Not to worry you will get over it soon.Ive had CS for my three children its not easy but it gets better.The major joy is having your baby.Congratulations!

Ive been experiencing open pores on my face.Pls what can i do to stop it.

I lost my cry baby tendencies to become a stroung woman.

Wow life is in stages.

Its well God will help us.

Not in all cases but for me im happily married to my first love.

Jonathan's performance , especially on security and employment generation shall determine his 2015 political relevance

My dear u would learn to deal with it in your own way.
I had issues with my husband when we just got married.I Kept nagging and whining but it didn't help.
I had to encourage him to buy the decoder and watch at home instead of going out and tried to learn a few names of d players and clubs.He is still a football freak but I'm glad he stays home.
Don't let it get in the way of ur relationship if he has all other qualities u want.

From your comment i doubt if u really care so much about your wife.Try and put yourself in her shoes.If u let her go will your friend become a mother to your children and come sleep with you at night.Even if u remarry i assure u dis problem will re occur.In marriage regardless of whatever your friend has done for u.Your wife is top priority even before ur parents not to talk of a friend.You need to reexamine yourself.Your attitude will make ur wife resent your friend all the more.

zeefa:

Well, I don't kw what to say as per your comment. I feel she is just getting jealous unnecessarily. As regards your suggestion, if she decided to pick up calls from any of her female friends too. Franklyspeaking, I won't mind if that will make her happy.
The person in question help her get the materials for her PLAB exams & other stuffz. This person is not just a friend but a brother from another woman ready to do anything for us as a family.

My dear, I can't be given u details of my family on NL. But he has done a lot for her too especially when she was pregnant. His wife don't really complain cos he told me he has warned her never to pokenose into our affair.

But my own wife seems to be strong headed that won't just listen or understand but all she intend to do is 2 dish out the threat of a divorce.

As I said, I will call both party to a meeting on sunday, then I will give the house details on our conclusion. I pray it works, but if things go wrong, I have no choice than to let her go. I respect her a lot & I love her and I don't expect such from a woman that care & love her husband.

Besides, am so grateful for all your advise & suggestions.

She looks really good after two kids.

Its just a matter of time he will do the same to Foluke.The guy needs help.

It's profitability largely depends on your location and your marketing ability.
I doubt if you can get patronage always daily though.

It's more of a weekend business that's when more occasions take place.
With the right attitude and location It can be profitable.
All the best.

Nuzo':
Great she came out alive.

But the question now is how a low income earner and an unemployed being could raise $60mill in such a short notice? Did a politician come to their rescue?

Why ddidnt they get the police involved?

Honestly, I doubt if that huge amount of money was paid.

Most cases of kidnap are never straight.

Would you wait for our Police if the person was your wife or loved one? They didn't specify the amount they most likely came to an agreement with the kidnappers.

la furia:

innocent? forget that tin. one happened in my area not too far in kaduna, she heard rumour dat her husband might marry a second wife, this women fried oilin the nite and poured it on the man when he was as sleep. jealousy na evil thing.

most hausa ladies fear 2nd wife pass devil. some polygamous family work very well, i have seen it but depends on how the man handles the problem.

I doubt how a polygamous home will work very well they are all just good at pretending.No woman will be happy to see her husband enter d next room to sleep with someone else.Its terrible to imagine he is saying and doing d samething he does with u with d next person its emotional torture.POLYGAMY IS TERRIBLE.

Thank you very much for your contribution.I served in a Village for many of the public schools in the rural area its d corpers that even teach.The permanent teachers just sit under the tree and chat and eat thats even when they come to school at all.Some teachers cant even speak English.So saying the corpers make students fail is amazing.They would even fail more without them in the rural areas.

Ibidapson: Flimsy excuse! What has bn teacher contribution anytime corpers are posted to dre skuls? Laziness.....in d absence of corpers,how many classes/students are engaged?

Exactly.Some men neglect their responsibilities once they know the wife has money.Some would even borrow to spend on useless things and never repay.

Cuddlemii: If your wife lied about her salary, then, you need to check yourself. That is the sad truth!
I don't blame some women for doing this. Money is the root of all evil and triggers some effects if not properly managed

Some men spend their wife's money on mistresses and night life leaving their wives haggard & dry.
Some kill their wives in order to inherit their wealth & marry younger lovers.
Some men abscond with their wife's money with a younger lover.

It could also be out of humility.
Sometimes you don't want to appear pompous, proud or intimidating, you just want your hubby to love you for you and not feel threatened or obligated.

If a lady keeps her salary away from her man, then, she is playing safe not necessary hoping to spend the man's money.
A lady has to secure her future with the kind two faced men we have all over the place that lack discipline

Its quite uncomfortable but with a good proffessional shldnt take more than 15 to 20mins.If u can go thru delivery its like childs play compared to that and you are free for years.

dominique:

You mean inserting that coily thing inside the womb theru the vjay is not painful I've heard otherwise

Mine was venue.My old man wanted my white wedding in the Village after i had done my trads there.I refused blatantly that would have excluded a lot of my friends.Id have been left with a church full to the brim with strangers.He had no choice but allow me have my way.