obsessed and cannot control themselves around naked women.

Also, all men have very high tendencies to be criminals or rapists.

Nope

Hypergamy is women's innate survival nature

averageguy:
I think about even conservative Christian beliefs about the gender roles and while the belief is that men are the head of their families with their wives meant to submit, it's likened to Jesus submitting willingly to His Father even though the Bible stresses many times that They are equal.

So, I'm really curious about your statement that men and women are not equal. Respectfully, how do you come up with that?

Because women can't love their men unless they submit to those men.

Biologically, evolutionary, neurologically, physically men and women are fundamentally not equal

Men prioritize logic before emotions
Women prioritize emotions before logic

We have equal rights and opportunities under God and the law individually but it doesn't make us equal because we don't get the same outcomes individually cos we don't make the same choices