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*Hauwa*:
Melinda Gate wrote she quit work at some point to be stay home mom

Im sure most women would be if their husbands were worth billions too

Osisi how can you be complaining when you work part time?

what should us full-timers be saying then?

Crazy woman

Sample Ekwe was pretty big

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=guRVvM_yQ1k

No Yoruba

well cept for the "jeun soke" part

Is there a rule against it?

Seeing that this thread is by you Dafidi, I doubt they'll answer

They dont get married in mosques?

unfaded:
u 're obviously a deluded asshole
wot am saying is
infidelity shldnt be enuf reason to leave her husband
"God" gave her this one
and her cheated

answer my question instead of going on useless rants. Oloshi

unfaded:
the one you might end up with may be worse off

would you give the same dumb announcement to a man that wants to leave a cheating wife?

Also are you implying that God is so wicked that He would provide her with an even worse person a second time around?

Lol Good for you on changing o osisi, as for me Im still an angry driver.

maybe kids will change that. lol

Lol that Alhaji song is hilarious

Cos they're closeted homosexuals

Jeez three men had to carry her, or what am I seeing? Grin

Lmfao. You're terrible

wow this has definitely gotten nasty

Tahiru can be a Yoruba muslim name, it's not impossible. Only one Ive known by the name is Hausa though. The dude can be either Yoruba or Hausa

I just think its weird that such a big story doesnt have pics attached to it

Lmao Ive noticed that but Sengelese in general are quite tall. Even the women.

Egusi is the culprit for short rotund Nigerians with their bow-legs.

The reason why the makeup is so much is because OF the lace front weave. If you dont use an appropriate amount, it will be very obvious. The people that did it for her however over did it.

I like the 3rd one. The one by the car

www.nairaland.com/attachments/132396_ini3_jpg43e9b952e156835ed6ce6cedfb5c39bd

*Hauwa*:
since joining Netflix, i have had the chance to watch more horror movies. i have seen almost all horror movies. now am trying to watch more of the old horror movies. i tell you, i still get frightened! i just love to watch horror movies.

Im about to go back to NetFlix myself

in le dibloques, isnt that the one where they ended up eating the husband?

the tradition of men wearing gloves in Naija is very pathetic.

were you forced to wear gloves, OutStrip?

How dont they have a pic of both men

Hausas also bear that name Osisi

anyway where's a pic of this Tahiru sef

Um I believe I said Slim Ini is better than Uche. Even fat, she has a prettier face. Jackie is prettier than both of them however

why would i be shaving at 9. who's going there?

Is the 9 year old retarded?

The man has told you he's not interested in a commited relationship right now and you're still pursuing him.
From one woman to another,I'll advise you to get some confidence in yourself and forget this man.
He doesn't love you anymore and that's what he's tryng to tell you.
Find another Emeka or Chidi or even ozioma Grin

I agree. Guy said he doesnt wanna commit, she's still asking about marriage

Must people always use gigantic font like everyone else is blind?

Not to dog on single mom's but offsprings of single mothers see nothing in seperating from spouses even for the flimsiest reasons.

I dont agree. Many of them dont wanna go thru what their mother or father went gone thru and put effort in it for most part. Some to the point of staying in very unfavorable conditions.

Jackie is really cute. Love her eyes. She's getting big though for some reason

Uche is okay. Slimmer Ini sef is still better than her though

goin_crazy:
thanx NL 4 all ur responses even though some were more insultin than objective. please no insults - she's still my wife

i got thru to her @ 3am this morning and she really sounded happy (mus have caught her at a good time). I BEGGED her to come back (for d fifth time) and she refused again. she finally confessed she stopped lovin me 2months into d marriage and wuld've left but for preg and school. she said i was too serious minded. she had felt choked for the last 2yrs & 10months and really needed some space. i asked if she was willin to work on the marriage, and she said NO cause her feelings wuldn't change overnight. she's currently out of town wit some friends and left my baby wit her mum (this kills me). she has scheduled a meetin wit her lawyer for next week and when i asked if she will be willin to tell her lawyer d truth, she laughed at me and said (in her own words) - "don't worry, i know what i will tell my lawyer".

i am currently so depressed and feel like a failure (always been an achiever), not been to work today and already downed a bottle of wine. i really love her still and wuld give anythin to have her back (she's so fine).

maybe i shuld have given her momsy and siblings more money
maybe i shld have spent more time wit her instead of chasin money
maybe i shuld have been more sensitive (whtever dat means)
i guess i was tryin to be a straight and responsible naija husband instead of givin her enuf fun.

i jus dey confused and a bit tipsy,  

A person can be a responsible husband and still be fun but that's beside the point

Stop thinking money can buy happiness, that's why you're not happy right now. Buying affection doesnt work.

Next time marry an ugly girl  

Seriously give her space and stop the pleading. Eventually when you stop hounding her, she'll come around. If not, take it as a lesson learned. Money isnt everything

Quit being dramatic JJYOU. What does "hatred" have to do with anything?

JJYOU:
how do u know he wanted to show off his wealth?

Then why is he against her getting a job or what else do you do when you get a degree?

You skipped my comment on purpose. If the OP were female, your answer would be completely different,. Admit it.

JJYOU:
leave her and enjoy your life. just open your eyes and get yourself a smart lawyer it will be money well spent.

Since when have you started advocating divorce? abi it's cos this story involves a guy. When it's a woman, she's supposed to "forgive and be patient" abi?

All these slavemasters screaming "blah blah he paid tuition". so bloody what? They force his hand? He wanted to show off wealth abi? Now the girl wants to use this "tuition he paid for" to do some actual work and here you are all crying like market women.

The same people will then say Naija womann dont wanna work and rather rely on others. O bo lowo yin.

why rely on what we have to say? You know the relationship better than us abi?

spoilt:
@ OP
[s]Are you sure you're not my husband in disguise[/s]?

she needs a brother, spoilt :p