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@ hot-angel and takinnuoye

thks for your response girls,

I've been going to the beautician for a while now and was just asking for the best method to shape it, at the moment, my beautician uses the Wax, i read somewhere that it not the best method to achieve a perfect arch.

I have the eyebrow shaver thing but I'm a little worried that it might give me an irregular shape.

Skidoc:
Well you said full eyebrows and I imagined the full tropical rainforest on a lady's face! Not nice at all. As a guy, I'm in the best position to tell you that. If you are someone blessed with plenty bush in place of your eyebrows, I suggest you trim it a bit, ok? Sweetie

sick-doc plsss i reckon u should leave this topic for ppl with a little more connection with their amygdala and frontal lobe cerebrum. It is not my fault if your substandard education makes it impossible for you to interpret the meaning of the word "Full Eyebrows". Quit the clowning around babes

Online dating is another way for unscrupulous, lying married men to cheat on their wives. It only works out if both parties are honest and up-front abt it. My Asian friend is about to marry her Nigerian boyfriend-they met online.

http://www.onlinedatingmagazine.com/features/marriedmen.html

Dude, You don't have to like it, besides you don't even know what I'm talking about.
I said full and luscious---not full and spiky, i don't have a whole forehead full of hair if that's what you are talking about

Any experienced beautician or a hardcore beauty junky in the house

I have very full and luscious eyebrows and wanted to know the best way to keep it clean and still maintain the fullness, I'm also thinking of getting an eyebrow tint for the summer. I have tried waxing, threading(Asian method) and plucking with the tweezers.

Any help from my CHICAS in the house?

Okay then, he is just bluffing . The extent some idle guys would go suprises me.
If he has seen your pictures already, why does he need more??

"final year" could be final year of kindergarten not necessarily university, lol

Girls, please be careful when you post your pictures on the internet, a mate of mine had a bad experience once with this psycho on line stalker, they see your pics and assume everthing under the sun

reyes4eva:
Status being single,married,albino,hunch-backs and any form of disability.
Ya friends def'ly know better!

OMG, The Albinos and hunch-back thing got me going,
The Thamesmead phenomenon is exactly the same as the Peckham, New-cross, Old-Kent, Camberwell thingy, most of the dudes that live there/hang-out there are just the same, got wife and kids at home and still shag around for England, BUUUOY!!!

@ sin

If i may ask you a question, what you do for a living? Nigerian girls in the UK are success and achievement focused. If you have a degree, working towards one or have a well-paid job, No naija sista will shun you ooo.

And what is this thing about Nigerian girls in the UK dating white men for papers I haven't meet any girl that is down for that, 95% of the Nigerian guys i know are British citizens, they could just have easily chosen any Naija brother for that purpose,

No way, only if they plan to remain childless or adopt children in the future

I suppose if it's your culture to pay and accept bride price then do it,   I hate the idea of shunning one's cultural heritage just because we've been opportune to have a key-hole view into the "White man's World", even in the so called western world certain things happen and have been accepted as part of social norm which nobody questions …, so why question something that has been part or the Nigerian Culture for so many decade. All these being said, it’s nobody's culture to demean and mal-treat their wife’s just because they paid the bride price.

okay, we like the smart move, but why did you have to lie that it wasn't you who was looking?

@kajad
okay Hun, you made your point. Mine was, being submissive is not "all" that makes a woman "good".  A woman could be submissive and in the back-drop of that be your worst nightmare. A woman being submissive does necessarily mean she knows how to run the home, bring up her children, doesn't mean she respects you, loves you or supports you in the ways required to achieve a long lasting marriage, all she does is "obey" your "orders". I don't know about you, but there are far greater qualities a brother would appreciate in a woman than her being "obedient" and "humble" , for me that sounds like what you would expect from an employee, a maid, a business associate but certainly not a wife.

PS: didn't call you a chauvinist at least not explicitly.

kajad:
you're welcome!.
so why are you worried? got a friend or sis who's growing past marriage?

Anyway sha; some of them no longer know the word be SUBMISSIVE to you husband.
No man wants another boss at home

If submissiveness is all you require in a  partner, then you should go back to the cave men era, just a whack on the head and she will be all yours. oh, before i forget the futuristic term for that would be a chauvinist!!!

Sweetmina:
I don't know about the US, Chi-chi, but in the UK, Nigerian men are the ones to avoid. They're just out to tap that a**. Besides, u don't necessarily have to marry a Nigerian; Love(if u believe in it) knows no race or country. 

To the dude with the one-track-general-purpose mind: i don't believe some people still dwell in that old age bullsh*t of women are bossy/not submissive. Whatever!

I don't totally agree with you, Nigerian men in the UK are not that bad, it depends on who you mingle with(your cycle of Friends). I personally believe if ladies go to the clubs to meet men they are bound to pick up the wrong type and send out the wrong messages by so doing. I have high hopes in our Nigerian men, there are nice professional, gentle natured Nigeria men out here. Not all of them are fraudulent and cheat on their partners.

And, yes you don't necessarily have to marry a Nigerian man, but some of us are attracted to just Nigerian men and to have to be attracted to someone before you can fall in love with them(story of my life). And i repeat, if you keep comming across the bad type, that should send a clear massage to you that you need to change your location, cycle of friend and maybe your hobbies.

@ocho

Oops sorry, didn't see that, Yes. I'm Nigerian.

IBB:
@desiree

do you know how much i would love to see you wake up in the morning without your artificials that have madonna wake up with her natural self?

but then again, it seems you lack natural beauty (don't hurt, girl. you said so).

Mr IBB, do you own a crystal ball? If you do, it's about time you ditched it and start living in the real world.
You have no way of knowing what my above statement meant!!! and you have no way of knowing if i lack natural beauty or not!!!

carbonate:
thx 2 everyone so far who has responded, will try 2 stride 2wards an amicable agreement,
p.s desiree r u in UKC??

Nope, Why did you ask?

This is a difficult one, I'm a product of an Igbo/Yoruba marriage, My dad Yoruba, my mum Igbo, though i consider myself full Yoruba(proudly said!!!) . Growing up was not the easiest, for one, my mum's side of the family did not approve of the union, my dad's side of the family was too proud and would'nt back down. Guess what, its been over 30 years now, mum and dad still in love like teenagers .

It all boils down to your determination and love for one another, If her father does not approve now, i don't see him changing his mind for anything in the world. You two just have to stick together try and bring her mum to your side. Depending on where you choose to raise your kids, there is always going to be side taking and rejection from one side or the other. The relationship is still strained but we try and work around it.

toshmann:
o'boy see beauty, home sweet home, naija sweet o. so this kind things full naija?

i no care who win or who loose, give me the least beautiful there i tell u she fine pass all these white flat bothered girls i see everyday in cardiff.

buudies, i'm heading home next xmas.
period

props to you my bro. Pls share that with dem naija dudes dat are white chasing here!!!

aggression!!!!, *extracts claws*

it was meant to be a joke, I've seen a Nigerian girl without her make up and weave in the morning(myself). Read btw the lines dude!!!

Can i hide in the back seat, I think my ex is stalking me

I will pass on that, I don't want any cat fights