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sweetyinks:
Hello Nairalanders,
Can anyone most especially the male advise me on how to make my husband open up. He does not play,joke or talk at home and which is not his usual characteristic from beginning of our marriage.
I am fed up of his characteristics and i wish I had an extra marital affair but my faith and conscience won't just let me.
Kindly advise me on how to make him talk.

For how long now?! Just keep it cool, and why cheat because he’s just a bit down lately?
Give it time sha, time heals a lot of things...

S.A

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peeps4u:
Nigeria's definition of ease of doing business.

Extortion and double taxation everywhere.
I still don't see the need of LASDRI when one is already licensed by FRSC with the issuance of driver licence.

Exactly my point... govt insisting on making that happen would force some out of the system

Mmm! What a life... now they vanished okada and tricycles out of major roads in Lagos, and now put cursor on drivers ?

I think they just wanna get rid of drivers to reduce traffic to its best minimum* I just think the few wise one should try get (registered) into driving the Lagos state new cars and continue in biz while you sold yours and make another good investment...

Fighting it or going into war doesn’t help the okada n tricycle guys*


I hail naija

It is well... everything looks perfect till you get so close to him* I think we shd stop checking out for perfections everywhr* no life is perfect... you must have ignored the signs and signals at the start...


God help you*

Gforce2015:


11) make sure you see Jesus and marry him

Eediot ! I know the person that wrote this craps is still in her 20s ....don't worry , go and ask some of your single Ladies in their late 40s .this was their mindset in their early days in life. They have totally missed it. And it has thrown them in the pit of regret.
By the time you will be 33, you will wake.
There is one lady I dated some years ago. Try lady felt that she is too big for me and that she can't settle down with me. ..when I saw her lack of commitment to the relationship , I started playing along Knowing full well that I will not settle down with her. Up till this moment she's still single and she is 42 years old.... good for her.....

She could be happy bn alone ... my tot tho*

Hi Op!

You made good strategic measures there and you seem a very good strategist I must commend...

However, just note that the corruption and mismanagement level are always on a high side in all biz setting; some staffs having no investment or share wud even stand at an angle having a higher ROI than the investor! They all at the verge of ruining it all, they all normally planning no good.

Just be more prayerful bcus they can get to you spiritually I don’t know how much you bliv in spirituality*

And pls sack the security man! Just tell the his boss you need someone younger and not him anymore! You dint employ him directly so you shd just go tru the boss you paying*

Plus, pls relax abit on the principles n tactics you introducing; they know better than you; probably some of them watch you growing... so you still need that family sense to get them together and make them respect you*

People will keep talking n gossiping; just use your deaf ears when you see it coming

Godoverevery:
Hi guys ....so D's happened to me over last weekend and I have completely changed towards my wife to be....
my fiancee came to see me over last weekend...Wen she was leaving very early Monday morning....I gave a thousand naira as tfare I saw d look on face change but I felt maybe she thinking I shouldn't av given anything since I wasn't dat cash up but to my amazement dat evening she actually told me she was disappointed with wat I gave her dat she was embarrassed dat it was too small .....I was really shocked and angry cos D's someone dat comes and I give 5k sometimes for tfare(her actual tfare from her place to and fro is actually less Dan 1k)...so during the chat I told her she knows I just invested heavily in a business I run as side hustle and am not dat cash up but she replied maybe I shouldn't give her money henceforth until am financially stable back...it was my first time of giving her 1k and she complained.
ds someone dat has a pretty good job.....till now I av completely changed towards her.
Trust me she is a good lady but D's incident made me really angry infact she was meant to come to my parent side for Xmas party but I have told her she can't come anymore.

coming from my previous relationship dat was a big mess I don't want to have another big issh again.
I just need honest advise on how to go about ds...thanks

I get whr you coming from Op!

Try these two things*
1. Change your mind about her visiting for Xmas and see how it goes; dt wud prove if she’s actually thinking in the same direction or want something so serious with you

2. After the festive vibes; tell her to borrow you some money... like you bn financial stucked n as your fiancee I think she should be worried

Come back with the result; sure you wud have known if she’s worth bn with at first

Mr Op! You don’t have to be selfish... that woman loves you so much; those words from her shows how much; some girls will just leave you to continue dating yourself!

Ts right dt she’s into another guy dt has more time for her but she still feels smtn for you and dt triggered all dt*

She wudnt have supported your hustle if she knew it wud be this way; now you re the breadwinner of your fam ryt? N got so much bills in detriments of how she feels ?

You know what to do

Ladykiss:


God bless you dennel, thank you so much.

You welcome dear;

Op I read all those from page one n I really felt so sorry bcus I cud feel your pain n what you going tru or must have passed tru*

I’m so sorry;

I’m sincerely sorry... wud have suggested you delete the thread but you can as well leave it cause it might teach someone a lesson in the future or help someone right now*

Ts never a sin you trying to be fin stable and get well shaped for yourself n family; but you only seem to be selfish and not helping the guy in any mean... it’s not your fault, there re lot of girls in the same shoes... they do forget while pursuing living you also take along your life bcus it matters most. I’ll be this and dt before I go down the aisle well always know it’s at your cost...

I wish you cud turn back the hands of time* normally or tru other mean, he’s married to the new woman and there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it...

Just let go; get closer to God; n hop your man comes at the real time you ever expected or hoping to... n I know you’ve learnt alrdy, you wudnt waste much time as much as you re convinced he’s your man...

Peace

healthserve:



The Op has deeper psychological issues bro. Don't bother. Nothing here or counsel from here would easily work. Some problems cuts deep into psychological, spiritual levels, not to forget deep flawed logic that leads people on a self-assuned path of safety till it cost them more than they realize. This isn't someone you can influence easily as they'll see themselves as hardly wrong, and yes not open to make needful corrections to lead a happy life!



Trust me I know this one. This is purely a psychological issues with the possibility of deeper spiritual background issues and then the obvious " habit " issues, habits that has been applied for so long that has formed the basis of how they apply themselves to life, hence they won't see their actions as wrongs cause over time it has evolved into their embelmic-actions

Noted bro... I think I like her charisma tho

Harlequeen:
he didn't try every humanly possible thing. He only thought she was good enough for him when he was broke and homeless. How.about coming to get her when he made it. Acrimony is the sad ending that wait for any person who plays the role of come up woman.

Well dts for movie analysts... ain’t one! Only made a close example

Harlequeen:
BUT THEN,when you forget the people that made your journey worthwhile, what type of person does that make you.

He tried every humanly possible tns to get her back but she was alrdy broken n chosed another path...

Do you even know that when we fixed seeing the bad out of anyone you’ll be blindfolded to the goods?! I think dts one of your challenge now; the first Tn dt will help you is resetting your mind

Harlequeen:
you only see one side of the argument. Remember that acrimony was a very controversial movie, and i do not think her character was wrong. What that man did is enough to make any woman run mad. The man was just not loyal,he didn't see her as worth fighting for when he made it.No matter how focused he is, taraji's mistake was financially assisting and feeding a full grown man for 20 years.

Always know dt people will get to their destinations with or without anyone seeing his/herself as their messiah; I think you need more of Jesus right now

Harlequeen:
i do not want to make that mistake of helping a man grow up, most men that have that kind of assistance from women resent it on a primal level. Men love women to see them as leaders, not in their weak and broken state. It is why their taste will change when they suddenly make it. I don't want to be coddling a man. I have seen the previous generation make that mistake too many times and ended back to square one, once a man throws them out of the house and marries another. Besides, i did that in my former relationship and experienced for myself that it always ends badly for the woman because she will be pained that she invested so much. I am not saying i won't assist. But he has to make it on his own without financial help from a mere lover.

Good... but rembr there’re guys who re just setting their plans n ambition; I mean you meeting them when they’re not buoyant yet but setting their lives: seen the movie Acrimony before? Let’s forget his worst side spending the woman money n let’s fig out how he was working so hard on the engineering tns n focused; he was broke, broken n at the same time loved... check out the ending story, the whole faults rest on the woman... he never changed all thru

So I’m saying, you need God, you only need an ambitious, balanced n cool man (you won’t c his interest and ambitions from afar), get to know him, be sure he loves you n you love him too...

Table turns; you don’t know! Guys cruising Benz today may become beggers tomao while the broke n broken today wud be in a G wagon supporting the old rich nigga you all are running after today...

God n wisdom is highly needed in situations like this bcus this is an issue dt can may or destroy life! Pls be wise

Hi Op! I just think you’ve read n listened a way too much to those relationship talks n all...

Always know dt there’s always a diff btwn theory and reality... ask people who attends motivational speeches (Ts way of the same attributes with relationships and marriage talks) it’s sounds too good but not always real because what works for Mr A may not work for Mr B.

I saw whr you wrote you maybe single @35, adopt n all... well if dts what you wished for yourself, you can have it!

A lot of women will deprive themselves of the joy of marriage bcus of pride, over pompous, ego, and all we do hide under self esteem and respect plus your so called specifications and attributes!

You all forgetting that the country is hard; so if you re lucky to have a silver spoon background why not assist a man you love up instead of giving them names!

My piece: pray n trust God, rebuild your h@ n mind to loving again (delete those blivs and what you read), fall in love, and men 10yrs older won’t make you feel so loved, so you may not really know what’s good for you...

All da best

She plotted it no doubts; girls of today re more than smart my brother* she knew what she was doing... it was arranged


Sorry brother*

I’m touched ... Stone hrt girls will always be one; they will never listen*


God help us

Acidosis:


Is it possible to do a thing without a reason? I've only asked you to state your reasons.

Oh sorry I don’t have that time...

Acidosis:


Why is Church wedding so important in your place? Is it about the foreign British suit and white gown or the fact that you need your pastor's blessings? If the latter is your reason, why cant a man just go on a visit to the pastor's office along with his bride for blessings? I hope you won't quote any scripture or make reference to the bible cos that tradition is non existence in the same book you and your pastor hold in high regard.

Well, you can’t force everyone to reason just like you and that’s why we have different opinions, races, beliefs, religions, tribes and all...

We all can’t sleep a turn our heads on a side, so dts why you need to look deep into others perspectives and either take or leave their decisions or ideas...

Mind you, I still didn't oppose or claim you’ve spoken wrongly responding* Ts your own opinion n you damn entitled to it*

Op must be thinking about how much hookers he wud have gotten in his bed with the bride price paid and all the expenses for the traditional...* anyways, whr I come from, both traditional and religious wedding are like 5&6* probably if you had tried dt we wouldn’t be having this conversation or post!

I understand that you are a man n those Tns matters a lot which most of those girls doesn’t consider but so selfish and sticks with the so called no sex before marriage tn* she mit be a real virgin you never can tell, she might mean it...forget that there’re experienced, dirty and borehole virgins out there*

Just respect her decision and trust your instincts...

You can hold yourself or go help yourself wisely whr safe*

Respect her

DARLINGTON869:
Pls nairalanders, I need urgent advice as I am confused as to what decision to take on this issue.
There is someone that is willing to give me his Camry Big Daddy ( TOKS, very clean with a perfect engine). However, the only issue is d hire purchase price (#3 million).
I had offered an initial hp price of 2.5 million which he regected on the ground that there were other person's ready to take d vehicle for 3 million. He also stated that the reason he would prefer me to have the vehicle is that I am single with little or no responsibility and coupled with the fact that I will maintain the car.
Do you deem it wise I take the vehicle for that amount or I back out.
NOTE: He also rejected another 2.7million offer for the vehicle.

I think you know he’s not doing dt for the sake of love but to enrich his pockets... However, I don’t how much the car cud be valued in an open market but you can just bit it down too* insist on paying 2.8m in the long run...


My piece

boladale123:
How much, please?

Looking for ib big boiz... it’s quite an expensive stuff* I bought for an amount close to 60k* but wudnt mind selling for 45k

Youngsage:

Lol. You are not ready yet

45k tho negotiable slightly

45k

Not too expensive