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AfroKnight:
Bro, does she buy you gifts? Birthday, Christmas, Valentine or random gifts? If no, please don't even expect a change. Don't disappoint yourself.

She wants to be a wife but why is she planning to carry on with the reasoning of a single lady? A marriage is the most fundamental form of Partnership.

She must be willing to "cover the nakèdness" of her husband just like he covers her. If she has money and her husband is broke, outsiders must not even smell the situation. Tell her this.

If she still insists on withholding financial assistance from her husband, well, many other ladies out there are supportive. If you still want to marry her, you already know what to expect.

Just realize that for the next 60 or so years you must always have an infallible finance and never over-extend yourself cos she won't lend a helping hand.

AfroKnight:
Bro, if you know that she is very serious about what she said, I'd advice you to look for a replacement.

This is a very bad mindset. At some point you will take on expensive projects that will make you spend less on the home front. This disposition of hers means you can not count on her assistance at this time. If you need to pay for quality aluminium roofing for your building project, and you have just enough fund for that, you would have to settle for less quality slates because you know there is no backup from your wife. How far can such a husband go?

How can a husband progress when he cannot afford to invest heavily in the future just because his wife wouldn't support him? It is a hindrance.

If you still want her, please settle it in your mind that you are on your own, financially. However, this is not how a family should be.

2sexycom:
Bro, I would have said dump her but having grown wiser, it is not the best to end a relationship on the basis of one's imperfection, hence the need to mould someone into a better being. That is the reason for our co-existence as humans, leaving them better than you met them.

There is no complete package anywhere.

You need to sit her down and talk to her at length. Let her know where you stand and what you feel about her words. She may not likely change but your conscience would be clear that you tried.

ladygudhead:
What!!! In this kind of economy we are right now you don't n will not want to support? When even me, a student,I'm supporting my parents and my benefactor. hmmm.na wa sha.

cruzita:
just tell me she is joking especially the garri part,which kind woman in her right senses will do that.abeg make I hear

1trillionlikes:
Hmmm.... Test her by bringing up a story that a normal human being will wanna help you solve, financially, wen she hears..... If she doesn't help, quit..... She might not change.... I know of a woman whose children are sometimes chased out of school because of their fees, and she's rich enough to build houses... Once her hubby can't pay all bills..... All of them will suffer while she goes about buying all aso ebi and attending all functions....

adepeter26:
U don enta one chance(just like nigerians enta 1 in d hands of APC) if u marry her without her changing her mindset abt wife been supportive.
Without the NECK, where will the head be? Husband & wife ought to be supportive in one way or the other

halfricanadian:
rubbish mindset

with d lesson wey i don learn i av to be fuly responsible for my sef hubby money goes to d kids no spend on me dats just it av learnt my lesson

Change that mindset of hers ok

How can u have money in d bank nd let ur family drink garri?? oga she is joking

alcmene:
What is your business with what he used the said millions for?

Charge him to court as they are the in the best position to ask him such questions

Kayoski:
tragic

GogetterMD:
Bros I fear this your imagination oo :- \

RottenTomato:
As am typing dis, am still in the church premises. I had to go to one corner to type this becos the number of babes that wore seductive dresses to church today is too much. I fink its the festive period that caused it see babes evrywhr with heavy ikebe. I culdn't even concentrate on the sermon again. One sat in front of me with her round big ass! I culd see her g-string showing. Oh, dis is 2016 and I don't want to make use of vaseline again. God help me konji na bastar.d!

Decker:
Any person with a functioning brain would know that anyone who displays most of these traits you mentioned isn't someone to consider marrying.

We don't necessarily need anyone one to lecture us on this or point it out to us. It's common sense.

Echelle:
I've told a girl before dat I can use her period to chop bread

dominique:
It could be that they suspended the exercise for the holidays.

YuzedoWife:
See my tommy na, so sexy, bright and sweet.
My ex love to pour sperrm ontop..but now I don't allow such. My tommy is a temple

flokii:
@OP you're a virgin watching too much porn..

you need to chill else you'll kill urself

rudebouy:
Pls stop dis crap. If ur a man, u cant fake orgasm, except u dont have sperm. U either cum or u dont. Simple! Only women can fake it.

Pls stop dis crap mbok

Abrahamjesus:
No be for ritual o, i want to marry virgin ni o. make u no gun me o i beg u o.

kilokeys:
I bet ur parents will say " oh, No! " if they ever come across a thread like this posted by their beloved son..

Tsk tsk

Zceesneh:
why are girls stingy, small thing they will beg for money, buh if u beg them for money, u are wasting ur time, because u won't see one kobo, why are girls stingy

Abrahamjesus:
Yes my Sister, hope you can help me, let talk outside here pls.

Merlissa:
shhhhh



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