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RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:29pm On Dec 07, 2012
ACHUKWUNET THE IMMACULATE, THE NATURAL, THE IMPECCABLE, COURTEOUS, BEAUTIFUL, PRISTINE, SWEET, SUGARLOVE. I SWEAR THIS GIRL IS A QUEEN. VOTE HER OR PERISH
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:26pm On Dec 07, 2012
Achukwunet is pure abeg. We love u sweetheart
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:24pm On Dec 07, 2012
Sexkills do not hide my post. I believe your peagants have to be courteous. Common now
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:22pm On Dec 07, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Sir let's tune it down a bit. No need to get tempers high.




Vote Achukwunet!!!!!!![/quote]o.k sir... Achukwunet is our candidate.
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:20pm On Dec 07, 2012
Achukwunet all the wayyyyyy
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:19pm On Dec 07, 2012
ItsModella: Are you begging the guy? I dunno if he was expecting me to smile at somebody who openly insulted me...
. Surely I bet my destiny u can never ever win.
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:18pm On Dec 07, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44]Well you can always vote for Achukwunet. She is beautiful and has control. No outburst and homely.
Is that not the perfect candidate?





Vote Achukwunet!!!!!!![/quote]. She is an ajebutter girl.....I'll consider it
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:17pm On Dec 07, 2012
Shollypopz: I apologize for that. NL can be a little frustrating! smiley
. Her speech contradicts her looks. Damn....looks can be deceiving
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:16pm On Dec 07, 2012
kandiikane: Bullshite!
no hard feelings just stating the obvious
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:13pm On Dec 07, 2012
ItsModella: who the f*ck is this olodorabata guy?
. You just lost my vote. Like seriously
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 5:10pm On Dec 07, 2012
Sweetlemon is kpako ,ackuwkunet is butter
HealthRe: The Horrors Of Being A Drug Addict.....pls Dont Do Drugs by dickhardener: 5:04pm On Dec 07, 2012
People strongly undermine the destructive power of drugs.
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 4:58pm On Dec 07, 2012
coogar: stop embarrassing yourself, negro....
christianity is a choice.... they lay out the choices...join us and cop eternal life, reject us and get a first class ticket to hell. no gun is put to your head to make that decision. how can you then liken this to the oppression women suffer from their overbearing husbands? like i have said, submission is a gift/privilege a woman has chosen to give her husband....a gift the husband must have earned by respecting his wife and loving her. if you still find my explanation ambiguous then i suggest you go lie down for a while and watch some cartoon.
. Thank u o coogar.
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 4:32pm On Dec 07, 2012
all4naija: Learn to write properly before even saying anything about poor communication skills! Try to express yourself as good as possible.
I'd appreciate you let me know what quota portrayed inexpressibility. We learn everyday you know. My notification was pointed at the incoherence associated with ur post.
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 4:26pm On Dec 07, 2012
fellis: So what you are saying is that Christians should just follow the laws of the Bible without applying any type of common sense to what they are doing?

What is the difference between your way of thinking and that of Boko hram that kill innocent people simply because they believe their God asked them to kill? They just kill because they claim their religion asks them to, they don't apply sense.

What makes your manner of following your faith diffrent from theirs?
. Boils down to choice again sir. let's not go back and forth bros. If following suit does not appeal to u then ignore it. The beauty of living is u have a WILL. No compulsion. Even the abused women chose to be with the wicked man. It's about choices bros. Simple and plain
TravelRe: Nigerian Accent, The 5th Sexiest In The World. by dickhardener: 4:04pm On Dec 07, 2012
U guys should stop deluding urselves
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 3:19pm On Dec 07, 2012
Wetin na why una hide my post. Una no want ma follow ajebutter again
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 3:11pm On Dec 07, 2012
oyin50: do I know u plss?
. Finally abeg no run fine girl. I swear I love u
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 2:57pm On Dec 07, 2012
I just can't find this oyin50 girl the girl is insanely beautiful. Somebody try and find her
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland - Grand Finale!!! ENDED!!! by dickhardener: 2:50pm On Dec 07, 2012
Abeg the finest woman in NL is one oyin50. Wetin that girl is a mermaid
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 2:47pm On Dec 07, 2012
all4naija: To hell with the so called standard, and it doesn't look like standard to me anyway. Who told you everybody agrees to it? Please, take the next exit and stop perpetrating enslavement in the 21st century.

For you information, many women are beginning to distant themselves from marriage due to the way this tradition about it are lopsided to their rights.
like I earlier pointed out u'v got poor communication here. Do u mind if I ask how old u are?
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 2:45pm On Dec 07, 2012
all4naija: Most cultures have turned women into rags. The most obvious one is this marriage thing where men have to spend and basing all on that to make women look like something bought with a price. That simple reason makes many men to feel they have the right to enslave women. It is time this silly marriage thing have to be stopped with men having such sense but as agreement based on cooperation. Truly, many cultures are biased against women rights. We have seen that in many traditions all along.

What a silly tradition and a primitive culture to go in this regard!
sorry oh, but though u communicated, but not intelligently.
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 2:42pm On Dec 07, 2012
bukatyne: and where in the bible did you see that a man and a woman are not equal?
. Herein lies the foundation of our new found epidemy. I am not equal to you and you are not equal to me but complementary as husband and wife. This is precisely why God specifically used the word head for the man and helper for the woman. Your efforts to argue my darlyn is Borne out of rebellion. And again as an expert on women I must not fail to tell you this mind blowing jackpot.Besides the Bible, the most rebellious woman on earth can and will submit to a man she is insanely in love with. Now I'm talking about a kind of love that beclouds, inexplainable, deep crazy love. You'll see the woman automatically gives in to submission. My theory here is colour blind, race blind, success blind and does not respect whether you are Celine Dion or Oprah. Thank u.
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 2:26pm On Dec 07, 2012
bukatyne: And I guess that the wannabe feminists sleep with their boss and love him! stop comparing oranges and apples! can you compare the relationship between a couple and a woman and her boss! with your post, it shows that you don't know what submission means in a marriage. if a woman doesn't submit, check her husband. A loved woman naturally submits. she does everything possible to please her husband. There was a story of a woman that was married to a man who maltreated her. He gave her rules on what to do at each pt and she lived like a zombie. After a while, he divorced her and she married a man who was a gift to her. she did everything to please him; washed his clothes with joy, cooked for him, combined his clothes for work, took lunch to his work place etc. She stumbled on the list her ex-hubby gave her and realized everything she did for her hubby now surpassed all what in that list. Traet your woman right and she would do all to please you.
the bone of contention isn't about treating a woman right, that one is not negotiable. That is a standard set by God agreed on by all right thinking men. The issue here is women outrightly debunking their God laid down standard. It's clear as white and black. To debunk a law is one issue and to err on that same law is another. Spot the difference sweetheart
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 2:17pm On Dec 07, 2012
fellis: I am not even encouraging women to be rebellious to their husbands. My argument has nothing to do with that. What I am saying is that women should, instead of being subjected or forced to submit, they should work hand in hand with their spouses and base their marriage on mutual love and cooperation, not on being made to loose their decision making choices all in the name of submission. Most times the wife has a better idea of what should be done in a particular situation and most times the husband has a better idea. Cooperation comes into play in such situations and instead of the woman ALWAYS deferring to the man and letting him ALWAYS have the last say, they both sit down and iron whatever issues they disagree on out. Same way the husband does not always have to let his wife have the last say in their decision making processes. If he knows better than her then he should tell his wife in details, why he thinks his opinion is better rather than forcing her to accept that opinion because she is meant to submit. They discuss them and decide what way is sensible. If the woman was to constantly submit to the man, this wouldn't happen. What would happen would be that the wife's choices would be subject to her husband's approval, whether they are better than his or not.
Married couples should work together abeg. Marriage is a partnership. Not slavery.



I don't even support the idea that men must love their wives selflessly in spite of any odds. That is not something that is possible especially if the wife is a particularly badly behaved one. The man would just end up frustrated with constantly having to force himself to show love to a person that makes his life miserable and he would definitely lash out at her one way or another and then he justifies this lashing out with any excuse he sees fit (I am trying to correct her or I am maltreating her because I love her and want her to change lol), when in reality he is doing it because he despises her.
Men are not under any obligation to always love their wives and neither are women under any obligation to always submit to their husbands. Let us try to apply common sense in these issues.
. Excellent fellis,, look at it this way, you are not wrong talking about common sense but God's sense and wisdom isn't common albeit based on ur belief about God u may probably debunk this truth. I am not saying ur claims are not logical but not in compliance to God's word simple and straightforward. The catch here is no one I mean no single person is under compulsion to adhere to this guideline it absolutely boils down to choice. And finally, ask urself this truthfully, has the soceity become saner or insaner? Divorce plummeted or nose dived? Has depression in general sky-rocketed or reduced and buttressing these question every societal functionality or dysfunctionality stems from the home. The Morale of my discussion is CHOICE. Choose what suits u but inculcating ur choice on the few wise is my grouse
TV/MoviesRe: Trailer Of "Awakening": A Nigerian Dark Thriller by dickhardener: 1:51pm On Dec 07, 2012
speedyboi: People still watch AM? undecided....you must have endured a lot angry grin .

if to say in the UK....I could have helped with stores and cinemas....but USA....nollywood is not finding it easy...lol.
but thanks maybe I can be of little help anyway.
Most of the movies you mentioned are still running at the cinemas. But the figurine is out on DVD already and you can get it from various online stores (you can follow 'Golden effects pictures' on twitter to ask for more info). Meanwhile, ije:the journey just got released on DVD this Monday and you can also get it at online stores.....
You can visit this thread to find out more about ije: https://www.nairaland.com/1120544/ije-journey-released-dvd-how I hope I've been able to help Cheers
thanks much
FamilyRe: What Does 'submission' Of Women In Marriages Mean Exactly? by dickhardener: 8:06am On Dec 07, 2012
It's like saying because homosexualism is becoming a norm everywhere even being legalised in some climes, then it automatically makes it right whether ethically, logically or morally. For those bandwagons saying times have chaged.

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