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Lol.. I did not mention your name

so you keep a tab on everyone..

what a job you got..

good job.

well done.

You even get mouth to call somebody ode.. aye ti baje.


Let me get bak to my million dollar job

Orisirisi..

[quote author=tpia@]Did YOU assume he's bad?

I believe the op's intention was to show someone you "think" is a westerner or a gang member/rapper might actually be an Islamic scholar.

And yes, he's a migrant, not sure why you would think otherwise.

If he was born in the west, which i doubt, then he must have spent a significant amount of time in africa.[/quote]I saw the video long ago. I dont remember anything that could have shown him to be a migrant rather than born and bread in the west.

I did not think he is bad but I would have thought that someone with that much knowledge of reciting the quran would dress better. At least not sag.

[quote author=tpia@]Seems people prefer to enjoy the benefits of divorce even without being married these days.[/quote]Are you responding to a.part of the thread or just saying?

When I mentioned obsession, tongue in cheek he said I abused him.

Now he is actually confirmed to be obsessed.

He went to look out for posts just to prove silly points like there are awards for them?

h3hhh3he!! someone needs a job.

sheniqua: I am wondering,how do they work the diathermy to stop bleeding?
How about surgical drills abi na hammer and chisel den dey use?
What if patient requires oxygen ?
What do they do then?
This is sick!!!

good questions..what if it is a surgery requiring diathermy?

but Oxygen does not require electricity.

Leopantro: I'm surprised people are finding this strange. this is a normal occurrence in most government owned hospitals. would you want the doctors to insist that electricity be restored before the surgery be done while the patient dies ? imagine your brother getting shot and you rush to a hospital where you are told the backup generators are not working. the next thing is "doctor, do something. you swore an oath".the doctor goes ahead to save his life with rechargable lamps because he is a humanitarian. meanwhile, unknown to anyone, your brother is HIV positive.

the Hiv part

pappilo: This happens in the US and UK too so kini big deal?

hahahha..

and so?

Nonso23: I quote Steve Jobs (RIP) thus
''Be a yardstick for quality. Some people aren't used to an environment where excellence is expected''
Anything worth doing is worth doing well!

I wonder why anyone with a chance to having it all would settle for less especially when the less is this dangerous.

Esji80: Yeah ofcourse he has d right.

BUT he wl b accountabl for watever happened as a result of delaying d marriage.

The father of a lady MUST NOT delay marriage of his daughter if a proposal is received frm a man who is of sound religion and character.

As I earlier qoute d Prophet p.b.u.h said 3 thngs shldn't b delayed: 1.salat 2.burial 3.marriage...Tirmidhi

In another narration he said "when some1 wt whose religion and character you are satisfied asks for ur daughter in marriage,accede to his request.IF you do NOT do so there will be CORRUPTION & GREAT EVIL ON EARTH".. .Tirmidhi

SISTERS: U also contribute to d delay of ur marriages; d husband I want to marry must b tall n dwarf,giant n short,must be fair,wt pointed nose,an Igbo by tribe n resident of SW,must have 10 flashy jeeps etc LOL

NOBODY IS PERFECT

So if a Father sees something that could be detrimental to his daughter, does that not fall under the 'character' part.

There is a reason he is the father and he will answer for it if he gives his daughter to the wrong person.

Like I said the brother needs to prove himself good enough for his daughter, if not, the father is very right.

Logicboy03: The thread is not here for advise on obsession
If you find the op not helpful, why not avoid it? Or better yet, explain what is wrong with the op- a good way to stay on topic.


Rather, you chose to say those hurtful things.

eiyahhh..pele dear. I ddint mean to hurt you.

oya, go eat some ileya meat..

Logicboy03: Calm down.

Where did I say that I'm a victim or that I see myself as a victim?

Do you just talk nonsense like this?

So you have to say it before I can tell?

hmmmn I forgot your real name is illogic

Logicboy03: "childish"

"obsessive"

You can go and call your husband those and tell him that you're not abusing him.....smh

lol..i said them cheek in tongue. oops I shld av added an emoticon.



dumb retort though..I dont have a husband..

Logicboy03: Doesnt surprise me.....

Deep down I knew you were right

You should stop seeing yourselves as victims. There is nothing religious about the topic. It does not belong in the religion section. This is where threads like this are put.

The complaint thread to Seun is also here and you know it.

and stop being emotional. I was not abusing you..

Logicboy03: I never said you must say something.....dont worry, am not the typical oppressive muslim husband.

My comment only asked you to focus on the point of the thread....rule 1 of nairaland.


Keep abusing me....you'll only look like an unfit mod

I don't see how this thread is helpful. It is like no point at all. That is why I gave the advice about not being obsessed.

You still don't get it?

Logicboy03: It would be a lot better for you as a muslim to tell the truth and face the issue at hand (Maclatunjis power) rather than point fingers at the messenger as "obsessed".

Some muslims are the ones who give islam a bad name at times

You knew I would see this thread. What I do with it is my choice.

oh, what did you want me to say?

that maclatunji is bad and should be replaced? so you can add more pages?

ehehhen! wake up!! and stop being childish!

I liked this thread and what it could achieve. Unfortunately, it has been derailed.

I know you are shia, Op. When I read any article by a shia, I close it immediately I see the slander against other Muslims and the salafi.

Can you ever talk about Islam without that addition! You will not achieve anything if you continue like that. At least you will never get anyone like me to listen to what you have to say.

Please refrain from doing that.


The discussion on the Op can continue

O ga fun e o, Logiki abi ki nan pe e na?

Stop this obsession. It is unhealthy.

Idowuogbo: Lolz...I b born again!! As for sallah meat, it no reach my side o! but we dey help dem manage d halal meat dem carry come.

I thought so too except for the born again part

It is all good. Have a good day.

Esji80: SEX IS VERY IMPORTANT D@ IT CAN LEAD TO DIVORCE as stated above by bro tbaba.

Though I agree wt U d@ there are mo in marriage. . .

D Propher p.b.u.h said "Young men,those of you who can support a wife should MARRY,for it lowers ur gaze and preserves ur chastity,but those who cannot should fast,for it is a means of cooling SEXUAL PASSION". .. Reported by al-Buhari

Not gettng married early despite d means he has can lead him to illicit sex esp if he has high sexual somethng ...waiyazubillah.

In another hadith d Prophet p.b.u.h said "those of U d@ av d means,shld MARRY n GENERATE, for I wl b proud of you on d day of recompense."

1 of d essence of marriage is procreation. . .wc can't b achieved wtout d sex we r talking abt.

IF am d 1 havng d means I can't wait fo ha 2 graduate b4 we marry.

I agree. Part of the means is having seen and known the right partner. The father of the girl still has every right over his daughter. So, he either waits for her or finds somebody else.

tbaba1234: The Islamic Divorce, a discussion from the Quran

An Islamic marriage involves three major entities,

Allah: the absolute controller of the home,

The man: subservient to Allah and ensures that the laws of Allah are followed in the home, He is the Wali (Protective friend) of his wife. His authority is within the limits set by Allah.

The Woman: Obeys the Laws of Allah and obeys her husband within the limits of the laws of Allah.

Men and women have rights towards each other and each party must strive to fulfill those rights. The first ayah we will review looks at a situation where a man fails to fulfill the rights of his wife by not fulfilling her intimate needs.

We start from Ayah 226 of Surah baqarah

Allah says:

Lillatheena yuloona min nisaihim tarabbusu arbaAAati ashhurin fain faoo fainna Allaha ghafoorun raheemun

For those who swear that they will not approach their wives, there shall be a waiting period of four months: if they go back, remember God will be most forgiving and merciful,


In this case, a man makes a oath to abstain from his wife (intimately). If he does not go back after four months, there are a few opinions of what is supposed to happen.

i. The first divorce immediately becomes active.

ii. The matter is referred to a court of law who order the man to either resume conjugal relation or divorce his wife.

iii. The wife can approach the court for divorce from the man if he does neither.

Therefore, in this case, a woman is entitled to a divorce when a man has taken a vow not to approach her out of hatred or rancour, just keeping her in a state of flux.

This is not applicable when the lack of intimacy is due to less malicious temporary reasons.

If they make a decision on divorce (first one), then Allah says in the next ayah:

Wain AAazamoo alttalaqa fainna Allaha sameeAAun AAaleemun

but if they are determined to divorce, remember that God hears and knows all. Surah 2: 227

More to come in sha Allah

I am patiently waiting.

The divorce issue has always interested me. No one wants divorce, but everyone should know the exit to anywhere/thing they are in..

Chillisauce: Happy celebration to all true Muslim!

Good morning all

Thank you.

The holiday is for two days.

You can call tomorrow

bellong: Happy sallah to all my muslim friends and family. Wishing you all the blessings of this period.



I have been inactive here for the past few days, thanks to this good long holiday. I am using it productively with my babe.... We are on a get-away... The experience is awesome.... Its part of the pre-wedding anniversary jollification.

Active posting will start after this "heavenly inspired" get-away....

Good day to all

Thank you for the sallah wish.

But this your get away sha..enjoy!! You deserve it!!

REALITY101: I don't give a hood shit above these folks

seriously?

You just don't want to admit it. You care. If not, you won't be on every Muslim thread that hits front page.

You are probably obsessed already.

Lagusta: concerning private hospitals....

The NMA supposed to have a regular check on private hospitals, they must all be well equipped and up to standard!!! Not just paying annual dues....

a private hospital must have an oxygen-giving apparatus, a resuscitation kit and essential drugs..... also a standard theatre and side-lab for basic tests e.g pcv, RBS....

If these little things are in place, then we are heading somewhere!!!!

Something very vital to medical practice is a second opinion. Even a fourth wont be bad. In many of those private hospitals, there is only one consultant who does the job of a GP, an obstetrician,surgeon, etc

Many of them should be turned to Primary health care centres because the facility they have are not enough to qualify them as hospitals.

In fact if there is anything I'd want the government to do right now, it is categorising all hospitals as they should be into primary, secondary and tertiary health institutions with the public very much aware of which to choose at what time and the strenghtening and equiping of existing PHC units.

Sanguine: Now does anyone wonder why the people in the medical field are called medical practitioners
That's simply because they are still practicising ...with human lives, sadly! Or how else could anyone explain this?!

The problem you see above are the doctor's fault or what exactly is your point?

Good