There's this girl I've been dating since August last year during the lockdown period .we shared a lot of secrets and she told me she's still a virgin .we live in the same neighborhood and I've known her since childhood but we never spoke to each other until the lockdown brought us together.Now that we're back in school , there's a friend of mine who also lived in my neighborhood years back who told me he's banged my girlfriend before.he's not lying about cause I knew he dated her back when we were in secondary school.i just found out about this recently but I'm not surprised Sha .
Do I need to confront the girl about this or just let it go and continue the relationship?
No insults abeg ..just opinions

5 Reasons women prefer men as best friends
RealityHomeJan 22, 2021 3:17 AM
It is no longer a surprising thing to see a lady talking about her bestie more than her own family and boyfriends. It is very common and rampant these days that a lot of persons are beginning to misunderstand the aim and objectives of such friendships. Below are five reasons why most ladies prefer male besties over female ones.

1.They listen: a male friend to a lady is a great listener who would listen to all her worries without judging or jumping to conclusions. Women are completely free with those who listens to them.




2. They advice better: When a woman is in trouble, the best place to seek advice is a male to some. This is because a lot females act as enemies to one another. Because of that they won't give good and proper advice.

3. They are always their in time of need: Male bestie are always ready to help. Even in the thickest night, they will rush to your help without thinking about themselves first.


4. Secrets are safe with them: Women have a lot of secrets and because most men hardly share their time with a lady with an outsider, women would completely share the secrets with their male besties.




5. For selfish reasons: For ladies keep male bestie to fulfil all kinds of their desires. Some are for their body desires and some uses them like slaves to do all their hard works. To some ladies, most male besties are those fools they are playing to get what they want. Some for just bed game.

That's the bitter truth guys ..the reasons cannot exceed these stated above .

Some girls ..just because they want to enjoy the attention they receive from multiple guys,they'll deny their boyfriend.if they want to post their other admires on WhatsApp, they'll even restrict their boyfriends and other admirers from viewing their status updates . They'll keep multiple guys around them and will be playing them up and down like that and will be giving the guys false hope.shey e no dey tire any of you ni
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1. Believe whatever the woman SHOWS you at first. Don't be blinded by love.

2. Women are only acting upon set rules placed on them by hormones. And if you learn how to handle them, you'll be blessed with their positive sides, if you don't learn, you'll be cursed by their negative sides.

3. Women are ruled by their emotions, so learn to use it to your advantage. To do this, you'll have be ruled by logic.



4. Your greatest defense against manipulation by women is to learn to manipulate them.

5. Always lead a woman in a relationship. You should always be in control in the relationship. If you don't know to, learn it!

6. Do not be the bitch in the relationship. Lead always. Always be the uninterested one.

7. Women are as sexual as men are, don't be deceive. They desire it as men do. Moreso, nature kept special days called ovulation periods to torture them unrelentingly. Always make the move.

8. The moment you feel you can't live without a girl, you've lost her. You'd be exhibiting unattractive traits that will only make her feel superior to you. A girl always needs to feel she loves you more than you love her.

9. Less means more when it comes to women. Less calls. Less chats. Less everything. Make her feel insufficiently attended to.

10. Never take advice on sleeping with women from other women.

11. What is unsaid when with women is often more than what is said. Learn to use your eyes more when flirting with women.

12. When caught cheating, always always deny. Deny and deny. She will convince herself in time.

13. Always treat a woman's tantrums like you would a child's. Firm and unpersuaded.

14. Buying, begging and changing for girl will only increase her disdain for you. Never ever do that!

15. If think she's cheating, she has already cheated. Your instincts subconsciously picked up changes in her behavioural pattern. Believe your instincts.

16. Never fully trust a woman. It's not in their character to be trustworthy. EVERY WOMAN!

17. You're never truly ready for a relationship until you know what's out there. Chat up 20 women. Then chat up another 20. Get gather data on what you really want before you settle.

18. The moment you make a woman your life, is the moment she's walking out of yours. Never make feel like she has you all to herself.

19. Always treat a woman like something you want to lose. You'll never lose her.

20. Women would rather sleep around with a psychopath unstable guy, than a guy she has more influence over. Even though you're stable and sane.

21. Don't even make her feel special. Make her know she's nothing. Trust me, they prefer it that way.

22. Always let her say I love you first. She'll respect you for your self control.

23. Watch what a girl does; not what she says!

24. If a girl dumps you, never take her back. The relationship will always be doomed to fail again and again.

25. If you notice one red flag, prepare to leave. Two, start packing your bags. Three, you had better be long gone by then.

26. Women lie. Get over it. Learn to play the game too.

27. The more money you have, the more attractive you are to the materialistic ones. But learn to put up a humble front at first to screen out the golddiggers.

28. Women are hypergamous. Deal with it. Be a man of high market value.

29. Never set aside your life goals to please a woman. You'll never please her and you'll be miserable.

30. You'll never lose a woman by having other admirers.

Never focus on one woman. You'll lose her and lose all the others too.

31. You have no other choice than to play this game.

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5 SIGNS YOU’RE DATING A FEMALE PLAYER
You know it’s hard out here for a love-vendor. It’s even harder for those trying to avoid getting pimped. As much attention as men get for the games many play we forget something that’s very true. Many women are the masters of the “game” and have been running circles around men since the beginning of time.

Men don’t tend to be as intuitive as women so they can’t even see the love-vendor hand coming before it’s too late. So here are some signs to consider when trying to avoid falling victim to a female player.


You know it’s hard out here for a love-vendor. It’s even harder for those trying to avoid getting pimped. As much attention as men get for the games many play we forget something that’s very true. Many women are the masters of the “game” and have been running circles around men since the beginning of time.

Men don’t tend to be as intuitive as women so they can’t even see the love-vendor hand coming before it’s too late. So here are some signs to consider when trying to avoid falling victim to a female player:

SHE HAS A LOT OF MALE FRIENDS THAT DO THINGS FOR HER.
because they feel men are easier to deal with. So that in itself isn’t necessarily a sign. The problem is when you notice these various “friends” always doing things for this woman. It’s possible she is in “love-vendor mode” and taking advantage of their interest in her.  You may express your concern but she will simply shoot it down and make you seem like you are being unreasonable. She isn’t interested in addressing the issue because to her there is no issue.
players know that one key to manipulating men is flirtation. The ability to stroke a man’s ego can be an art for some women and they enjoy using this powerful tool. So her desire to constantly flirt is something you may want to keep your eye on. Some will even flirt right in front of your face and then make it seem like you’re just being crazy when you take issue with it. A woman who is truly into you isn’t likely willing to be flirting with every other guy. Yes some people enjoy flirting but be mindful when there may be more to it than that.
Female players know that one key to manipulating men is flirtation. The ability to stroke a man’s ego can be an art for some women and they enjoy using this powerful tool. So her desire to constantly flirt is something you may want to keep your eye on. Some will even flirt right in front of your face and then make it seem like you’re just being crazy when you take issue with it. A woman who is truly into you isn’t likely willing to be flirting with every other guy. Yes some people enjoy flirting but be mindful when there may be more to it than that.
female player has no problem asking for what she wants. She may take a smooth indirect approach or a very direct one. Either way she will get the point across and you will have to decide if you are willing to give her what she wants. If you choose not to she is likely to get very upset with you. This may be done in a loud and harsh manner or she may use the silent but still strong approach. She will have you feeling that giving in to her demands is the only way you can expect to keep her around. She may not even be your girlfriend yet but she knows how to play on your desires to get her and she will use all of this to her advantage.
When a woman genuinely embraces having a relationship she is willing for an emotional attachment to occur. When she decides she is going to be a female player she already perceives emotional attachment as her enemy and wants no part of it. That’s why an emotionally detached woman who is dating may be a red flag. She dates to get the benefits she is looking for but she isn’t interested in the emotional risks that come with truly trying to be with anybody right now. She also understands it is easier to maintain this position dealing with multiple men vs. dealing with just one man consistently. She is the woman capable of having sex with you and not requiring any “cuddle time” afterward. Essentially some may view her as “like a guy” when it comes to her approach to relationships and sex.
When a woman is a female player she is not with you for your benefit. She entertains you for her benefit and at her convenience. If she gave you more than she received then that would defeat the whole purpose of keeping you around. So her goal is to milk you for whatever she deems appropriate. Now a really smart female player may still do things for you here and there but don’t be fooled. She might buy you lunch but you will be buying her groceries.  She might get you something nice for your car but she may have you paying her car note. One way or another she is going to make sure she is getting the much better end of the deal.

I hope this helps some of the men wondering what to look for when trying to avoid the female player. Don’t be so quick to let her beauty blind you and be willing to take a deep look at who she really is as a woman. If any of these signs come up always be willing to properly address them and talk to her about it. Sometimes it may not be that she is trying to play you but you will get a clearer picture after you properly express your concerns. If you do happen to fall victim to one don’t hold on to bitterness and negativity. Just because one woman hurt you doesn’t mean you have to turn around and take it out on every other woman after her. Stuff happens and you just have to learn from it, grow, and focus on being the best man you can be.




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