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Born2Freak:
As I am writing this, my friend's sister is considering divorce just after 5 months of marriage. She recently learnt that her husband is a serial debtor- a specialist in borrow-posing (borrowing things and acting as if you own them).

The husband in question is from a rich family but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. The man also parties like a wild animal. But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

Now, the reality has set- loan apps and police have come looking for the husband at their apartment. The wife is getting different threatening phone calls and the husband quickly ran to the village to chill.

Please, for any woman that is going to get married, please do your proper investigation.
-Is your husband to be financially responsible (does he have a steady job or business?)
-Does your husband to be flirt with other girls or have cheating spirit?
-Is he a wife beater?
-Is he respected in his own family?

Open your eyes. Ask questions and be careful. Marriage is not a joke. My friend's sister is depressed today because she was carried away by greed and didnt look into her husband.

Nbote:
Atleast his father isn't known but they have made a name for themselves.. They have worked hard to make their own name known, is Seun not living off his father’s name and works?

Biglittlelois:
This is for those that carry bf matter for head, who has that time....

Blessinzy:
Happy birthday to me !
Nairalanders show me some love!

gbebodye:
how many minutes you won spend for bathroom first

Islie:
Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/calabash-full-with-human-blood-discovered-at-suspects-house-in-zamfara-police-confirm.html

Duru9:


Which kind wahala be this


I don already buy sniper keep sha

If there's no movement on Monday I won't have any choice than to ease this whole stress I don really suffer this life

Darkseid:
wow! wow!! wow!!!
This a sign of progress, at least no be only yahoo our Edo brothers go learn from Ghana, they also learnt their awkward way of making coffins.

Lawyer777:
60% of Akatas are morally unacceptable by their own community. The ones from the core Ghetto have "zero life". You must run away from them when considering marriage for AOS. It's pathetic when you see them begging on the street in this same land flowing with milk and honey.

How do you know where to invest your time and resources? All you need is their names, address or SSN for a comprehensive background check to get credit history, driver's history, criminal records, education and more. From there, you don't need to be told your next move.

The US is not so hard. I have friends that takes home $200 plus daily driving Uber and delivering food for Grubhub and Doordash even without "Shola". I also have a Doctor friend who left Nigeria four years ago, I can't even calculate his annual salary to avoid unnecessary heartaches.

Life in the US is all about planning and connecting the right people. The people that you interact with every day, whether it's at home, work or on the streets, and their beliefs and opinions influences your beliefs and opinions. There are too many basic IT and Engineering jobs paying 25/hr and still begging for applicants. No one left Nigeria to eat burgers here.

Someone in Nigeria will still tell people in the US that they can't work and be successful without "papers" in the US. It's laughable because the person without the "paper" is actually making dollars as we deliberate here.

Leave people queueing at the embassy/consulate to make their own decision. I took my own decision after holidaying in the US for the fourth time in two years and no regret so far. People make dollars here daily except they choose not to work and it's the reality.

Abeg, make I go hustle small. I get bills to pay for here and Naija.

myk2mic:
Be weary of ur friend,I don't even understand what you wrote there ,but read wat pple who know have written, the only way to get green card is through marriage to a citizen, schooling, if u have enough money $500k and above to invest in the country. Outside of these 3 bros run

Smartini:
I don't know why people co-habit before marriage. I feel its a mixture of impatience, greed and quite disgusting (in my opinion)


Every single man deserves to enjoy his life as a bachelor to the fullest; If a lady wishes to visit, let her COME AND GO.

Dgovernor88:
Fake News everywhere!!!! Why all these please

seunlayi:
He is sleeping

sinaj:
I would have done the samething.

John Grisham's A time to kill comes to mind.

sinaj:
I would have done the samething. Like how, as in with what! Oh sorry please don't be anointed are you a woman or man?

John Grisham's A time to kill comes to mind.

pocohantas:
He did what I can do.
I won't even feel any remorse

folakemigeh:
Covers face



I can never forget the first day i went for my HIV test.... Even though i knew i'd be negative, i was still shivering and started thinking of "What IF"

Those waiting hours were the longest and craziest ever in my life

folake4u:
You've slept with all of them to arrive at this conclusion