₦airaland Forum

Seems like majority here think depression is only one major issue. Many types of depression abound. As long as you are a human, you have passed through depression multiple times.
We tend to downplay it exactly the way we downplay mental illness in Nigeria until we see someone mad on the street.

Religion also help downplay depression cos they always give the picture of all is OK to those who believe. Just believe and wish it away.

Symptom of depression are fatigue, insomnia and crankiness. We can add headache, body pains, abdominal pains and constipation. So many. Be the judge.


All Nigerian graduates pass through depression, Nigerian students in tertiary schools, job seekers, those sacked, what am I saying. For the fact that yu are sick and couldn't get access to quality health care adds depression to your sickness.

Teerach:
I don't even go to church. I love being around people who truly love life and humanity. Not around people who do stuffs because there is a reward somewhere. Religion teaches you conditions. You do good to inherit a kingdom. You do evil to inherit virgins etc.
I don't need to do good to you because I'm gonna be rewarded. I'm gonna do it cos I'm in love with life and humanity. Because it's a sane thing to do. Because it's part of how I want to be treated in return.

Preach!

The is the genesis of the problems in Nigeria.

No act of true kindness from parents to kids, kids to parents and then the society at large cos you expect a reward for a small help rendered to others.

potent5:
Bakare is just envious of a fellow wayo pastor . Simple.

A man that behaves and talks as if he has a bipolar disorder.

Today he will praise bad governance, then he will turn round to criticize it the next day, another day he will say he is taking over as next president, the next day he will say he has formed a shadow government, bla bla bla.

He and Chris Okotie are suffering from the same mental state.

All of them have bipolar disorder.
Nigerian health institution don't delve into mental health at all.

Eriokanmi:
Unfortunately, he lost his family in the course of duty. He's got no family. He said this during channels tv interview. He's a brave man. When asked if he could be threatened for saying all he had said by chamberlain, he said...I don't care! We need more people like him to save this country from slipping into abyss

I didn't go through the interview.
Have been worried about him and his family.
He has nothing more to lose
The wickedness of man.
Gosh
Thanks for letting me know.
I wish there is means we can reach him and give him e hug at least to reassure him he isn't alone.

hahn:
Me wey I don finally lose weight

We are great. And yours?

Haaaa
Na buharinomics cause am
We are fine. Thank you

If na soaking garri, post am.
I miss your pictures. So entertaining

mardis:
If she had been regular with her anti nental and fetal scanning had been done at intervals, i am sure the sonographer or doctor would have seen the deformity right inside the womb and possibly advice against keeping the baby.

Because Drs in your village have the equipments to do that abi?

Built2last:
Your paymaster published to press that they have 400 BDC operators who are sponsors of Bokoharam, has any of them been tried.

You have a list already why do you want names when you haven't done anything on the ones you. Hypocrites

That one is very quick to come and attack as usual


Majority of them are fulani masquerading as igbo and yoruba

bukatyne:
True

That's why doing a SWOT analysis helps.

They don't do that at all
When the guy flash maney, the man becomes immaculate
When the guy see big nyash and boobs, oh la la
Then she can cook, he's in heaven
What again do they need?

socialmediaman:
We're talking marriage here, not boyfriend girlfriend relationship, unless OP used the word "spouse" incorrectly. You don't run at the slightest provocation, you try to work things out first.

Go and read what the @op wrote before you come with I too know attitude.

I will move, simple. No apology.y world, my rule.

Most of those defending the man wouldn't have been alive had their mum butchered them when their fathers ran away and never looked back orrelocated and married another wife.
Mtcheeew

Richy4:
This got nothing to do with marriage.. even flat mates does things like that...

I remembered sharing common spaces while in Uni, the Chinese landlord that rented the student accommodation wrote in the kitchen " your mother is not here, Please clean after yourself.

I love the man

socialmediaman:
These things kill romance in marriage; when you start learning about each other and don’t handle it right. My advise is say it to them politely “baby you know I love you, but I don’t like the way you don’t clean up after yourself”

That way she won’t think you’re trying to shame or humiliate her. If they continue doing it, it’s time to get more serious when you remind them, tell them how important it is to you that they clean up.

If they don’t change, it shows they don’t care and you have to decide whether it’s something worth reconsidering your relationship with them or something you can live with by doing it yourself. Maybe if your kids are grown you can have them do it. Marriage is wonderful

Spouses can be stubborn, I think intentionally too. Maybe the change you’re asking is too much for them, maybe even make them unhappy (not in this case though), so they intentionally keep doing it so they can beg later hoping you get used to it with time lol

You can't change an adult's encoded behaviour eg smoking, nagging and this.

Once you notice it, japa.
That's the beginning of resentment and anger. It builds up and other things will follow. Then you will forget its simply cleaning after oneself that's the culprit.

This is among the prerequisite for dating.
Mbok, what are we doing together in the first place?

I hope he was smart enough to have crossed his people over before spilling.

And that he do japa before Channels TV made the broadcast.

hahn:
You go belleful so?

Haha, where have you been?

You don get big belle now?
Cos your love for food eeh

How family?

Conspiracy theorist.
Look for a job.

Not only black people passed through slavery. The Irish were slsves too. They have moved on.
The first slave owner in usa was a black man. Black men had their fellow blacks as slaves too.

Move on. Victim mentality and laziness has made black man redundant. Nobody owe you shit. Go and check history of Asian countries and how they fought for emancipation and independence from fellow Asian colonists to where they are now.
But Africa man, so lazy. So dependent, their politicians prefers to steal than use what they have and better the lives of their people.

You obviously didn't research at all. Africa don't do drugs, it's the West problem. Africa especially your brothers and sister are medium used by the West to get drugs.

Go and work.
People actually believed he will give out 50k
Hungry man. They boast like there's no tomorrow.

bukatyne:
Real olodo

Anyways, common sense is not common.

The guy is very daft.

authority2006:
Gays in Afghanistan! That's some serious shiit. Even Nigerians don't like gays.

There are gays all round the world.any countries are still hostile to them eg South korea. That's not a religious country but they are very skeptical about them. I know of only one south Korean celebrity. Not long ago, China stopped gay drama. Don't know if they have started again.

Mr, why are you making video about this?
Reminds me of Nigerian gays.
Nigeria is a hostile place for them cos of extreme religious beliefs. Do we have gays? Of course yes, but they piped low cos irate people will not hesitate to lynch them.
This man would have piped low and look for ways to seek asylum outside his country. He is at advantage but he is exposing himself to danger and even those who will rescue him.
Olodo rabarata

Damage control

If it's in the hands of these politicians, they for don sell us,pocket the money.

But whenever the masses arr united, no matter how high you feel you are, you can never win.

He will start having problems with his masters in Abuja.

This guy is seriously regretting why he became a pawn. Most hated igbo politician.

Our dear governor.

Is he not from the North again?
Believe these people at your own risk.

The guy said he was told to take questions from........

Only in Nigeria
Rancing morning, afternoon and night

Only in Nigeria

crackhaus:
Does it require surgery?

Yep.

cococandy:
Food

That last one for me
Just the water is even enough

crackhaus:
I offer professional massages.

For you, I'll have it done FOC...

E pass professional massage o

Klass99:
Lol , this was funny.

How did you react when someone insulted your late mum?

Wetin consign me.
Totally ignored cos he was looking for an outburst from me.

Weeks later, he came and apologised. I had already forgotten about it.
I have trained myself over the yrs not to respond to insult with insult. I kukuma don't know how to rant and insult. Very tiring

Nigerian society where insults are hauled on people per sec?
I have seen a woman insulting a pregnant lady she'll never deliver safely.

Yeah, that's frustrated Nigerians for you
We are too emotionally insecure and petty most times.

Professional beggers association should be created

InvertedHammer:
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The Northerners are stockpiling assault rifles and ammo not necessarily for insecurity but in preparation for 2023 while the Southerners remain aloof and still talking about gun permits. Some things cannot be wished away. They will overrun the South in the nearest future. Don’t for a second think that if they defeat the bandits, they will throw away those guns.
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Northerners are the smart ones.
We only get mouth for south.

We are not smart at all.
That's why they have been controlling and now over running the South.

x123xlolls:
Does this mean Buhari is not worsted

GboyegaD:
And all he could do was slap her because she is a female, right? If his male friends that he can't handle say such, will he slap her? Violence has never been and will never be the solution. As an elder brother, he should know better than embarass himself and make the girl right with her statement.

To those quoting him saying he's right, I am trying to understand your points of view.

He just proved the babe right. Take this to court and an average charge and bail lawyer will make this guy cry in public.