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She is in a serious relationship, and you are still chasing? You should go ask her plainly if she is interested in you.

harnu247:
ddeniyor ,u don dey craz, if that u are not so silly ,u cant be talking like that ,u better shut up mouth and mind your business from woman ok

Who is this newbie that has the inability to contribute intelligently to a thread. Trying to mask your low level of intelligence by insulting me won't work. It is quite obvious you know nothing about relationships. If you don't have anything to contribute, get off this thread. Vamoose!!!!

For now, put off the wedding at the very least. Things only get worse when you are married. I'd advise you to take a break from the relationship to reconsider things. It will let him decide if he really wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Right now, his mind is not in the relationship. Goodluck.

thats crossing the line but you already knew that

The North fighting cos their presidential choice in the election lost is not going to make a positive difference in their lives.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]EXACTLY. Deniyor, see the poster is Nigerian and offending the women, why aren't you
outraged? [/color]

While I do not agree with the poster on all Nigerian ladies being thieves, I find it more offensive for anyone to refer to my country, family or friends in such a degrading manner.

Funny, I asked my gf of two yrs last night what she would do if she suddenly found out I had a child. Her response was no problem, we will have to let the child like her too.

Hypocritically, I am not sure what I would do. I mean she didn`t tell me all these yrs!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=647873.msg8138370#msg8138370 date=1302922122]LMAO@debit cards in Nigeria. [/quote]

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]*sighs*

but did this negro say DEBIT card?                 
seriously? no tienes credit?!

*updated: LMAO CHIMA, GET OUT OF MY HEAD GIRL! I JUST SAW WHAT YOU WROTE!  [/color]

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=647873.msg8138501#msg8138501 date=1302925456]Girl! They do not have engraved plastic cards in Nigeria. He must be talking about that new Nigeria the ones with no bars on the windows like the other chatter said.


SMH.[/quote]Quite offensive. You don't go to a place and insult its people.

If you must stay with him, go learn martial arts up to black belt level. Also enrol in self defense classes for women.

^^^ True. The OP should also stay out of her friends marital issues.

That's how it should be. That is an independent lady, not a gold digger.

She lets you know she doesnt need your money or your bs. So straighten up and prove you can contribute meaningfully toher life other than your money.

Yes it is. The lady is too immature to be in a relationship and the bf should break up with her (not the other way round).

You already made the decision to stay with the dude. Just remember that while it seems hard to move on, all you have to do is make up your mind to do so.
The guy has no self control. He changed drastically from a normal dude to a gf bashing guy. He can change but the likelihood of that happening is low. For him to stop, two things must happen, the source of frustration must be dealt with, and 2. he must demand respect in that relationship.
Something is frustrating him and he is taking it out on you. Do you know what it is? It could be a school or job situation. Or a family situation. Is he seeing someone else and he wants you to go but is too weak to admit it to your face? You need to find out why he suddenly has become annoying. And you need to sit down and talk heart to heart.
You need to let him know you will not tolerate the beatings anymore. You don't want to leave him but you need to,even if it is just for a while. Knowing you have nowhere to go makes him lose respect for you.

Sometimes you have to descend to his level to get some sense into him. From your profile, you seem to be a student in SW Nigeria. You have friends in your area. Next time he beats you, beat him back or do something drastic to him. When he is asleep, strike him with pots, wood and stuff, whatever you can lay your hand on as much as possible. If you are scared, get boys to stay around incase he has the chance to hit you then. Let them beat him as much as he hits you. And warn him, it will be worse if he touches you again. Or you can do the boiling water trick, and run away. He beats you cos he thinks he can get away with it. Tell him it aint so.

^^^ The part I can't stand is the OP trying to justify the slut's actions. Maybe it is his sister, or just a made up story.

6 threads in 10 mins. Over 10 threads in couple of days. Damn you must have nothing else to do.

Is this you or hypothetical?

Another one of the Hot crazies.

Na wa o.
I even plan going to the nite club with my wife. Nothing wrong with that.

If her wahala too much, you can have her for free.

Ummmm, she should be the one leaving you

^^^^ Not if her present koboko is way better than yours.

She probably just ended a pregnancy.

Her heart is injured. Her love life is in pieces She is waiting for you

Miss 190, I take it that you are legally blonde.

BTW take your time to heal.

Going by your previous posts, don't go back to the dude. You deserve much better.

ayomide202:
yea right, i spoke out from the spirit of our gist at the table i didnt expect them to take me very seriously though

That was cos you were nosing into what pissed him up. You were probably told in confidence he did not appreciate being referred to as bf, but you had to rub it in didn't you? You sound like you have no respect for the bf or relationship, and are trying to sabotage it.

Do you have a bf/fiance of your own? are you trying to sabotage your friend's relationship?

None of your business

:-x