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FamilyRe: Nigerians In Calgary by deniyor: 7:05am On May 15, 2011
No you are not the first. I have lots of experience with such situation is why I told you to be careful. I will probably meet you when you get to toon town at some point.
FamilyRe: Nigerians In Calgary by deniyor: 6:34am On May 15, 2011
Second degree as against masters? U of S is well known for giving that. You just have to be smart about it. Nothing to worry abt tho.
RomanceRe: What Will You Do If Your Fiancee Puts A Condom In Your Bag/pocket While Travelling by deniyor: 6:10am On May 15, 2011
@TOPIC
Old news. Sharp guys already know that. My friend's gf got him a pack of cds. The guy quietly went to buy his own pack knowing his gf is up to some trick, maybe even keeping count. Just avoid the drama and spend your own money.
FamilyRe: Nigerians In Calgary by deniyor: 4:14am On May 15, 2011
henrywest:
@ deniyor, how's sk? Just got admitted into usask and intend working off campus. Hope undertable jobs are available there bro
You know you can work legally after six months and good grades? What are you taking in usask? your course load can affect your ability and time to take undertable jobs. The best one I can think of at the moment will be the 'washroom job' lol.
RomanceRe: Men/boys, Would You Allow Another Man/boy Take Your Woman/girl To An Event? by deniyor: 3:56am On May 15, 2011
sherrify:
Dis tread came at a gud time, just ystday my GF says she's been invitted by our male friend to stay indoors together  for 1 day, n she seems to see nothin wrong wth dat o
Indoors as in two of them lock themselves up in a room and hang out? or hang out with bunch of friends at a house party?
RomanceRe: Girls Girls Love Me by deniyor: 3:49am On May 15, 2011
I believe you. Given the fact that you can read and possibly write, you might make a good village headmaster one day. At least they can have some prestige being with you, even if they never get out of poverty. Goodluck
RomanceRe: I Don't Know Who Loves Me by deniyor: 9:42pm On May 13, 2011
190:
Why are u dating 2 ladies

work on that first before u ask for any advice
seconded
RomanceRe: Would You Date A Girl Your Best Friend Has Dated Before? by deniyor: 9:30pm On May 11, 2011
Depends on the scenario.

1. If I didn't know my friend had dated her b4 when we met and sizzled, no probs with it in any way. If I find out later, there is nothing to do since my friend had not said anything all this while.

2. If I met her through my friend, and was well aware of their relationship, the chances of dating her are slim but not impossible. I will only go forward with it, if my friend feels comfortable with it, and it wont mess up with our friendship and there is absolutely nothing btw both of them left. Else no way.

3. If we met the girl at the same time, and both competitvely went for the girl. Say my friend won initially but it didn't work out and I still like the girl (unlikely), I will go for her and if its clicking then I will tell my friend. If he is on board, fine, if he is not he can bounce. The stage had been set by the competition already grin
RomanceRe: Men/boys, Would You Allow Another Man/boy Take Your Woman/girl To An Event? by deniyor: 9:21pm On May 11, 2011
If a lady wants to screw the guy in question, she will screw him without the event. All she needs is couple of minutes for a quickie in the car behind your house, and still stay home with you without going home to the event.
Guys, don't kill yourself with worry or insecurity about a woman. If you don't trust the girl in question, don't date her.

When I moved to a nearby city, my friends wanted to keep an eye on my gf. She went to a party once, and my friend was questioning her later on how she got home, and who she went home with. I told him never to do that again.

I let my friends know that if a guy tries picking up my gf, they should never try interfere without her asking for their help. She can take care of herself. If she decides to do anything dishonorable, then its good for two of us. That way, I will know her true color and bounce rather than wonder if my friends had not interfered, would she had gone home with him.
No matter how long it takes, the truth will come to light. If it doesn't, ignorance is bliss grin
RomanceRe: Men/boys, Would You Allow Another Man/boy Take Your Woman/girl To An Event? by deniyor: 9:09pm On May 11, 2011
Wow a lot of guys here are very insecure in their relationships and acting like they own their ladies. Quite sad. Cos a lady is dating you doesn't mean she can't have a life outside of you. She can have female and male friends. Hang out / Go out with them too and do as she wishes. It doesn't mean she is going to cuddle, have sex with the friends or do anything crazy. Its all about boundaries.
How many of you can really say you dont hang out with other ladies? In my experience, people who are usually insecure are people who are really guilty of their insecurites.
RomanceRe: About Being Single by deniyor: 3:24am On May 11, 2011
I enjoy being single. You get to change women as often as you want, or your game permits. No extra woman palava or drama. I miss being single smtimes grin
RomanceRe: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by deniyor: 6:29pm On May 10, 2011
MzDarkSkin:
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LOL be nice.

@topic: whether I am married or not, I will cook for my dude.
If we are calling each other "boo", if he calls me his woman and I call him my man,
if we are intimate with each other then why would I not cook for him? I am doing everything
else a 'wife' would do so why would I not cook? How much sense would that make? Why would I not
cook and then be surprised if he runs to the alternative? some women have truly lost their value. Sorry to say. undecided
If you can't cook, say so but drop the 'too good to cook' attitude. it's not cute. You expect him to pay for your meals
when you go out but you cannot treat him? something is seriously wrong here.[/color]
This from Mzdarkskin shocked shocked
***on bended knee***Will you marry me?
RomanceRe: Advice Me Now by deniyor: 9:15am On May 10, 2011
Oga teacher, you have no shame!!!!!!!!!!
RomanceRe: Men/boys, Would You Allow Another Man/boy Take Your Woman/girl To An Event? by deniyor: 9:01am On May 10, 2011
I don't see any problem with it.
CultureRe: "Igbo" is to "Yoruba". "Ibo" is to "Yorooba" by deniyor: 8:32am On May 10, 2011
omo ibo wassup?
RomanceRe: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by deniyor: 8:08am On May 10, 2011
kandiikane:
But it can take you to heaven and back at the pace you want. It can be the exact size you want and can last how ever long you want plus it will not cheat on you smiley
You are quite inaccurate there. See it cant reach the places a real man can. If your Love Machine can do you as good as your man or better, your man aint no good. It doesnt give the roughness of a man. It is not as much fun when you are doing it yourself. It can last as long as you want of course, if you dont get bored or dry or both.
As for cheating, it really has no principles. Just need passed on to any other willing participant or owner. If you will admit to yourself, if you are using it, its not your ideal situation.
RomanceRe: Can You Date A Girl That Won't Cook For You? by deniyor: 3:02am On May 10, 2011
The thing about Love Machine is, it cant replace a man. It will not talk back to you after sex, neither will it cuddle you or hold you after the act.
RomanceRe: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by deniyor: 2:57am On May 10, 2011
However I do not think provocation is enough reason to resort to violence. If a lady runs her mouth off her you, if you cant walk away or avoid her, hey run your own mouth off too.
RomanceRe: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by deniyor: 2:53am On May 10, 2011
The only reason women hit men is because they feel they can get away with it. THe last lady that slapped me, got an interest on her slap. Since then she has not even thought of raising her hand on me or anything of the sort ( I cant say for when Im not around her). We are still friends but she very well knows her physical boundaries.
RomanceRe: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by deniyor: 2:50am On May 10, 2011
I abhor violence in relationships. No one has the right to hit the other person. In the same way, a lady shouldnt hit a guy. If she does, she should be able to stand the consequences.
RomanceRe: Wife Pregnant From A White Man by deniyor: 12:16pm On May 09, 2011
chiozor:
^^^^wht lies huh are you saying paternity test is not possible during pregnancy huh
[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=662831.msg8283685#msg8283685 date=1304925468]Medically speaking, a paternity test can be done on an unborn child. Thanks to advanced technology it is possible to determine the paternity of a child in the mother's womb.[/quote]My bad! embarassed Good to know a dude doesnt hv to wait for 9 months to find out. Thanks
RomanceRe: Wife Pregnant From A White Man by deniyor: 7:49am On May 09, 2011
[quote author=deal_ordea link=topic=662831.msg8282251#msg8282251 date=1304894307]Very touchy subject here, but anyone else ever been in this horrible situation. My friend wife of 3 years just recently told him that she has been having an affair. She had 1 sons from a prior realtionship before they met, and they have a daughter together. Now she is pregnant and paternity test came back saying that the baby is not my friend own. She is a gorgeous woman who he love, but he is completly distraught. She has told him that she is willing to end the affair, but is too late to even think about an abortion. To add to the problem, even if he was willing to raise this child, the father is white His not a racist, just can't imagine the humilation of all friends and family knowing what happened. he love her, but the trust have been betrayed, WHAT SHOULD HE DOhuh? Help![/quote]Next time, come up with a better story. Paternity test on a pregnancy? Liar!!!!
RomanceRe: Is He A Gold Digger? by deniyor: 7:15pm On May 08, 2011
need more details
RomanceRe: Boyfriend Must Buy Girlfriend A Smartphone Or He Doesn't Love Her? by deniyor: 8:25pm On May 06, 2011
;d
RomanceRe: What Is The Big Deal In Hitting A Woman? by deniyor: 7:00pm On May 06, 2011
OP, would you hit a woman if you knew that she could fight back and probably whoop ya a s s? Probably no. Most guys who beat on women do so cos they know its one fight they would win. Its cowardly.
Moreover how would you feel if you lived your life in fear of being beat up constantly? Do you expect a lady to be in love with you after you beat her up? What kind of partnership do you expect to have with the lady if you profess your love to her but you beat her up to discipline her? Is she a kid? If she is, why don`t you go date sm1 who is an adult instead.
RomanceRe: I'm Confused: by deniyor: 6:38pm On May 06, 2011
hoeyeadoe:
Certainly not so far in my life have I imagined that it might be difficult  to decide between two men- I've always thought making decisions was likened to brushing one’s teeth (you always have an option).

I have two wonderful men in my life - one was my ex and the other, is my current. I left my ex 'cos I wanted to see what the outside world had to offer. I met my current 'cos he was supposed to be  the first specimen- told my friend it would last 2 weeks but it's lasting almost 2 years already.

My ex is back because he's met with a number of pastors & prophet-ess (UNSOLICITEDLY) and they've told him that it will be best if I'm part of his life. He is a sweet guy(occasionally), writes for me (really really like) but my pastor said ‘nay’ (spirit led encounter).

My current bf is very desirable -  never met a guy as HOT as him in reality- easy going, cool, collected although inseparable from him first family ( they are the first to know if he's going to get a new car, but I think I can deal with that) but my pastor said ‘yes with a selfish clause’ (spirit led encounter).

Anyways, they're both asking for my hand in marriage and I'm as confused as the Libyan rebels when they saw that they had nuked their own plane, partly due to indecision as to which of these men I should be with and partly due to my semi- anti marriage vibes.

Does anyone have a useful/helpful/reasonable suggestion as to how to reconcile this dilemma?
RomanceRe: I'm Confused: by deniyor: 6:37pm On May 06, 2011
hoeyeadoe:
Dear Moderator,

is there a way I can delete some people's comment on my post- like the ones I find really silly. I don't like useless talks but useful suggestions and would like to delete the irrelevant comments on my post. Thanks.
The truth too hot to handle?
Sorry dearie, this is a public forum where everyone has a right to an opinion or two. Not FB or smth where you can control or delete what people say.
If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.

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